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yellowpawpaw: Deols,leave Coogar alone.
He is that type of guy that worships the ground his woman steps on but tend to display bad boy attitude in cyber world to hide his tru identity.
His type will wash bra and pants just to make sure his woman is happy.

He is a complete gentleman trying to form bad boy. Una no dey read inbtwn lines. He is just having fun.
And its good to be the opposition most times. That's the only way we learn d truth.
Most times he is pulling pple's leg and most of us fall for it. Its only few that sees it as what it is. Pure entertainment.

wash bra and panties and then claim macho here

Chillisauce: @coogar, o have not even finished the story, you've already given me a conclusion.

Anyway, it's solo thread. I don't wanna derail but the koko was, we ate her food, left the dirty plates and zoomed off

That was way back in school Sha. Of cos, the guy denied, saying the girl was his friends girlfriend. Na dem Sabi Sha, cooking will not give you ring o.

Case study my Solomon

hahaha

he ate her food, clean mouth and didnt put a ring on it?

Tohh..girl is an all rounder loser

HumbledbYGrace: No need for name calling, we are mods of the religion section, please post anything that has to do with Muslims in the Islam for Muslim sub section.

That's Seun's words and we have to obey them, anything concerning that quarantined place is not the religion mod's cup of cake. Kindly take it to allah in prayer..

what do you mean by that quarantined place?

Pattey: Mujah1deen: we will turn your state houses into
mosques with minarets and your churches into
quranic schools

www.nairaland.com/1531223/hoodlums-attack-osun-school-stopping/21

This is one of several ridiculous remarks made by muslims apart from openly canvasing for violent acts against christians. But for some reason, its oK for Muslims to post thrash on NairaLand, right?

Don't muslims go on rampage with statements not even explicitly mentioning their religion?

Muslims can say what they like and incite violence yet nothing happens, but christians reply, they get banned. How ridiculous!

The MODs must be jokers by hiding my protest posts against DEOLs; their colleague who grants extremists a safe haven to air their violent views! Does that show the same tolerance the religion is known for

If you have a problem with a post by a Muslim in the Islam section, you know what to do. Click on the report button.

A report got your own post hidden and your inability to do the right thing should not be blamed on anyone.

You have been going all around posting all kinds about how I banned you but you failed to include the message you sent me or all the abusive words you have been describing me with.

what a good christian you are

coogar: girlfriends should not cook for their partners? haha? the girlfriend better not expect any christmas gift, easter basket or expensive dinner dates then. the way through a man's heart is through his tummy.

when you also get christmas gifs from her and she surprises you with expensive gifts/parties from time to time, does she have to cook, still?

you make it seem like the gift is in exchange for her cooking and when girlfriends demand money from their bfs people on here give them all kinds of names.

Everything on this list defines me.


The mistake part though..Even when I change strategy, sometimes, I make similar mistakes but in a better way and with lesser repercussion

orisirisi wey I dey hear

I won't go to the house of somebody I am not married to cook for him..lai lai.

I find it more insulting sef that u get to complain on the one who even does the cooking.

Berra get a maid bro or cook ya own food.

Good for them. It is an unecessary distraction by whoever started the rumor.

babylolaroy: subhanallah!!!
sis. deols, dah was bad of him. sorry on his behalf buh i hope yu put him where he belong

I quoted it to corroborate the topic. I take no offense.

hahahha

some people no go school o

we cook sweet potatoes with the skin intact.

It therefore makes no big deal to do so for yam.

Elubo is also made with the back intact and only sifted after being ginded.

It sounds like a good experience to make.

Here is an example of the Nl ones.

See how the topic of the thread and my reply to it has nothing to do with Islam. But this guy sees it as an opportunity to slander.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Ehen.... Where is Greatgod2012 and yellowpawpaw? Your purses are needed here.

Deols, show before I come and stalk you and Royal Roy too[/quote]mmmn.

I am a poor student ni.

I agree with tbaba in totality.

I once mentioned that we have a problem of Muslim role models. If many of us were brought up to see polygyny as ideal, we won't be having these problems. Majority of the people I see from polygamous homes have problems..why should that be so? why cant the men(in most cases they are the problem) give good examples of how good polygyny should be?

I couldn't have seen all those nonsense and still, in my educated mind, want to be a part of it. ko possible

and as said, if we were born centuries ago, it would not have been a problem because it was the norm..but was it ideal?

..and we are not in centuries ago. We are at an age where people are more likely to decide what they want for themselves. Hopefully we can keep it halal.

busar: I don't think the said lady was desperate. It was the husband that asked for it not her.

whether this one is desperate or not is not the issue.


