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vivienpaddy: I met him on net,he came down all d way from lag 2 Port-hacourt 2 c me.He is married & am married 2.Since den,we can't do without each oda. We r seriously in luv.

If actually you're married, I feel sorry for your husband who thinks he has a wife!

andromida: Maybe the deepest place was rigged with thorns.

Thorns! Na, it's a beautiful encasement for a privileged few and it's ever kept glowing with the finest flames of love and she was delicately placed in it because she's special!

oratileb: ........thank you for letting me go ha ha ha ha hahahahahhahahahha you are so funny

Thank you too for having no grudge against me!

[quote author=lola.luv]^^^
What's the use of 'popping the question' when you're not treating somebody right[/quote]I treated her the way I thought a lady should be treated by her man and if she says I treated her that bad, I think she's only being unfair to me! She was drifting and I needed to make her understand that she's mine and nobody else's! My actions were based on the unadulterated love I have for her but then, she misinterpreted it and chose to sail in a different route!

oratileb: Why waist my time hoping it will work out when the signs are clear that I am just wasting my time. Why keep forgiving when I can just be happy with someone else that will take me seriously and that I don't have to forgive every second........move out of my life let me find someone that can cherish and respect me allow me to be loved cause I never meant anything to you all you did was bring me shame and misery. I will no longer be an option but rather a priority in someone's life that will take me seriously I am done being your fool you can cry all you want you can apologies all you want I am thru.

You were kept at a special place at the deepest part of my heart and I was just a few steps away from popping the one big question that I had longed to ask, but now you've publicly denied my love and screamed loud enough for the whole world to hear that you no longer care! Well, I can only say goodbye and wish you a happy stay wherever you go! Take care!

oratileb: ..........thanks love will do and anyway i have been alone for 4 months now but just that he keeps begging and that just irritates me all of a sudden i am the kind of a woman he can not do without all of a sudden he says he cannot live without me......guess its tru you never know what you got till its gone......and i am so gone

Go jor! I'm through with you too. It's over between us!

rooftech: when i posted this i used the words challenge i dont know why the moderator changef it to displace.this prophesy was said 2010
the time is ripe bye bye pdp

Are you confessing now? Ok we don hear, let the mods. come and do their own confession, it's not too late!

[quote author=Prebaby.G.]I have many boyfriends some months ago, which i think there's a gain in keeping boyfriend meanwhile, i started dating with each of them one by one wanting to know who's the best among them nat knowing that all boys are the same. Each day i date with one of them what i will start hearing is that " he needs sex" i so much become anonyed, all dis sex things makes me to broke my relationship with each of them so that i can save my virginity to my dream husband. And i later realised that as for me being single now is the best than loosing my virginity to dis way ward boys. My fellow girls be careful of whom to date with!!![/quote]Madam, waitin you say e happen to you? I nor undersand the language you com use write that thin o! You say you dey test run boys to find waitin? I wish you could make me understand what you're trying to say!

Wow, it's not easy what you're passing through and I commend you for not yielding to this temptation! But then, can you keep sleeping out for as long as she wants to stay? What if her man calls and asks if she has gone back to lagos? What would you tell him? Would you tell him yes or that she's still with you? What would he think if after two weeks he finds out that she is still with you and you did not tell him? Whichever way you Look at it, it's better her man is in the know about it! Be serious with her and tell her why it's wrong what she's doing and that you might be left with no choice than to tell her boyfriend! If you fear that your telling him is going to cause problems between the two of you, you might get into the same problems by keeping him in the dark! I know this is difficult but you have to do it! If she wants to stay for a while, let her call her man in your presence and tell him so, so that you won't be accused of keeping his woman in your house! At the end of the day the most important thing is that you have a free conscience!

WackyJ1: ...and if you do anything with here remember that, that is how your girl will also do the same thing wherever she is with another male friend

This one no follow!

Obipat: . U don write waec? If yes wat did u get in english?

Free the guy, you got the message he passed across! It's not easy mapping out your mind in a language you're not used to! By the way what do you want to do with his score in English?

Let the OP come and swear o! All these insults rained on TB. Josh. will come for a pound of flesh o, if you just deliberately twisted everything to attract viewers! Don't say you were not told! There is still time to make amends. Lol.

tempo egovin: Hope GEJ has heard this

What is there to hear? This so called prophecy, which is a conditional statement, is hinged on so many factors that are unlikely to see the face of reality to make it come to pass! It's too lame to base your hope on!

maga1: even a one year old can prophesize this...MTCHEEEEWWWWW

Tell them!

If a lady stays for even one week before saying yes, I'll cancel the proposal!

planetuzor: wao a very wonderful piece of write up....love it..

Wow, thanks.

It's the same reason you would have more value for something which is scarce than that which is readily available without even your asking for it! When you get something through your own effort you tend to value it!

topup: Wow!! This would make such an amazing novel lool.

If any guy wants a quick speech to melt any girl's heart, this is it. However I was caught off-guard by the end, marriage!?!? But you haven't even asked her out yet lol.

