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EniHolar:
It's very possible.. It's something I've done before sef. But I saw many things I shouldn't have seen...

Just let the sleeping dog lie jejely

Babe help a sister nah . Just want to learn so I can teach odas

shege45:
pm me

shege45:
its simple, u just need to get the other persons phone.

adeniyi4real201:
He knew what you're saying... he's just playing cards on you

richidinho:
You want to learn whatsapp, like seriously?

Yep!!!.... not just whatsapping, cux dat I knew,but hw to hack messages . Can u be of help?

Abfinest007:
very possible but I can't explain bcus if i do many will use it negatively

Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé [/b] he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it.[b] . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

247naijamedia:
Student kicked out of #Uniben restaurant for slapping a staff who berated her for dipping her hand into a pot of stew to taste it and check if the meat was soft.

Watch The Video

https://www.everyvibes.com.ng/2019/04/Student-Slap-Uniben-Staff-For-Dipping-Her-Hand-Into-A-Pot-Of-Stew.html

goldcoinhub:
A Nigerian lady has secured admission into 10 foreign Universities to study for her M.Sc

The lady identified as Franka Anyama Undie, is a Cross River State indigene and a graduate of the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife where she studied Accountancy and graduated with a very strong Second Class Upper.

In her words:



After graduation, she applied to a number of foreign universities and was offered admission in the 10 Universities listed below:


1) Griffith College Dublin: MSc in International Business and Law.
2) University of Essex: MSc Actuarial Science.
3) University of Sussex: Master of Science Information Technology with Business and Management.
4) Cranfield University: MSc Management and Information Systems.
5) University of Dundee: MSc International Oil and Gas Management.
6) University of Manchester: MSc Management and Information Systems: Change and Development.
7) Loughborough University: MSc Information Management and Business Technology.
University of Strathclyde: MSc International Management.
9) University of Nottingham: Master of Science Information Systems and Operations Management.
10) London School of Economics: Masters of Science in Management of Information systems and Digital Innovation.
11) University of Greenwich: MSc Global Oil and Gas Management.

Franka is right now searching for a sponsor that will help her achieve her dream as she intends to study for Masters of Science Information Technology with Business and Management at The University of Sussex.

https://lailasnews.com/very-brilliant-nigerian-lady-poses-with-10-admission-letters-she-got-from-foreign-universities/

NaijaOlosho:
A lady has showered her boyfriend with boiled water in Upatabo community in Ahoada West Local Government Area of Rivers State.

The jealous lady identified as Uluma poured her boyfriend Atago Endurance hot water after she discovered that he is cheating on her with another girl.

Uluma had wanted to have Atago all to her self alone and never wanted to see him around another woman according to Onyeka Simeon who broke the news on social media.

Read what he wrote (Kindly ignore the grammatical errors) and photos below.



>>> https://grovenaija360.com/jealous-lady-pours-her-friend-boiled-water-in-rivers-state-graphic-photos/

Y is Atago smiling sheepishly kwanu , abi he enjoyed d hot water bath

chinambusay:
Toyin Lawani who was called out by a lingerie company earlier today, has fired back at the brand as she further swore to bury all her kids if the white lingerie she modeled for her lingerie line is that of the company's. 

The celebrity stylist who called out the CEO of the lingerie company, Moyo Kasumu, added that she has till the end of today to retract her statement or have the war brought down to her. [s][/s]Toyin Lawani who further shared screenshots of chats in which swore to bury all her kids [s][/s]if the white lingerie she modeled for her lingerie line is that of the company's, wrote;


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/10/may-i-bury-all-my-kids-if-white-lingerie-is-yours-toyin-lawani-fires-back-at-lingerie-company/

SmellySperm:
see me here eeeeeh

YUCK!!! ...... I no seek again

Bojack:
Racism doesn't exist anymore

SmellySperm:
but u naughty Sha,I for like play hide and seek with you,how about that?

