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[quote author=Efemena_xy]Okay.

So why do they have concubines then? Or harems? I mean, maybe I'm getting this all wrong but what really does happen in those harems? Knitting lessons?? [/quote]Well, I wouldn't know what happens there But I know that no emir, king or noble is a model for Muslims/Islamic practices.

Each to his own on the day of judgement.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]What makes them filty, Zoe?

If your basing this on religious grounds, then you're gonna be on to a long thing here because not everyone here is religious and shares your religious views. Besides, if you're going down the religious routes, Muslims are allowed to marry 4 wives and have as many concubines as they can cater for. (Muslims in the house, correct me if I'm wrong here o!, I'm no expert...)

So, are you gonna tell muslims that their religion which condones 1 man up to 4 wives, is a filthy practice? And if you're Christian, has Christianity not got it's roots in Juddaism / Jewish roots? Did they not advocate one man many wives? Did Abraham and Job not have many wives?

Same thing goes for those whose culture allows Polyandry. You've gotta be broad minded and have a wider outlook on things, rather than peeping out from the closet...[/quote]They can have as many as four wives but cannot have concubines.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Now that is a truth which a lot of people have replaced.

But on the other hand, a lot of people are going into marriage not for companionship but for children[/quote]People already get what ONLY marriage should provide them from outside wedlock.

Eventually,to some people, marriage is only a way of having children legitimately or a way of having more right over their partner/tying them down.

Sissie: Salam sis
For the fashion conscious hijab/veil wearing sisters, "hijabchic" sisters, how do you combine the both, following the hijab rules and still look chic.
I know our imam level is different and some of us struggle with it and we should try and encourage each other, some of us transition fast, some of us struggle with it.

Actually, the issue is one that I don't like to talk about because I am not PERFECT at it. I painstakingly take care of my looks but I don't go extreme at being chic.

So, I am just going to speak about how I think everyone's hijab should look like. We should all work towards perfection.

*A hijab is an outer garment that covers all of our adornment.

*It is free i.e not tight fitted

*The prophet described the addition of an arm length after reaching the ankles

*Aisha's(r.a) was described as what makes her appear like a penguin
[img]http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcStjxiBD5KTuFnQ-ZuduUSaBR5-p4hrtHK_2IabW3ajLdAB-cJ7z8wbpjsH[/img]
with the picture you can understand why some that you see are like the above picture.

*but then, a description of how it should be sown, I haven't seen or heard of. That makes me believe that the goal is of my point one.


Everyone should strive to achieve the best. May Allah help us.

gmumeen: Salam my sisters in Islam..

are you female? Your name doesnt sound it.

wa alaykum salam.

cleanvessel: Me I like my posts ignored. It will show the readers what am saying is the truth as nobody can deny it.

What I don't like is deleting my thread because it is the truth that nobody can counter.

Today my thread ''Jesus is Lord Even in Islam'' didn't last 10 mininutes before it was deleted.

There was nothing offensive in it. It was a muslim hadith that says ''lord Jesus''.

I tell you the truth lies keep the region alive. Expose the falsehood in it, it will fall flat.

I hope this post will last 5 minutes before it is hidden.

Well, I can only pity you. So, in your very beautiful thought you think Islam would call Jesus Lord and Muslims would deny it.


Doesnt yout post sound a little bit of a lie to your ears? God will raise and judge you for lieing against exposing Muslims.

slimyem: Even if that woman has test-ran/run and she didn't get pregnant or didn't want to, she wouldn't have found out still until now.

Fertility tests would have been a better option for her since she was waiting.

exactly my thought.

As to the case in question, I am sorry for the lady. It is a case of deception and the man is v. guilty. I agree with her leaving the marriage and hopefully, she'll find happiness with a better man.

Going for a fertility test before marriage isn't an option to me. While having Children is desired by all, it isn't the essence of marriage in itself but one of the gains.

It is no big deal. But people fear that if there is a problem with one marriage, the other would be affected.

yes.

I need that one year.

Follow the rules and your posts wont be hidden nor you, banned.

You know the ofrensive posts ev3n before typing them. You cannot be claiming ignorance. A mod modifies a post and you go and remodify without expecting a ban.

You put Allah in the same position as satan and pretend you didnt mean to be offensive?

why am I even explaining, isnt manmustwac already providing enough explanations?

tbaba12345: I can't create a post with my username tbaba1234

unbanned.

what is the post that got you banned?

Sissie: https://www.nairaland.com/1347088/muslim-sisters-circle I have decided to create one oh, my very 1st thread, not sure how it works thou, @deols

may Allah reward you sis.

[quote author=m.esther96]what is wrong with having separate countries,continent and planet??

by the way its 'having' not 'havinh'[/quote]and you aren't smart enough to detect a typo error.

wa alaykum salam.

This is a good thread. Let us get it going.

What is wrong with havinh separate camps?

Good idea, JNI.

Get him a wife, if you can.

^^is alright

^^His list isnt demanding too much, actually.

olawalebabs: My inactivity in this section is costing me some 'juicy' threads.

you know, you should start acting.


@Sino, I really wish I can, but can not. I am sure other people are probably in similar shoes as I am hence their not being so active.

That we cant do it right now doesnt mean never. Hopefully, it would happen soon.

I am hungry right now.

what an experience!!!

Good for her.

ma sha Allah

She is not the 1st Igbo woman I know who have become a Muslim. May Allah keep her firm.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Thanks ma'am[/quote]You are welcome sir.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I have a question and I do not wish to open a thread about it. Who do I ask and where?[/quote]You can ask them on existing threads. You can also send a message to tbaba1234@yahoo.com

https://www.nairaland.com/1242169/ask-questions-islam-muslims-here


https://www.nairaland.com/802617/questions-muslims-those-want-know

Well, I am deciding to ignore!!

you know, allowing people have a little 'high' sense can be rewarding

No. this wasnt supposed to be a thread for the sisters. This is a thread encouraging the sisters to open one.

busar: I think It's high time the brothers left the thread for the sisters. @Tbaba,jazaakumul lahu khayra

maclatunji: Let me make what I am saying clearer. Like Sino said and I also said, I was half-joking in my initial comment. If I am criticising anybody here, it has to be the sisters who for the most part are not being active as a group bar the TTC thread.

Whilst tbaba might have added a few grey hairs exchanging words with me #Joking, I was kinda-sorta hoping some sisters would seize the initiative.

Does anybody else see or now understands what I saw?

I for one dont see anything that you saw.


It is not your place to criticise anybody or tell them what to do or not . Lording it over them is even worse.

You can advise them or admonish on what they may be doing wrong. With great emphasis on the word, wrong.

This gives me shivers.

may Allah save us.

What tbaba is saying is clear enough. the banters are unnecessary distractions.

tbaba1234: Ameen.

JazakAllahu khair but you can start it o!!!

I can, really. But where are my sisters nahh. I am not sure they are joining in. If two or more show interest, I'll be motivated.

I will join in after someone starts.


Let someone open the thread pls. It is a very good idea. I now understand the importance of it better.

@smile4eva, you are welcome dear. pls talk to me @ deols001naija@yahoo.com.


May Allah ease your affairs and keep us firm in His deen. Amin

Thank you, Brazil

shakira is unhappy