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Politics / Re: Bandit Leader, Kachalla Baleri, Flaunts Redesigned Naira Notes by Diamond23(f): 8:55pm On Feb 02, 2023
dre11:


https://www.thecable.ng/bandit-leader-flaunts-redesigned-naira-notes-claims-to-have-plenty-in-sacks/amp
Nd poor masses are dying of hunger. Lack of money both old nd new to get food stuffs. There was a country.... cry cry cry
Romance / Re: Should I Break Up With Her?? by Diamond23(f): 9:31pm On Jan 31, 2023
NBAjunior:
Hello everyone Good morning I have an issue and I need your thoughts on this...
Have been dating this beautiful girl for 5 months now the relationship has been good except for the fact that she is not always available for us to see
I stay alone in a nicely furnished self contain while she stays with her parents her parents are very strict so she always has limited time outside of the house.
This has been our issue ever since and it's been bothering me so I decided to end things with her yesterday she has been begging me with calls and text messages that I shouldn't give up on her..,,
She will be gaining admission into a state school and will be resuming maybe before the end of this year I don't think I can wait that long she wants me to be patient with her
After so many pleas I told her I will think about it I love her a lot but her not being available for us to see is really eating me up tho she always does her best to come by whenever she got the opportunity
What do you think guys? What would you do if you are in my position??

P:S am the one that disflowered her
childish excuse to move on with the nxt girl...
Mtcheeeeeeeewwww

Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Had Sex With Another Guy As Pay Back by Diamond23(f): 9:38pm On Jun 12, 2022
bbyby01:
I have a girlfriend whom I was planning on settling down with next year. She has gone through my phone on several occasions and seen my chats with other girls and we have fought and settled over it. Recently she visited and saw something similar. So she went back and had sex with a colleague who had been toasting her. She started acting funny since then because of guilt and I quizzed her into confessing. Now I have broken up with her. I can not marry a girl who would do something like that.
I am so heartbroken right now. [/b]This girl was so loyal [b], I built my world around her. She has been crying and begging me.
Please guys. I need your input on this.
@ the bolded ...you can't take what you dish out,it hasn't gotten to breaking up with her, you both deserves eachother. You can only breakup with her if she never get PVC grin

Romance / Re: Sex With Marrired Women. Should i Continue? by Diamond23(f): 9:25pm On Jan 04, 2022
SultanOfPuna:
I fvcked this sweet fair milf with 2 kids
The bobby is just everlasting
Big, round and full. Her kids are lucky
The problem?? Her husband is far away in Kwara state. He used to live with her but last year he relocated to kwara. Leaving her in owerri.
She is a nurse, i met while admitted for alcohol poisoning.

I have bleeped so many many young girls
but there is just something very very special about sex with married women. MILFS
We have been fvcking since last year.
My business is doing great since i meet her
she just made my life soft and sweet
but deep down in my mind i do think if the husband really care for her as he sometimes stays in kwara for years without coming to see his wife and 2 kids in owerri.
Im confused cuz this woman is perfect!!!
keep it up lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: Beautiful Pre Wedding Photos Of A Nairalander by Diamond23(f): 10:29pm On Sep 16, 2021
neighbourhud:
Check out these beautiful Pre wedding pictures of a Nairalander... Countdown on!!!
cute couple.... blissful and happy home I wish you both

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Family / Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Diamond23(f): 8:42pm On Aug 20, 2021
Ok12345:
Good p.m house

Pls I need your advice on this issue, My friend confided in me that she has been dating her husband for 6yrs before they eventually got married sept 2020,but after the marriage, her husband now hangs out with the best man from Mon to Sun,he doesn't confide in her anymore, he changed church to the bestman church, weekend if he doesn't go out, the so called best man will come to their matrimonial home to stay with them,even when she organises surprise dates for her husband, her husband will call this best man to join them,If they are invited to Birthday or any occasion, her husband will hang out with the bestman and not talk to her till it is time to go home,this has been going for a year now,she has complained and things isn't changing at all...the best man is a married man too and he hardly stays at home with his family, he has numerous girlfriends.She told me her husband now drinks ,come home late and tell her to go make her own friends too and stop complaining. She is fed up,she asked me for advice but I am not yet married, I don't know what to tell her.

