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Wtfork:
Wow... Just saw the pictures.
What are freaking dirty guy .
My friend dare not try this with me ..
Best or no best friend does he expect you to keep washing his cum for him ? ? Nigga you cause it .
I don't know if he is older than you , but next time call him to the room and show him the mess. Tell him straight to his face that this is what annoys and irritates you the most which is not the first time he is doing it.
State categorically that if he needs to keep crashing at Ur place no more ladies in the house pls.
I hope he doesn't have his own spare of the house key. Abeg lock him outside like 2 or 3 times if he does not desist from bringing dem girls . .
This action would let him know how serious you are , and if he has sense , he knows what that means !
My 2cent!!

Now I think u understand what I'm facing wit him..

Wtfork, frank317

Let me also tell u something.
There was a time around January ending / early February. I was in a 3 days prayer concerning my health.. I know d kind of guy he is and I told him "bro, I'll be having 3 days prayer/ vigil concerning my health from Wednesday till Saturday.. Please, no gf tins for now. Allow make I finish prayer". He said no problem.
I went to vigil for those days mention. He stay at my place.. On Friday I went to vigil but forgot something so I went back to for it, to my surprise he already brought d lady in. I talk to him dat very moment that didn't I told u about d prayers I was having, he said he's sorry that he don't know d girl will be coming, I didn't mention a word, I went to church, as I came back, to my surprise again, he uses my room, pour his seed d bed sheet.. I was so annoyed that day

frank317:
Then he should forking tell him to stop messing up his place.


As a guy, I will tell u this excuse makes no sense. We were all bachelors once and I know how these thongs goes.


I am confused.

Nø 2 may not make sense to u, but this is my place. he can't just bring someone in anyhow.

frank317:
My thinking exactly

but u can't as well see how he messed up d whole place

Wtfork:
Well. Different people with different personalities
I really don't have a problem accommodating a friend if I stay in a three bedroom flat and he happens to be a womaniser as long as he doesn't mess up the place and always tidy his space .

That was why I asked if there is a particular reason the act of his friend affects him !

Nø 1, he always mess up d place.. check thru page one and see those pictures I uploaded.
Nø 2, he won't even tell me 1 of is girls is coming. same tin last nite. we slept together and before midnight, he brought d girl in.
Nø 3, I'm not a happy man for now coz of my health, that's y I stop my girl from coming for now.

PrimadonnaO:
Na really holy! Too subtle for my liking. How about this?

"You might not particularly like this, but I just need you to stop bringing those girls to my house. Queen is even asking to come around and I have to personally stop her. I'm far from comfortable about accommodating strange girls in my house and I can't suck it up anymore. I know what I'm facing at the moment and how much I've spent on my health. Who knows where it's coming from? You're my G, but please, respect this boundary."

Still subtle, yeah?

I love this.. thanks..

kallmemrB:
bro the fact that you know what to do but don't wanna do it is nauseating

bro I actually know what I can do but looking for the coolest and effective way to do it.

kallmemrB:
maybe I need psych Eval or not ain't the issue but you need... Without communicating with him about your challenges how do you wanna stop that issue

if not that u need a psych evaluation, u should understand what I'm saying here. did I tell u I can't communicate with him about it?

people do call him my PA in d street coz they know us as 5&6, but I'm not comfortable anymore. imagine I'm treating HBP and I couldn't sleep since I'm awake around past 1am. I can't keep inconveniencing myself coz of him.

frank317:
Be careful when u listen to a woman's advise. They always never get along with each other.

what do u think I can do bro. I'm tired of that. I just want it to stop. u may not understand y I wanna stop d act, but I wish u can understand

PrimadonnaO:
You allowed him too much excesses... and he's proven that he's not deserving of such. He can't clean up after himself... he can't use his sense to not make a habit of bringing girls to a house that isn't his...and even having them sleep over!

Such guys are no-gooders. They have no boundaries. Which quarrel are you scared of? Why should a quarrel ensue over your own right? Don't be a sissy! This dude will keep taking advantage of you. This isn't a charity case. Tell the young man to realise your house is your house and he can't do as he pleases! Tell him you don't want his babes in your house!
People like this ehn... they'd always have more than one gf. And I sincerely wonder the kind of girls who do meetups at a guy's friend's place.

thanks.. I think you understand me more
this is the text I'm planning to send to him now


Sorry if dis offend u. I just want u 2 stop dis 4 nw. Even Queen wanna come, I've 2 stop her myself. I knw wat I'm facing & Hw much I've spent on my health. Who knows where it's coming frm, so 4 now I wanna keep tins around me holy.

How about the above message?

PrinzCarter:
Chase am oo but u no get gf or wife y u go dey stay alone anyway get a gal to stay in for like 1 week she should complain abt it to him den u take action so it doesn't look as if ur wicked problem solved.

