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mo6man: We are both in the hospital now, there has been a very serious explanation between me and the doctor, anyway sha, She's about to do the test in the first hospital; Plz guys nd ladies wish her luck... even though my heart is beating fast, my girl seems to be at peace... Let's go thereShine your eyes!!! Waiting anyway! |
lindiwey: Of course I read d post and not all d comments.my point is dat its possible d poster is responsible for d pregnancy,dis shudnt be ruled out.hv u seen debosky's comment? he has confirmed my statement that d age of pregnancy does not start counting from d day of intercourse bt frm d 1st day of her last period..Stop arguing, it doesn't make any sense going by what the op said! What round off can turn a pregnancy that is supposed to be one month and two weeks into three months? Assuming her period stopped on the 28 of Jan. and they made love on the 1st of Feb! If at the middle of March, she had not seen her period since Jan 28, she would be about a month and two weeks pregnant which is what the op is saying! How could this be rounded off to 3 months? If it's two months, one would understand but 3! What magic is that? And I still say the OP is not responsible if the time period the OP is saying is anything to go by! |
lindiwey: Ok! I just read the post and comented witout goin through all d comments n replies from the OP.d NYSC stuff got me tinking twice and she's not bn straightforward.she should b able to tell u the exact date she saw her last period she's matured enough to keep record of that.she should also do a scan to know knw d exact age of d pregnancy and match it wit wen she said she saw her last period..Next time read before you call people ignorant! |
lindiwey: That's y I said you guys are bn ignorant..I repeat,d age of a pregnancy does not start counting from the day of intercourse,its from d last menstruation.am talking from experience,am married with a kid.@OP,pls explain this to a doctor he will enlighten you more.also doctors or well informed married ladies in d house should pls shed more light on disMadam, I don't see what point you're trying to make here! If the pregnancy counts from when she stopped menstruating, is it not obvious to you that she was pregnant before they were intimate? The report says she's 3 months pregnant while they were intimate less than 2 months back! This means that she stopped menstruating, from your own position, before their intimacy! So what are you trying to tell us? |
@OP you didn't do well! If you had not seen her cough you would have gladly kissed her without minding if she had any problem! The only time I'd subscribe to this, is if she's not a steady partner! Otherwise, you really disappointed her! |
lindiwey: Pls don't crucify her o.u guys are just bn ignorant.its very posible she's almost 3months pregnant..u had sex wit her 6 weeks ago dt dosnt mean she shud b less than 6wks pregnant.d counting starts from when she had her last menstruation bfore intercourse.so if she saw her last period 2wks bfore u guys had sex dat means she's 2mths pregnant..sm ladies stil see their period wen pregnant but d flow is not as much just spoting bfore it ceases finally.pls confirm from ur doctorWhat are you saying? If her last menstruation started before they were intimate then who is responsible? |
mo6man: To my surprise she came back some days after asking for it and without hesitation, u know now say body no be firewood, i have to give her a very sweet n sensual love making, after this comes the dilema...U sef ehn, as body no be firewood, u nor even fine something cover yourself! You just enter something wey go service come back without knowing weitin dey inside! Na wa! Well, you said body nor be firewood na, what else can I say! |
mo6man: Just to let u know dat she just called now saying she is certain that her pregnancy is not up three months, she said she only missed her period late last 2 months, i can't seem to understand the timing of her period, ladies plz i need a little explanation to this...Has she been saying this all along when the pregnancy issue came up? I mean, has she maintained this position right from the beginning the pregnancy test result says she is 3 months down the family way? |
Let her go! There's no point fighting to keep her. She's been blown away in the wind and you barely exist in her mind! |
mo6man: i'm beginning to see some helpful hints from all of u... let me share a little incidence that led to this predicament. When she came back to lag i did all possible best to make love to her but she refused saying it's been a long time since she had s3x, to my surprise she came back some days after asking for it and without hesitation, u know now say body no be firewood, i have to give her a very sweet n sensual love making, after this comes the dilema...This was after she had gone for the test and discovered she was pregnant! She needed to nail it on you, simple! |
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Marry who? Why should he marry such a lady who tries to trick him with something like pregnancy? someone else's booty call while she was serving?He said he loves her to the point he wouldn't mind taking responsibility for the pregnancy if he only knows whose it is! So the choice is his entirely to make! We can only help point out what lies ahead! |
mo6man: I love her and i'm ready to marry her, but the issue is really getting me mad, i can take full responsibility of her and the pregnancy, but i just want to know what's behind the mistery, maybe it's a mistake from the doctor or whatever....What mistake are you talking about? That she's not pregnant or that the pregnancy is not up to 3 months? Are you the one carrying the pregnancy? She says she's pregnant and a doctor confirmed it! She says she stopped seeing her flow three months back and a doctor confirmed it! Now are you saying she doesn't know what she's saying or whether she's pregnant? |
mo6man: I'm in lagos, she has been in the east for the past 1 year, she just just finished her youth service and returned to lagos last 3 months,You're definitely not the father of her baby! But if you love her as you say, then you can marry her still! |
mo6man: plz stop making me laugh now, but it's actually a true suggestion, i need to ask u if u didn't do it at my back...Am I your twin? Can she mistake me for you? |
mo6man: Are u sure u can really do a DNA test while pregnant? pls do u know any hospital where i can do that? i'm ready to pay any amount to do the testI really love her so much, she's beautiful, intelligent, smart, wonderful, caring, loving, affectionate, sexy.... i could go on and on....She's all this and you still separated with her for a whole year after opening her up only to come back and reopen her! Are you living in different states? Why does it take months and years before you come together? |