Pls your input could save a marriage
This is serious, why not she get family members involved
Family / Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Diamond23(f): 7:00pm On Aug 20, 2021
markidoo:
Get lost with your envy idaad
Envious of poverty tongue..... Chukwuaju grin
Family / Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Diamond23(f): 6:43pm On Aug 20, 2021
markidoo:
to see how daft you're you're yet to understand the difference between 6yrs ago and today
Dude am gainfully employed with a fat salary and I can take any girl home without scrutiny.
Hide behind your keypad and keep being a scum
Oga first keep all am not a DUDE
Second of all, I know it's been six years buh I needed to vent on this ur topic tongue
Third of all ....Getat with ur fat salary tongue tongue
Family / Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Diamond23(f): 6:07pm On Aug 20, 2021
markidoo:
taa freak ooff
70yr old man grin tongue,
Don't go find something doing and be useful to urself.... Get employment before getting a girlfriend so u quit complaining about ur parent
Family / Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Diamond23(f): 4:52pm On Aug 20, 2021
markidoo:
Baba lock up loud,, na my Papa house and I get every right to bring any responsible lady home..
Who be Baba , Taaaa getat angry
Family / Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Diamond23(f): 3:23pm On Aug 20, 2021
markidoo:
Am 28yrs old n a graduate 4rm uniabj. I am unemployed and stay with my parents. I happen to have a girl am true to. I av been hanging out with her at a friends place due to fact that my parents dont wanna see any girl at home with me. My girlfriend got tired of that n i summoned courage to take her home one day whille my parents where out unfortunately they did nt go far. When they came back my mum checked on me in my room n found me watching a movie with the girl. I had no intention to even touch her since she said she hated sex,i jst wantd company at home cos i ws lonely. when ever we hangout its jst jisting n fiddling wit phones. My mum called her out n used alot of harsh words on my only true love. My gf never replied,she jst picked her bag n walked out of the gate i ran out to apologise n walk her home, bt she wud'nt want any of those. I got back home picked up money went to the a pub nearby n got so drunk that the only thing i remember is coming home so wet n sandy. I lost memory of what happened n since then i am locked in my room i don't wanna eat nor feel like doing anything. Even tried calling her bt she wudnt pick her phone. All i nid in this life of sin is me n my girlfriend. Drop ur advice.
One "bo" for ur parent, they are the real G.O.A.T. after spending so much to send you to school, na to carry girlfriend come home be ur reward for them. Oga keep girlfriend matta aside... Ga chuba ego.... So u can be taking ur TRUE LOVE to ur crib and not ur paternal and maternal home undecided
Romance / Re: I'm In Love With My Colleague's Ex by Diamond23(f): 2:35pm On Aug 20, 2021
Abbey117:
There is this lady who recently joined our organization. She caught my attention but I wanted to take things slow. Later I got to know that my other colleague at work had already spoken to this lady and they had been having serious romance. I had to cut off every affections though the lady in question and I later became best friends.

Fast forward to the present day, they broke up and the babe had been trying to gather herself. I cunningly asked her if she could work things out with the guy but she bluntly said no.

The issue here now is that I've been developing serious affection for her again though during our chats before their breakup I had told her I developed feelings for her but my other colleague was faster than I in approaching her of which she said I should have told her about it.

This lady ticks every boxes I want in a woman.

Kindly advice me...
Office of romance and sexologists. You are on the right path, carry on. Kindly do and breakup so another can take up
Romance / Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Diamond23(f): 2:26pm On Aug 20, 2021
Abetterperson:
I ask this question because have wondering why so many people refuse to share an apartment with the opposite sex, many claim that sex is unavoid

How true is this statement
Sure,it's possible!!!
Just same way you can keep a goat and yam together in a room without the goat having a test grin

