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These people have started again.


All I know is, we shall OVERCOME someday.

I agree with all of the above that I am almost forgetting what my point was.

But if all of these are in place and the parents help with the finances( in d case of the 22 yr old, that would seem sensible unlike in a 30yr old).

If they'd help with a few things like housing or school fees in a 25 yr old, that wouldn't be bad either.

Just helping to make their lives easier is my point. But If the parents wouldn't be able to help with these, I'd encourage contraception while they both work hard to make ends meet.

I got the original post actually. In some other cases though, some people want to build castles before being 'ready'.

Sometimes, being in love can do d magic, make d parents see reasons, etc

If he is not rich enough, how about d parents helping out just to protect everyone.

Funny enough, the shame of the children is regarded as that of the whole family but keeping it from happening is then left yo the children alone.

I saw a very young couple some weeks ago and I just LOved them. Groom is 22yrs old. I knew their parents, esp. d boys father has a big role in it. I wish there are more parents encouraging this.

Not everyone would need to do this.

* a family history, which she has
*and gene mapping, which proves her likelihood of having it.

and she gets to have a breast implant, possibly getting a firmer and fuller b than d original.

she made a smart choice in her own interest. Would do same if in her situation.

This is a very good avenue to showcase the rot in Nigeria. I wonder what his superiors have to say.

bhusayor: Asalam alaykum, how is every one doing.

Deols: thank you so much for the call ,very thoughtful of you and I really do appreciate it

Olawalebabs: how are you? Work? Family?

Maclatunji:I got the feedback, thanks

Btw, I see you are now a mod deols

Bhus baby, dont telle me u have runaway again oo

tbaba1234: Alright, this is something, I worry about.

How do you create a balance between a working wife and raising kids? Particularly when she has a very demanding job and the man also has a demanding job.

I certainly don't want my kids to be raised by nannies..

What do you think?

To worry is good. I worry too. I figure my way out but know they can be modified when there's a partner to discuss it with.

Raising children is a shared responsibility between husband and wife. Both should be making the sacrifices IMO.

the best thing to do is to not let go ooo. Marry them immediately.

The perfect time for marriage is the time you meet that person you have affection for. Why delay hun??

If they wont allow you marry, you may have to show them what Allah says, what the ptophet says, e.tc

well, my opinion.

chosen04: It will be good for the nailing to start from the north who were the first to start making such threats. Thanks

and why did no one do anything about it?

I think that is because at the time those statements, by the said Northerners were made, no one took them seriously. everyone started to read meanings to them after d post election riots.

But even then, the government should have called them in for questioning. The security services are in place and could just have been used. It would have stopped every other person, dumb Dokubo inclusive, from thinking they can open their mouths and just say whatever.

@Movado 19, I have the same sentiments as regards the story. I think I once heard it is fabricated. I am not sure though.