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Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by desirel: 11:59am On May 08, 2018
Did your child behave different in the presence of other adults/care givers/family members?
Politics / Re: Which Nigerian Leader in 2019 Can Transform The Country To Look Like This?(Photo by desirel: 9:02am On Feb 12, 2018
Freeze, if is interested in it!
Health / Re: Remedy Needed For This Serious Skin Condition by desirel: 9:05pm On Jan 01, 2018
Monat, rejuvenate oil- only in US and Canada available. It’s expensive, but makes wonders.
Career / Re: Kindly Advise Me On The Behaviour Of My Managing Director by desirel: 5:59pm On Jan 23, 2017
Now think...if it was your business and someone you put in charge will mess up.... Would you be happy? I think you asked the wrong answer...the good one would be: " how can I make the things different, so the services we offer will be excellent and the clients satisfy?" In this case I don't see why your boss or the client should suffer for your lack of management. And yes is your fault! Grow up and clean up your mess!
Religion / Re: I Am A Muslim But I Love Jesus — Emir Sanusi by desirel: 1:14pm On Oct 16, 2016
he loves the islamic Jesus... his Jesus is not the Jesus Christ of Bible.... no the same person.. so he doesn't love Jesus Christ the Son of God....end of story!

more information


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vRGnwH5Gqm0
Religion / Re: Advice On Tithing Needed Urgently. by desirel: 9:56am On Nov 12, 2015
that church doesn't need our money; better give the money to someone that is in a real need and that can really praise God!
listen the truth about the tithe is:as christian you are not asked to pay such a thing! you are asked to give with joy what you think that you can afford; some of the christian are so poor that they need to be helped, not asked to bring money and things to the church. the tithe was never asked to be paid in money, but in things and the Jews were asked to bring it to the Temple. just for you as fact: since the temple from Jerusalem was destroyed the Jews are not paying anymore the tithe; if you speak with any Jewish rabbi , he will tell you that is even sinful for Jews to pay such a thing as the instruction as given for the temple; so no Temple, no tithe. so let's resume: you are not Jew, there is no temple and in the New Testament, the Christians are not asked to pay such a thing!....so why someone should pay the tithe?

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Family / Re: To The Mothers,I need help o. by desirel: 11:02am On Nov 09, 2015
it takes a lot of hormones to make a child... her body is making the hormones that will help your child to developed and grow, that's why she is feeling so poor..... i don't know why the doctor gave her medication, as this "sickness" is normal. what does she needs is rest and plenty of liquids... and if she cannot hold water or tea, juices, try non-alcohol beer- it's working for some of us and it doesn't affect the baby!
Family / Re: Bathing A New Born Baby. . . by desirel: 7:39am On Nov 05, 2015
only warm water with baby bath oil in the baby bath. put the baby inside and gentle massage his/her skin.
Travel / Re: A Discriminating Experience In Poland by desirel: 9:35am On Sep 22, 2015
you should write a complain to the airport, about your treatment and ask them to publicly apologize or you take them to the court.

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Politics / Re: Photos Of Flood In Ariaria Market (a Line) Aba, Abia State by desirel: 9:34am On Aug 12, 2015
OK, the government is not doing a thing to help, but why the people that are affected of this are not doing something; to dig canals both sides of the road where the water to drain. is better to close the shops and wait for the government? maybe they will never do it, so are you guys going to live in that dangerous situation? water and garbage mixed in a warm weather....... and you complain of malaria and other diseases. Seriously?!!
Family / Re: No Age Limit: Can You Dress Up Your Daughter Looking This Hot? by desirel: 10:23am On Jul 11, 2015
falconey:


grin
She is probably between 5-8years old.

This is GAGA going crazy........ladies for any reason can you dress up your daughter looking this HOT?

