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Rawhumper:
You Sure have a taste for something classy.

I know; right . Hope you fall in that category?

Lekside230:
Good morning nairalanders...how was your night??I hope you all doing great..I actually need you guys to advice me about my relationship... I'm sorry if my grammars seems kind of bad.,I and my girlfriend relationship clocks a year on Sunday...we actually staying together.. I was financially okay since last year January till April this year..but due to this pandemic things start getting tight...and her phone actually got spoilt around that June..which I'm planning to get her a new one...but ever since then...if we've a little issue...she'll start packing her load that she's going whereby I'll end up begging her again..she has done this up to three times now...she said once she go this week...that she'll shock me...I don't know what she mean by that though..so I just have to let her do what she wants this time around...I feel bad when she use different kind of bad languages at me...like (oponu,idiot) things like that....I'm scared to loose her though.. and what do you think I can do about this issue?thanks in advance... no insults please.

Zealoy:
I don't think is from God o cuz I got a message from a man of God that I should dump the fair girl am dating and to all indications he was referring to her, honestly she's every man's dream beautiful and very sexy but honestly I don't love her to the extent of settling down with her, I only wish the best for her that's y I want to let her go so that she can find someone better than me

Ishilove:
You couldn't have said it better

Aswear, you can be physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to them unknowingly

GuyInTheMirror:
This is an example of what I am saying, when people see Job as the ultimate thing in life that they put job before family.
Then you know there is problem, how much is the salary.

I have seen people quit jobs and relocate without an assurance of job cause of family.
A good family comes before a job, you can get another job but if you loose the chance for a great family or spouse, you might not be able to get another.

Sessanvandy:
Good evening Nairalanders, please i need your sincere opinion on this issue bothering me.

I have been dating this guy for 9 months and our relationship has been going well except for this issue.

My boyfriend or should i say fiancé ( he has introduced me to his family as the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with and my family is in support of the relationship) has been in contact with his ex-girlfriend who is married with a son.

My man spends 1-2hrs on phone with his ex girlfriend in my presence and when i confronted him, he told me to bear in mind that he can never stop talking to her because she didn't offend him and if she needs any monetary support, he won't hesitate to help.

They have no intimate relationship maybe cus of distance, He agreed not to call her but promised to take her calls when she does and she calls frequently.

Her husband also warned him to stay away from his wife but he wouldn't listen.

He is a nice guy with a good heart and we are planning introduction by December

I told him that if he can't stop communicating with his ex girlfriend the relationship is over but he still insist on maintaining contact with her...

Pls am i overreacting, How do i handle this??....mature advice needed!

sorry for the long post.

Ishilove:
Veeery cute. There's something about uniformed men that is very alluring.

Not all, but this type in particular

Rosebloom:
This lady recently got a federal job in Delta and met a guy who resides in Abuja .
He proposed and they had agreed she'll work for at least two years while they try long distance.

After they had been in the relationship for a while the guy told her while he agrees to the arrangement he'll retract his end of the bargain if the long distance interferes(he was basically saying he doesn't want long distance). Suggested rather she quit and come look for a job in Abuja or start a business.

Note that he also does not want a stay at home wife.

Quit what?
He is selfish and self centered. That is an act of wizardry

osayuwamwen:
this is not really abt finding fault as no body is 100% perfect, the thing is I don't have any feelings for any of the 3 girls I've tried to see if I can love any of them but the love is not there even though they hv some good qualities I really needed. Na love b watin matters

then go for the one you love buh just keep plan number 5 should incase if you fall out of love with her

TransAtlanticEx:
I type this with drunkenness.
I left my beautiful home,cars,good life be cause my God Is gi king me trouble.
I came to see my dad at oyigbo be cause bitch is stressing my life.
I'm currently in a squalor I last slept in ten years ago.
Very shabby and plenty children.
I m3ssed up my life,honestly..... Bleep!
What's the implication of marrying a girl you don't love and is older please?
Being a young man with plenty cash,cars,house and bright future?
Bitch is from ogbunike and too old and broke to be my wife,thanks.
Bleep!
I am even drink s3f,had 5 beers and cane go home tto my good life,sleeping in a goat herd

Stop been a drunk. Go back home nd take care of ur plenty and shabby children with ur old broke bitch of a wife from Ogbunike

osayuwamwen:
Am 28yrs and I will say God have really blessed me as a young man, am looking to settling down very very soon but am confused, I have 4 ladies in my life hv been watching the 4 closely on whom to choose for a life partner.

