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ericsmith:
Honestly i don't see any wrong in, ur OGo bringing gurls to ur apartment when its obvious he as none, i think the major thing heating you up is low self esteem,jealous out of envy ... if you sef be player with multi chicks i swear you won't have full details to complain these much. naa 3bedroom naa,haba!
dierich get babes or find a steady one that would come around often, that will limit ur friend actions, guys think twice b4 visiting there hommie with babes around all the time ... there is no way you can possibly tell him to stop bringing gurls that it wonnt sound like you downgrading him ...he is using your house becos he feels you are not using it use your activities to limit him not necessarily words

read thru d 1st page very well. I've my own girl too not try to read all d 1st page comments and quote me after.. thanks bro

pawesome:
dont go and scatter 10yrs friendship because of woman o..thank God is 2 rooms so just let the guy be

I know if you're d one, u won't take dis.
can u see how he use d bed? check d 1st page and see those pictures, and I believe if truly u see it, u won't talk dat way.
I've corrected him several times but no changes

Ela020:
Read in between lines. The guy is sick and is trying very hard to stay alive. He is hypertensive and also has some other health issues. The last thing he needs now is what his friend is doing.. He doesn't need all those things near him. Why u no go pay rent but u go carry woman. U

thanks bro. I hate people thinking with dere anus. that guy R2bees ehn.

R2bees:
I swear bro.. The friend brought a gal and he still expect him to leave the girl and sleep on the same bed with him. WTF!!

u Mumu o. when I didn't expect he's inviting someone over and I wake, didn't see him, won't I look for him while in d middle of the night

R2bees:
As long as i have my own girl Someone like me won't even mind sef. I can continue dressing the bed as well as washing the bedsheets too, no big deal... Highest i will tell him to join me with the washing too.... ONE THING WITH LIVING AT SOMEONE'S PLACE IS THAT AT SOME POINT THEY WILL START FINDING FAULT OR GIVING YOU SILLY ATTITUDE, imagine this guy saying he had to fake illness just to stop him from bringing gals in his apartment.. TAKE NOTE: This is his own side of the story and we didn't hear from the guy...

onye mgbu

d way u reason Ehn.
show me where I said I fake illness? is English hard to understand or what?
u mean if you're in my shoe, you'll be washing d bedsheet he's using, and also happy he's using ur cloth to clean d mess? think bro

Isoduwa:
And you think we nairaland believe you? Guy stop �� all this complain and tell he to leave your house not the end of the world
A friend in need is a friend indeed me and my niggis cool with whatsoever because life is what you make of it � fvk the house fvk the bed fvk the clothes � finally fvk you for nor be true friend because you need to speak to him than bring this sshit to nairaland

den fvk ur life

verifiablefacts:
I couldn't help asking this; with 3 b/rooms,you guys still sleep on the same bed?

of course. he doesn't own a room here, he's a friend and we do gist a lot. so what's d crime in both of us gist and sleep in same room Wen d bed is enough to accommodate 2 people?

kennydotkom:
But HBP at what age,? When you are not marry, how come you are suffering from Hblood pressure? I don't understand bro. My advice is that you can tell him that ur pastor gace u a spiritual instruction that you suld not allow any strange human.or or accept visitor for now.

I'm still U-30 and my BP is 160/85 b4. it's around 140/80 Wen check last

dreamwords:
There is nothing wrong in my friend bringing in a woman as long as they abide by the rule of the home, as along as they don't disturb nobody,
But learn to open up sometimes, and tell him ,"guy you no even clean the bed when you finish, no they do like that I no like am" years comments like that , be a man guy, he is not paying house rent for you

I've caution him b4, yet no changes. I've told him already. no more visit from anyone.
even my gf isn't coming for now. I need peace

gbosaa:
Which city do you live in?

Ibadan

gbosaa:
He is not your friend. I’m angry with you right now. How can you keep tolerating such a pig. He contributes nothing meaningful and positive to your life. He is causing you lots of misery.

What exactly do you mean by that you don’t want to cause any trouble by telling him. I can understand anyone here who might feel tempted to insult you or get angry with your inability to speak and stand up for yourself.

That man and his host of girlfriends are filths and shouldn’t be allowed in your house.

