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lovewinner:
Sometimes is good to marry the classic we claim to love someday but she might bring us pains if they is no proper understanding.The mistake had been done.you need the way out.What you admired in other ladies do it for your wife.You can train her,invest in her as well as bring the beauty in her because she is now your wife and it doesn't change even if you live the county. sit her down and look into the good things you can put together to make her meet your taste.Take her out for shopping,playing.Get her classic movies and tell her you appreciate if she look like this for you.Get her cream,cloths and nice shoes.Dress her hair and change her taste. Tell her you love to love her.she will improve and before you notice she will give you a nice look.

You gerrit man! I have always have the believe that no woman is ugly. If you didn't agree with me you're indirectly saying that God is imperfect or not accurate. There's always a genus in any woman.She could be a rough diamond and needed to be refined. Like love winner has said begin to appreciate her and develop serious love towards her,you may later discover great talents in her.if you succeeded in jettisoned her and marry another woman,you may regret it in life.Don't call Gods image ugly,smelling and dirty,you might be offending God.

Exceed15:
The relationship better deceased and the girl was not just business. They were lovers. The other became bittered, jealous and killed him out of rage.

Exactly. You gerrit! Since the girl has psychiatric issue, why dealing with her as if she is a normal person.?This is always the end result. Moral of the story, keep away from psychiatric person,no matter how beautiful.

Only one life! Man that is born of woman is of few days and full of troubles. That's why efforts must be made to renew your consecration daily and be in good relationship with your maker.Death can come at any time.

Lanruze:
RIP Arakunrin Akeredolu.

This is a lesson that power is transient.

The eldest son and his Mother i.e Mrs. Akeredolu would have been consoled by many and also empathetically, however the greed to stick onto power and also victimizing the Deputy Governor has made them look more like the Villian.

To say the least, His wife and son should have transmitted power when he first went to Germany.

He shouldn't have come back until he felt better or just resigned honourably due to failing health.

His wife didn't do well at all. Now Ayedatiwa looks like a Victor over them. His inauguration today shows clearly that the people were against Akeredolu's insistence not to transmit power to him.

Your arguments are prima,but then,it's not Africans to give up like that.There are two sides to a coin.what of if he survive it eventually. Nonetheless, it takes a regenerated souls to accept suasion in life!

Nmezor:
Is his wife an Igbo woman? May his soul rest on...He is out of pains.

Yes now.The wife has no issue with me anyone could do that. 'IPO ola dun baa mi!'

Onyiiobi7735:
Oga, you don't need any help from Nairalanders on this.You have the free will and the choice of succumbing to the seductress or resisting and fleeing.
Don't listen to the advice of depraved sexual perverts on this forum, advising you to give in.
If you do, you will pay dearly for it, and remember no sin ever goes unpunished,as long as the earth still exists.Your sin will find you out.
Some foolish men have been murdered for sleeping with another man's wife.
Some have been set up and imprisoned for rape,on that same reason.
Many still have died in unforseen and strange circumstances.
Many later marry their own wives and have them sleeping with other men.
In this life, you reap what you sow.
Proverbs 6:29 says" So is he who goes in to his neighbour's wife; none who touches her will go unpunished.
If you are sensible, avoid other men's wives, for they are a deadly trap for the foolish and undiscerning.
Also Pro.7:26-27 says" For many a victim has she laid low;yea ,all her slain are a mighty host.
Her house is the way to Sheol, going down to the chambers of death.
If you are wise and sensible, you won't do anything that would unfailingly boomerang on you sooner or later.
Good luck.

Lobatan! What further words.A word is sufficient for the wise.A foolish man easily fall prew of whorish woman.

Indispensable85:
See them......
What's the import of this visit now?

Seriously my brother, lam neither PDP nor APC, l cannot figure out the import of this visitation. Is tinubu now a Christian celebrating Christmas? Could it be that he is celebrating MONEY festival?Just thinking about this now ooo

NOETHNICITY:
The uk is grossly exaggerated

I wonder oooo.if there's any country l hate to stay its UK. It's overrated as if its heaven.Their racism would not be demonstrated openly like Germans but in a stylish way.In fact,they are worst than German and Belgian put together. Shior.

Hmmm,it has been appointed unto man to die,after this the judgement. Where do you want to spend eternity. Others reading this story will still die of alcohol, why not repent now so that iniquities and foolishness will not be your ruins.

Princewill1:
This is a rebuttal of this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7936687/11-reasons-why-must-japa#:~:text=11.,life%20expectancy%20is%20very%20high.

DISCLAIMER:
There is a notion that once you present an anti-japa argument, you're automatically an agent working for the govt. I want to state here that I have never supported this Apc govt since their coming to power in 2015. My contrary opinion on japa stems from my detest of youths mass-migration for economic reasons. I see it as an act of cowardice and stupidity.