I'm not married so that's y I'm living alone, also I accommodate him so I won't be alone throughout d nite.
I'm just angry with myself now for allowing him from d start.

frank317:
He needs to have a good explanation for the sake if tomorrow. That's his best friend we are talking about and I am sure there is a reason why the other guy feels comfortable bringing his chicks to the house.

This is a man's thing, he must act with his brain and not heart like most women do.

I remember years back when I was serving. This loving roommate of mine always brought his girl to the room (our beds are close). I liked my roommate but didn't like the fact he brought his girl in most night.

I reacted to this and this had an effect to our relationship. Looking back I wished I had just let things go because I really didn't have reason to be angry but for jealousy (which I even denied to myself)

The Op can't just say he does not like this guy bringing his girl for nothing. Perhaps he wish he was the one having the girls. Perhaps chicks do not fall for him (despite doing better than his friend) like his friend.

If it's washing stains, ask the guy to make effort to keep the bed neat. He is ur friend, don't let woman palavar spoil thinks.

And pls go out a little... U only live young once.

sorry bro.. this is not jealousy. I've my own girl too, so that's not d issue.

this is my T-shirt for God's sake. because it's over a year I wore it doesn't mean it should end this way

he just left with the lady. check thru d picture and see how messed up it looks. I've to wash the bed sheets and bed cover and kept it after he messed up everything.
just check the picture I just took 10mins ago after he left now. this is my T-shirt I've left in that room 4 a while, & he use it to clean up d mess. did I tell him I'm not using d shirt anymore? I just don't want to av problem with anyone that's y I'm looking for a low-key way to tell him.
I've show it emotionally but he don't wanna listen. I've been ill over 3 months ago and he doesn't really care. he'll just tell me not to think of it that I'll be fine.. that's all he kept saying. I told him on Sunday that my girl want to visit me and I stopped her coz for now I'm not happy about my health and I wanna be alone and I wanna keep tins holy, and today after I slept around past 10, that's when he sneak d girl in.

ghettochild4u:
Open ur mouth... Tell him its got to stop n ur house no b hotel or motel ooo....
Abi he's paying rent.. U shd travel for one week n go with ur key n see how he will react..

I used to travel with my key sometimes. I've once travel and left my key for him only to got home and see all stuffs he made with my apartment, since den I don't drop my keys. also I'm looking for a very decent and understanding way to table it down without causing quarrel. I know u understand me bro

Rocktation plz to d FP

aanuoluwami14:
Always go on your knees for prayers, read the word of God and declare good health into your life, you are healed in Christ's name, amen.

Amen. thank u so much

Wtfork:
You did not specify why you got tired of him bringing different puccies , other than the stains you claimed to clean up ! I guess your sickness had nothing to do with his puccies..


Could it be that they make different ring tunes at night which does not allow you sleep well or they eat up your food and litter the whole house or it's just mainly because he does not tidy up the room ?

I'm not saying my sickness has something to do with it but he know what I'm still facing and thousands I've spent on it. it doesn't really feel it. what concern him most is bringing in his gfs.

kallmemrB:
Sometimes I think some nairalanders need psych Evaluation... What do difficult in "Bro stop bringing ladies to my place am not comfortable with that poo"

What do u think nairaland will do for you?

u may not understand why I'm seeking for advice. and besides, u don't need to say some people need psych evaluation. who knows maybe u need 1 too.
those that understand me will know y I'm looking for the best way to table it down without causing anything..

Please ignore my grammatical errors.

I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.

it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.

please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.

I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.

right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.

I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

even though no Nairalanders wish to help but God is always dere for me. I was able to raise d money for my medical test and it has been completed yesterday. though it took me more dan a month to raise d money but glory be to God.

let dem fight wella. na dem sabi

such a bad news. and I like d man o

macello4:
all man u fans are dog eaters wolverharmton go soon beat dem barstad club.

I feel your pain.. sorry ehn

anyone to help a bro?

I discover over 65% of my total urine for a day comes in the night while I sleep. what can be the cause. my urine is very deep yellow during the day but clear in the midnight. what can I do about this as I'm having low urine during the day despite taking a lot of water.

thank God I finally did 2 out of d 3 test and I believe d 3rd one will be done soon. even though no one seems to help but God is faithful

I've been seeking for help but no 1 to come to my aid. I hope u won't post RIP if anything happens to my enemies

Sissy3 , dominique , lalasticlala, Seun,
please I need help before 25th of this month that the test should be carry out. please I haven't see anyone that wish to help me out. this is just for the test to know what's wrong with my body system. I've spent up to 70000 recently on this, that's why I got broke. please help me. feel free to ask questions so that you can confirm it. please don't ignore me. good people of nairalander please help a brother. you can safe my life

mod Sissy3 , dominique , lalasticlala, Seun, and others, please I need help. I need to carry out this medical test by 25th of this month and I don't have a dime with me. please for God sake, help me out. let me be able to continue with my medical treatment. 10,900 is needed for the test and I've spent a lot on this illness, that's y I could have much to go for the test.. please help me