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Romance / Re: Bloggers Needed For A Fast Collaboration Deal by deturla: 10:10am On May 07, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: What now?? |
Romance / Bloggers Needed For A Fast Collaboration Deal by deturla: 9:42am On May 07, 2018 |
I have always come to Nairaland to request for serious bloggers who are READY to jump on fast collaboration deals with brands, but unfortunately, I have always met the ones that are not serious! I have another collaboration up again and this time I need a new set of LIFESTYLE bloggers for a short collaboration. Content creation of 600 words basically. ENTERTAINMENT blogs who are creative with their contents and are ORIGINAL can also drop their BLOGS and WHATSAPP numbers. Please treat as highly urgent and important. cc: mynd44, ednut1, daddykross, biafranbushboy, vizkiz, webincomeplus, queenstechie |
Romance / Re: My fiancée is cheating again by deturla: 11:23am On May 06, 2018 |
ednut1: Werey |
Webmasters / Re: How to start a side hustle, become jobless and gain financial freedom (easy way) by deturla: 10:12am On May 06, 2018 |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Nairaland Get-together Party 4.0 by deturla: 10:01pm On May 02, 2018 |
thePhotoBlogger signing IN! We will be there LIVE! cc: ednut1, lalasticlala, vizkiz, DaddyKross, BiafranBushBoy, Lawlahdey, NLevents, EatPussy, Confidence. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Man Takes His Sex Doll On A Date To The Ikeja Mall In Lagos - Pictures by deturla: 10:27pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
This guy deserves some accolades. Ednut1, come see. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Youths Are Not Lazy, These Pictures Will Show You Why!- ThePhotoBlogger by deturla: 4:11pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Nigerian Youths Are Not Lazy, These Pictures Will Show You Why!- ThePhotoBlogger by deturla: 3:58pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
ednut1: Hmmmn... 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Youths Are Not Lazy, These Pictures Will Show You Why!- ThePhotoBlogger by deturla: 3:54pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
ednut1: See you. You were part of the Nigerians that voted him in. You see your life? 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Politics / Nigerian Youths Are Not Lazy, These Pictures Will Show You Why!- ThePhotoBlogger by deturla: 3:31pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Nigerian youths are lazy - I learned President of Nigeria, Mohammadu Buhari, while providing answers to a question at the Commonwealth Business Forum in London on Wednesday, had described 'a lot of' Nigerian youths as illiterates who are lazy and want freebies based on the fact that the Country nation is an oil producing one. KUKU KILL ME To say I was shocked was an understatement. Honestly! You know why? I have been on the road for the last one month detailing the daily hustle of Nigerians and how they work so hard to survive in a very terrible Nigerian economy. Yet the President we voted in with our PVCs had the effrontery to say 'WE ARE LAZY'? Let me tell you the basic truth. Whether you are working or not. Infact whether you are busy or not, you can never survive in this country if you are LAZY. So where is the statement from the President coming from? Nigerians are the most hardworking people ever. We hustle every single day to light our houses, push water into our compounds, pay school fees, put food in our mouths. What does the government do to provide basic infrastructural facilities? Nothing! So, who is lazy? The Nigerian Youths or our Political class? *scoffs* In Lagos where I live, people find it so hard to even sleep, because of the need to work to make ends meet. People wake up as early as 3AM and work so hard to pull all the ends together. A lot of workaholics in Lagos are youths. From the white to the blue collar, everyone struggles day in day out, week in week out, yet we are lazy? A country where if you are not careful, your destiny will be truncated because of the lack of favourable government policies to aid business development. Yet they say Nigerian Youths are lazy? See whether the President said 'a lot of Nigerian Youths' or not. The point is that he should never have said that, when he knows his last three years in office has seen more damage done to the Nigerian business environment, so why say Nigerians are lazy? Enough of the rants though. These pictures will tell my 'NigerianYouthsAreLazy' Story: Location: CMS, Lagos Island. He had not sold a dime since morning and I had no choice than to buy Doughnut from him. Yet he says Nigerian Youths Are Lazy. Right? Location: Broad Street, Lagos Island. Keeping up with what is happening in the Country means Nigerian Youths are