The 1st one is an already established self employed lady she have her own store with girls who are learning in her store, she's not really that cute but her voice is way too cute another thing is that she's not really educated but she's very funny and full of live, I don't think I love her

The 2nd one is still learning work, one thing I love about this girl is she's very quiet, patient and she is 101% loyal she does what ever I tell her to do and she doesn't even complain, this is the girl I can really control as a wife but one thing is she's way too thin but she is very beautiful. Am trying to love her but it is not working

The 3rd one has already finished learning work but not established yet, she is God fearing and committed to the things of God, she is beautiful but one thing I have notice about her is she is just pretending have tested her several times and she failed. I use to love her but not anymore

The 4th one, this one is not really my girl friend but i have been watching her very closely for over a year now, she sells with her elder sister in the restaurant I eat every morning at work , she is very respectful, decent, beautiful thin but not too thin just my kind of woman, this is the girl I really love with all my heart but am having trouble approaching her because she always busy attending to customers, am a very shy person I don't even know how to start a conversation with her

The first 3 are of same age and they are my girlfriend except this 4th one

correctkidabc:
"21 Years Ago I Was Raped And I Gave Birth To Twins, Now They’ve Grown”

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Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

first attempt na so e dey be, las las you go dey alright but sin no more

Primusinterpares:
So lock down affected the proposed date of our wedding so against all odds we decided to move along with the wedding.

The following precautions were taken.
1. Social distancing during the ceremonies ( TM & White)
2. Less than 50 people in attendance.
3. Sanitizer n nose mask were in place.
4. Temperature of Guest were checked before entering the church ( White wedding)
5. No reception to avoid crowd.
Just cut cake, share packaged food n drink in takeaways.
Snapped pics n proceeded to honeymoon.


To God be the glory it was a success.

Froshhh7:
Pls this is real life story n dont mind my English ..I realy need a serious mind ADVISE
I'm happily married with 3kids ...In school where I work a new teacher just resume she is two years older than me and happily married but we no kids ..I never took her green lights serious until one day he came to my office n told me he n her hubby have no kids n the doctor told them nothing is wrong wit them .she also said her hubby is boring in sex wit her n she realy want to sex another man...I was dazed cos I dont know how all this concern me it now dawned on me that all this while she will shake n flash her cleavages at me whenever we meet around is for real.
She is a very endowed n pretty lady n already my dick was disobeying me again wit its hardness while she said all this ...I told her I will think of it but she said I must meet her at a restroom d following sartuday ...
Stupid me I went to d known place she gave me n she actually paid for all our edibles we entered a room she booked n she UnCloth me n ask me to UnCloth her I obey her n when I pull down her jeans n behold the real ass n d Camel to all my brain flew away I peel off her dress n lay her on d bed .I dipped my head in her soft pussy n suck it hungrily like my life defended on it she also had my dick in her mouth@69 ...she suddenly got up from d bed n gave me her back@doggy while I insert my rod n bang n bang n bang she was telling me all sort in ecstasy n calling my name n begging me never to leave her pussy ...she ask me to pour all my juice inside n then we collapsed.
This continue for several weekends even during lockdown until she happily came to tell me as we resume this covid that she is pregnant .
I was shocked n angered but she said she will pin it on her hubby n I ve no p but I must just continued to Bleep her regularly .....pls I ve a good home n I can't father another child outside ...wht do u advise .....how do I discharge her wit no blackmail cos she doesn't want to leave me ....m confused ...pls only mature n understanding ADVISE

Scientists:




Please, is it matured to take back all those i bought for her for the sake of my parents b4 sending her away
?

Or should I keep tolerating her and hoping she will mature when she is older and then marry her?

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years,infact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now ,I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife heart back. I womanize alot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart,anytime am with her I feels contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother,and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby,and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never care for the mother of my children. The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she call my girlfriend to insult her ,and I was with the girl that night she put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.
Since then I didn't hide my extra affair with my wife . My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife,she won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.
After,I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in,but no matter what i did to my wife ,she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complaint. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife ,still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift,my wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.
This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her,but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money ,she didn't know that I am too old then.
Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine,I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her ,but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger,I can't even crack jokes with them.
Please help me ,how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to

OmoOduduwa01:
Your opinion please

Fellow NLers, your opinions are needed on this scenario

There was nothing at home, no money in account and the children were hungry. He started thinking of way out. Who can I meet in this lockdown period?
It's serious a issue. He felt embarrassed that his family could not eat properly.

As he was scrolling on his phone then he found his Ex- Lover's Number. Old memory came and he decided to send a funny message as thus, "My wife that run away with another rich man. Tell your husband to send #2k because he snatched my wife".