This is not just for Nigerians japaing alone. I'm also disgusted whenever I see pictures of thousands of able bodied Latino youths who are at the US-Mexico border begging to be allowed entry into the US. These youths coming to together to mass-migrate can also link-up to take back their country via any possible means. Because if their home countries were better, they won't be moving out enmass. One of the reasons why the citizens of the country you're japaing to often discriminate against you is because you have proven to be a weakling seeking an easy excape or an inferior who are incapable of fixing their problems.
The only mass-migration i support is if it's due to serious natural disaster or large scale political persecution like that of Israel-Palestinian conflict. Below are the 11 reasons why you shouldn't Japa from Nigeria.

1.) It's More Easier To Be A Dollar Millionaire/Billionaire In Nigeria:

There are millions of Nigerians in the diaspora who are supposedly living in the first world economy and are working in various fields of human endeavor. But it may interest you to know that non have ever made it into Forbes billionaires list. But those at home keep making the list back to back.
This is important to point out because wealth building is a crucial topic to every real man and majority of Nigerian men moving are doing so mainly due to financial reasons.
Truth is, Nigeria is the largest market in Africa and a developing economy. There are plenty of wealth to be created in a "developing economy" than in a "develop economy", that's why as you are trooping out, Chinese, Lebanese and Indians are trooping in. Nigerians are raising $20k-30k in this economy to Japa while average Americans can't boast of $10k in their bank accounts, they live check to check.

2.) African Communal Living:

Nigeria offers the African social support system that you won't find in the Western countries. You fit run into financial emergency, your family will gather to raise funds for you, if you child misbehaves outside elders go assist you to discipline the child before you return home, if your house is on fire the whole neighborhood will join hands in puting out the fire, if you're cooking late night and ran out of maggi, if you knock on your neighbor door, him go deliver you, if your co-tenant never see you for 2 to 3 days, he go knock for your door to check up on you. All these don't happen in your Japa destination. In the West, you fit dey sick and later kpai inside your room and stay there for over a month nobody go know until your body begins to the smell.

3.) There Is More Insecurity Abroad:

You are 7times more likely to be shot in any city in America than in Lagos. Almost every Western country has violent "Far-Right Groups" who are frustrated and bitter with their Govts for allowing influx of migrants to erode their society and culture. These groups are like a time bomb waiting to go off because they can easily turn violent by attacking migrants especially black people. The big truth is, insecurity especially in southern Nigeria is over-reported and amplified on social media. There are violent crimes in every country. The crime news you read on social media especially in South of the country is commiserate with our population. No one can pull out any data anywhere to show that crime rate in the South has reached an epidemic proportions as believed on social media. In fact if you ban social media for 1year in Nigeria and conduct an opinion poll on insecurity. You will be surprised that Nigerians will tell you that insecurity has reduced. Just recently, a govt minister was robbed on the highway in South Africa. If that were to happens in Nigeria, Japa will be trending in Nigeria for more than a week. Most Nigerians haven't seen a bokoharam militant before but bokoharam will attack a village in Borno State close to the border with Chad, someone living in Lekki will read the news online and tweet that he wants to Japa due to insecurity.

4.) Easy Access To Natural Foods:

Nigeria has abundant healthy cheap natural foods and it's even taken for granted here. The people in the abroad you wants to go are jealous of your menu. Unhealthy and disease-causing canned and processed foods are what you will end up to when you finally japa because you will pay through your nose to place your hands on any organic food there.

5.) Favourable Weather Condition Throughout The Year:

Nigeria has one of the best climate conditions you can find. We have no extreme weather here. No severe temperature, Tornado or Harricane. Weather conditions in your Japa destination can cause sudden emergency situations. It can sometimes cause a whole city to be evacuated.

6.) No Racism:

Truth remains that after you Japa, you and your family will at one point experience both subtle and harsh discrimination based on your skin color or accent and you will never integrate into the Western society not even in a million years. Black Americans that japaed 400yrs ahead of you are yet to be fully integrated and accepted, I don't know who is motivating you that you will be accepted fully or that your own case will be different.

7.) Nigeria Better On Raising Cultured Kids:

If as a Nigerian, you are cautious of how your kids will be raised, you better stay back home, because in the West, your kids doesn't belong to you. They belongs to the government and authorities there are free to teach and instill any idealogy they deem necessary. So don't be shocked if your 7yrs old son are taught how to switch gender or pronoun at school and given free lgtv literature with erotic images.

8.) Nigeria Better On Entertainment And Fun Activities:

You can fall into depression abroad due to loneliness and stress from doing multiple jobs but not in Nigeria. With little money in Nigeria, you can go partying and balling till dawn day in day out. You fit die onto enjoyment.

