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Brownpeanut:
Yes, I can't. Why are you surprised?

Because u are not telling yourself the truth

What is your definition of love?

Your moniker is f so I assume you are a female so let me ask u as a female what makes you love a man?

judedwriter:
People divorce when love takes the exit door.

Nope, people divorce when communication has died completely

Hisincrease:
No.
You can love when you marry.
Forget all these fall in love stuffs. Marriage is by calculation and God's grace.

Calculation people....
Calculate well. Love comes with good calculation.
If a guy has all u want, love don start be that. As long as there is sexual chemistry.

Love is not blind

isthatso:
Marrying for love is a major reason many mnarraiges collapse. You need to enter a marraige with a clear head. if you marry a compatible partner chosen with a clear head you will grow to love each other. if you marry out of love you will ignore the danger signs that will come back to haunt you.

He who has ear.....

Brownpeanut:
I thought I was the only one finding hard to fall in love. But how can you marry someone you don't love? There's this guy that has been pestering me. He has everything a woman can ever hope for, but I don't just feel anything for him; or love him. I can't date someone I don't love not to talk of marrying them.

U can't date someone u don't love

First of all define love

What does love mean to you. From there u can continue

bizme:
Allow me to disagree with you on this. If we are to look at it objectively the oyibos have much better society using both economic and morality parameters to judge. So if we copy the good aspects of their life, it wouldn't be a bad idea at all.

Secondly, I don't think immorality is increasing everyday in our society like you have put it. Instead the ready access to the internet makes it easy for us to learn about things we wouldn't otherwise have known. Neither do I believe that this generation is worse than the previous. Our fathers and mothers and people before them were part of equally immoral generation, they simply like to be hypocritical when talking about the younger generation. Just like many of us might also feel like telling our kids that their generation is unnecessarily permissive morally speaking. It is all a lie. Our parents did their own kind of atrocities in their time, they were not saints.

Back to the oyibos, without flogging kids they somehow manage to produce more empathic and more human human beings that build the society. We continue to lay claim on a higher morality in our society yet we keep churning out terrorists, yahoo-yahoo, and corrupt individuals year in year out. It isn't a bad idea to copy their style of raising up kids.

Thank u
If u have a more emphatic people in the society, it will show in the level of corruption, wickedness, lawlessness and greed we have here. I have been asking, have we benefited through beating?
Some said if their parents didn't beat them, they wouldn't have turned out good. That's a very big lie. If your parents had seen u as a human and a friend first, talk to u like one, listen to your need (any child that's rebellious has need that's neglected), solve it or look for alternative, that child will know he or she is loved and cherished.
And in response will do anything to make you happy.

Also, thanks to religion. Pastor will tell you spare the rod and spoil the child and u will foolishly believe such stupid ideology cos it's written in the bible. It is well

We beat cos we don't know how to communicate with our kids. Create soured relationships between parents and kids in the future and the cycle continues..


Kids nowadays are very outspoken. U can't silence them with beating and most times if u are patience enough to listen and assimilate, they make better argument than you. How a child should talk back at you is the problem.

U will have a friend if u see your child as a friend and confidant. Look at our society. Our parents beat the hell out of us. Are we better. We are very aggressive, lack patience and inherently wicked. These traits were formed when we were young. Thanks to beating and constant unnecessary nagging.

Nairaland, the more you look, the less you see

Good for him to have relocated.

If it's in naija, will he have gone out to shop?

We only do the right thing outside Nigeria.

Legitdimple:
Wahala for who never chop abacha oh!

How did u prepare your abacha?
Looks good.

Mynd44:
A plate (of yam peppersoup)

Last time I had this was about 8 years ago in Isi Ala-Ngwa (Sexkillz Village)

The red bull because I need the energy to finish this

That is catfish head. Next time, request for the middle.
No be everybody sabi chop this head

It's tedious work indeed so yeah, U need that red bull.
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TheLionofLasigi:
Ibo "chiefs" are glorified warrant chiefs with no royal blood, never heard of this nigga until now, happy 57 anniversary in an irrelevant position. am probably more relievant than this nigga

U have never had of him cos he is not a noisemaker like those from your side.
U hardly see him on the pages of newspapers discussing politics. So also majority if not all the igwes in igboland. They dare not dabble into politics else they will receive the wrath of the people they represent.

Besides, your own that is everywhere, what has he done for you? Efulefu like you.
The igwe alone can buy your entire state and still remain unshakeable.

drizslim:
As ezigbo AFO anaedo.
Quote me if u go involve for the ofala let's link up

Post pictures pls.
I love ofala festivals

One of the best igwe in igboland.

Was opportune to meet him.
Very down to earth.

So diff from Obi of onitsha.

