₦airaland Forum

Yuneehk:
Atama and eba, night food.

RaphaellaDD:
Everybody that will make heaven is watching it

bukatyne:
We are good thanks.

Since madam Maria convinced abi confused me to try to follow European series, I nor get time for NL again.

I am watching Filinta now.

Finding out why Boris Efendi just smiled when a situation calls for it proves more entertaining than NL.

Beremx:
Tokunbo Ambiano air fryer for sale. Used for cooking.
The paint on the metal ware inside is faded. You can paint it if you want.

Asking price is 17k c

WhatsApp me on 08033688904 if interested

Prestonn:
Village kitchen


Season Greetings everyone


Breakfast ❤

mariahAngel:
Maybe knowing the health benefits would motivate you
https://www.healthline.com/health/food-nutrition/lemongrass-tea#use

Organsmuggler:
Rich or poor they still gonna cheat on u, marry the rich/financially stable man cuz it's better to cry in Dubai than your village farm

bukatyne:
How are you doing?

Welcome back

Lexusgs430:
The government cannot force anyone to take the covid jab, but through the backdoor, employers could mandate or walk, not work.........

Lexusgs430:
Be very swift, Lee.......

ednut1:
21 years ago hmmm

pocohantas:
I have an uncle whose concubine did this too. Took all her kids to the America. The woman no even look back o, na when that my uncle lose im two wives, come dey sick anyhow, she came with her kids to see him. It was an emotional Christmas.

1stKing:
lol you? where you find 100k ??


@ OP it's clear that you are here to beg/scam even if you are pregnant.
But unfortunately someone who types exactly the same way you typed has already used this format .look for another FMT my people don wise up

pocohantas:
I can’t explain it well, but Igbos are deeply tied to their roots and togetherness. You don’t really know a person except you know his/her ancestral home and that can never change. SanwoOlu can decide to demolish our house in Lagos, but that can’t happen in the village.

Various rites in Igbo land are also stressful, so no matter how long it takes, something must bring you back to them. It is better you start identifying with them early.

IkpuMmadu:
The man go use am yab am in future

Racoon:
The Kastina authority said 333 boys are missing yet this idiot called Garba Shehu is spewing thrash.Guess he wants to also say the 10 boys were also supposed to get clearance from the security agencies before they give up themselves for kidnapping by the bandits?

So the boys are even supposed to be exposed let alone abducted if not for the cluelessness & incompetency of the govt he is subserving? Stupid man!

evuna:
Chinwetel Ejiofor's sister, Okonjo Iweala's children even Dora Akunyili daughter that married a white man all did their traditional marriage in the village.

There is more to these things. Someone even suggested using juice for traditional marriage. God forbid that I allow my future daughter not marry in the village. We bastardize our culture so much.


Look at Japanese, koreans and Chinese. they still love their culture and are more highly advanced than we that don't like ours.

Bro, at the end of the day, you will decide. Bu think about it very well. In 20years time, how will peo see my nephew. Can he be proud to attend some cultural functions. People will sit in the comfort of their bedroom and tell you that it doesn't matter.


I had such views about village people. I started getting closer to igbo tradition when I was in UNN. Nobody will kill her if she does the traditional marriage later than the so called white wedding. it's better to defer it and do the right thing than doing a shoddy show.


When you grow older, you will understand. Also, get closer to your village. join association. All those people saying that village people are bad are not correct. Thank God I have been liberated.

I even held a position in my community association for 3years.

Okpara me ibu Okpara. Read about the igbo concept of Ani/ala. all lands are not the same. Your ancestral home will always be your ancestral home. ala bu otu should never been encouraged.


Lastly, go and seek the counsel of an elderly man.
Nairaland is filled with people who want to trample on igbo culture. don't seek traditional advice online. Go to the elders. May not necessarily be your village people. Go and meet elderly igbo men and seek their views.

Dalu.

Mariangeles:

cococandy:
Pomegranate salad. Served with miso soup

lexy2014:
Which school?

mariahAngel:
I thought the advice were meant for a married couple considering the title of the thread...

I had a married couple in mind when I commented, not two people wasting their time together.

crackhaus:
Lol, wasn't this OP married that year... What is this I'm reading?

Abi you don dey see another man?


Stop seeing him, stop calling him, stop chatting with him... If you work together, keep it strictly professional.

Failure to do any of the above and paynt will shift soon...