Do you mind sending his phone number. I’ll speak on your behalf.

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thanks a lot bro. I haven't see him since he left with d lady 6am yesterday, but I'll talk to him. I've also text him on his whatsapp yesterday afternoon but he's not online since 3pm yesterday. I've gotten some tips from people here and I've decided to talk to him. like u said earlier I'll speak for myself.. thanks so much bro

mmadu5:
i dont think your serious , you might be trolling on here , cos if your serious you would not let your friend ride you USE YOUR HEAD IF YOU HAVE ONE

Ok na

Mutemenot:
Op, What you need most is on how to tackle your HBP not this guy's issue. If you call him a friend indeed, you must have reasons for that so I advise you not to add up to your illness .
HBP is not a friendly issue, you need to leave you home and mingle outside with people . Free your mind from whatever that led you to that. You may need to listen to other people's problem, u 'll definitely see reasons not to worry over yours . Things 'll get normal ok..

may almighty God bless u d more.
I don't know y at a very young age having HBP, but all is well. thanks once again

mmadu5:
dude wisdom? what kind of wisdom is that you dont even feel comfortable in your own house ., your friend doesnt respect you he sees you a weak pusssy nigga . that is why he has the mind to release sperm on your bed sheet and clothes .shame on you weak asss nigga wisdom my foot

lol. u might think I'm weak, but he'll no. so, can u tell me what you'll do if you're to b d 1?

mmadu5:
my God what kind of fuckery is this , you use your money to rent a 3 bedroom apartment with your own sweat you come invite friend make him live with you friend wey no contribute to paying the rent . yet your asking us if we can tell you what to do . what kind of insanity is this biko

u might think it's insanity but no, it's wisdom

abiodunfat:
Hello I hope you are better now.Am so sorry that nobody came to your aid.
I will advice you that you call your friend and explain to him that you are not comfortable with the way he bring different girls to your house.
Also,I will like to advice you to surrender your life to Jesus Christ if you have not done so then lastly I will advice you to go to MFM along Lag/ Ibadan express road for prayers.If you can try it,am so sure that you will thank me later.They do deliverance every week apart from the week that precede the monthly Power Must Change Hands every first Sat of the month.
It is well with you in Jesus name.Every plan of the enemy over your life is cancelled in Jesus name (amen)

amen. thanks so much. I really appreciate

MercylessMercy:
And everyone believed this scripted write up.

Do they share monetary gain for front page topics abi wakanda fuckery is all this attention all about.

Sick since December and not diagnosed of anything

Three bedroom apartment yet you don't see him beside you. Okay the third room is a motel. The second room is a football viewing centre?

Total rubbish

u funny. I posted this not for FP but for advise from people with same experience.
and pray to God never been sick and not yet found a diagnose after 3 Months.
What's my gain if I lie about my illness. isn't that a curse upon myself.. reason bro..

laudate:
Pls repeat the kidney function test, at a proper well-equipped standard hospital. Then see a qualified medical doctor or an urologist to treat you. The former test you did, may have been poorly done, or might have been done with sub-standard reagents.

thanks bro, I've done it twice.. d 1st one around Dec 24th, and d 2nd one last week Tuesday. the results are almost d same. or let say the same. done in different lab, both standard

valentineuwakwe:
The guy above is right. it's your house n no one should make you uncomfortable in it, except maybe you paid for the house jointly and don't want to state it.
call him aside n talk to him...besides, you both are single n adults, if its one particular girl he keeps bringing, maybe dats his fiancee so ignore, but if they are different then tell him to stop...be a man n dame the friendship consequences. ..

I swear, at first I've no problem with d way he brings his girls in, but after a while I notice d way he uses d room.. I don't even know how to explain for u to understand me.
dere was a day he changes d bed upside down coz he can't sleep directly to it coz of d way he messed up d bed.

hardeyincah:
Mr man

Dont be selfish

He is your friend

U have extra rooms

Whats the big deal.

The only discomfort is that he doesnt take care of the bed sheets, tell him straight to always wash after use.

