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Itoosabi:
Dear nairalanders I asked this question cos I'm the victim of the two situations. I couldn't cope I left unregrettebly .
Which one can you be able to cope with between Mouth Odour and Body Odour
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None of the above, Can’t stand it

prizequest:
I got married to my wife few months back but she stays in another state due to her work and there had been measures for she to join me until now. One thing she had repeatedly complain about is my low sex drive as she has [/b]boosted of how other men in her life before are stallion [b]. @ d bolded, worst common mistake dat couples do make without knowing d effects but she doesnt want me to be one but be able to meet her libido demands. This comparison created psychological issues for me hence the lack of drive and she really want to make a baby due to her age. Not having more sex has made her fight me, attack me, despice and disrespectful but i have pleaded she give me more time to sort things out but she's more persistent hence we'd been separated for 4 months now, 3 more month to our anniversary.

Another angle is a week after our traditional wedding, i and wife decided to go to the marriage registry to get a certificate but her dad got to know through her, put a call to me and [/b]cursed that my children will disrespect me for not informing him[b]. [/color] Wot sort of man will curse his grandchildren [color=#770077] My Wife is a divorcee from another marriage

Nairaobserver:
According to Nairafame, Eight year old boy seen on twitter doing drawing and painting, this was revealed by his mother, after begging twitter users to retweet his son drawing to the world.

See more photos of the 8 year old boy and his drawing below.
Source: https://www.nairafame.com/2019/03/meet-8-year-old-boy-doing-drawing.html

Raw talent

Wapizy:
I met these lady last year November on a social media site(spicey.com.ng).shes a single mother two years older than me..everything started well,she started coming weekend too me but meanwhile I had a girlfriend who's in school in kogi and am in Lagos we started issues communicating and I didnt trust her coz of distance that was why I was looking for another relationship close by that will make me happy.
Temitope also told me she accepted too me coz her recent relationship then before I called her was having issues due too that they were asked too go pray about the relationship too get married bt was confirmed that they shouldn't get married so when I came along she used that as an opportunity too move on....i was given an accommodation at my work were Temitope(single mother) do come see....so I don't really hv a place of my own but she has a place at sagamu...now I had an issue with my job and left January these year and got a better offer at my new place of work now....but the problem was that there was no place too stay for the job if not I would be spending more from my parents house....so she decided too let me come stay with her,from her place too opic after Berger was close and more cheaper for me....middle of January I started staying with her I took all the responsibility....she even started given me money for transportation when got broke...she a teacher receive very low but her principal do give her money too keep and also she collects money for the school in different ways so she keeps money with her so it's out of these money she do give me if I need money....later I begin too notice she was chatting with that guy she met on FB....wen I asked she said the guy has been begging for her too come back...later on also she stopped making love too me giving excuses that it's not good too be making love everyday...most wen I come from work and hv urge she would deny me and sometimes I beg for it seriously....all these happened one month and half now hv paid all the money she borrowed me including the one she added....have been telling her that I will leave...she stopped if giving me sex and that made me started thinking otherwise she started behaving strange but she is a good and caring lady now hv moved my things out on Saturday..but I regretted coz she didnt ask me too go...now hv begged her seriously but she said I should let her...my instincts pushed me out of that house...am so broken down...the watch I bought for her I collected it before leaving...i just regret all my actions Cox no matter what she has really been of help too me but I feel deep down that she doesn't want me....i don't know if am right or wrong but in pains I cried on the phone talking too her but she's not even replying all my Whatsapp messages....had deleted all her numbers so I won't be able too call and she hasn't called in two days now I feel so bleeped...i don't how too get out of these emotions..hv not eaten in three days now just too forget about the experiences but still my heart longs for her....someone should help me...i have crying like a baby...

Chaii, see wot LOVE is causing..... making a fully grown man to be crying like a baby. Indeed LOVE is WICKED

nairavsdollars:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos

Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, National Leader of the All Progressives Congress (APC), has warned the leadership of the National Union of Road Transport Workers (NURTW), Lagos State chapter, to ensure that their members didn’t destabilise the peace of the state during Saturday’s governorship and House of Assembly elections.

He gave the admonition during a meeting with the leadership of the union at a meeting in his Bourdillion, Ikoyi residence on Tuesday.

It was reported in the media that members of the union harassed Igbo traders especially in Mushin, Surulere and Oshodi areas of the state for allegedly voting against the APC during the elections while some of them engaged in ballot box snatching in areas alleged to be strongholds of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).

Tinubu, who expressed his displeasure over the rumoured attacks on non-indigenes in some parts of the state during and after the presidential and National Assembly elections by members of the union, said Igbo residents in Lagos are free to vote for any candidate of their choice during elections.

One of Tinubu’s aide, who was privy to the meeting said Tinubu who said elections should not cause disunity and war among Nigerians also warned the leaders of the union against incidents of ballot box snatching, intimidation and harassment of voters, saying anyone who engages in such acts will have himself to blame.