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Religion / Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Diamond23(f): 9:19pm On Aug 19, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL
My brother it is ABNORMAL
Am just imagining the kind of boring life both of you will enjoy
Romance / Re: HELP!! My Boyfriend's Best Friend Molests Me by Diamond23(f): 10:14pm On Jun 30, 2021
Vixenn:
I created a new thread to mask my identity__ and I've been reluctant to post this since yesterday. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now we've not had any major issue, he's a software developer and is doing fine... He told me he had a female bestie_ which I had no problem with then cos she was abroad(She travelled abroad after their secondary school).
She came back to Nigeria last year (or was deported_ we don't know) and started staying with us...My boyfriend stays in a 3 bedroom apartment...Initially when she arrived, she was pretending to be cool_ and I felt the best way to handle it was to be friends with her as well...but after 4 months and she still remained with us, I started feeling uncomfortable and I told him_ but he didn't take me serious.
Last year December we had a misunderstanding and she slapped me, I left her for peace to reign_ reported her to my boyfriend, buh he said next time "I should not tell her to shut up"...This girl smokes and is into drugs!! _ my boyfriend is always at work, he doesn't see these things but he knows and I've snapped her doing it before but he doesn't say anything.
In February we had another misunderstanding, she slapped me again_ I slapped her back, then we fought...After this incident she beats me at any small provocation, and fondles my private parts while beating me... I brought my best friend (girl) and we both beat her, my boyfriend is just lackadaisical about the whole thing_ he only focuses on work. I told him to allow my best friend to stay so I will feel safe, but he refused...
Last week she beat me, stripped me, penetrated me with her fingers and snapped me... If I leave my Boyfriend's place she will win, but I feel I will soon stab her...
Please how can I handle her, rn I careless if she dies
Penetrate you kwa something just dey run through my mind buh it's blurry can't figure it clearly embarassed
Events / Re: Popular Nairalander " Wese90 " Ties Knot by Diamond23(f): 9:41pm On Jun 30, 2021
iamphilips:
Last weekend was memorable as we celebrated one of our very own, WESE90. Wese aka Local man as we all know him is a very humble and friendly member, popular for creating a safe space for we doing business the TECHNOLOGY MARKET section. He has been providing Reliable Escrow and Warehousing services over the years. We nairalanders turned out in mass to celebrate him. It was more of a Nairaland Wedding / Party. Most of the wedding vendors ( Photography, catering, decor etc) were all sourced here on nairaland. As the wedding photographer, let me flood our community with photos of the event which had popular members in attendance.

Wedding Photographer: @weddingclicks.ng @philipschisom on instagram ( iamphilips on nairaland)
Beautiful couple.... congratulations to u both

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Politics / Re: Joe Igbokwe: Nnamdi Kanu Ordered His Boys To Behead Me, Kill My Children by Diamond23(f): 9:37pm On Jun 30, 2021
cocolacec:


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4017379961643809&id=100001155348708
just because of the little crumbs u get from ur slave masters you sold ur own.jukwa ese maka odi gi Ka odi ken-saro wiwa
Romance / Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Diamond23(f): 8:44am On Jun 30, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.
Mr disciplinarian I hail thee undecided. Just two months, naso marriage dey be? embarassed

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Romance / Re: Heartbroken. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Diamond23(f): 12:23pm On May 18, 2021
cryingeyes:
I met a guy two months ago. He's a Nairalander but not an active one. He's Ibo, while I'm Yoruba. He's 40, I'm 33 and approaching mid-30s next year. When we started talking we realized we're in the same country outside Nigeria and he just so happens to live in the city I've been wanting to move to, which we thought was an interesting coincidence. This city is a 3-hour flight away.

We would talk on the phone almost daily. A month later/early last month, he asked me to be in a relationship with him and I accepted. I told him about the things I've been through. He promised to love me unconditionally and never leave me. We never argued once. I thought I had met an amazing man with all the qualities I'm looking for. I don't care so much about the physical but I thought he had all the characteristics I want in a man. Until we met in person two weeks ago.

Fast forward to two weeks ago he came to visit me in my city. I went to welcome him at the airport and was so happy to see him, although being an introvert (which he knows) I may not have shown it that much outwardly but I told him and thanked him numerous for coming to see me. He rented an AirBnB to stay in. We kissed passionately that night (no sex - I had told him I'm waiting for marriage) and I fell for him all the more. He's the second man I've ever kissed and great kisser, at that.