After a minute the lady replied as thus, "Tell me you don't have money, old husband". Then he replied, " Yes, I don't have money, just send something". In a nutshell, the lady send 20k into his account instantly.

He jumped up, took his Visa card to the nearest ATM and withdraw. He gave his wife 10k and keep the remaining. He lied to her that a friend sent the money. She buys food stuff and prepare food. He was eating and left his phone on the TV when a message came from his EX asking if he had seen the money.

His wife saw the message, she took time to read the previous message. Now, his wife suspend everything. She decided to be starved than to eat from that food. He tried to explain but all in vain. Worst part of it is that she instructed the children not to taste or touch the food.

Is the man justified?

Is the woman right with her action?

How can the situation be handled?

eddieguru:
you're not serious

just been concerned

eddieguru:
Hello nairalanders,


Although, I'm not good at writing

I had sex with a girl I met on Facebook, and now my urine hurts.

I'm currently taking injections and drugs, but I don't really know what I've been infected with...

While I'm taking treatment i've been having coloured urine ( yellow, brown and orange)

Guys I'm simply confused right now...advise a brother

Hey!!!
Just look out through your window ...

Mirabellek:
My little sis is pregnant we don’t want our parents to know cos dad is very abusive if he found out she is pregnant , he will causes a lot of problem for our mum, the guy responsible has agreed to give her the money to go for abortion we really want to get rid of the pregnancy before her belly start growing big but we don’t know if hospital are still doing abortion in this pandemic time. Does anybody know if the hospital will welcome us on this time ? Please no insult

Elnaloba:
www.elnaloba.com

The marriage of a lady allegedly came crashing down after she refused to pound yam for her
brother in-law who came visiting them in their home.

A friends marriage ended cos her brother-in-law came home after she just finished cooking rice n offered him n he said he wanted pounded yam n he won’t eat rice n she said she can’t make that she is tired, he shud eat rice or go n make it himself

He started bragging talm abt it’s my house blah blah n she said it’s her n her husbands house not his. And he called his brother n reported the wife. When the hubby came back, he didn’t even ask her what happened he started raking and he said if she can’t accept his family.

Then she should leave his home. She why he didn’t ask for her side of the story n if he is for real that she should leads his house n he said yes. She called her brothers n those ones got angry n came to pick her, she left with just few clothes thinking den go settle

Na so the hubby send his brother n his sisters to bring her remaining clothes. Na so relationship of 5 years n marriage of one end o. After months of staying home she called her hubby that they should settle, she’s sorry for leaving but he said mba.

They have a child, she left her with kid, he comes to see the kid, takes care of the child needs and all.

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darhray:
What's the most painful word your mother ever told you and you feel depressed or pained.

Mine:
I waa very stubborn when I was little and there was a day she said she should have flushed my pregnancy out and that am a bastard. Well i packed my load and left home for 2 months but money finish and I had to go back home. She apologized and everything was cool.

Share yours

Chaii
I remembered during my adolescent age, have forgotten what I did and the next phrase I heard from her was.....
Nya mu ka e ji akpu ara agboghi , d tin pain me ehhhhh cux it was still developing like d size of an egg. She get bad mouth sha buh I love her, God bless her for me

Osagyefo98:
Who say Hausa no get talent...

How this Tagwaye of a man mimics buhari is so hilarious..

God bless your new age..

LOLZ
Who told you they are Hausa's.??
Lazy yooth
Next time read before commenting

Behyou:
Good afternoon naira landers, actually this is my first time here and it's one of the reason why I had to join you people here to hear your views on this problem I'm facing..

My name is Adebayo and I have this girlfriend who I've been in a relationship with for the past 2 years.. Just yesterday she called and said Bayo I'm pregnant with your child with 3 months.
Immediately I heard the news I felt the whole world crashing at my feet as I'm still an undergraduate in one of the universities here..

I was first mad with her cos the last time we met was in January and how come she is telling me me she is pregnant in April.. Come on I'm no a foul, then she told me she never misses her period and that is why she never thought it's pregnancy. Then I made calls through to some doctors friend who told me it's true she might be pregnant for 3 months without her knowing..

Now I'm in such a dilemma as to whether to tell her to abort it or not quit schooling and man up to take responsibility. I think I'll go for the latter cos I'm still a student and I can hardly feed myself talk less of feeding another mouth..

Say whatever you want to say, taunt me, despise me, why go give Belle when you know you are not ready..

But I say this is no time to reprimand me because the deeds has been done and I should be looking for a way out..

I type this with an heavy heart and felt remorseful of not taking the necessary precaution.

I'll be waiting in the comment sections for your advice!!