SmellySperm:
I sight u hanti

Oma307:
bad girl

Bossjakande:
Being cheated on is an awful feeling, but how you handle it can have a big part in your recovery process. Whether you try to rebuild the relationship or you decide to end things, learn how you can heal and move on.

Decide if you want to re-establish trust. When a partner is unfaithful, it is a serious breach of trust. And it is something that may indicate that this person is not worthy or capable of a healthy relationship. On one hand, good people make bad choices and if they are truly sorry and can make amends, forgiveness can lead to an even better relationship. On the other hand, if you simply cannot trust that person again, the relationship is effectively dead. Some key things to consider:
Is your partner truly sorry?
Did they voluntarily tell you, or did you find out from someone else?
Has this sort of behavior happened before, or has he or she promised to not do it, and it has continued or gotten worse?
Is this part of a larger picture of poor behavior towards you?
Is your partner willing to take steps to mend the relationship (if you decide you want to go that route) such as marital counseling, quitting a job, moving, etc.?
Do you feel you want to trust this person again? There is no right or wrong answer for this. This is entirely up to the person who has been cheated on. It does not matter if the person who has cheated is sorry, made amends, and so on — this can be a deal breaker plain and simple.
Feelings may change with time and further experience with the cheating partner. It can go one way or the other. This is natural.
Well-meaning friends and relatives may want to give simple advice to make a quick, definitive decision. Be aware that you do not have to make a decision right away in most cases. It is your life.
Understand the nature of your partner’s cheating. People cheat for many different reasons and it is not always about sex. Sometimes people cheat because they are seeking an emotional connection, trying to deal with a loss or crisis, or seeking an escape. This is not an excuse or reason for the behavior, however. [1]
Do not assume that your partner’s cheating was all about sex. Find out why they cheated before you move forward. Try telling your partner, "I need to know why you cheated and who it was. Please be honest with me and tell me what happened."
Be aware that they may not really know why the infidelity happened. They may not really have deeply thought about it, or even if they did, they still may not really know why. And there may be reasons not fully understood by the person. This does not excuse it, but realize "I don't know" may be the honest answer. Some common reasons include:
Attraction to a different person.
A desire for attention, excitement, or novelty.
A troubled marriage: poor communication, stress in the marriage, partners growing apart.
If the person's parent was unfaithful (especially the same sex).
The individual comes from culture or subculture that expects and tolerates infidelity.
Mental illness or disorders. People who cheat are not mentally ill, but a mental illness such as bipolar disorder, depression, or even severe attention deficit disorder can all contribute to poor decision making.
Request that your partner cut off all communication with the third party. The third (or even fourth or fifth) party needs to be out of the picture for the relationship to survive. Boundaries were breached, and they need to be re-established in a way that protects the relationship. That means asking your partner to break all ties with the person. This severing may be difficult if the third party is a coworker or someone else that your partner sees on a daily basis. [2]
This may require a change in lifestyle, such as quitting a job, the softball team, or moving to a new town.
If the relationship was of a very close family member (such as a sibling), this can be extremely awkward and difficult. Not only is your romantic relationship damaged, but close family relationships as well.
If your partner is unwilling to cut off contact with the third party, it may be a sign that they are unwilling to stop cheating. In this case, you may not be able to repair the relationship.
If the third party continues to pursue your partner despite being cut off, you and your partner may want to pursue a restraining order to keep this person away from you both.
Communicate with your partner when you are ready. Learning that your partner has had an affair is likely cause you to experience a high level of emotional distress. You may need some time before you can talk to your partner about what happened. It is important to discuss the affair in order to move forward in your relationship, but don’t feel like you have to discuss the affair with your partner right away. Take your time and talk about it when you feel ready. [3]
If your partner pressures you to talk, say something like, “I appreciate that you want to talk, but I am just too hurt right now to talk about what happened. Please show your love for me by giving me space and time.”
