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Yenefer:
indeed TRUTH ARE ALWAYS BITTER

OH!!! thanks for that and the mistake has been corrected buh next time please don't think through your anus or let tribalism take the best part of you before commenting

Yenefer:
Awesome.. we respect elders in our community and we don't insult the Dead he is probably high or something. Quick question do ignos have sane leaders? If yes.. was there political strategy? They seems like people withouts direction when it comes to politics. Secessionists will not succeed in this Globalization. They attack every tribe online while they are Cawarddd in reality. So what's is there plan... hoping and waiting something bad to happen.. even so they will suffer the most. They need to sit down and calculate a better plan than following that scammer. And shouting we are Jews. I'm more closer to Jews than them, and I know Jews don't give a sh!t about other people than themselves and money

dre11:
Ogun Government Allegedly Arrests Woman For Lambasting State Governor Over Stone-filled Beans Distributed As COVID-19 Palliative



http://saharareporters.com/2020/04/15/ogun-government-allegedly-arrests-woman-lambasting-state-governor-over-stone-filled-beans

What happened to freedom of speech

Olarewajub:
Introvert comes from Latin intro- , "inward," and vertere , "turning." It describes a person who tends to turn inward mentally. Introverts sometimes avoid large groups of people, feeling more energized by time alone.
Introversion is at its root a type of temperament. It is not the same as shyness or having a withdrawn personality, and it is not pathological. It is also not something you can change. But you can learn to work with it, not against it.


Introvert Facts

• 75 percent of the world is extroverted.

• Being introverted affects all areas of your life.

• Nothing is wrong with you.

• Introverts feel drained and overstimulated.

• Being introverted is something to be celebrated.


Common Introversion Traits

Introversion is marked by a number of sub-traits:


1. Very self-aware

2. Thoughtful

3. Enjoys understanding details

4. Interested in self-knowledge and self-understanding

5. Tends to keep emotions private

6. Quiet and reserved in large groups or around unfamiliar people

7. More sociable and gregarious around people they know well

8. Learns well through observation.


Introverts Library

1. Quiet by Susan Cain

2. Success as an Introvert for Dummies by Joan Pastor

3. Introvert Power by Laurie Helgoe, PhD

4. Introverts in Love by Sophia Dembling

5. The Awakened Introvert by Arnie Kozak

6. The Irresistible Introvert by Michaela Chung

7. Quiet Influence by Jennifer B. Kahnweiler, PhD

8. The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olsen Laney, Psy.D.

9. The Introvert Entrepreneur by Beth Buelow

10. Quiet Power: The Secret Strength of Introverted Kids by Susan Cain

11. Introvert Doodles by Maureen “Marzi” Wilson



Quiet people are often found to have profound insights.
The shallow water in a brook or river runs fast:
The deep water seems calmer.

—JAMES ROGERS



Are you an introvert? If yes, this is definitely the place to be.
What are your challenges as an introvert and are you happy about your introversion?



P.S=> Extrovert- Keep Off.




Welcome to Nairaland Introverts Lounge

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Chaii
Thought I was alone on this buh now I know better.....
Proudly introvert

HazardMan:
So she said she is pregnant and slowly removed her hand from mine, waiting for my outburst. But i proved to her that i am not like the man she got married to by maintaining my cool. I wonder why it took her this long to say.
So i asked who is responsible for it praying she would put the pregnancy on me but i was disappointed when she said that she is confused. She said it's either the husband or that there is this rich guy she usually exchange sex with for money. He likes her but she dosen't like him. Sex for the money. She said he has been the one paying both for the school fees and accomodation. She said she wants to terminate the pregnancy, that the guy has been disturbing her for marriage and if eventually he finds out she is pregnant he might want to use the opportunity. I wonder how that was possible. Perharps, she didn't tell the guy about her marriage. Hmmm! My story

The story don finish

ProfDview1:
Sorry my previous account was banned.. I don't know if the mod are biased. I am creating this thread to clarify things.. Ineedtoheal is lying, she is lying I repeat myself, she is just lying to gain attention...
Do you think a 40 years old man will be living his life like this? Ineedtoheal, u need to stop this victim mentality.. Even ladies on nairaland are not helping the matter at all.. They support their wrongs, just imagine.

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266

1. Our relationship isn't up to 5 years like she claimed....

2. I will be 36 around this year not 40... She is already 30. If u think I am lying, I challenge her to post her date of birth cert and I will do mine too

3. She claims I have different ladies pictures on my phone. But she forget to say she chat with random guys online, sharing phone numbers to guys as if she is sharing business card. I have told her about her chat with different guys but she doesn't take me serious. Seen so many things this lady did but I over look it. Thinking she wud change but I was wrong.

4. Well she is also searching too coz I remember seeing some her chat claiming that she is single.. Tell most guys that she isn't dating any one, imagine my babe of 3 years then claiming she is seeing anyone.