And guys can you allow your wife do this to your daughter and why?

she is not a child; she a dwarf; look at her denture, is of a grown up! is a petite lady!
Family / Re: HELP: My 2 Months Old Baby Took Her Own Selfie With My Phone... by desirel: 8:34am On Jun 08, 2015
i don't believe for a second that 2 m/o baby took a selfie. by this age she can not grab things, or lift such a thing like a smartphone (you said that she played with it)- the muscles are not developed. even if the phone was set to do selfie, the probability that she will touch the right place on the screen is really low. so try another story this is a fairy-tale.
Religion / Re: Any Funny Or Interesting Experience In Today's Service? Come In And Share by desirel: 9:39am On May 18, 2015
Superstar007:
My pastor asked how much I bought
my iphone6 . And I told him 25k
instead of 200k cos I didn't want him
to know I had that amount of money
on me.
Now he just gave me 50k to buy the same phone for himself and his wife.
Please, what should I do?

confess your sin grin
Family / Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by desirel: 9:31am On May 12, 2015
just tell him, that you can't do with your mouth what he is asking you to do and praise God in the same time. i think he will get the picture!
Family / Re: My Son Was Threatened In School by desirel: 9:01pm On May 04, 2015
you are working with children and don't know what to do when they bully? seriously?!? you should change your job!

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Religion / Re: Which Christian Movement Christ Embassy Belongs? by desirel: 10:18am On May 03, 2015
apostasy!
Religion / Re: My Experience As A Church Worker For 6months by desirel: 9:48am On May 03, 2015
classicB:
As a born introvert, i decided to join the church work force six months ago to get more used to people and also to work on the shy part of me.
Two of my sisters are in the church choir and they have both gisted me of how the supposed brother and sisters of God use to continually have sex with each other cry
We are only four girls out of almost 25 guys in my subgroup and to be sincere, all these people are really nice and most times don't bother we girls too much on works to be done.
The problem now is reality is beginning to show itself as some guys in the choir have already started eyeing me, i don't mind them anyway and I guess they must have assumed me to be an easily convinced type of girl just because of the way I smile grin
One is always trying to get my attention in church while the other will not stop disturbing me on whatsaap embarassed
The same me that thought of joining the church choir is already having a rethink of going back to my former self as a bench warmer grin I seriously cannot be a part of this kind of hypocritical act going on right in the church of God. I told my boyfriend about it and it doesn't seem new or surprising to him, it's like this is now the new trend in churches.
I don't know the kind of Christian we call ourself but having sex with Co workers right in. Church is just not done, in most cases the girls are at the loosing end cos every guy in church will know how that guy slept with you and they will probably wanna get under her skirt too cry


i still don't understand what is the difference between you and those guys? they are sleeping with girls that are coming to that church and you are sleeping with your boyfriend. all of you have sex without being married! so.........?

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Family / Re: 9 Months Old Baby Dances Shoki (Video) by desirel: 10:04am On Apr 05, 2015
she looks more that she needs to poo and the people around didn't give her space. is shoki dance a poo dance?

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Family / Re: Please Mothers,i Need Your Advice Urgently Pls by desirel: 7:58am On Apr 03, 2015
your baby has cramps, that disturb him so much. is usual with the new baby to have this kind of cramps/colic, because the new way of feeding (not more through the ombilical cordon). you should look for some baby drops(infacol) or babytea and give it to him after he finish eating. again you should be sure that the child barp all the air out after eating. the cramps can take a while 2-4 months. I have a 3 months old, and the first 4 weeks were crazy, but now everything is fine.

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Romance / Re: What Is So Special About Igbo Girls?? by desirel: 1:06pm On Apr 01, 2015
so many traditions and rituals in igboland. very expensive traditions!!!! I don't know about the bride prices, but i can tell you that the lists coming from igboland are endless, just because we live in Europe. Sometime i feel that i married to all 419 group, because till now no family member or family friend, prove that is trustworthy. the moments the money enter their hands, phone are switch off and if you finally you manage to contact them they will insult you and tell you nonsense. the last issue i had with them; they asked us to send money so they will take my m-i-l to hospital; we sent 3 times money for hospital, they took her in the last moment when the doctor couldn't help her anymore, so the poor lady died. now, as we prepare for funerals, they send us an enormous list, and we have to pay it, because we are oversee!!?!!! thanks God for an old man, some kind of uncle, that intervene and cut that list and made it reasonable.

my experience with igbopeople living in igboland, is that when they do something, has to be very big and impressive, no matter if they have or not money. and when you pay for some tradition is not only for your family, nooo, you pay for the all relatives. If you can't pay what they ask, they insult you and tell all kind of evil things about you. the igbo are business focus; their business is to see you bankrupt.