9.) No Weird Or Crazy New Culture:

Abroad will humble a deeply religious person who is against homosexuality to work as a caregiver for gay couples. You will be forced to embrace trans and gay people, feminism and made to reject polygamy. I doubt if men have rights in the West. You risk losing everything to a woman, this don't only apply to your wife. Even your long-term girlfriend who you are cohabiting with, can be given a share of assets after a breakup by the court. If a random woman accuses you of rape, the system will already treat you as a convict. I recently observed that premier league captain band is now decorated with pride colors (lgtv flag) to support the community. And you know what awaits any player that openly criticizes it or refuses to wear the band. He risk getting cancelled and he should kiss his footballing career a goodbye. They will use his punishment as deterrent to others. All these new crazy woke policies and behaviors are not practiced in Nigeria.

10.) Cost Of Living Is Cheaper:

Thousands of Americans and EU citizens are retiring like kings in South East Asia and South America ie Thailand, Indonesia, Mexico, Chile etc. You can look it up. Not that they don't love their home countries but because they are excaping the high cost of living in the West. Accommodation, transportation, education, local foods etc are still cheaper in Nigeria. The amount you will paid on a match-box apartment in London or New York can fetch you a year rent of 2bedrooms flat in a good location in any major Nigerian city.

11.) No Rat Race Or Extreme Taxation In Nigeria:

You will labour abroad for a month and the rigged system will use "high taxation, high cost of living and the scam credit system" to return everything back to the system in order for you to repeat the circle again. In a bid not to go homeless on the cold streets, and also to put food on your table, you have no other option than to keep repeating the circle until the time you will finish your term of slavery due to old age, then your children will start where you stopped and the circle continues.
Truth is, the entire world is controlled by the globalists in the West, the further away you're from the West and it's entanglements the freer you will become. If the 1% elite in the West removes the rigging in the system you will be able to secure enough bags and retire early. But they stands to lose if people starts excaping the system early, they need your manpower for longer period of time to maintain their industries and establishments. This explains why the more income you earn there, the more rediculous taxes you pays because the system is continously gauging you and the tax system (one of it's tools of control) is strictly and heavily guided, defaulters risks jail term. The system was programmed in a way that you will never get enough in order not for you to start thinking of excaping the slave camp early until you finish your term of slavery.
This is one of reasons why rich and exposed Nigerians don't fancy living abroad. Even most African ex-footballers returns home immediately after the end of their career in Europe. An average Nigerian coming from lack, hunger and extreme poverty and who is daydreaming of Japa won't be able to see this anomaly. Living in Nigeria will provide you the opportunity to excape Matrix.

Yeah,you're great, you cannot tell me you have not stayed with these white imperialist by saying all these. It takes an individual who0 had lived with them to 'SEE FINISH'. None of your arguments can be relegated or overlooked. I salute you my brother. When you tell them these, they see you as enemy of progress.We need more of you to make this country better and great. I have personally experienced them all. God bless marvelously.

Sweetvie:
I love Christmas decorations
They're really beautiful

Thanks so much for this,but then,its not enough to love it, but to surrender your life to Christ, the celebrant and accept His offers to humanity.

You didn't speak my mind as omo atata Yoruba while greetings people celebrating Christmas. This is how greet "E Ku odun keresimesi yi o.Odun olowo,odun olomo,edumare a je ka se opoo re laye. Amin."

Mumben:
Merry Christmas everyone. My son's birthday is today, fellow nairalanders say a word of prayer for him.

May God protect and guide him continually. May he lives to fulfill his days on earth. The good news that Christ bring will be yours and your family in Jesus name.Amen.

TemplarLandry:
Great move!

Gbajuę geng won't like this.

I dedicate “Final Answer” by BNXN feat. Popcaan to them.
Great jam!

But where are the seven points agenda?

Hmmmm,do we do evils that good may come.Everyone will give account of themselves on the day of judgement. And whatever we sow that's what we reap. Therefore for all readers,take this admonition "sow to yourself in righteousness, reap in Mercy, its time to seek the lord".

Johnson225:
Achievement? Nahh, its been more of a nightmare ...
0'23 has been a terrible year thus far...
This year has indeed been humbling...

Lost a couple of millions in February this year to wrong investment.

Lost some great connections and friends same year(possibly cos Nigga ain't buoyant anymore, so everyone flee)

Currently losing my sanity .

I hope I get back on my feet, I hope the universe smile on me again.

Ooh! The lord will revisits you my brother take it easy. Find a resting place in God who is able to mend broken things.

UHLmoving:
Do yoruba travel?

Never,Yoruba don't travel.They are city people. Wetin dey wan do for village. Baba ALAYE ke?

