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 Family › Re: Confessions Of A Misogynist( A Man Who Hates Women) by deols(f): 8:44pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
Providing the polygamy example and relating it to visiting Fathers make it more applicable to a Nigerian. Most Nigerians grew up in the same home with their Fathers. Run away farthers are uncommon. It is not a Nigerian thing. A Nigerian Father could be around with his presence not felt. The likelihood of blaming the mother seems unNigerian either. In fact, many Nigrian men, who even become like their fathers in relation to their wives, are good to their mothers, respect them and are grateful for their mother's love and support through their lives. ******* I think a Nigerian would even set out to be different from his father, at first, detesting everything the father represents only to find the society, including the women he meets, helping him become what he detests. They call him less of a man if he shows sensitive qualities, the women throw themselves at him and slave for him even without him asking, they sell their self respect for the little money he has to offer, etc This is not even in all cases, some decide to be different and achieve it. 2 Likes |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(op): 8:36pm On Dec 27, 2013 |
There is a picture in my head of someone I saw in a dream and whom I have not met before then. I don't attach any importance to the image. It would be interesting however to meet the person. I remembered this after Fulaman's post. So, you can ditch 'science' and believe us ;-) Science never has all the answers. We scientists learn to use words like, 'usually' and many researches are 'inconclusive'. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Confessions Of A Misogynist( A Man Who Hates Women) by deols(f): 7:42am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Are the struggles of these African Americans the same as that of Nigerians? I doubt it. |
| Family › Re: Is It appropriate To Buy Gifts For Your Future Parent Inlaws by deols(f): 7:30am On Dec 27, 2013 |
I won't buy either. It is your first time. They should be the ones giving you gifts. After the first time, when they have accepted you, You can start giving gifts. Even at that time, I'd rather the siblings than the parents. After marriage, they become your parents and is when it becomes a 'duty' |
| Health › Re: 7 Medical Myths That Even Doctors Believe by deols(f): 6:06am On Dec 27, 2013 |
The 10% brain use is the most ridiculous. Each part of the brain has its functions and none is dormant, for real. 2 Likes |
| Islam › Re: LAILA ILLA ALLAH by deols(f): 5:59am On Dec 27, 2013 |
The banned Mujah1deen wrote in CORRECT English. This one is a bad immitator. Plus no Muslim will write Lailaha Illa Allah as Laila illa Allah like he did. Looks like a trouble maker. I shall be watching in 3D  1 Like |
| Family › Re: Pls How Do I Bring Up My Kids To Be Ajebobutters by deols(f): 5:56am On Dec 27, 2013 |
Is the use of pacifier a sign of butty ness?? |
| Islam › Re: Lodge Your Complaints Here by deols(f): 5:53am On Dec 27, 2013 |
hammed royabat: Why are my fellow muslims wishing me a merry xmas ?This is not the right thread for that.This is for complaints to moderators, ONLY. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(op): 6:19pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
lanrexlan: The prophet(pbuh) said:''The (good) dreams of a faithful believer are a part of the forty-six parts of Prophethood.He said:Nothing is left of the Prophethood except al-Mubashshirat.They (the Sahabah) asked:What is al-Mubashshirat? He replied:The true dreams (that convey glad tidings)''.Eiyahhhh.. sorry for him. Marriage requires critical analysis of the other person. A dream can never be enough. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(op): 6:16pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Fulaman198: I don't necessarily agree with that statement. I see people in my dreams that I have never seen before. Perhaps I am misinterpreting your statement.I believe you. |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(op): 5:30pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
It is very unlikely that you would see someone you never met in your dreams. I hope he did not lie to her. It is gullible(no offence) to even believe such a thing. |
| Family › Re: Would You Allow Your Child Join The Military Rather Than Go To University? by deols(f): 5:16pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Not everyone in the military kills though  |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(op): 5:12pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