During the meeting, Tinubu also appealed to the leaders to enjoin their members to vote for Babajide Sanwo-Olu, governorship candidate of the APC, in the elections so as to ensure continuity of good governance in the state.

According to his aide, “It was a very brief meeting. During the meeting, he didn’t mince words in telling them that he will not condone attacks on non-indigenes, especially Igbo residents in the state. He said they are free to vote for any political party or candidates of their choice without threats of harassment and intimidations from anyone in the state.

“He also warned the union leaders to ensure that none of their members in their domain engaged in incidents of ballot snatching or violence in any form. He asked them not to interfere in anyway with the voting process, warning that anyone caught causing mayhem will have himself to blame.

“Lastly, he solicited for votes for his candidate, Babajide Sanwo-Olu, whom he believes can continue with the masterplan of Lagos, the foundation which he laid when he governed the state from 1999 to 2007”.

In a related development, the leadership of the PDP on Tuesday said the APC is plotting to destabilise the governorship elections.

Speaking with Daily Independent, Kola Ologbondiyan, the party’s National Publicity Secretary, said reports from parts of the country indicate that the APC is working towards causing havoc in Lagos and South-South states.

He said, “APC has a plot to destabilise the governorship election. Because wherever you turned to you see anti-democratic tendencies from them. In Lagos, there is a campaign of calumny against members of PDP. In the South-South, there is militarisation that led to deaths of people during the presidential election.

“We just hope that the APC will not turn our nation into a keg of gunpowder. For us in the PDP, it is worrisome that APC is deliberately working towards havoc on the election day. But whoever sows the wind will reap the whirlwind and the earlier that the APC allows for a peaceful election, the better for all of us and our nation”, he said.
https://www.independent.ng/dont-intimidate-voters-tinubu-warns-lagos-nurtw-leaders/

Y should d Igbos stress themselves voting wen Lagos belong to d Yorubas? , afterall der votes don’t count..... I declare dat day ORA Soup Day

PrettyCrystal:
A Nigerian woman who was allegedly brutalized and injured by her husband, has come under heavy criticisms from fellow citizens after revealing she still deeply loves him despite her condition.

According to reports, the woman was seriously wounded and left with bloodied eyes after the attack which saw her rejected by a hospital.

It was gathered that when human rights activists wanted to intervene on her behalf to make the husband pay for his action, she said she still loves him.

Internet users have given their various opinions on the issue - with many urging the woman to leave the marriage or look for a better solution before ending up dead.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/03/nigerian-woman-disfigured-by-her-husband-says-she-still-loves-him.html

Love is Sweet, Love is Toxic, Love is Wicked, Love is Blind

EncourageMe:
Hello good guests on Nairaland forum, I hid my identity by opening this account to receive some encouragement from you, I actually know is a big sin to do it with her... To be brief, I newly got married to my wife, just 3years old marriage, now her younger beautiful sister came to visit us during 2018 Christmas, I have recently discovered my wife is trying to make her to be fully staying with us... Mean while i cannot trust my self when it comes to sex urge sometimes, I do not know if i can be responsible enough to remove my eye from her in the nearest future, the way she usually wear bun-shots and sexily attractive do not help matter as well. What do i do please?

MajorJeffery:
...and na this obodo oyibo guys. In fact. I must relocate to obodo oyibo too, even if na Cotonou.

xo u wan join d League ...... Never knew Nlanders break homes too, tot it’s only on Instagram andFacebook?

tonak:
10th january this year,my marriage to E.L finally came to an end,february 17th would have made the union 5years,it was a very turbulent marriage right from the start,filled with intrigues,drama and fast paced.quoting her ex bf,who incidentally is the reason for this break up 'may be the marriage itself was a mistake'i totally agree,E.L wasnt prepared.on that faithfull day,i overheard her discussing with her sister that she was still plannin to leave me but she wasnt sure when, she went on to tell her little sis about a particular guy,how the guy loves her and has been giving her money,wat further infuriated me was wen she said she was sure the guy would accept and take care of our 3yr old son.i immediately went in and confronted her with all i heard,she initially played dumb bt later agreed she planned to dump m later in the year.i told her not to bother to wait that we should just end it now,i have accepted my faith,she has moved out and im trying to rebuild my life.my question dear nlanders was i too hasty. 2 should i have played along.i hate pretencies and hate to live a lie.3 one major issue we had was her constanty communicating with her ex bfs one of who happens to be a prominent nlander,always referring to them affectionately as 'babe','sweetheart'etc,even goin as far as using their pictures on her bb dp.im not a saint and i always acknowlege my own shortcomings as a husband and father.she treated me so badly, i feel so sad but im happy it has now come to an end.but,she has my son with her and i miss him so much.i just cant imagine him not growing up under me.so sad.sobs,

sanmtiago:
Good day nairalanders. First and foremost I'd like to apologize for the circumlocution in writeup below.

