₦airaland Forum

folameme:
lol u call me a harlot?well thnx becos I know no guy is entitled to see my unclothedness just my future hubby. I really want u to be sincere honey,don't u have sex wit your bf?doesn't he pay your bills?isn't that why u have no dignity or a say in d r/ship?don't u clean and cook?what have u contributed to the r/ship since it started?its only a lady who has lost her dignity and pride as a woman thinks exactly like u,must u be dependent on a guy?can't u make ur own a decision?what makes d guy superior to you?becos of the two balls between his legs?smh,u really need to re_ orientate yourself,becos u've really lost it,if u know your worth,no guy should lord over you,you should be his partner not slave,I bet all u do is cower in fear and leave everything to ur bf lmao,have some sense of dignity and pick up d left pieces u've got,A man has got to respect ur decisions and opinion not u been submissive as if he birthed u,he's your lover for christ's sake,u both compliment eachother,not u acting like a dumb indecisive gal becos u don't want to challenge his ego and he lording over u. Inspite of all these ur submissiveness,I won't be surprised if he still cheats on u,that's to show that guys loves an independent woman who knows her worth,value and can make decisions herself not one who always have to look up to her man for direction (lmao),its shows how shallow u are becos deep down,u know u've got nothing to offer!!!cheers

Please do not take offence. She is no adversary of yours. We need to be understanding. She is a submissive and never gets a chance to be rampant or say the nonsense in her head, this is her chance and that is why I've been entertaining her. Hopefully she will get enough joy to move it from the internet to her real life. (We can only hope)

fellis:
Please ignore that attention seeker, probably a man posing as a woman. There are many of them on this site and they show up a lot in threads like this to talk about how they submit to their boyfriends and husbands and how they are very very happy and living satisfied lives because of that.

Lol

fellis:
You keep insisting that you are not a feminist but you believe in equality, may I ask what you think feminism means?

I also believe in equality but with the way many men are insecure and emotionally sensitive it may just be that women are actually a tard better than they are

1. I do not label myself. I am a human being therefore I'm dynamic and am not defined by any one thing. I do not need a label, my character and passions are enough definition of who I am and they are as flexible as I am.
2. Feminism is a political movement aimed at advancing women. In theory, it is an admirable cause but in practice in my opinion it fails because it by its very nature of focusing on women it is sexist and becomes the flip side of male chauvinism. In the end it creates an "us" (women) vs "them" (men) environment because it is solely focused on advancing women. Feminists also tend to be condescending to men and to women who don't fall into their beliefs and movement. For example many feminists hold disdain for women who choose to be housewives. I believe if you want to sit and bake all morning while popping babies in the afternoon then so be it, as long as it's your YOUR CHOICE and you still retain your personal power. It doesn't make you any less of a strong woman. Also I believe in order to create healthy and sustainable change men have to be included not excluded and the feminist movement excludes men. Feminism is detrimental to both women and men. We should promoting HUMAN rights, not WOMEN'S rights or MEN'S rights - it should be a holistic approach. Feminism is political and therefore is a fight for power. A true feminist fights for power and I'm not in the power game.

Midehi:
I remain Midehi notin else ok, & pls dnt give me names..turn ursef to Medusa..i dnt care

Sigh... They lied. Ignorance is not bliss, it's painful... Okay nana, I can see ignorance puts you to sleep at night...go on...

Midehi:
still on my...ur brain is daft,if nt you will understand all my writeup...go & rest your brain..biko..b4 it will blast

There you go with your Engrish again...

VickyyB:
What a LOOSE GIRL.

You like your bf 'cos of prick. Smh

She obviously lacks the ability to take care of herself so he probably also pays for her life and so she is dependent on him.

Midehi:
still on my...ur brain is daft,if nt you will understand all my writeup...go & rest your brain..biko..b4 it will blast

Thank you for the concern but unlike you I don't have a pea size brain. Mine is large and can handle a lot but I thank your concern.

Midehi:
Oh oh....hehehehehehehe...d brain tinkin has damaged oooo,d daftnes has increased...little advice dear, go & relax ur brain a little ok,so dat small grammer go enter ur brain agn...bush animal

Sigh.. Another sign of your lack of intelligence. I was being sarcastic, there's a reason I called you Medusa. If you were educated as you claim you are you would know who Medusa was

Midehi:
Am only letting u know dat u are a FOOL

A bigger fool than someone with an intelligence less than a 2 year old? :-/

Midehi:
Jus see wat she created her thread for...insultin a lady more mature,educated,classy dan her...quotin words to insult...taaaaa

Mature? Babe, a 2 year old can decide for itself what to wear. A 7 year old can save and budget for itself that is why in my country a 7 year old is allowed to open a bank account ... What does that say about your level of intelligence?

Midehi:
Hahahahahahahaha...jealousyyyyyyy...u better compose ursef wella so u can get a man in ur life or u wan remain *ashere*?