Obi of onitsha and his cabinet can tax people anyhow. Wonder what they are doing with money.

Lexusgs430:
Honestly, I don't understand this tier visa system...... And I have refused to read up on it.......

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Motorola razr.
That phone rocked.


Curiosity made me check Motorola razr and this one here is more than 2thousand pounds
Seriously

So Motorola still dey market.

2020Experience:
Yes the art speaks volume but the message is louder.

I chose not to comment on the message cos I know it is very untrue this only happens in Africa.
All over the world, people step on one another to rise. It's inherently in us.

The problem with Africa is checks and balances.
Us is not better than Nigeria when it comes to greedy people subduing others to climb up or their politicians better than our own,neither is Britain.
It's dog eat dog world. The Rothwell family is still at the apex cos they suffocate any other that wanna outshine them. The British monarch still hold on to the system cos of the power it gives them al over the world and any voice saying abolish the monarch is strictly subdued.

Fulani in Nigeria don't mind killing their kits and kin in other to control Nigeria and it has been working in their favour.
Obama will continue to rule America if Biden is sworn in.


So why single out Africa?

My husband dey away

I must leave naija by fire by force.


Those girls should be grounded for life for not telling their parents. At least, here, the parents behaved like parents should

This is art work!

Codedlyon:
i stopped going to church when I realized my pastor is a liar and a thief.

All of them are and are very proud of it.
Highly narcissistic and control freak.

Poverty in the land made millions to run to them for succour. I prefer Nigerian politicians to these people at least I know they are politicians. Religion has been a control tool all over the world. Religion and politics always go hand in hand if u want herd mentality.
They roll with the politicians( they perform occultic magic for them) that's why they are untouchable.
Has never done anybody any good.
And yeah, the bible from genesis to revelation is all about magic and witchcraft.

Racoon:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/12/how-to-kill-skin-and-bury-a-country/amp/

It can be seen that Nigeria is an impromptu creation of the British for ease of administration and not because of unity of the people therein.Even the founding fathers of this nation agree that though they desired unity, but “Unity without verity, is no better than conspiracy.” -John Trapp(English philosopher).So Nigeria unity is negotiable.

Americans have to fight a bitter war before they agreed to form a true federalism kind of government.Former USSR dissimulate till only Russia is left today.Southern Sudan have long left Sudan.Brit-Exit is going to see Britain leave the UK.

Brit-exit is UK leaving EU and they have left months ago.

IDENNAA:
I will respect a man who stole but used it to build social amenities than the one who stole and saved the billions in a foreign account. But , I dont suppprt looting and neither did I say Ifeanyi Ubah stole money.

Thank u!

Simplyleo:
Make dem dey enjoy am na, why are you telling us?

Show us one tinubu has done for his people lets appreciate him.

Don't kill yourself. It's very common practice in anambra state.

Mariangeles:
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Stop making a mockery of someone's art!
It is not even funny!
What doesn't appeal to you, might appeal to others. Just learn to move on from what you don't like.

The poster isn't artistic. So forgive

Explorers:
Beef pepper soup with Baba kano's leg.

This is 5D picture
When I can't even snap 2D

dominique:
This is getting too rampant. Banks must do something about this. The topic below sheds more light on how people's accounts are wiped out without them compromising personal details.

https://www.nairaland.com/6333499/how-cyber-criminals-clone-atm

EFCC needs to work fast and apprehend the people behind these nefarious acts. There's no banking transaction that's not traceable, I don't know why they keep letting these fraudsters get away with their evil deeds

EFCC will do nothing.
In 2016,my friend's account( more than 2 million) was wiped off and after lodging complaint, EFCC actually told her they can do nothing. She was on holiday and used her card( was promised the card was very secured) to buy some stuff. That was how money started disappearing while she was relaxing in her hotel room up to the pay check she received that same day. Her bank till date didn't pay her the money back.
Fked up system and country

Ijawwomaninoyo:
That's her 4th marriage with same allegations.

Seriously
I thought her husband died and she married this man after.
The man was even her best friend's husband

I can see why people are always harsh on her.

She will marry an American negro or white this time around.

The way we worship wealth eeh

Dipwater:
Dora akunyili is not from agulu. She is from nanka, a neighboring town but married to a man from agulu.

That makes her an agùlù lady by marriage.
Are u from nanka?

[quote author= post=97463254]Lalasticlala, OAM4J, Mynd44 Merry Xmas and prosperous new year[/quote]Guy, is this your wife?
U dey chop big thing o.
Compliments
Pls,can u cover umunze?
Just finished watching a vlog done there around the college of education.

Umunze has really gone far in development. The private hostels are so on point.

Nairalandian:
Each and every one of them are playing their scripts well

And the gullible south says amen. He is doing well.

Now I know the north has high IQ than the south.