I'm a young dude in my early twenties still an undergraduate,my major challenge is not been able to socialize but i flow relatively well with people am used to even if it took me a while to build such amiable relationship with 'em so technically I think am an antisocial extrovert. I have a strong penchant for studying the dictionary for vocabularies and also watching American and British movies just to study their diction and how to use vocabularies. Now it has gotten to an extent where knowing too many vocabularies is turning into a menace to my personality because of this part of the world were we live,although I feel embarrassed most times when i speak to people predominantly the opposite sex because I know I use too many big words inordinately so i try as much as possible to curb it but to no avail instead it becomes even more unabated,i'd be trying to explain the ambiguous words I use for them because I could see the perplex look on their faces due to my verbosity. When I try to speak freely to my friends they feel I have the intent of ridiculing and disparaging their level of intelligence. Right now everyone who knows me treats me with contemptible flippancy because of my gross knowledge of big words. They even call me oversabi. So please how do I learn to speak plainly again?? It sounds funny but its a serious matter i need to look into,I'd appreciate your
Opinions.thanks in advance.

Ladies look at me like this when am throwing my complicated punchlines at them

mrblessed:
Your story makes an interesting reading. It also reveals the mentality of a average Nigerian lady, and by extension, our irrational love and respect for the western world. I think you got it thoroughly perfectly planned all the way. Our preference is our vision. In most cases, what we like we called good; and what we dislike we call bad.

It is extremely difficult to give listening ears to the medical doctor, or seek ways to iron out a workable relationship with the American guy is having regular contact with you. My thesis is: [/b] you were completely overwhelmed by the prospects of moving to America with a guy you barely know. In fact, a part of me believes that you dated both of them concurrently. Do not use social media lovey-dovey appearance as a yardstick to measure the propriety of someone's character. [b]

Nevertheless, happy married life!

keepingmum:
I see you deleted your 2nd post that - cooking your local dishes and attending your towns meeting is of most importance to you........

Oga if your culture and native dishes were important to you. You should have married from your village.
There are things you raised which i feel should be of more concern to you than culture and food.
Been married for almost a decade and half, oga does the laundry but i do it most - washing machine.....he always drys the clothes , i NEVER do

We are from different tribes as well. Oga doesnt believe in towns meeting etc , neither do i.

The HIV thing is no biggie as science has made conception easier with little risks of transmission of the virus to a spouse or child. So whilst i commend you for sticking, what you have done isnt something unusual. It happens alot.

You are struggling financially to meet your responsibilities yet you are actively cheating. Oga, hope madam can also cheat to meet up where you are lacking as a husband.

If you want to end the marriage pls do.because you married her despite her health challenges doesnt mean she should hv no say or feelings over her life. If you dint marry her, someone else would have. She doesnt owe eternal gratitude to you because of marriage.

Stick to your slay queens or get an uneducated, unexposed has no intention to ever be exposed kind of wife that will cook you swallow with different village soups for breakfast, lunch and dinner . The type that will leave you on the weekends to attend village women's meeting from morning till night. Those ones that will mix with experienced retired ashangbas at the umunna meetings and get tutellage on how to be a coded runz wife......but it shouldnt matter to you, After all you ll get your village soups on demand and a wife who will carry big basin and soak to handwash your clothes as the village prince that you are

Jeezzzzzz!!!! ...... did u just pen dz nonsense down or it came out frm ur anus ?.So much nonsense in a sentence. Pls go bk nd read, comprehend before commenting.

Goodlyhrt:
To walk properly

Uglymugg:
I remember this profile. Same cleopatra but with different spellings. Most of the guys that dropped their numbers never came online till date. I wonder what happened to them.

agbonkamen:
Not a perfect match.....objection my lord

Objection overruled

shakmati:
Forgive! Ordinary salt! Please don't tell me to forgive and don't tell me to talk to her. Just tell me the right kind of punishement for such irresponsible behaviour. Thank you for your concern!

awelekiti:
Far from it. Did you know that women keep secrets more than men? Over a heap of delicious meal, a man could carelessly reveal what he's been hiding for ages...though he may regret his action later. Women could hide secrets , especially those they know could mar their homes till their last breath. [/b]Na wetin dem wan make you know, na im you go know. [b][/b]if you like, pamper her with a Ferrari or a lambo gini , come add one million dollar join. [b][/b]If she does not want to tell you her secret, she still wouldn't [b]

DateMynd44:
so when those young and unmarried cute lecturers used to ask u out in your university days, didn't u used to say yes to them? didn't they also consider their integrity before they asked u out?

lefulefu:
diamond diamond

Amakavula:
awwwwh, omg thanks Diamond23

always welcome dear

Evablizin:
Me 2.