The next day we were going out (he had rented a car for a couple of days) and that day he was taking me somewhere and was to pick me up later that afternoon). In the car, all I did was ask him to go a different route that would get us to our destination faster and was an easier route than the initial one, and he got angry and flared up that I'm asking him to go another direction, I should know he's not used to driving in my city, he doesn't want to get into an accident. He just went on and on chastising me over something I felt he should've been appreciative for since he could get back to the AirBnB faster and go back to sleep. I couldn't believe he was the same man I had been talking to on the phone, as he had always been calm during our communication prior to meeting. I didn't know he had a temper but I was seeing it at that moment. When it was time for me to get off, I said "bye" to him and he ignored me, then zoomed off like he was in a racecar. Thankfully it was an empty street. I cried and sent him a text not long after that he should have a safe flight back to his city because I wouldn't see him again because of how he had just treated me. We exchanged texts back and forth, he was angry about my text and said something about wanting to take the next flight back to his city. I asked him to call me to talk things out and he refused, that I should call him if I wanted to talk to him. I called him and he was upset about my text. I didn't want him to leave and hurridly took a $45 taxi ride to meet him at the AirBnB. I apologized for my text and he also apologized for his behaviour. He said he was falling in love with me and didn't know what to do. We talked but he was still sleepy, so I lwent to watch Tv on the couch while he slept on the bed. When he got up, we watched some Tv shows and movies and then went out later to get some food.

The next day, I prepared some food for him, from my place. Before meeting I had mentioned to him during a conversation that I like to cook and wanted to cook for him. I told him I don't like being single since I've to eat all the things by myself and wanted someone to cook for and he said he couldn't wait for me to cook for him. He had also told me he pays people there to cook for him, so I wanted to make some things for him to last him two or three days. We were to meet a few hours later, so I spent those hours cooking: fish pies, fried rice, lamb, shrimp. I had also bought two things for him and took those along with the food I hade made for him. I had to make sure I give these things to him, as he was returning to his city the next day. When we saw again that afternoon, the first thing he told me was that his ancestors don't eat lamb, which he had never told me before. I felt he wasn't appreciative of my efforts but he later managed to say thank you. I wanted us to go somewhere that afternoon but he didn't want to go, so we just watched tv. I spent the time and again, no sex; he never pressured me and had said he would wait till whenever I'm ready.

The next morning, for some reason it skipped my mind to follow him to the airport and say goodbye to him there, coupled with the conversation the previous night about him not wanting to be late, I thought he would be better if I didn't follow him there to say goodbye. He had mentioned not wanting to be late for his flight the next morning and I assumed this meant it would be better for me to not go with him to the airport to see him off there. He dropped me off at my place (we kissed and said goodbye in the car), then he headed to the airport back to his city. I sent him texts both on WhatsApp and on his phone to have a safe flight, told him I appreciated him coming to see me (I had also thanked him several times throughout his stay) and told him "someone's missing you already". He replied with a smiley and we we sent a few texts back and forth, mostly about him waiting to board the flight.

After his visit, the relationship wasn't the same. He would reply my texts hours later, saying he was sleeping and with only a few words. It was during a conversation a few days later that I got to find out he was upset because I hadn't followed him to the airport to say goodbye and I thought 'omg'. It had skipped my mind the morning he headed back and again, with the conversation the night before his return, I thought perhaps I shouldn't go with him. It was simply an error of thinking of my part but one I felt awful about. I apologized to him and told him how bad I felt bad now that I realized I hadn't gone with him to the airport to see him off/say goodbye to him there. It now dawned on me why he was giving attitude in the car that morning on the way to the airport. He kept singing to the songs on the radio, which was fine, but I felt ignored. At one time he asked me a question and before I finished answering he cut me off and started singing again. When I found out this was why he was upset days later, I tried to explain that it wasn't intentional, that it had skipped my mind and if he had just told me or reminded me in the case, I would've gone with him. The airport is close to my house, so it wasn't as if it was far or I had any reason for not going with him, other than it skipping my mind, perhaps because I had misunderstood the previous night's convo, but he barely heard my side or even let me speak because he was literally yelling at on the phone. A few days later I sent him a text asking if his heart was still in the relationship and he called me right away that it was, we talked, then he sent me a text that he cared about me, which was reassuring.