lazy. Right? Location: CMS, Lagos. Hustling day in day out to make ends meet, even if it means selling under the bridge makes Nigerian Youths Lazy, right? Iwo Road: Ibadan. Waking up as early as 5:30am to cater for travelers heading out of Oyo State means Nigerian Youths Are Lazy. Right? The hustle of her younger years led to her aging early, yet they say Nigerian Youths are lazy. Right? Idi Iroko Busstop, Maryland Lagos. He had no financial willpower to rent a shop, yet instead of sitting at home to wait for an Oil Bloc he decided to hustle hard, yet Nigerian Youths Are Lazy right? Masha, Surulere, Lagos. He is educated, yet there is no job anywhere. Better sit at home than work? Yet Nigerian Youths are Lazy. Right? We find dignity in our labour. No matter what it is, we work diligently to survive. Yet Nigerian Youths Are Lazy. Right? Aguda Surulere, Lagos - She knows if she does not sell her KoKo, she will not EAT. Yet Nigerian Youths are lazy. Right? Aguda, Lagos. An Okada man trying to down his bowl of pap while he goes about his daily work. Yet they say Nigerian youths are lazy. Right? Apapa-Oshodi Expressway, Lagos - Even the youthful Agbero works so hard to ensure he takes home money. Yet they say Nigerian youths are lazy. Right? Bolade, Oshodi, Lagos - That awkward moment President Buhari said Nigerian youths are lazy and I'm like......&%$$@^@$@ http://deedeesblog.com/nigerian-youths-are-lazy-pictures/ Images are ©thePhotoBlogger 22 Likes 8 Shares |
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Mobile Photographers: Show Off Your Stuffs by deturla: 7:44pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
Hi Guys. How have you been? So I've been trying to make some monochrome images and see what I've been able to come up with. 2 Likes
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Career / Re: Please How Do I Know That My Company Remmited The Tax Deducted From My Salary To by deturla: 9:09am On Apr 07, 2018 |
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Romance / Are Customers Always Right? by deturla: 6:47pm On Apr 04, 2018 |
See this conversation that transpired between a lady who apparently sells local herbs on Facebook and one of her customers. What do you think?
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Politics / Re: President Buhari Launches Eko Atlantic, Lagos (Photos) by deturla: 6:35pm On Mar 30, 2018 |
ednut1: Oga.... Evidence or Ahdon'tBelieveIt. |
Career / Re: 5 Reasons It Is Better To Work In Lagos Than Abuja by deturla: 12:25pm On Mar 22, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: I see you BushBush |
Romance / Re: Is A 24-Year-Old Lady Too Young To Get Married? by deturla: 4:40pm On Mar 21, 2018 |
DaddyKross: Why say so? |
Romance / Re: Is A 24-Year-Old Lady Too Young To Get Married? by deturla: 10:54am On Mar 21, 2018 |
ImaIma1: This is insightful. Thanks a lot. |
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Nairaland Weekly Photo Challenge by deturla: 4:46am On Mar 21, 2018 |
SmooshCHN: Brother Mi. How have you been? How's life over there. What happened with your IG, been looking for you everywhere. I thought you said you would be in Naija this year. Any plans yet? Just checking up. Cheers. |
Romance / Is A 24-Year-Old Lady Too Young To Get Married? by deturla: 4:30am On Mar 21, 2018 |
I need to ask this question though. Is a 24-year-old lady too young to get married? From personal experience, the moment you get to a certain age or reach certain societal status, people expect you to be married. I’m sure you agree to this. Just this year alone, I have had more than 20 friends ask me when I was going to get married. I even had Facebook friends who insisted on saying ‘Bye’ to me because of the fact that I am still unmarried. Anyway…’Boy Bye’ to that. This made me wonder how difficult it is for a lady to deal with the pressure of being married say at 24. To me though, I think if a lady is mature enough to deal with the pressure of marriage at that age, filled with the wisdom to become ‘A WIFE and A MOTHER’ then why not get married at 24. This content went on Whatsapp and trust me, certain friends had differing thoughts and opinions. It is highly engaging. Read on: Grace: Marry, when you are ready. Not following the stereotype laid down principle of people. Really, a lady or guy needs to be really ready. Marriage is no child’s play. As a 24 year old, she may be ripe physically, but might not be emotionally ripe for the new stage. Relationship alone sef can make you go stupid at times, not to talk of marriage. To be emotionally ready depends on how she has been able to handle challenges on her own without getting out of proportion. Kola: Lol. 24 is young na. She has all the time in the world. She can marry if she’s ready but 24 is not the You-are-supposed-to-be-married age for ladies. Only when she’s crosses 27, en