lanrexlan: Salam alaikum,please I have a question.I don't believe in things like this. A dream is only a dream. We are not to interpret them beyond what the prophet said. A bad one is from satan, say audhubillah. The good one, tell it only to whom you love. He did not say that dreams come true. There are guidelines to marriage, including istikhara. This should be followed rather than basing judgements on dreams. May Allah help them sha. How could she have been sure he said the truth about the dream sef? |
| Family › Re: Would You Allow Your Child Join The Military Rather Than Go To University? by deols(f): 4:03pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
I think so. My brother wanted to go to NMS and we allowed him. He did not meet the required age though. He was too young and by the time he could, he'd lost interest. The only thing you should not allow is him going as a recruit. That is like big suffer suffer. He can go to NDA or You can encourage him to finish his university education and then go for short service. That will put him on a better ranking. I wouldn't mind the short service sef..That is so much respect and the money is quite good plus You get the good feel of serving your Nation. |
| Politics › Re: President Jonathan & Patience During Christmas Service (Pictures) by deols(f): 3:54pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Sagamite: She is ugly and fat, and they are a crook, reetarded family.Your opinion. Who knows, You probably are fatter and uglier. no oofeinse 2 Likes |
| Politics › Re: President Jonathan & Patience During Christmas Service (Pictures) by deols(f): 2:05pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Sagamite: Maybe because he steals enough money to feed her belly.huh?  |
| Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(op): 2:03pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
babylolaroy: to the single ladies in d house, sissie, deols.....haminahCongrats girl, na so so we go dey hear o  May Allah bless your union. 3 Likes |
| Politics › Re: President Jonathan & Patience During Christmas Service (Pictures) by deols(f): 12:36am On Dec 26, 2013 |
The boy is dressed like a mafia boss. I like GEJ and PEJ as a couple sha. She is always very comfy around him. |
| Nairaland General › Re: Most Desperate, Pathetic And Annoying Nairalanders Listed Here by deols(f): 4:36pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
tpiah is not banned. She can use that but is probably enjoying the holiday somewhere. |
| Nairaland General › Re: Most Desperate, Pathetic And Annoying Nairalanders Listed Here by deols(f): 12:30pm On Dec 25, 2013*. Modified: 12:48pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
Dhurmynick: Deols, I've been hearing people say deols is bad, deols is badt.... Is it true, cos i have a thing for badt girls..Many of you later post your pictures and it gets realised that you are not as you post. Even if you are, I am sure you have no idea of what bad entails. |
| Family › Re: Dad Who Shuns Money by deols(f): 12:24pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
If the other people did not work for money, how would he get the exchange? The house was definitely built with money. So is the clothes, health care. 1 Like |
| Nairaland General › Re: Most Desperate, Pathetic And Annoying Nairalanders Listed Here by deols(f): 12:10pm On Dec 25, 2013 |
*irrelevances ignored* |
| Nairaland General › Re: Most Desperate, Pathetic And Annoying Nairalanders Listed Here by deols(f): 11:53am On Dec 25, 2013 |
mancheeutd: Imagine who is spitting trash bird of the same feathers ore o ya ore akobani iyara wonDo I know this one? seeking relevance? awwww! You'v been noticed. congrats. |
| Nairaland General › Re: Most Desperate, Pathetic And Annoying Nairalanders Listed Here by deols(f): 11:48am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Abu Mikey:  |
| Family › Re: Her Big Virginity Mistake! by deols(f): 11:44am On Dec 25, 2013 |
People who have great sex divorce. How do we even know that the story is true? She had doubts even before she got married. She is just an unsmart human being. She married someone she knew for three years but could not be attracted to enough to even want the sex on their wedding night? |
| Nairaland General › Re: Most Desperate, Pathetic And Annoying Nairalanders Listed Here by deols(f): 11:22am On Dec 25, 2013 |
I saw the thread on Linda Ikeji and wondered why many people were so mean to tpia. Some may not even have encountered her, but relying on other people's info on her to judge her. Ishilove said it all actually. I knew tpia to be quite annoying at first but got to understand her. She doesn't always mean to be as people think. She could be all mean and later, be so nice with her comments. She is also way smarter than the average NLer. People need to cut her some slack jare. She is actually not entirely wrong with her list. I found one or two to agree with 2 Likes |
| Islam › Re: "Why I Converted To Islam'- Former Actress Vivian Metchie Opens Up by deols(f): 9:48am On Dec 25, 2013 |
Alhamdulillah for her. ma sha Allah. May Allah keep her firm. |