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Religion / Re: Release Of Fluid While Sleeping, Does It Signifies You Have A Spiritual Wife. by desirel: 6:17am On Feb 10, 2015
wisdomguy4u:
Last sunday , in one of the new generation church i
attended , I heard the man of God say that a lot
people have spiritual wife or husband without even
knowing they do. And that this spiritual spouse
hinder them from achieving a lot of good things in
life. The man of God went further to say that , if you
are a man and sometimes when you wake up in the
night , you found out that you have Fluid in your
pants or night wear, it's an indication that you have
just had sex to a spiritual wife.
This got me really thinking ...
Guys what do you say about this ?


that means that you are perfectly normal, biologically speaking....i'm not sure if mentally you are sane. there is not biology class in Nigeria? an 14 years old can tell you that this is normal, totally normal.
Religion / Re: Does Islam Say "Kill The Infidels"? by desirel: 10:44am On Jan 22, 2015
Dmail:
Does Islam Say: "Kill The Infidels?

Someone said, "Your Quran says to kill all the Jews and Christians..", how do we answer harsh question and attacks against Islam?

This is absolutely not true and it is quite easy to prove.

The Quran still exists today just as it did at the time of the prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him. You see, he never did learn how to read or write, so he memorized the entire Quran from the angel Gabriel (Jibril in Arabic) and then he passed on this recitation (Quran) to his companions and they in turn passed it on to the next generation and this practice continues even today, reciting by memory and then passing it on to the next generations. And by the way, it is exactly the same from anywhere it is recited in the world. That's one of the miracles of the Qur'an. It can't be changed bcs it is been memorized.

We know the Quran orders believers to fight in combat against those who are the oppressors, aggressors and terrorists and those who are assaulting and killing the innocent men, women and children. But it gives out clear orders - NOT TO Fight against those who are not fighting against you...

It is our duty and privilege to present the truth and proof about Islam and what it represents. We desire to clear up misconceptions and misunderstandings about Islam to help others see the true message that came with all of the prophets from Adam, Abraham, Moses, Jesus and Muhammad, peace be upon them all."

"The message is: La ilaha illa Allah (none has the right to be worshipped except Allah)."

"Now let us correct some mistakes in the 'question' itself. There is not such a meaning in the Quran, ordering or even permitting the Muslims to ever attack innocent people whether they are Christians, Jews, or any other faith for that matter.

Combat is only ordered against those who are attacking or killing the innocent Muslims or fighting against the established Muslim state.

The word used most often in Quran, that is so often mistranslated as kill; slay; or slaughter is not jihad, it is Qital and if you look to the Arabic, you will quickly understand this word in today's usage would clearly be combat.

As Muslims we are commanded to stand up for righteousness and strive to prevent oppression, aggression and tyranny. This is the proper usage and understanding for this term, as you will discover while passing through the Tafsir(commentary of the Qur'an) and explanations by top scholars today.

Scholars of Quran tell us the verses dealing with this topic are specific and not intended to imply a general meaning for just anyone to decide to go around combating non-Muslims. The early Muslims had been driven out of their homes and turned out into the desert to starve. After finally, relocating in Medina, verses came in Quran instructing them to make hajj (pilgrimage) back to Makkah. Finding their way blocked and after several years of making agreements and treaties that the others continually broke, the Muslims were at last, told they could now fight in combat against the tyrants who had so horribly mistreated and abused them in the past. However, this would only be acceptable to Allah if they remained within very specific limitations. The word "Qital" in Arabic in this instance refers to "combat" rather than what some have used "kill" because the word "kill" is far too general, while the word "combat" appropriately describes what is intended by the usage in this passage. Allah Knows Best.

It should also be noted the usage of the word "Fitnah" in the same verse denotes a horrible condition, not unlike what we find today when there is terrorism and tyranny against the moral and just society at large. It would be easy to properly understand the meaning as, "Engage them in combat, even killing them, until the state of "Fitnah" (terrorism) no longer exists in the society and people are free to worship Allah by their choice."