route 30 can eyebrows be raised. I still don’t see reason why people love to rush into marriage. I mean marriage is forever and a day more. Forever is scary, let alone the day after forever. Elizabeth: 24 is young bro! She hasn’t gotten around to being a single lady! That sh*t will mess up her mentality. Let me tell you a little Something I learnt from experience. Most ladies that get married early are mostly shielded by their parents. Nigerian parents sometimes have a set stage for you in life. An MSc in the bag, a good job, next thing bring husband, bring husband. She gets married, realizes she’s in real life, if she’s not strong mentally, she begins to slowly crumble. Social media preaches the sexual fairy-tale, she’s probably not been with more than 2 guys, sometimes, husband inclusive. At 30 she’s got all her kids, sees her mates living out what used to be her dream, God forbids the husband condemns her to a life of full housewife. She hears f*ck stories, husband starts to f*ck her less, she becomes vulnerable, tries an amazing d*ck Bam! She 35, unhappy, serious midlife crisis. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying in all cases, but I’m giving a scenario based on experience. It’s because of things like this that most ladies nowadays become pick me ladies. They all over the place, and most times they SETTLE all in the name of wanting to be a MRS. 5 years later, divorce! I actually had this talk with a friend some days ago, he made me understand that married women are the most vulnerable to sexual shenanigans outside the marriage. I know a particular one who wants to leave her husband, they married at 23. When they were dating, he used to f*ck her like crazy, show emotions, be the perfect guy. Marriage changed all that! Man needed to hustle for the family, and he just got drowned in all the pressure. Now they been living together for 3 years now and they only have sex once in 3 months, she’s steady getting all the love and affection out there! Now she gave another interesting twist: Why do you think a lot of women have postpartum depression?? They get married, not even had time to enjoy their love, bam! She gets preggy and a year later there’s another human to look after! It has its psychological toll on the man too!!! He wants a WIFE!!! He’s a big baby himself!! But once there’s a baby, the story changes and he finds solace outside the home!!! What then is the ripe age for marriage? Is 24 too young to get married as a lady? Why the sudden urgency or need for marriage when you are not emotionally ready. These questions are begging for answers. I can’t wait to read your comments. http://deedeesblog.com/is-24-years-old-too-young-to-get-married/ cc: lalasticlala, mynd44, ednut1, daddykross, vizkiz 1 Like 1 Share
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Nairaland / General / Re: 7 Reason Why You Must Be Rich by deturla: 7:28pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
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Nairaland / General / Re: 7 Reason Why You Must Be Rich by deturla: 6:16pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: What do you think about affiliate marketing? |
Career / Re: Top 5 High Paying Side Hustles For Working Class People by deturla: 4:55am On Mar 17, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: @OP, I hope you know these ain't side hustle anymore. People do these jobs full-time and can be said to be full time jobs as well. For instance content writers, web designers and co. These are full time hustles oh. IMO. 1 Like |
Career / Re: Top 5 High Paying Side Hustles For Working Class People by deturla: 4:53am On Mar 17, 2018 |
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Romance / Re: Tech Blogger Wizy And A Nairalander About To Wed (photos) by deturla: 10:20am On Mar 13, 2018 |
Romance / Re: Twitter User Explains Reason Why Most Nigerian Women Don’t Orgasm by deturla: 9:51am On Mar 13, 2018 |
DonroxyII: Haha.. |
Romance / Re: Emotional And Deep: Shola Allyson Writes A Provoking Letter To All Young Ladies by deturla: 9:50am On Mar 13, 2018 |
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Romance / Emotional And Deep: Shola Allyson Writes A Provoking Letter To All Young Ladies by deturla: 8:36am On Mar 13, 2018 |