Or are u jealous he bangs and u dont?

lol. ur last statement makes me laugh.
well, I've told him several times on how he use the room but yet no changes. if u read my post, I've to be d one to wash d bedsheet and even d bed coz its full of cums. can u take such act from ur friend?

Tsparks101:
Bro, if its about the way he uses the room then you tell him and let him know he should tidy the room next time. If he's your close friend as you say then there is nothing wrong in him bringing girls to your house since you're not married and not also on the same bed you sleep. Taking girls to friends house is common with guys and I don't see any big deal in that .

I swear, I've mentioned it several times. I even told him to get a bedsheet, yet he kept messing up everywhere

flokii:
The first questions is.. Are you straight?

I don't see reason why you should share a room and even bed with a guy in a 3 bedroom apartment honestly.

If your answer to question 1 is No.. then sorry is your case.

Yes.
so can u tell me reasons y we should sleep. separately when we can gist and joke about the day and slept off. he owns no room on my apartment. he only come around & not his permanent place..

fairfora:
You have posted this topic before and it drew the attention of many , OP. I think you're lying, just trying to make people read a myth. It's not ok

can u please show me where and when I posted this b4?

seborrhic:
Jokes aside.
How can any normal guy in today's world have 3 bedrooms but still prefers to sleep in the same bed with another guy that is not his relation,if not....
I feel the Op is just vexed that the friend's girls are taking away attention from him.
Disgusting!

u don't av to think that way. I believe you're matured.
this is my apartment and he pays no bill. we are best friends and we used to gist b4 we sleep. sometimes I slept in d sitting room anywhere I like. we don't need to sleep separately when we aren't sharing d bills. he has no property neither his cloths in my apartment.. so

HarunaWest:
What kind of illness if I may ask...Is it terminal since u have been treating it since December.... Simply tell your friend that ur no longer comfortable with him bringing chicks around shikenah...he will vex bub friendship will remain...Ave don it before.

I can't really say. it's just some symptoms and I've went for medical test, but couldn't discover d main cause.
Thanks for d advice Bro

AskProf:
You give him the liberty of a room in your 3 bedroom apertment yet, he comes to mess in your own?

exactly bro
despite d fact dat I went for prayers, and I've told him earlier dat he should give me 3 days b4 his gfs will b coming, and he knows after vigil, I'll come to relax on dat bed.
he can't even use d other room.

frank317:
Ya sorry, I didn't get it clear... U sound like a nice guy. U need to be a bit firmer. Be a bit out going too.

I am more worried about ur health? Why did u call it sickness when after test, everything is normal Why do u still think u are sick?

thanks bro. I'm happy u understand me now.
about my health, I still feel more concern because after spending like 80k, it looks like I never took any medication. I'm still feeling all symptoms describe above

JesssCA:
Do you have a girlfriend or fiancée?
Invite her over to stay with you at least for a day or two
Her presence there may discomfort your friend from bringing in different girls. He is such a dirty person.. look at his cum that's on the bed. Yuck!

after a day or two my gf will go back and he'll resume back to his ways

sacajawea:
Has it always been this way?
If no, When did This Start?
Finally but most Importantly Are you feeling any major pain Or discomforts?

it started middle of Dec. no pains, and test are okay, just HBP and I'm on medication

frank317:
What are u doing with such a dude?

can u also see d reason u it looks like I'm over reacting or I'm not been friendly enough coz u thought I was reacting coz he's bringing in his gfs and also coz I av 3 rooms, should be able to release one to my best friend.
I knew u don't understand me earlier and I dont really know to explain myself

sacajawea:
@dierich Br we Help you what Exactly is your illness?
What's wrong with you?

Thanks bro. you're d 1st person that asked about it.
my illness is dat my urine is always deep yellow and my urine output is very low. I may drink 3 litres of water in a day and pass 40CL in 24hrs.
also sometimes my urine will be more in d night.
I've done series of test which they are all normal.. like scan, kidney test, urinalysis, and lot more

Thanks to everyone for your contribution. I'm so happy a lot of people understood me now.
tciro. I dont av a friend around that's y I always go home straight after work. I've also been trying to get home late but dis guy can even come in by to 11 Which I must be at home by den.
also about gf, I've a gf but she's d type dat can't stay with me that's y I'm saying all alone