We didn't talk much after that call or he would barely respond to my texts, but days later I sent him a text asking what we would do when I visit his city. As stated above, I wanted to move to his city prior to coming across this man but had some doubts about moving there, which I shared with him when we started communicating. He had invited me then to come stay with him for a few days to check out the city to enable me to decide. He has an extra room in his apartment that I would sleep in, but I was hesitant and changed my mind about this a few times, which annoyed him. During his trip here I accepted the offer. He never asked for sex throughout his stay, so I was more confident that I would be safe staying with him for a weekend. He said I had to pay for the flight ticket/roundtrip (about $300) myself and I told him okay. Back to the text about what we do during my visit: I had asked him this because he didn't want to do much during his visit here, granted we're technically still on lockdown and most places are closed but we could've gone to some other places - he didn't want to. I also asked because I knew he would be tired from his night shift job and would sleep during the day, or work his second job that he also does during the day when he's not sleeping. I didn't want to visit him and just sit at his apartment without going anywhere, as he would either be at work, or sleeping. His responded 3-hrs later was a "zipped mouth smiley" and didn't bother to say anything else. I felt he should've said something and not just send me a smiley. I sent him a response that I may not come there if we aren't going to go out and he replied with an "Ok". I know he was upset by that and thought I was changing my mind about visiting him. He had wanted me to move there to grow our relationship, but he didn't talk to me after that text. I felt he was slipping away and I couldn't pinpoint why. I blocked him, and I admit I did block him on two previous occasions when I didn't like his reaction to things but he would either call me outside WhatsApp to ask why I blocked him or I would later unblock him that day, apologize for blocking him and we would start talking again. I know he didn't like the blocking because he said his ex-wife also did the same anytime they argued. He was seeing every communication as an argument and I didn't get it; I wasn't sure how to communicate with him anymore because he just started overreacting to things, especially after we met in person. I felt at times he was projecting whatever happened in his marriage towards me, like anytime I asked him a question to understand something he would see it as a argument or a back-and-forth, while I would tell him I was just trying to understand him or the discussion and I always told him this. Last week I sent him a text telling him we should decide if he we should continue the relationship and he didn't respond. Two days later I texted him that he should've responded but I got his response from his silence, called him abusive, fake/pretentious because he was a totally different man from how he had portrayed himself over the phone and I thanked him for showing me his true colours. He responded with an "Ok" and that was the last of our communication.

I'm heartbroken and have been trying to figure out what went wrong. Before him, the one relationship I've been in was almost a decade ago and when we started talking, I told him this, and that he would have to be patient with me because I haven't been in a relationship in years, that I'm still a learner as far as relationship goes and he should always tell me if I do anything wrong for us to work it out. He told me he was in my life to stay and wasn't going to leave me for any reason. We had talked about getting married and how we want to raise kids, even asked what type of ring I want. I told him I'm not particular about any, that it's the thought that counts and he said if he gets me one we could always change it later. I'm not desperate for marriage and never been one to jump into any relationship. He was the one saying we would get married and wanted to marry me. He was previously married (his marriage ended last year, no kids) and currently finalizing his divorce papers with his ex-wife who left him and returned her bride price back to his family. I never judged him for being previously married, but always encouraged him and would tell him I was proud of him (he works two jobs), sent him an online card last month on his 40th bday, praying for and encouraging him. I don't know his address, else I would've sent him a gift, as I'm very giving and love buying things for people. When we first started chatting two months ago and he told me about a problem of his, I sprung to take a photo of the perfect solution for him so he could buy it for himself to use, which he bought and did thank me for because it works. Anytime he would tell me about a problem I always offered solutions or suggestions to help him out. I was always ready to share ideas with him and tell him things I know that he may not. Idk what else I could've done to show him I cared. Idk if he met someone else but I do know he chats with other women on Whatsapp, though he says some are married and they're only friends.

I'm hurt. Because I finally let a man into my life again only for him to leave me in pieces. Because he never meant the promises he made to me. Because I feel like a fool believing he would never leave me like he had said. Because I miss him so much and don't know how to console myself.

I'm about to be single for another 10 years, but I just want y'all to tell me where I went wrong or what I did wrong.

Sorry for the long post. I just needed someone to talk to.

Pls, don't quote the post (I may delete it later).
All this long epistle for a 40yrs old man with so much baggage, just under two months..... .
Your sanity is very very important, get it back!

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Romance / Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by Diamond23(f): 4:05pm On May 17, 2021
daylay7:
Hi everyone,

I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.

Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.

And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before.
What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?
make her second wife so both of u can fornicate in peace grin grin grin

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Of 7 Years Left Me For Someone Who Got Her A Job by Diamond23(f): 2:48pm On May 17, 2021
princeiceberg:
We dated for good seven years, i have never seen her with anyone around, we both graduated school i was posted to serve my NYSC in kaltungo of Gombe state and she was sent to Ogun , since then we've not been making calls, we just chat on whatsapp and telegram, but nowadays she has not been online and her number has not been reachable, i decided to contact one of her friend, she told me that she has been with one Alhaji and he's gotten her a bank job. . . . i felt sick for that. . .and now i have moved on hustling hard, and i now realized that trusting women was a bad idea. . .
"" You contacted one of her friends and she told you, she has been with one Alhaji who has gotten her a banking job""....... You didn't even care to find out the truth before concluding. How childish!!!
What if it's all lies?, what if her friend had an ulterior motives?.
Romance / Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by Diamond23(f): 8:10pm On Feb 16, 2021
tinaprincess773:
I am a 25 year old girl and in a dilemma which has made me open an account on this platform to seek advice.