It is OK to be very, very angry. You have every right to be hurt, angry, and otherwise furious. Expressing this is healthy, as it is not OK to be cheated on and your partner needs to know how his or her actions affect you. Not being honest and open about this means they do not have to face the reality of what has been done, and you may implode if you try to squelch these natural and normal feelings. If they try to avoid or blame you, this is a sign that they are not truly accepting responsibility. You can say something like, " I want to keep the focus on your behavior."
Set boundaries about relationships outside of your marriage. Affairs often happen when healthy relationship boundaries are not respected. You have every right to make it clear what these are, even if the other person gives excuses or "reasons" for the affair. [4]
For example, your partner should not talk to a work friend about you or your marital issues. You and your partner can work together to compile a list of topics that are acceptable as well as topics that are not acceptable for conversations with friends and coworkers.
Friendships do not involve any sexuality. One does not kiss (except in polite greeting in certain cultures), flirt, or otherwise engage in even mild sexual behavior.
There should be no one-on-one outings with people that risks infidelity. This means no drinks with single (or even married) co-workers, for instance. This may seem harsh, but this can help re-establish trust.
Emotional intimacy belongs in the marriage. This does not mean you cannot have a best friend to confide in, but at some point it can cross the line to what is not appropriate.
Ask your partner to make their whereabouts known to you throughout the day. In order to reestablish trust, your partner will need to understand that they have lost your trust. For this reason, you will need to know where your partner is at all times. This may seem unfair to your partner, but it is necessary if they are committed to regaining your trust. [5]
Take caution not to cross into being demanding or controlling when doing this. It's fine to check with your partner about where they are, but it's not healthy to flood them with texts or calls, nor is it okay to threaten them or the relationship if they don't reply immediately. It's understandable to be suspicious, but your behavior also needs to be appropriate.
Talk about your partner’s cheating, but set limits. You, as the betrayed party, get to decide your limits and what you want to know when.
One idea: schedule two 30 minute sessions each week to talk to your partner about the affair, rather than spreading the questions throughout the week.
Don’t ask your partner to reveal things that will be too hurtful for you to hear. You decide when and if you want certain information. You reserve the right to not know things as well.
Forgive on your own terms. Your partner may be extremely apologetic and desperate for you to say that you forgive them, right then and there. But true forgiveness and healing will likely take time. And there is no timetable on that. The person who cheated must understand that they do not have the right to dictate when the healing happens. It is okay if you need more time to heal before you forgive your partner. To help your partner understand, let them know that you are still too hurt to forgive just yet and that you need more time.[6]
Say something like, “I appreciate your apologies and I want you to keep apologizing, but I am just not ready to forgive you yet.”
It is OK to not forgive. Cheating is a deep wound, and sometimes is fatal to a relationship. This does not necessarily mean you are not a good or nice person or otherwise not loving enough. It is OK to say you have had enough.
Seek help from a counselor. Dealing with a cheating partner on your own is difficult. If it is too hard for you and your partner to work through this process on your own, seek the help of a licensed counselor who specializes in marital issues. A marriage counselor can help you to deal with your emotions and have more constructive conversations.
Keep in mind that marriage counseling will not offer an instant solution. Reestablishing trust in your relationship will take time.
Marriage or couples counseling can also help make ending the relationship smoother. Although counselors tend to try to fix relationships, they can help the individuals recognize when it is not working, and how to move forward in that direction as well.

Amagite:
Actress Tonto Dikeh never misses an opportunity to put her ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill on blast.

A blogger is slamming Churchill for saying Tonto Dikeh pays her to post negative stories about him. Well Tonto wasn't having it.

See her reply saying she offered to pay child support for the daughter he had with his ex-wife Bimbo Coker...

"You and all of them are Mad!!! Why is no one talking to my face lemme be Slapping them?? I married you with my money,Clothed you with my money,fed you with my money,training your child with my money,offered to pay child support for your daughter with my money and you think I will spend Another dime of my money paying blogs to write about you? in your [/b]gorilla looking Frog-like head [b] that’s possible"

See posts from the blogger here; http://www.amagitesblog.com/2019/03/tonto-dikeh-slams-ex-husband.html

Cc; Lalasticlala

I need an interpreter

Jacqueline22:
Scared

Lol ... it’s harmless