Sissie means that the desperate ones won't see it as a pity party. They want to be married and get to do it is all that matters to them.

babylolaroy: i know we are lucky and dats why we dont know wia d shoe hurt others...may we never know inshaaAllah

amin o. especially in this world where it appears like we are only acting a script.

Nija will be great.


One step at a time.

babylolaroy: i wanto add dah truly it may not be easy at first to think yu wud bring anoda woman for ur husband, dah means knowing fully well and being aware dat ur very own husband caresses, kisses, touches and even be with anoda lady. shuooo. it may be hard buh dats wat we call JIHAD. if yu let ur own thot be in control, yu wnt allow it buh if yu let Allah's own be in control, yu find urself goin to shop togeda with ur new wife. yu will find yu both watching a movie togeda. it does nothing!!

So the woman is being married as a pity case??

How does anyone even feel about being the pity case?..

I can't know abi..only the ones wearing the shoes know where it hurts.

Is one supposed to drink the first one, with its gokd content?

[quote author=Al-Baqir]I've already made a complaint about that but the almighty (deols I suspected) hid or deleted the complaint as well.
Now I further understand the saying:
"Every day is Ashura and Every Land is karbala"[/quote]May Allah forgive you..

and I am not almighty deols..only Allah is the almighty.

I did not hide any of the posts you are complaining about. I did not even read it.I posted what I did just so people can learn to do the right thing rather than just quoting and posting on offensive posts.

fellis: hey deols, I missed u

hope mod work wasn't stressing u out or anything?

missed u too and seriously so. I even found myself at the culture section sometime ago and wondered if u'd been posting there.


Stress?? just managing jare

busar: Nice contributions from tbaba so far. Jazaakumullahu khayran to you all.
As single brother can you marry a widow or a divorcee? Because there are lot of young widows and divorcees out there. Sisters can also help other sisters by suggesting them to their husbands as wife(ves) .
If you didn't marry them,who will?

Suggest a woman to my husband??

maybe when I am done with him...


a man whose wife suggests another woman should check himself..he is doing it wrong somewhere.

Hkana: ^^^ I do understand what you mean. If a guy approaches a lady and she tells him "NO" though she's actually undecided. If this guy happens to be someone who doesn't want to be seen as "begging her" he could just let her be and when she eventually finds out that she likes the guy, it would be too late cos the guy would have been long gone and this would create a sorta ill feeling in the lady

A guy can never completely understand a lady cos what ticks one off would do the magic for another. #MyTwoCents

Actually, if you are meeting someone for the first time, it is very somehow to go ahead and propose to them. Of course they would say NO. and if they say No, I bet they mean it.

and If you'v known them for a while, you should ask questions directly..do u mean No, that I shouldnt bother ever again? or do u mean No, you are thinking about it? or praying over it?..You could even suggest the prayer to buy time..and later ask if she prayed and what she thinks the prayer means.

If her no is NO..take it as No abeg.

Sissie: I think some things are being mixed, a guy (that has a chance) can be persistent that's not bad, being persistent in a good way is OK, and some people pester you, it's a complete NO (EVEN IN HIS DREAM, HE DOESN'T HAVE A CHANCE) and he still pester you, that's different.

I would have thought that was clear..Crystal clear, I mean.

baba11: So fast,i think you based your opinion on love conquer all things @ recent!#D@ you can't marry without love,o ga o!

What is the point of this? 'I dont understand you.

fellis: Meaning?

hey fellis..long time..God knows how many times I wondered where you'v been. Good to have you back.


Someone else we'v not being seeing is Olawalebabs...

I didnt know of Ismailis until a recent post by someone who is probably one.


This is new information to me..I will find out more in sha Allah.


I just hope this thread won't be sent into hiding by immitent attacks.

baba11: Any guy that is serious and so busy should never waste all his energy on one particular lady.If one option fails,one should readily grab another one.I don't see this happening to me sha!Wasting all my energy and financial resources on futile attempts.If i have invested such wisely,i know what the results might be!!!

exactly jare. Why should anyone waste their time especially on what they would not get.

You can ask her if she is thinking about it or saying no. Then, move on!!

No reasonable lady would let someone she likes go.

Sissie: Bwahaha this got me laughing, be rude because you don't want to fall for him? Me oh I know the answer.

Did I just read this?? at this point in time when some people believe that love 'conquers all', why would anyone keep away from falling?

It sounds like some deluded thoughts like this may be a reason some men keep pestering even after the NO has been said to them.


Now this just presents what could be responsible for some of the things we have been talking about for if seriously someone assumes that a woman might be trying not to fall for him, he might see her no as a challenge and keep on until he becomes like a pest to her.

May I never meet such o! sounds like a mental thing #walahinooffencemeant