I started dating a 38 year old married man 3 years ago.

When we met I knew he was married and his wife and two kids live in Canada and really didn't want to be serious with the affair but as time went by this guy a gentleman that he is became so nice to me and showed me so much care and love and has been so committed to me as if I am his wife.

There is nothing I ask for in cash and material that he does not not give me just to see me happy as he also never ignored his family abroad.

He was always in touch with his wife and kids and obvious that he also loves them.

In summary,I fell in love with this guy and I am still in love with him that his relocation to his family to Canada has been so depressing for me that I cannot even feel anything for another man.

Even while we he was still in Nigeria,I did what I could to kill d feeling I have for him by dating another guy I was also intimate with and even when he found out,he was very broken and he overlooked it and still continued with me as he said he had no right to judge me as a married man and we still continued the affair.

Even after his relocation,he still keeps in touch with me regularly and even sends me money as he has always done and still shows concern for my welfare.

He told me some days ago that while he won't leave his marriage,he is very willing to marry me and sincerely that is my wish too but I feel so guilty and confused at d moment b'cos this is another woman"s husband but I just can't stop loving him.

He is such a rare guy to find.
Not the money he gives me but that love and care is unique.

I have read books and articles on how to forget an ex but I just can't stop loving him or forget him.

Please,I need advice in this regard.
Just a simple question..... If the money stop coming will u still luv him?
I think both of u r infatuated
Health / Re: Task Force Arrests People Without Face-Mask In Onitsha (Pics) by Diamond23(f): 4:06pm On Feb 16, 2021
Opportunist, I pity this guy shaa

Politics / Re: Fulani Kidnappers In Ondo Use Generators , Play Music Inside The Forest by Diamond23(f): 11:59am On Feb 16, 2021
thebosstrevor1:
All these cooked up stories to paint a tribe bad.

I know this might go to front page to bring more traffic and create more contention.

All unverified news are just for sensationalism and to create controversy.

Everyone keep blaming fulani for kidnapping, last year, prisoners were released from prison by endsar protesters, these same people looted police stations armory and stole guns which many of them are using to commit crime.
With all due respect...... INA AYI ARA!!!. How can you say it's a cooked up story when uncountable evidences r there in the open. Been sentiment will lead you nowhere.Call a spade a spade and stop reasoning from ur anus

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Politics / Re: Many Herdsmen Being Prosecuted For Alleged Killings — Garba Shehu by Diamond23(f): 9:43am On Feb 16, 2021
Education / Re: UNN Suspends Chigozie Obum For Impregnating Four Students Within 4 Years by Diamond23(f): 9:41am On Feb 16, 2021
Kosiso12:
UNN Suspends Lecturer After He Allegedly Impregnated Four Ladies Within 4 Years Of Appointment 

By Wisdom Nwedene 

 

https://igberetvnews.com/1382697/unn-suspends-lecturer-allegedly-impregnated-four-ladies-within-4-years-appointment/
What an AMUIKE guy.
Guessed he is one of the sex for grade lecturer. Good radiance

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Romance / Re: How Do I Look?? Pics Added by Diamond23(f): 8:29pm On Dec 13, 2020
Uzomacharles:
Check My Profile Picture And Rate Joor...


For Fun!!!!
So No Carry Your Wahala Rest For My Shoulder...
you look like a cute featherless cock
Car Talk / Re: My Experience With A Man I Bashed His SUV Yesterday. by Diamond23(f): 1:37pm On Nov 30, 2020
Carchoice:
I bashed an SUV yesterday, I thought the driver was taking off and I charged up to follow him just to beat the messy traffic, he braked immediately and it happened. His bumper was a bit disjointed on the right side, and almost pulled off one of the mini brake lights on the bumper. Nothing happened to my car.