5. 3 girlfriends? Two are my Exs and they expressed interest in coming. Not that I forced them to come.

6. All these burial money is fake.. Cmon I am comfortable enough to take care of my father burial.. My siblings are comfortable enough.. Why wud I confront u, how much do u Wana give me?

7. Rejected my suitor? By claiming u ain't single to guys u flirting with.. Even to my friends dt u slept with, had one night with.. Imagine, u never stopped flirting and u think I shud quickly marry you with all the red flags.

8. Am Gentle but pls ask her how many times she has hit me coz of simple issues... Imagine, u want me to marry you.. She takes my gentleness for stupidity, take my nice personality for dumbness and she wants me to wife her.




Now that she has painted me bad, it has gone viral here on nairaland, I hope many can come in and read this too.. I just wish but no wahala sha...


It's a woman's world like they say... Women get attention than men. Not surprised.


Ineedhelp pls goooo.. I don't need u again.. I av no intention of marrying you.... Go ur way lemme go mine..... U chose not to understand the writings on the wall after all I told u..


I hope u meet ur better man...... Thanks

Nairaland mods are sumtin else.. Imagine I wud nt have seen this if it didn't make front page..

Why post such on the fp ehnn? Just imagine

ogwoliun:
I am a type of person that don't like cooking, but the lockdown has humbled local man.
This is my simple way of celebrating Easter because it's not easy for so many people right now, and I pray that God will take away this plague so that we will go back to our normal life.

Pascopele:
Which of these statements hurts the most in a relationship?

1. It’s over between us
2. I never loved you
3. You are not good in bed
4. I’m in love with someone else
5. I was just playing with you

FanOfMyself:
Hi,
Are you light skinned?

prodigiousman:
what about tall fair guys?

Amarabae:
Is that a bad weakness? Don't think so
Just control yourself and see something can spark up between you and a tall dark guy.
The clean Afro cut part is something else

KK ma'am

Amarabae:
For matured minds!
Tell us your weak point ,someone here can be of help via counseling /advice.
.
Oriaku Cares

Tall dark guys with clean afro cut, even I saw one yesterday . Any remedy?

kennybabs1980:
Chuks is a great guy, a good friend of mine in my office. He's happily married as far as I'm concerned. His wife is a school teacher and they have two kids. But I noticed that a particular beautiful lady comes to check on him in the office at least once a week. I asked him about the lady last week, he said she's just a friend. When I probed further, I discovered that the lady is a single mother of two and works as a nurse. That's last week.
Today he called me by himself and told me he's dating the lady and that his wife caused it. He said his wife has [/b] timetable for sex, he can't touch her at anytime he like, [b] she complains a lot and tells him sex is not food. He said there are times she won't allow him to touch her in a whole month and that this causes a lot of arguments in their home incessantly. He said he made up his mind to stop this incessant arguments this year and therefore went for this beautiful single mother who has been satisfying him sexually since January. I told him I didn't agree with his solution to his wife's attitude if its true and he told me he had peace since he ventured outside his matrimonial home to get regular sex and that his wife hasn't ask from him since he stopped asking her for sex since January. Since I ain't in his shoe, I couldn't really prevail on him to stop?
Is this a genuine reason for adultery?
Can't he make more effort to sort things out with his wife?
Can't this strange lady cause trouble for him in his family?

L Ls
Can't stop laughing at d bolded. Once u get married to a teacher everything will v schedule and measurement

kutashi:
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2020/02/arrest-of-christian-bomber-is-mockery.html?m=1

valentineuwakwe:
https://punchng.com/posting-policemen-outside-state-of-origin-unproductive-falana/

mancheeutd:
YOUR WIFE IS FOOLISH. I didn't read your epistle not because am lazy but this is about MOTHER. Quote me wrong then I'll read it and tell you a story that will make you cry. I pray you value what you have now before you loose it

Xcelinteriors:
Your write up is so long but I read everything

Your wife is the one with problem here. She's a bad woman and tell her her own daughter in law will treat her x100 of how she's treating your mum

mrbenjame:
I think I need matured minds to advice me because I’m very confused right now. Please take pains to read my story.

I dated a lady called Susan (not her real name ). For 4 years. I loved her so much and she did too. I met her when She was preparing to enter the university. 6 months into the relationship I went for service. Came back and it was already clocking 2 years. Whenever she visits I always try to make her comfortable. So she took advantage of my care and always wanted me to serve her all the time. Even when she visits from school she would be operating her phone and watch me do what on a normal terrain she should assist me do. As a young guy I try as much as I can to let her know that atleast once a while it would be nice to get my meal served by my woman even if I prepared it (since she doesn’t like entering the kitchen). Most time I overlook it because probably she’s very tired and all that. Sometimes I thought I was just being selfish but I really wanted to feel that woman attributes but I wasn’t seeing it. Each time we fix time for a date she comes very late and that piss me off to my bone marrow. She never keeps to time. I endured this for a long time because she never turned up early in any appointment. She calls me at late hours and when I try to explain to her that it’s late she gets angry ( I’m talking of 12 am or there about) and I’ll go to work the next day. Anytime she offends me she would want to be romantic so I’d forget her wrongs just to calm me down. But I was suffering inside.