You never get a chance to have your say, ane? It's okay babe. Go ahead release all that negativity you've been holding in. All though you attempts at insults keep falling flat on me: babe you are way below my league for you to have an effect on me ... Wack-wack-wack ... Soooorrrryyy

Sorry meant midehi not medusa

conscript1967:
Appologies hun. Insults are never my thing. But truth be told, you are lucky u are not nigerian. Cultures differ really. Here in Nigeria,a girl who can't cook n clean is considered a waste of space. Despite her other achievements she isn't "wife material" at all. That is the norm. Here,women with ur vew usually end up single. But cultures differ. Where u from?

Apology accepted.

Before you call someone a waste of space again, think about this: G created us differently. Our abilities differ. Not all men are handy, not all men can lift a 20kg weight, not all men can fight but that does not make them any less of a man. What defines one is one's character. Medusa has proven herself that she lacks character and is not a lady, she is nothing more than a straat-meisie (loose translation - street lady as in lacks class and is undignified) there are even sex workers who have better class than her. A real lady always carries herself with decorum even when she is faceless and behind a computer.

Midehi:
Agree with you...he is so daft

Look at me cry at being insulted by someone who unlike a 2 year old can't think for herself how to hold a spoon ... PSYCHE!

Midehi:
U are stil vry daft...u are one way thinkin...Mr. know it all, what is Engrish..
Oh u created that thread yet you dont know what it meant,just created to insult fellas or probably you copied it,hmmmm,Behind up my dear..Lmao

Engrish is what you speak because English is clearly above you. Case point? Saying Mr to a woman, well... Unless you used Mr to show I have an intelligence of a man which you clearly view as above yours in which case you mean my intelligence exceeds yours. So... THANK YOU!!!

Midehi:
pls how old are u,i hope u are more dan 18yrs ooo,if u are,so sorry abt ur shallow tinkin...did i tell u his complement on me is only on cloths...i av notin to xplain to u agn cos i blive u are underage... all i kno is i av d best r/ship.

Why do you feel the need to insult? Do you feel better now? Do you feel more powerful? Do you use those insults on your "most wonderful, bestest boyfriend in the world"? Not once have I been rude to you. May I remind you, you are the one who chose to come here and speak about your relationship - its only natural I will ask questions.

I could very easily insult you back but my good upbringing holds me back. Honey, next time if you have nothing of value to say just shut up. The fact you can't answer my questions and you chose to show anger only proves I hit a nerve. I really was just asking. I was just curious about the mindset of someone who is supposedly a mature adult but needs another to tell her what is right or wrong. Can you not think for yourself that where you live is not safe and therefore work out the appropriate time to get home yourself? Who's the one with a child's mind here? I can certainly work out what time is appropriate for me to get home, when and how to do my errands I don't need a third party.
And love, next time read s-l-o-w-l-y you might have better comprehension . I never said he only complements you on clothes, I said he only has complements about your outfits that means he only has good things to say about your outfits that is a completely different meaning from what you say I said.

Engrish people! I know George belongs to England but come now it's not that hard.

conscript1967:
If all feministts are like u,plss I need one in my liFe NOW. U are a real wonan. Not like stupid selfish immature unrealiseic runs-girl DieeDiee with her Arab aristos. She go soon hear am when she go don marry finish. If she ever marries shaa. I pitty her.

If that was meant to be an insult it went right over my head. As I said, I don't speak ignorant ... Next insult...

Ps: I've said over and over again I don't consider myself a feminist. The reason I don't cook or clean has nothing to do with feminism it's because I've never needed to learn or do manual labour. Some of us can afford to pay people to cook and clean for us

walanter:
lol prime..... Ur points ar wick to mi .the velocity at which u ar try trying to gravitate with... is of low thinking and it met kil someone if not cut of..
plain

If you want to say something to me you are need to learn English. I do not speak or understand ignorant language.

Ps before you use big people language it will help you immensely to learn the meaning of words first

scribble:
Dude I think it's cos of all the moi moi men out there. When women see a really good man, nobody needs to tell them to change their mindset.

LMAO!!!!!! *dead*
You are not a good man, you are nothing but a pathetic, sorry excuse of a human being. You only wish you are a man. All you are is a little boy trying to play big.

scribble:
U really are a silly nitwit.



Your stupidity is enormous.

I have never come here to say I had an affair

Between you and me, who has the larger amount of stupidity? Seems to me you not only designed the crown and wear it but you also created the need for the word...

scribble:
So your boy is finally about to enter into a life of servitude

worst of all, im marrying a babe with a big family and im not the very social type

a lot of things about marriage scare the bejesus out of me...ahmean the commitment, responsibility, the nagging, etc etc etc

im getting married to my friend so that takes a bit of the load off but im a man and u know....

just today, i had some new boo who has AGREED to be my side piece, do something rated R for me

she's 7 years younger than my babe, shes beautiful, and intelligent and yes ample ukwu for days...i struck gold on that 1

i know i cant be faithful to ONE woman for the rest of my life, i believe my wife to be knows this too

not because she has caught me cheating or anything but because she knows my nature and being a fine girl, she has seen a lot of such shenanignas from married men herself...

i just pray she doesnt change it for me after we marry and start trying to suffocate me, because i wont stand for it at all....