We parked by the road side and Mr got out of control. I kept telling to calm down that I acknowledged it was my fault and mistake. I started hearing things like, who are you? How old are you? You small boy, go and ask of me in so so and so autos store”

I kept telling him to calm down but he wasn’t having it. Cost of damage running into hundred and some thousands was given to me. I was working on making a transfer while he was still fuming in anger and saying a lot. All of a sudden he entered his car and told his friend to hop in, I tried pleading with him to wait, he refused and even told me he will do worse should he get down from his car. I told his friend to tell him to calm down but he shouted at his friend to close his door and zoomed off.

On my way home I realized a lot from the incident, ALOT. The man was not interested in taking money from me. He was that angry because he knows he was not going to take money from me and he knows he was going to bear the cost of fixing the car. He was angry because he did not leave his house to go and bear cost for another person and the incident will likely ruin the rest of his day. I felt bad. I felt his pain. A Lexus SUV for the men.

But why was he feeling intimidated by asking my age and social status? Maybe it was my body composure, because I wasn’t looking fazed, I knew I already made a mistake which I have to pay for. I accept my mistakes easily, it helps me beat and teach myself for correction.

Then he also asked me this question;

“Where are you rushing to?”

this question will be my motto for 2021.


The incident also reminded me of my Ma, back then when it was time to pay school fees and we ask her for money, she starts acting as if they are stinging her needles. Woe betide you should you forget to do chores or refused to run errands for her, she’ll kill you in peace and keep the school fees money instead.

Most humans expresses pains with anger and rage
But where were you rushing to?
Family / Re: I Cannot Believe My Wife Could Be This Dirty by Diamond23(f): 8:53pm On Nov 12, 2020
Abaph:

On Monday morning my wife left with our 2 years old to run errands. I was still enjoying my sleep because it was my day off , am a self employee. I woke up around 9am I stoop up to get ready for the day , I saw my wife night shorts on the floor I picked it up and what I saw shocked me. Poop stained on her shorts taught I was dreaming or something because It cannot be real. But accident can happen anytime taught maybe it has happened because she had diarrhoea maybe by the time she had to rushed to the toilet it was late some has come out and stained her pant , even taught it was disgusting to see but I took the short and put it on her small bucket where she keep her pants before washing them. But what I discovered while taking the bucket out of the top of the wardrobe was more than disgusting , a black nylon bag fell on my face, taught it was her new clothes or something but when I opened it, I saw more disgusting rotten dirty pants with period stains , poop stains and urine I think she has placed there because she wanted to burn them but she didn’t have the time to do so. I snapped them for evidences and put it back as if nothing happened . When she returned I didn’t asked her anything still acted normal . Everything was so disgusting it has put me off from eating her foods , I take pack lunch to work but I have been throwing them away , whenever she cooks dinner at home when I want to eat the picture of her disgusting pants keep coming back and it will put me off and she is been wondering why I am not eating her foods again but I keep making excuses of not having any appetite which she is been suspecting me of cheating on her which is not the case. This morning have checked the wardrobe to see if the nylon bag was still in there but couldn’t find it which I believed she had burned it in my absence and she has no ideas that I have seen it. I am not sure if I had to confront her about it or let it go and move on but wait till I find more before confronting her . Am seriously confused no insult please � only mature people should comment
Abeg soro soke!!!
That is preposterous lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: My Pre Wedding Pictures by Diamond23(f): 8:26pm On Nov 12, 2020
timothydare:

Niger state, kontagora
. Far.....
Wish you both blissful home

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Romance / Re: My Pre Wedding Pictures by Diamond23(f): 7:37pm On Nov 12, 2020
timothydare:
He who finds a wife, u no d rest
28/11/2020
congratulations to you both!
Where venue ? Make I know if na my area so I go touch down
Family / Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Diamond23(f): 10:46pm On Nov 04, 2020
Mummiesgirls4:
Am a moda of 4 girls by 2 different men , 2 lives with deir fada one with my parents and i onli stay with my last baby 1 years and 5 months . I I relocated to asaba to start afresh and i met my new guy in june , he loves me so much and has accepted my baby like his own , we are staying together but i i haven't told him abt my 3 other children , i lied to him that i only have 1 child i I didn't tell him about them because they don't live with me and its not necessary to mention them now . I love him so much and i don't want to loose him because he is my everything on earth. Did i do the right thing please advice me.
It's better you tell him before the fifth child lands. Pls remember to use protection this time around, its necessary!

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