Lol. With what I experienced? If there was something more than marriage, I wouldn't even mind! After all in marriage we seek all of it!

topup: Am I reading this right? You are in love or lust? Nothing about the personality, all about the physicality, can a marriage be sustained by physicality alone? Who knows..

*Smiles* Both love and lust! I'd know her personality, albeit little, in the course of arousing her interest in me! Anyway love conquers everything! If I can make her fall in love with me, then I can change her personalty if there's need to.
Physicality is the first thing I see and if its not appealing then the whole marriage thing is dead on arrival.
When the heart beats, then I explore deeper into the personality. For a marriage to stand there must be a balance between the two!

topup: Also, if you've kissed, and reached the 'depths' of this woman, can you really be a secret admirer. I struggle to think only one half is experiencing such delight and the other (her) is oblivious.

lol. Yes I'm a secret admirer! Remember I created an imaginary world that connected the both of us! Perharps, this was lust! I did those things in that beautiful world detached from reality, but physically we were still strangers! She doesn't know that my heart is inflated with such feelings for her!

topup: Perhaps, you mean that you appear like it is casual, but inside you melt with a greater desire and passion for her?? Is that it?

No, I meant she had been with me in my world!

topup: Hope you speak out, you have to put in effort, your literature is beautiful, and so could your love be if you just let it.

topup: Wow!! This would make such an amazing novel lool.
You have to put in effort, your literature is beautiful, and so could your love be if you just let it.

Thanks

To show that you respect me, you must do the following:
1) Don't do anything of importance without my knowing about it.
2) Don't shout at me when you are expressing your feelings.
3) You must see me as knowldgeable enough and capable of giving you advice when the need be and you take it seriously.
4) You must respect whatever it is that is important to me.
5) You must respect my decisions; if you disagree you pass your feelings across politely.
6) You must make sure I'm well taken care of in every way that you're supposed to.
7) You treat our matters as private issues.
You must give me your attention whenever and wherever I need it.
9) You must not give me a reason to think your mind is outside my home.
If my woman can do this, which is not difficult if there is love, I can say she respects me!

M M M: digitalsignal

U lost ur signal again

*Smiles* Ha, why did you say that na? I thought I had all my signals!

achina boy: too much for me to understand

Wow, sorry! perharps, I was wandering in a world outside the realms of reality!

Good Boi: Girl-worshipper?

Is that what you think I am? SMH...

The Secret Admirer!
So many hopes, desires, infatuations and love have crashed on the shores of reality and sometimes, we pick up the pieces and move on while at other times we remain behind to wallow and brood...! Would all my feelings for you just amount to building castles in the air and end up being dashed on the sharp realities of life?
I don't know if I should feel this way about you! My heart has been caught in a web of love and desire and the strings of my heart are being pulled with so much intensity that it's begun to cave in! I never knew a feeling could be so painfully enjoyable at the same time! You've dazzled my heart and changed my emotional constitution, having known you for just a while; and etched at the bottom of my heart are your images which have become my companion in my sojourn here on earth!

Since the day our paths crossed, I've begun to live in a second world of which I am the architect and you are the cornerstone! A world I often drift into to see your angelic face and your bewitching and therapeutic smile that give me strength and make me want to achieve the tallest dreams! I frequent this world to bathe my mind in thoughts about you and wish that reality could be made in this fashion!
You're the hinges on which my life turns! While my heart is burning with a desire to make you mine, you do not even know that I feel this way about you! Why is life so tilted? I've felt you so close yet you're not close; I’ve felt the warmth of your breath; I know the taste of your lips; I’ve held you in my arms and we've made a journey into the moon where we surrendered ourselves to the overwhelming pleasure of 'togetherness' and I've explored your body deep enough to know the parts that set you at the pinnacle of a plane attainable only in the realms of extreme ecstasy, yet we're so far apart!

How do I tell you that I feel this way about you and you will become mine so that a world that could only be reached through the path of fantasy will be accessible on the plane of reality? I've been waiting for the right moment and circumstances to take the lid off my feelings for you to see what they are, but that perfect moment seems elusive! I fear that this beautiful world of escape would be coloured should you say No to the contents of my heart! *What shall I do? I've never approached a lady to start a relationship; they've always been the ones coming! Why can't this case be the same? Where do I start from? Should I wait until she gives the green light? But how is that going to be without any effort from me?*

I'm confused right now but I'm trying to devise a strategy that will make the 'heat' felt both ways and then the both of us will move towards the center! We would be like charged opposite particles on a collision course in a magnetic field! We'd collide at the center and then smile at each other in agreement to go along the path of reality to get drowned in the most beautiful atmosphere, where nature can bear witness to our 'togetherness', while I ride you into this fantasy world which is made reality; and I'll hear the sound of your voice in rhythm with the pace of the ride, while my soul is buried inside you to drive away the accumulated heat! Afterwards, I'll look into your eyes and you smile back, then I'll ask, ''Will you marry me?'' and you say....?

Valentine love, ehn? Ok. *Washes eyes with pure water in expectation*!

[quote author=pastor prosper ]Yeah thanks man. I just found out its not like a date. Dude just offered to buy her suya. Not like they wld be hanging out or anything. Besides they sort of grew up together.[/quote]...nice!