We can see these verse are not designed to promote terrorism, but rather these are very orders from Above to the Muslims to be the first of those who stand out aggressively against all forms of terrorism and oppression. When Jesus Christ Peace be upon him said in Luke 19:27 that "But those mine enemies, which would not accept that I should reign over them, bring hither, and slay them before me" No Muslim can say something against Jesus Christ Peace be upon bcs sometimes when persuasion fails force must be applied to achieve a better results and all Prophets and Messengers used some strong warnings to try and preach their message across.


To be concluded in shaa Allah.


http://www.jihadwatch.org/islam-101


islam for dummies
Family / Re: Mummies In The House Please HELP!! by desirel: 11:44am On Jan 16, 2015
a very good bra (to give you breast good support) and ice will help alot.
Family / Re: How Can I Help My 3year Old To Identify Letters And Numbers by desirel: 10:07am On Nov 06, 2014
there are many free resources on internet and some nice cartoons on youtube that will help your child. i used them since my daughter was 10 months and by 18 months, she was very good in recognized it. now she 4 y/o and she can write small sentence if you spell for her and she is trying to read too. just have patience and make this learning activity to be fun. children learn by repetition and association. good luck!
Family / Re: Please Help Me,am Confused, Depressed.i Dnt Have Anyone To Talk To by desirel: 9:57am On Nov 06, 2014
Just move out from that house. Take your children and go to your parents or rent another house. Enough is enough.
Family / Re: my husband hate me but i still love him. i am depressed pls advie by desirel: 5:53am On Oct 30, 2014
i'm not for divorce, but in this case a separation is needed. do you have an income? if yes, then go and speak with authorities and they will help you to move away with your life and take good care of your child. you are living in spain now and there are many resources for women that are abused. just leave him, maybe this will be his wake up call and he will understand that you have value. i'm so fed up with this nigerians men that think they own a wife; you are not his property.
just try to find out what resources are in your community for mother and child and move away. or if you don't want to bring the authorities in your story, then find another place and move. you have to think first about your child: do you want her/him to grow in a abusing environment?
....and honestly.......i don't understand how can you still love him........but that is not for me to judge. all i can say is that i saw your story many times here in europe and it never end good.
Religion / Bible-college-churches-shut-boko-haram-slaughterfest-rages-300-christians-killed by desirel: 9:12am On Sep 08, 2014
Religion / About Tithing by desirel: 6:37am On Aug 29, 2014
see the story of calvary from messianic perspective and why you don't have to tithe anymore.

http://messiahsmandate.org/yeshua-rose-from-the-dead-on-a-jewish-holiday-and-no-one-is-talking-about-it/#sthash.9jvblWgZ.dpbs
Religion / Re: Bishop David Oyedepo Barred From Entering The UK by desirel: 8:19am On Aug 16, 2014
if the news is true, i can only welcome it; finally somebody is taking action against the deceiver.

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Romance / Re: I Love My Eastern European Wife. She Is A True Gift From God. by desirel: 9:22am On Aug 13, 2014
this coming from a lady! i'm a woman too and till now i didn't insulted anyone. about people like you the poster and i we talked about. we didn't generalize about all the black ladies, only we said that the majority have issues about bi-racial relationships and the fact that if you are in one, they consider you a second class human being. i think you are part of the majority of the ladies, because without following our facts and statements you already judged and insulted us.

khiaa:


Listen Troll, no one cares about or feels insulted about your marriage, it's your racist insults about black women that pisses us off and that was your intention so stop playing innocent we see through you devils.


NL LETS STOP FEEDING THE TROLLS SO THIS RACIST THREAD CAN DIE!!
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Hate Mixed-race/asian Women Who Marry Nigerian Men? by desirel: 4:22am On Aug 13, 2014
this post will bring no answer to you. sorry, but here you will find the same blocked mentality and attitude that made you in first place to get angry. is the same positive discrimination you find all over the world. so don't mind them. make your marriage work and let the narrow minded to be narrow.
Family / Re: Why Do Women Complain When They Re The Ones Sponsoring Their Home by desirel: 4:07am On Aug 13, 2014
because he has to be the provider of the house, not her.......but again in this financial time this should not be a issue. at least someone provide the food and the shelter.

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