*shout out to killjoy for your thread bruh...thats what motivated me to write this, im about to get married and i think its a dumb decision but how do i break a womans heart after 7 years she patiently stuck by me and took my ish, cried etc etc

i cant be that dude...but i will just try and reach a compromise with her, she just doesnt want anything like SECOND wife and me personally MUST be out of my damn mind to marry another load after the fear that has enveloped me in PHASE 1.

besides a lot of babes out there are perfectly comfy with being the side piece, so why should one even entertain the thought....

Deny those are your words?

walanter:
my own view .....i just pick some point which u ar try to prove and some which ar absolutely nut ......
what u ar typing here is nut an example of what u ar
i must say ....u ar just exaggerating shit here

have u ever heard d sound of an ak...

Walanter = air

Midehi:
U are jus a cheap LovePeddler dat has reduce ur tinkin facaulty.. ur brain is so loosed dat u dint get me...i dint ask of ur dull opinion...freak*harlot* stilvryproudofmywaywittreasure...

Just curious: Have you ever had a differing opinion to his to something important? Did you suppress it or express it? If you expressed it, what was his reaction and how did that make you feel? (Really am curious, I'm trying to understand the kind of relationship you have)

Btw I find it hard to believe he only has complements for your outfits. Surely if he is someone who likes judging your clothes there have been outfits he hasn't liked, unless you deliberately dress in a way you know he will find pleasing...? In which case that means you have absolutely no mind of your own in this relationship. Do you not then see that not being allowed/given the opportunity to have a mind of your own means he has authority and power over you? In other words you are a child and he is your father?

AfricanApple:
babe, u just making my day

That was an example of the "amazing" love a woman gets for being submissive - a double standards relationship. I have no doubt if the woman had brought home the napkin there wouldn't be any laughing and no sharing on nairaland... That lady really needs to look for self love

14:
To be honest, Nigerians are lazy, they like the ready made good things, but cant swetat to make their country better. They always feel like someone from outside will come and help them out of their situation. Hence they end up running away, look at all4kak, he makes all this noise based in America. The quetion is, if nigeria was so perfect, why did he run away then?

I've been asking them and instead of answers they've just insulted. Like I said in my post before this one, if Nigeria is such a wonderful place then it goes to shows Nigerians are stupidiest bunch of people for no other intelligent person would leave the land of manna to be an illegal alien that cleans toilets in a country that they believe is a "violent slum". Where's the sense in that Then they believe SA is more violent when SA has had the least blood shed compared to Nigeria? Intelligence is really missing.

CoachDX:
C'mon, my ref was for male dolls and those play kits.

I'm worried... How do you know about them when we don't?

CoachDX:
Hehehe
Your sense of humour would delight a toddler.

so glad I brought you delight ... *baby talk voice* Yes I did ... Yes I did ... There's a good coaxie-woaxie. Would you like a bottle now? :p

fellis:
Human beings are just selfish and self centered naturally they see something bad but they keep encouraging it because it serves their personal interests. Religion is just another avenue to exercise their selfish and self centered natures, God didn't ask women to submit anything to men, those cavemen mofos wrote that fabricated shhit down.

Lol, you sound angry.

VickyyB:
Lol. Those sex dolls are female.

Lol, was thinking the same thing. He probably thought just cause he has one there ones for females too lolest!

CoachDX:
Oops!
Well, you've been chatting with them for a while now, I guess you have a clue?

REALLY?!?!?! I thought NAIRAland meant Chinese people!!!

fellis:
You aren't theist.

A true theist won't admit or understand that submission is actually abuse.

I do believe in G but I'm wise enough to know when He is being abused to advance selfish, evil deeds

fellis:
Its so obvious many of the men on this thread are unmarried.......and probably never even been in relationships before


You honestly think you can live under the same roof with another adult who isn't mentally retarded and not have to compromise your will for her once in a while?
Submission in the true sense of the word is not even possible, I don't want to write walls of text on this topic. For peaceful coexistence you bend to each other's will from time to time. Sometimes she has the final say and sometimes you have the final say, it can't be you, you, you all the time unless you want to end up with a very frustrated and vengeful wife/girlfriend.

Many Nairalanders really need to go out more because I read so much ridiculous and unrealistic bullshit on this site sometimes that makes me wonder if the men typing have ever even interacted with a female outside their families before.

If submission in the true sense of the word was not possible the world would not be celebrating 16 Days of Activism Against Women and Children Abuse right now. I wouldn't have a job, many organisations wouldn't exist. Abuse is not only physical it comes in many forms, submission being one.

CoachDX:
Wife me that kind of a woman, men shouldn't be 'affected' or scared of that. My humble self will push her into more successes. But, don't forget, they've been submissive. I think we shouldn't go far, let's stay in Nigeria where you ladies seem to have this misunderstanding that being submissive does make you a slave. I know of Dora of blessed memories, I know of the newly wedded colleague: Toyosi Akerele. You see, no matter your status, you must find a man worthy to handle you and your power.

I'm not from Nigeria don't know Nigerians