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@OP:
I can appreciate your feelings! Happenings these days have been so disquieting that guys no longer feel safe in thoughts about their ladies being in the company of EVEN their own blood relations, let alone a neighbor taking her out for a suya engagement! *Thinking why she even told him in the first place! Is she trying to get something he is not forthcoming with? Well, what's my business!* Suya engagement indeed! Anyway, you do not own her; neither is she your property! You can only express how you feel about her going out with this guy whom she sees as a family friend and not to stop her! You can assess how much she wants you in her life by her reaction! If she wants you enough, she may not want to displease you just because of one day suya date! Or she may make you see why it's not harmful to go out with this neighbor of hers? What I'm trying to say is that you can't stop her if she decides on the contrary! You should let her know your point of view on issues such as this so that tomorrow you won't have problems relating to them, for you would have known where the other person stands with regard to these issues!

xyoung: Now this chick ass is the finest I have ever seen this year, so nicely shaped, big with swollen hips
At first I thought I was the only looking at it until I stepped back and observed other guys reaction
Guess what? I noticed almost every1 looking in the same direction while some other guys were busy forming making innocent enquiries to her inorder to get her attention
I wonder why we guys can't avoid peeping/looking at a georgous chick!!! Are we cursed?

How can we be cursed for appreciating the marvelous handiwork of God, ehn? We're given eyes so we can Look at such beauties and assess them to see if they fit some internal standards! Please give me the address of the chick so I can do my own mental appraisal, abi na eye appraisal sef! *Chuckling*.

Samegirl: . Just 2yrs

Two years is enough for a guy who's serious to define his relationship! You see, my dear, there is a price for everything given in excess of demand! From what I can undersand, you probably, must have given him more than what is required at this stage! You probably made him feel he was everything and your life depended on him! You may have even appeared desperate, and he's now feeling being cornered! In the game of love, before you tie the knot, you make your man desire you, you make him want to keep you by his side, and this, you can achieve by maintaining some level of independence! Don't make yourself appear vulnerable to a man! Now, it appears he's having a second thought about continuing the relationship and if you continue confronting him physically, it's likely not to yield any positive result. He's an adult, I suppose; We humans tend to have little value for that which is readily available! Try to create some scarcity around him; give him the time he needs to re-evaluate his feelings for you; don't call him and don't go to his place! I appreciate the difficulty of what I'm saying but, dear, you can't force him; you can only play mental games with him! I advice that you look outside, get some male friends to create that feeling in him that he's gradually losing you to someone else. Look happy and behave as if you're just starting life!
If he calls you at the end of the day, pick his call and try to know why he is calling. If he wants you to come to his place so you can talk, don't appear desperate to have him back; sound indifferent and tell him politely that you can't come to his house, that rather he should arrange for a neutral place or he could even come to your house if it's convenient! If he doesn't come back, cheer up and move on; put the past behind and let go! And again, change your perception about men and face reality. Every man can't be the same. Wish you good luck!

Idriswhite: I know you love your partner. Valentine day is a day to show him/her much of love. What are your plans for her or him?

Why would I tell you my plans? Do you want to tell her what my plans are? Anyway, I'm planning to break-up with her before valentine!

fholarsmile: My boyfriend of almost 2yrs pinged me yesterday
That he is doesn't feel the peace to go on with the relationship
I don't even know wot to do..can I survive this?*crying*

But you sef, wy yu com make am restless na! For two good years, the guy had been enduring the relationship! That's pretty long enough for one's endurance to be stretched to its elastic limit in a relationship! Who knows what you would have done to him if he had told you that in person! *Chuckles*....It's called safety! Please, let him be! By the way, what did you request as your valentine gift?

HIV1: Abeg all you lazy guys wey dey cook and ladies wey wan their husbands cook meshonu.Can you Imagine Banbagida, Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, Ajumobi , Fashola , Dangote or Mike Adenuga cooking food for their wifes. The fact that you don't make it big in life should not mean you should compromise you being a man. Also ladies should stop looking down on their men by asking for rubbish jobs Nonsence

Lol. Have you seen the wives of any of those people you mentioned cooking? If president Goodluck loves his wife and she cooks, perhaps, one day, on his own volition, he might just walk into the kitchen and say ''Ha, you're cooking!'', putting his arms around her waist from behind and giving her a peck, ''let me help you slice the onions''! *Smiles*.

HIV1: Abeg all you lazy guys wey dey cook and ladies wey wan their husbands cook meshonu.Can you Imagine Banbagida, Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, Ajumobi , Fashola , Dangote or Mike Adenuga cooking food for their wifes. The fact that you don't make it big in life should not mean you should compromise you being a man. Also ladies should stop looking down on their men by asking for rubbish jobs Nonsence

Lol. Have you seen the wives of any of those people you mentioned cooking? If president Goodluck loves his wife and she cooks, perhaps, one day, on his own volition, he might just walk into the kitchen and say ''Ha, you're cooking!'', putting his arms around her waist from behind and given her a peck, ''let me help you slice the onions''!

Op, how old is this relationship?

If you love her you can do it at your own will! This is the extra length you go to make her happy!

achina boy: you could end up being the next Wale Adenuga if you work a little harder,,,,,,you are wellcome

Wow, thanks!

