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Can someone pls take this cry baby's man registration from him. He does not deserve to be called a man.

^^^^We got betrayed by 190. It only took one lady for him to cross to the other side.

Considering this thread and others, I wonder what folks here would say if a guy posts his gf was a 'vegetable' woman and he wants to leave.

Opportunity comes but once. Go ahead. Careful you don't get caught. Change the venue at the last minute incase it is a set up btw her and ur girl.


It's all abt guy power on nairaland now

If you want to keep him , walk out of the relationship now. He will come after you if you are more important than the other girl.

190:
SLAP!!

190, you think say I be woman? So u kno I get my own craze for head. Oya take your own back
SLAP!!!

Now lets get back to business fighting off the female gender

I am fully behind the guys. 190 might be twisted in the head sometimes but I totally agree with him on this thread. I don dey notice am since I join nairaland.

Make I go get my own colt .

I take it by now you have known all the nigerians in saskatoon.

Save the money, go pay him a surprise visit.

I think he likes you as a gf but does not see you as someone he can marry or end up with. Your best line of action is to leave him. If you still think you have a chance, you will have to really sit down and talk. If he doesn't call off the engagement, you walk.

You deserve it!!!! What is wrong is wrong.

NO F, ing WAY. This is a start of things to come. slowly she will try to unsurp ur responsibilities or tell you to replace your friends and family with hers or those of her choosing. I always tell people, what you can not take in the long run, never accept it even for a second to please her. It's your choice to pick not hers. You want to fashi your own friends and family for some other guy! C'mon grow a pair ALREADY!

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Why can't he be her man of honor? [/color]

There you go! If he is that important to her, let her forgo her bridesmaids instead. But I am guessing she wants to have her cake and eat it.

You have smth against white people? whats wrong with the lady being friendly to u?

Direct translation "I dont need to insult you so that people know you and I dont want your p**sy I have a wife"

And yes I have been knocked out cold before. I was fighting someone way bigger and stronger than I am. I knew I was no match for him but I either fight with dignity or live with fear for the rest of my life. I threw the first punch, he dodged, jumped up and slapped me with his leg. Next thing, my friend that was with me was waking me up. Anyways for my woman, I will probably do that again. This reminds me to go beg my lady never to get in a fight. Its not a good feeling being knocked out cold

Option A hands down. No risk no gain.

The fact is he slapped her while she was with me and under my watch / protection. Na to die in the process but I will give it all I've got. Even teeth and kick in the groin. Whatever works

odiaero:
@poster, are u male or female?

My exact thots!!!

@poster
lemme guess, either no sex before marriage or u did not mind at that time hehehehe. involve your marriage counselor/pastor to convince your 'husband' you are not sexually satisfied hehehehe . If your ummm pastor believes it is not a sin, you are good to go. Else carry your cross and do the missionary style. That one no be sin either .

So you know, if a woman or man (whichever is your case), looks at another person lustfully (as in the case of your ex), he or she has commited adultery. . You have two choices: Continue in sin (even the real form of adultery, sex, is a sin), no sin is bigger than the other one. Or you confess your sins of adultery (lust). .

190:
^^
excuse me
are u in anyway related to one certain SANI KAITA!!

Na my main man, we go way back to the Greece Naija game.

Carolece:
I didn't give my girl bday, xmas or otherwise gift this past yr. She understand say I broke. If she doesn't, there is nothing I could do abt it anyways. The first money I get goes to feed my stomach funds. Other things come after

uh?

Why the surprise. If I don't have it, should I kill myself over it? or should I go steal. If a woman loves me for me, she will stay. Else I will be glad to use my power of garb and 'koboko' to find another woman to take her place. Seriously if I had extras, I wouldn't mind getting her something but I didn't have. I do not think relationships are all about money. Why can't a woman pick up the tab when her guy can't do so.

I didn't give my girl bday, xmas or otherwise gift this past yr. She understand say I broke. If she doesn't, there is nothing I could do abt it anyways. The first money I get goes to feed my stomach funds. Other things come after

Siena:
Stay out of your friend's relationship! It's none of your business.

What relationship? The one that does not exist? You missed the part where the lady said she is neither dating him or in love with him. If it was you, would you want to know?

dumbass!!!

Nope, mind your business. Let them run their marriage as they see fit. You don't want to be the home wrecker involved in their marriage. You can talk to your cousin to confess but thats it. As I see it, she chose to marry her husband, and with it, his strengths and faults. It's a double standard I know but still Mind Your Business!

Tell him jor! Save him some additional heart ache that will happen to him later.

One of my friends once told me the same thing two yrs ago. It was painful at the time, cos I don love up for the girl gan at the time ( we had been seeing each other one and off for about 3 yrs). Turns out the girl confided in him that she was using me. He deliberated about it for a day before telling me. Till today, I consider him my most loyal friend, and will do anything for him. Today I hv moved on, happy and in a way better relationship (the new girl love up for real this time , hopefully )

Nah, I will thank her and move on

@ your question
Yes. Go for the unsuccessful ones like you did. Kudos

@ your story
ok.

you are probably getting what you deserve.

1. you reconciled with her thru her mum's influence. You plan dating her or her mum? She is the one you should be dealing with not her mum.

2. you make her mum force her to leave the other guy cos the mum did not approve. WTF! How did you feel when the ibo lady's mum did not approve of you and ended in your breakup?

3. how do you trust a lady who leaves a guy for you. What makes you think she won't leave u for another guy? Even 7mths relationship is smth she has invested in. She is even seeing you without ending the other relationship means she is quite the cheater duh!

4. she is just 21. She will change over and over again. You are more or less the finished product at 30. You were dating her when she was 19 and you were 28. That is a big maturity difference IMO.

5. She has to see the guy to end things with him anyways. In that time, if he presents a better case than yours, well you are toast. She picked up your phone around him is a good thing. You know at least and it doesn't mean she cheated or not! Talk to her whenever she comes back to you. Sort things out and know where you arell really stand.


Not so smart buddy, not so smart.

benzine:
any girl interested should look at the UK side and not handsomeness

LMAO na so u wowo reach?
ps, you forgot to leave a UK number we can reach you at