₦airaland Forum

Alark:
Four days

I will reach out to discuss more on Whatsapp. Thanks!

StrongAlphMale:
Question: How long should a lady wait before asking the man she is in a relationship with for money?

My own Answer is:
She should wait for as long as it takes her to get a job or business, and then she can give her ATM to the man and ask him to help her withdraw her money!

She needs to wait forever. Boyfriend no be papa.

jeffmatt4u:
I have this Zambia babe I have been chatting with on facebook. We kind of dating, she is very in-love with me bcoz she call almost everyday both on video call and all.
Now she wants me to come over to Zambia promising to help in securing admission at her school (university of Zambia) for me by next year. she is a medical student . And she is damn serious.
So my people, how do you see this?
Is it a good idea moving to Zambia?

Imagine your luck. You are aware that women from other African countries, bar Ghana, are far better than Nigerian women if your focus is getting a wife and true feminine woman.

Apart from that, the path offers an escape route away from our urgent 2k, entitled and highly masculine women we have here. If I were you, I won't miss it for anything.

Zeddyzed:
Inherited wealth is hard to maintain. For one, whoever got it might not have the business acumen of the owner. For another, it's really hard to control a huge lump sum, if you haven't been handling such already.
But, his method is wrong. The best way to do it is to educate your child on the business that brings in the bucks. Involve them in the business from a tender age. Every school holiday should be spent in the office as an "intern". Imagine being an "intern" from the age 10 till the child graduates Uni, he would have learnt all the tricks in the business and then, he can handle the affairs better.

At that rate you end up compelling children into a walk of life they have not chosen for themselves. It still will not bode well. Quality education is enough legacy for one's offspring. With that they can navigate the times and forge their own path. Zidane and Maradona are great players, yet none of their kids could make an in road in professional football career. Imagine if forcing them to become footballers was what their formation was based on entirely.

ahnie:
She's not different from a witch.
Don't be even surprised that the lady won't even enjoi the marriage and the man she's getting married to would use this incident to spite her in the future.

It's just plain crazy! Very hard to understand this life.

ahnie:
The mother's response is heartbreaking.some people are internally ungrateful.

Such a wicked daughter n mother.

Just imagine that. "Abeg you to train am for me?" After being aware and enjoying the support all along. People dey and God sef create

Jennyclay:
it's not the lady's fault. The man choose to spend.
Let me ask you a question and I need answer. So Should the lady go into marriage with him just because of what he did for her?

If you are in the habit of taking from men, this is the time for you to stop and respect yourself. Always go to your father if you need anything, no other man owes you anything. To refuse this advice is to concede that you are a handicap and society would rightly treat you as one.

Entitled lot!

Jennyclay:
One thing men should learn is to help and not expect anything in return. As for me I can't go into marriage with someone my soul does not accept even if you have spent billions on me, I just can't.

One thing women should learn is to refuse help and stop embarrassing their fathers. Let your fathers train you in school and pay for your lifestyles until you are ready to marry.

phemmyfour:
Poland don collapse

How can you come into a game to defend for 90mins

Shambolic team without courage This will go down in history as one of the most one-sided game. How Poland take qualify for this world cup nah?

Mstravelindiva:
Thanks friend, let me know if you have any questions.

Good food, good mood!

I have a question. Respectfully, when you guys come down with pile (jedi jedi), seeing as Dr Iguedo Goko Cleanser or Dr Agnes Nwamba is not available, how do you guys cope? Are the men also able to stay sexually fit with these sort of meals? Finally, does it taste nice? I don't mean sugarish.

Looking forward to your response.

Supremos:
shey you de whine me

Supremos:
They're professional manipulators

Even the devil is amazed.

Supremos:
Walking away and switching off phone without confronting them not gonna be easy bro.

That's how a friend of mine almost married a lady with 3kids meanwhile this guy never get even 1. At first he knew she has 2 girls, but she lied that the other girl is her house help but she's her sister's daughter. That her sister died after giving birth to her. Omo my guy accepted. I carry cane follow the guy ohh. I digged so tey she confessed that she's the owner of the remaining girl. Now it's 3:0.
My guy ran away

While run away at 3 - 0 when you can expect the miracle of Istanbul . Never forget Liverpool vs AC Milan

Supremos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C92qPhEAki8

Few minutes to wedding, Nigerian man calls off his wedding with his fiancee and demands for return of the bride price, after discovering that the bride had 2 kids already and hide it from him.

The bride groom could be heard shouting at the top of his voice, asking her mother inl-aw why she kept him in the dark and the mother in-law said it wasn't her fault but that of the bride who never wanted to let him know.

Apparently the bride had thought she could keep it as a secret but it blew up minutes to their wedding and the groom was heartbroken.

It is always in the interest of all, that all parties come clean during courtship, tell your partner the truth.

"...So because of two children, you no even love my daughter" Women will forever be the champion of blackmail. Brothers, run for your life while you can. La go me lo? Lehin omo meje, le tun wa ko GCE. Olorun ma je ka ri.

planetx:
Who buys crypto by taking physical cash to anyone.

Go back to the quoted post before this one for context,

hardon1:
Not in a corrupt country like nigeria. Aside corruption, It won't change any thing. The cbn doesn't know that time have changed. People are saving money massivye in foreign currencies and cryptocurrencies.

People with money stacked somewhere will not take anything to the bank. They will use it to buy cryptocurrency, when the new naira is well in circulation, they will convert it back to naira and stacked it back

If you buy crypto with the old naira, the seller would have to take on the burden of taking it to the bank to exchange for the newly issued notes.