I felt very weak emotionally and decided to take things easy.

Until I met this lady called Benita (not her real name). I liked her. I admired everything about her. So I approached her while we were going back home from work. We had good conversations and I was happy because she was fun to be with. We exchanged contact and we started chatting. Forgive me because I became happy again just talking to her. Whenever we say goodbye when she gets off the bus she times when I’d get home and immediately I step my foot in my house she calls.( already I’ve told her when I’d be home). I invited her to a date in an eatery and she turned up 10 minutes to the time. I was shocked.

I became more involved with her. I invited her home. She went to my kitchen and she said “ your plates are not washed why? I just smiled and told her I’ll take care of that. Before I knew what was happening she’s started washing the plates. I begged her to stop because I didn’t send her to do that and besides this it’s her first time in my house. But she refused. I let her ( though the plates were not much but I was happy). She started visiting often with food items to cook. And I obliged to assist her. She refused again. We argued until she had her way. I just sit with her in the kitchen and gist while she cooks. To me I felt I was punishing her because all I wanted is that things of such can be done by her once in a while. (I sabi pity person o. Lols!).

She calls all the time. Talks so lively and very funny. She’s not the miss romantic type but very smart and reserved.


After a while, you can’t cheat karma. Susan found out. She came to know about Benita. And since then it wasn’t easy settling between two of them. But Susan won’t just give up and I think I’m cool with Benita.


Today Benita is in her 100 level while Susan is about going for her service.


Now I’m trying to be responsible to settle down. I talked with my mum and some close friends of mine but they’re tipping Susan for me because she’s out of school and it would make things much easier for me than settling with Benita. But I love Benita now. She makes me happy. What do I do?

Liftkid:
who told you you won't be recognized ? I am CEO of popular Facebook group and I have canopy for them. if landers within Anambra ould turn up, I would give them theirs too.

kk

Liftkid:
Thank You. hope you are coming ?

LOLs
even if I do, u won’t recognize me. Xo my well wishes z ok
Blissful home to u both

Seesam:
Someone commented and said lies everywhere. Most everyone be a lier?.
My wife has already seen this post and she knows am the one who posted it.
But that is not my problem for now.

W :oW...
She z also a Nlander

Olamsoh:
I met her in the comment section here and we talked for a while before meeting, I sat there 10 minutes to the time, wore my neatly long sleeve shirt, a pair of chinos trousers and a black canvass , I called her once it was time, she picked and said " I just woke up , please give me 30 minutes I'll be there" .....

She came after one hour and we sat down, she began to size me, told me how my shirt is not London shirt because she deals in London shirts , all the plenties she said about fashion and how "she's not sure she'll be into people who don't wear designer wears atleast on a date"( no the shirt wasn't London shirt cos I didn't plan on buying London shirt , I bought a nice shirt)

She kept talking about her achievements and how she doesn't give two hoots about men and how she's ready to walk away once she notices a fault cos she's a career lady , talked for huge straight chunks of minutes and I kept wondering when I'll have to talk about myself... ( Did I tell you how she said my job is a low grade kinda job compared to the money she makes? Lol...) She'll blow one big fat lie and I'll just smile and swallow it, kept listening while she goes to either Instagram or Facebook to buttress her points ( my dear o, at that point I just wanted to go home and see a movie jor)

She finally said we should go to her house so she'll show me class and neatness and she rarely goes out cos everything she needs is in her house ( whether she wants to knack and couldn't just say, who knows, mtseeeew)
Well, I declined and left....

PS : I didn't say you shouldn't brag o, or talk down on people's hustles, but atleast don't come and be blowing lies ontop your rude ass shenanigans.... Thankiooooooo

(She'll read this and I'll be glad she refutes any of this claim)

wirinet:
Depression does not make someone violent. Depression does not make you maltreat other people's children, while pampering your own. She is a narcissist.

Threats will not work for her as she no send the husband. She has gone months without talking to him. She does not cook, wash his cloths or have sèx with him. She will use the children to blackmail him and squeeze every naira she can.

supremenews:
Pastor Thaddeus Matthews reacts to the leaked sex tape of Pastor David Wilson

See the previous thread here: https://www.nairaland.com/5479935/leaked-pastor-david-spotted-eating


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RScLNUawUnQ

Source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/10/pastor-david-wilson-reacts-to-leaked.html

Cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Dat man carry anointing for tongue