Masterclass32:
Why not next yr?

I begi this man no dey tired? How many of his fake prophecies dey come to past? He never see anything good for Nigeria. Go see down jeje joor.Using calculus to predict. Shior!

How are you sure the genotype of her sister will match your own.? Men with inordinate affection! Haba? These new generation can put their preek inside a broken wall if care is not taking.

marlow1962:
Lol, you're the biggest fool if you're really waiting for this scam fg transfer.

My daughter who is a non partisan politician received her own unbelievable last month. Its real,but how many vulnerable people will collect this money? Moreover, what can #25000 buy in the market when a bag of rice is 55k

Jh0wsef:
Village people at work.

Abi!what further witnesses do we need?
An enemies have done this. A very serious lessons for everyone.

The motive behind it is what matters. Why would you want to do that?

Righteousness2:
What a Awesome! Beautiful! Lovely! Exquisite and Palatial wonderpiece.

Listen folks!
While it is good and sweet to Have the Good things of this life, We Must Have an understanding that Everything we see and acquire and have in this world are Vanities and Have No Eternal Value to us.

Never let the vanities of this world Derail, Confuse or Hinder you from the NEEDFUL.
Nobody is taking a pin out of here.
Na.ked we came here and Na.ked we leave.

Have whatever you wish to have here on Earth but Ensure you Have a Genuie relationship with JESUS CHRIST. This is the GREATEST and Most Important for All of Humanity. Never Ever Joke with this.

Eternity is real! Heaven and Hell are Real.

Having the vanities of Life without a Genuie relationship with JESUS CHRIST is an act of gathering Firewood to burn you in Hell.

Tell them my brother. God has no respect of persons.what a man sow that is what he/she will reap.While we are on this side of eternity we must always remember we will one day give account of ourselves to our maker.The question is where are we going to spend eternity? In hell or heaven? Remember,eternity is the lifespan of never dying God.Having food and raiments let us therefore be contented with what we have. A mans life consists not in the abundant of what he/she possesses.

Spirit04:
People attack and curse Israel every single minute of the day. That man probably had a bad heart or some other health condition

Fake theory.

Omoawoke2:


This is funny

Nigerian pastors don find new story to chop the head of the gullible . Gullible go pay, pastor must chop

You think so? Hmmm,you're among men who never learned in history. Better keep quietly. God of Israel is still alive KAMPE.

cassyrooy:
So Chiamaka Samuel is her name now?

Tomorrow if she votes or contest for elections in Oyo State, they'll reject her not knowing she's their blood.

Igbo has gain another intelligent and important daughter.

We'll keep endearing them and loving them.

Igbo is great and super,do not listen to those area boys and agberos among Yorubas,in ever community, there's always a black sheep even among other tribes. Iam a pure and undiluted yorubaman but,my best friend still remained IBO's both their men and women.Don't be carried away by roadside agberos.Men of angelic lifestyles also reside in Yoruba land.

2mercy:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/18-pupils-hospitalised-after-eating-osun-free-meal-govt-begins-probe/%3famp

Awoof dey run belle biko.

Pierohandsome:
You will rather die than commit sin? Funny! So by killing yourself what do you think you did, evangelism? Ode

Oh,my brother, these people are terribly confused. Tell them to receive Christ and become a joint heir with Him,they would say it's abomination. They will get to the pit of hell before the message would be made clear. what a wasted soul!

Tjra:
Anambra again?

Na dem dem.As soon as l read the headlines,l know it must be from my people in the east.Hmmm,they no dey carry last in this matter.

Pootle:
jus remembered today is friday

We dey wait for you here. You go hear wenn.

reddingtonblack:
It is a guarantee as a matter of fact, the scenerio you gave is very rare and the tendencies of a woman having delaying after miscarriage is low as well.

If you meant not 100% maybe you have a point, but impregnating your bride before marriage is a guarantee with 90% score.

Can a man play God? If you think na your alarm clock by your beside na him wake you up every day, you goof. God's standard for man remained the same over the ages,its unfortunately that man often think they they are clever.The Bible says, He that create ears,can He not hear? Every secret of man is an open scandal in the court of heaven.Men and brethren flee fornication.

SSFeedsNigeria:
This old fool again. The president is Yoruba. The chief of army staff is Yoruba. Even the GOC of Kaduna 1st division is Yoruba. Yet the bastard is here saying rubbish!

Fools, continue deceiving yourselves, by the time Tinubu is done with you all, most of you won't be here anymore.

See how you people incited feud between tribes. Tinubu was the one responsible for the bombing and the killings. What has Yorubas got to do with this.After all,sheikh mentioned Oyo and ipob families. I think you people always looking for trouble and confusion to create traffic on naira land.