Mubby4luv:
They are in Dollars trust me. That's one reason why we ve the Dollar problem and it won't go below the Naira because most of this politicians stock it and run private bureau de change. This so called CBN governor is the worst. Despite his failure, they couldn't remove him because he is their Dollar ATM

I suspect this is a move to compel private money bags to bring out naira notes stocked in private vaults and used to speculate in the black FX market.

If that assumption is correct, this will prove difficult for people trying to stay off CBN radar. I expect to see heavy cash transactions in real estate purchase, birthday cash gift through celebrity fronts, big money splash in clubs, heavy naira spray in parties and so on. All these in counter moves to continue to conceal identity of the real cash owners.

abbey621:
You're the one that failed to look at what I responded to, anybody that states that women over 25 are less desirable for marriage and should disregard their financial well being in favor of marriage is ignorant, that's all I'm saying!

Multiple things can be true at once. Women can pursue their financial agency and still be married. These things are non-rival interests, I don't understand why you equate desire for marriage to giving up financial agency.

And yes, even if you don't like to hear it, women above 25 are less desirable for marriage. That's pure fact and statistics. Facts don't care about your feelings!

abbey621:
So let's see average woman gets admission to the university at age 20, thanks to ASUU strike and other roadblocks they use 5 or more years at the Uni and must serve one year before struggling for a job. So you mean to tell me that after all those struggles it should all end in the kitchen? Our African mentality has done more damage to women than anything feminism could accomplish. Years of backwardness has resulted in women living unfulfilled lives, parents at the mercy of their child's husband and so on. I can't even imagine I have a daughter spent millions raising her and one bloke insinuating that because she's 25 or older, she should settle down by force and forget her quest for financial agency. To that person, my only response is DEM DON WIPE YOU CORD FOR NECK BEFORE?

Off tangent. How does marriage translate into women ending up in the kitchen? Do western women cook for their family or not? Marriage and career are not mutually exclusive. Many are married and practising their career successfully.

I understand ASUU strike is a thing here, but biology and life do not care. Women can get suitors even in their 50's but that would account for the exception. And women don't have to be married if that is their choice. You come across as emotional and lacking in judgement. Work on your comprehension skills.

Blessedmercy8:
My dear, I dey use others experience dey learn and advise myself accordingly.

When the time is right, things will fall in place. No need to rush.

I understand, but you need to be more pragmatic and deliberate towards relationship, if you are a lady past 25 already. Clearly, everything does not depend on you but recognise that your biological clock is ticking, which makes your chances slimmer, if at all.

It's too much risk marrying a woman above 25. There are health concerns, reproductive issues, emotional baggages that could potentially crystallise from such choice. In general, we hope for the best and I know some ladies were just unlucky. However, outside of economic consideration, toxic feminism has made marriage such a bad deal for men.

What we are likely to experience is high percentage of single motherhood, fatherless neighbourhoods, sexual promiscuity, mental depression among our women, increased ageing in women because of the mostly unguarded quest for financial agency. It's up to us to buck the trend by embracing our African culture or continue the plunge into the abyss by further importing western dysfunctionalities into our soceity.

To women and men who genuinely seek life partners, I pray God to help you.

noble71:
200 naira per Pi

I am willing to sell you 100 pi at N1,000 per Pi. My best offer with no subterfuge. Hit me up, let's close this deal.

noble71:
Quick recovery Buhari Pro Max.






Meanwhile Sell your Pi (π) to us at good rate.

What's your rate? I have Pi for sales.

ChimasGirl:
What's more attractive?

Thigh gap is better. It allows for aeration, better thrusting and prevention of unpleasant smell.

Mr Emefiele, you are looking to convince Nigerians for the top job in the land, but you don't them having a heart attack. With the droves of you expressing interest in the presidency, we are more than happy to hear you lots sell out yourself cheaply.

World of wonders!

UncleKoboko:
You're quoting an impostor.
She is a bitter single mother.

I really thought as much. Thanks for letting me know. She just kept spilling some big lies all over the place. I should have known.

Sweetplum:
Women don't approach men. But if you are a man with child before coming to marry a single lady. I v the right to reject you if I reason like puskas, satandererrible, Toktee and other carnal boys on this thread.
Whatever a man can do, a woman ll do better.
We are not liabilities.

Of course, women are well within their rights to accept or decline a man's proposal. Men have been dealing with female rejection from the beginning of time, it's infact women who can't stand rejection.

The fact remains that men are judged by their ability to provide before anything else. As long as a man is financially capable, with or without kids, women will not mind marriage with him. From Solomon in the days of old to the Alafin of Oyo in modern times, we have seen too many of these examples.

Sweetplum:
Thanks. You too recommend to your kinsmen that they should stop discriminating against single babymamas.
Life happens to all of us.

We don't discriminate here, but I'll take that, thanks.

Sweetplum:
I m not a single mom. I v values allover & I m still adding to myself

You sound like one. Maybe the topic is close to home for you in some way, but you need to stop lying and manipulating gullible people.

Marriage to single moms should be a big NO in a very general sense.

Sweetplum:
Yes I can approve it. I won't want my son to lose a good woman cos she's after 1.
I used the slang cos that's what they call babymamas.

Ok, go ahead then and recommend them to your kinsmen. Good luck with that. Lols!

Sweetplum:
The same should be applicable to a woman.
What do you mean by if he has the resources?
We v self made women too so no be only men dey add to marriage

Since when did women start approaching men for marriage? Do you now pay groom price? The same can never apply for men and women whether you choose to agree or not.

Sweetplum:
Don't mind the wicked man. Your wife that you married as tear rubber can do the same thing.
If you love the woman, marry her. Her child is your child so you v no problem.

Are you a single mom? If you are, please do yourself a favour by being as realistic as possible. Add value to yourself and make sure that true companionship is the only element for which you may need a man for and rightly so.

I believe you are aware your market value is significantly low and the odds for marriage is definitely not in your favour.