2sexy: hahaha... Am not good at taking pics and I hardly take any. I no wor wor dat na 4sure. When I say sexy, I am romantically sexy as well as in bed if I am really high. No jokes! D last chic confessed she hadnt felt anything like it. Mind you, it had nothing 2do with 5ex oh. Just ordinary romance oh plus she hot pass u lol. I dont fall in group of guys who just boast and boast but when we talk about the real thing, they know NOTHING other than stroking like faulty car engine.

Reminds me of my ex-classmate who thought he knew the thing until we got talking. I found out that he, just like the many out there, only knows how to stroke... I doubt those his chics eva had a good time with him.

I had to start teaching certain things and all he could say is "o boy I no get time 4 all dis. My own na 2enter come out"

Not 2long ago he got d chic preggy and I warned b4 hand dat d girl just want to trap him, but he thought he knew better than I since he had stroked many chic than I but subsequent event unfolded that proved I was right! Today, he calls me boss, master...

Bros take it easy na!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]come back so I can tell u a little secret[/quote]*Walks a bit closer to her*. Please, it wouldn't be nice if you shared your secrets with me! You're a married woman with kids and I think your husband is in a better position to be told your secrets! ...We're still friends despite everything, but I can't take the place of your husband! Thank you for wanting to take me into your confidence but then, I can't listen because, you're a married woman and you should confide in your husband! Take care! *Walking away slowly*.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]u know u still wanna hear wat I have to say....[/quote]* Heard someone talking and turns to look at her to make sure I wasn't mistaking*

Why would you want them to waste their lives in hope of being married, only to be dumped after some years, when others might have been prevented from coming into her life just because she had been telling them she was in a relationship that has no future?

2sexy: hahahah... c u? she aint hot period!

Lol. If she is the one I'm looking at, she's beautiful o!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I wanted to see ......[/quote]*He's going and couldn't hear or know what she wanted*.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]ur pants are torn at the back... [/quote]Never mind, I'll mend them when I get home! Thanks for your observation anyway! *Walks away, trying to figure out what her eyes were looking for around my waist to notice my torn pants*

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]wait before u go....[/quote]*Stops once again and turns towards her, wondering what she has to say*. Yes! *prodding her to say what she has to say*.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]but I thought u were my friend [/quote]*Turns back to Look at her*. Yes, we're still friends! The thing is --- I'd thought we'd be more than just friends, but --- that's not possible now! Please, I've to go. Thanks all the same. *walks away in disappointment*.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]can my husband and 5kids come too?[/quote]What! You have a husband and five kids? *Removes arm from her shoulder and steps backward a bit!*. Are you being serious? I'm sorry if that's the case! I think I have to go! Bye. *Moves away*.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]hahaha shame on u...it was my favourite underwear, I'm so hurt *crying*[/quote]Oh, please don't cryyy! *Puts left arm over her shoulder and wipes her tears with the right hand*. I only wanted to make sure so I could get a replacement for it! By the way, you Look so beautiful, can I take you inside? *looking into her eyes*.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]someone stole my underwear when I put my laundry outside to dry[/quote]So are you not wearing any? *Bends to make sure what I'm thinking is through*. *smiles*.

what do you expect when the guys are not ready to make a commitment! Ofcourse, they'd get pregnant for them in the hope that they'll marry them!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]im here[/quote]Oh, is that you sitting there? You seem worried what's it?

Ok...

tpacalipse: I hate fake people. And after all that bullshiit has been said to the lady, she will result to being beaten up every day after saying yes by the slowpoke who said all these crap.

I think a no from the lady will be more appropriate. Oya, Nairaland Romance genius attack.

Lol. The power to say no may not just be there if the guy had acted appropriately and made his 'feasibility study'! This is just the climax of a series of steps taken previously. And who knows, the guy may just be a perfect guy in whom she could find a world so beautiful she wouldn't want to experience another world!

onila: the power of your force and yr tool was able to make a girl pregnant

do u feel manly and accomplished

I definitely would, if it's my wife, and that's when I'd appreciate her the most! It's the only time I'd give my heart the freedom to freely fall in love! I so much like beautifully pregnant ladies!

ojjp: He is in love with a lady who is taller than him. Will it be embarrassing, marrying a woman taller than you? Does a man face any serious critics for marrying a lady taller than him? Pls advise him.

It all boils down to what he feels about being in a relationship with such a lady! If he feels comfortable and she accepts him, I do no see any problem! You can't live your life based on the opinions of others at the detriment of your own happiness!

oluswaggz: most guy prefer marryin girls dat dey bliv ar decent. Despite d fact dat dey av already spoilt some girlz lyf. If every guy shud av dis motives toward girlz den i tink der wil b a lot of single ladies out der. Or wat do u tink?

They'll be left for you na! Abi you don't want them either? Lol.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]im sorry i only read a quater of it then i commmented. i like people who jus get to the point...[/quote]Oh, the point! I'm already at it! Where're you? * Wondering if I get what she is saying*.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I don't think I wld still be awake to hear everything he has to say[/quote]I serenaded you last night! Hope you enjoyed it!

vislabraye: Do girls still fall for that? It sounds like a cheesy line.

Sir, this is the final step in a series of steps taken to make her fall in love! Does it sound cheesy in that light?