Dear Young Lady, I know you see yourself to be very strong and you can face anything in life because you have come through so much and you’re still standing. You believe you are prepared for anything and nothing can intimidate you in life anymore. It had been rough and really bad but you scaled through. Your life is taking shape now and you have great dreams of a blissful life with your boyfriend. [b]He is a good guy. He fits perfectly into the picture of the kind of man you want, that could make you happy. You have prayed and you have peace about him. But wait!!! Are you not talking him or prodding him into settling down with you? Because of your “I-can-face-ANYTHING” way that was formed out of suffering and deprivation, you can’t even stop to DOUBLE-CHECK on whether your boyfriend can meet your needs! You don’t even know your own needs, because they’ve been insulated by your wanting to survive anyway. Yes, NO ONE can completely meet your needs, but, I tell you, it’ll do a lot of good if you would check basic values and character of your boyfriend before “pushing” him into marrying you! When you “settle down”, having put in all your energy and resources into it, could be when your soul would relax and the little girl in you would wake up and gradually start demanding for the father, protector, provider and true friend in that guy! And these are your needs! But you didn’t pay attention, and the poor guy didn’t know he had to meet those needs, so he didn’t see any need to work hard on himself to meet your needs! It would drain you. It could make you bitter. You’ll feel used. You’ll be angry. It’ll cause fights. The strength you think you had would be stretched. You’ll discover you’d only been living in denial of your needs because you didn’t want to be hurt. You’ll be unhappy. You’ll blame yourself. Be woke to who you really are, girl. Don’t talk him into settling down with you. A man that is ready to be a Husband and Father is the one that would be. You can’t do it all. You’ll be angry and bitter. Don’t push him into marrying you. DON’T!!! Know yourself first and know your NEEDS before you cling! Pay attention to character first. You see, when a guy is not ready, kò ready náà nìyen, nothing you can do about it. It’s not about his age. But you, because you grew up putting things in place and making things happen for yourself, without any particular person or family helping you, would make you believe you can do anything and could face whatever. Behold, girl, it doesn’t work that way! Marriage works when both people WORK at it. One party cannot do it alone. You’ll soon realise you have needs too and you would demand, one way or the other. And it’ll cause quarrels. You’ll respond based on your personalities, both of you. Marriage is sweet, I can say that. When both people are willing to give their all and put in the work, believe me, marriage is not overrated. When you have someone you can walk life with as a true friend, with whom you’re sure you could find a way when the tide is high, believe, it’s the best. You cannot go in with this mindset of “I-can-face-ANYTHING” because this life surprises and shocks us with the “anything” it brings! Nobody knows what tomorrow may bring. We just have faith that whatever, GOD Is faithful and we’ll be helped through! Pay attention to character first! Yes, he’s good. But you need to realise that some challenges come in life where being good is not enough! Being able to work and walk through, still being true to each other, carrying each other, looking out for the other’s wellness, standing for one another WHATEVER, not cowering out in the face of ISSUES which are INEVITABLE, all these and more, would be what matter. Don’t push him into marriage! Know yourself first and know what your needs are. I tell you, it’s good to be taken care of. You can only get this with a READY man, who by himself is READY and has done self-help about how to meet your needs, teachable, willing to get better and grow. It’s very enjoyable, whatever comes! You’ll then experience what a good life is. Growing with a man who is a father, husband, protector, giver, true friend. Both of you can then work on your imperfections, FACE ANYTHING and overcome! Don’t push him in! Know yourself and your own needs. Pay attention to CHARACTER first! http://deedeesblog.com/sola-alllyson-pens-an-emotional-letter-to-all-young-ladies/ cc: lalsticlala, mynd44, fynestboi 2 Likes 1 Share
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Webmasters / Re: I want to do a Sponsored Post on your Blog by deturla: 2:27pm On Mar 11, 2018 |
macphilip: N1,500? LOL! |
Romance / Re: Twitter User Explains Reason Why Most Nigerian Women Don’t Orgasm by deturla: 7:00pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
DaddyKross: LOL..Bad guy |
Webmasters / Re: Are Nigerian Bloggers Expected To Pay Tax? by deturla: 5:16pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
Emeka71: You think so? |
Romance / Re: Twitter User Explains Reason Why Most Nigerian Women Don’t Orgasm by deturla: 3:44pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
donstan18: This guy is a crazy guy..wallahi!! DaddyKross see your friend here. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Twitter User Explains Reason Why Most Nigerian Women Don’t Orgasm by deturla: 3:27pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: Bossman. Howfar? |
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