mo6man: That's y i'm confused. but she says no other guy has ever seen past her knee not to talk of seeing her unclothedness. I tend to believe her a little but d dates are contradicting...Please if you have a twin brother call him and ask him if he's been doing anything with her! No stone must be left unturned to unravel this mystery! |
mo6man: Four days ago my girlfriend informed me that she was pregnant, i didn't believe and i had to take her to the hospital to clear all doubt, lo and behold the test result shows she is 3 months pregnant. I could remember instantly that the last time we had sex was just 1 month and 2 weeks ago; Now i'm confused because from logical reasoning it shows that the pregnancy is not mine, but she says she hasn't had sex since one year ago when i broke her virginity until about i month and 2 weeks we recently had sex. I really love her so much but i don't know what to do, Pls i need serious advise onlySo you don't know that these days even mere communication gets a lady pregnant especially if you were the one that opened her up? Haven't you been talking to her since then? ![]() |
Dyt: Bt d thing sweet her abi?U nor see sey d tin nor swit am? Dat's why she's crying na! ![]() |
Caracta: Nah...i'm closer to my dad than my mum...and that's because I thought my mum was "all over" me, no privacy...always showing too much care. Many people will never appreciate their mothers until they grow to become adults. Growing up, I've come to see my mum as a pillar. That woman is a woman!Protective mum and you were running away to get freedom which dad was ever ready to give! ---Happy for you! |
Wow! Indeed different strokes for different folks! They must really be in terror to want a state of emergency! What a heartless boko people that derive so much pleasure in taking lives! |
Caracta: Yes...both of them, over and over and over and over and over againHmm, that's good! I thought every girl hate her father!!! |
Kai, see suffer! Girls, some of una nor good at all! After the free house, free food, free cream, free soap, free clothes, free allowance and all the attention na dis kind of punishment!!! My brother it's painful but just Learn a thing or two from it and let her go; face your school and don't think too much about what she's done to you! |
lynpetra: My mom yes but my dad HELL NOHa, nawa o! Na so? |
babyosisi: ![]() |
I like your post in a way but if you say the ladies get it from their men, then from whom do the men get it? May be from the trousers they wear, who knows! |
Aleovera: Someone (I think signalmind) mentioned that I intend to do right not because I love my boyfriend and that I was influenced by friends amongst other assumptions.So are you saying that you want to break-up with this married man because you just realized that you love your boyfriend? Seriously, is that it? And while weighing the the possibility of that, ones mind would be stretched to wander on the reason why you would ask a boyfriend so loved, and because of whom you want to end an affair, to be on a break, for no fault of his, while you sort your feelings with regards to a matter about which he should even be apologized to! That's the height of insult if you asked me! Asking your guy to go on a break after 4+ years because you got entangled with another guy and got confused as to who to stick with, is what you call being in love? If I were your boyfriend, that would be the end of whatever it was we had going! And you said you sensed you were falling for this guy and the wisest thing you could do was to call him and tell him how he's been able to penetrate your walls to have a pull at the strings of your heart!!! Your gleeful indulgence in ignorance as regards your actions is way beyond the limits of comprehension! Though am beginning to like you for being mature in your responses! |
Master and slave in a relationship? Guy I can understand your predicament! She's probably naive or shy! Once you're in a relationship, your behavior towards your partner changes from your general behavior because there exists now a special bond which should make her see you differently from the way she sees others! There should be intimacy in the way you relate and not some kind of general outlook! She's probably a good girl though! Still talk to her some more! Tell her how you want to be treated and she just might be that perfect girl for you, you know! |
Aleovera: Thank you for this. I actually have been taking steps to return to my level of spirituality and its really tough. I mean this has never happened to me before, I used to be a strong advocate of no sex before marriage only to fall for this!Oh my left hand!!! You mean for the 4+ years that you've been together he never for once did the doable? Not even for once? And it was a married man, whose wife is giving overdose, that plucked everything!!! Wow, this is not fair! |
Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problemsAny reason why you are not ready but want to keep him around? |
Aleovera:The truth of the matter is that your interest in your boyfriend is weakened, having been with him for this long period of time! And again you've been greatly influenced by your friends to view their perspective on issues like this as not being totally wrong! They made you see why it's not wrong to have an affair with a married man! And as it would happen, this man was around the corner, ready to get you spoilt and you decided to give it a try since your friends say it's ok! Your wanting to leave now is not because you love your boyfriend or that you feel you're hurting him, but because the good mind inside of you is saying that what you're doing with a married man is wrong and you now feel the hand of guilt caressing your mind! I understand why you now find it difficult to let go even when you feel guilty! Love as an emotion, blossoms over time when pampered and watered! He made you feel good and wanted, perhaps more than you ever felt and now guilt shows up to remind you that he's already taken and what you're doing is wrong but then, you've been made to feel too good to just let go and now hesitation sets in to take hold of your mind and the struggle continues! I feel very strongly that your present boyfriend would have hit the pages of history should it have been the case that this man was not married! Anyway, I like the way you've responded to all the attacks! |
Are you saying that what you believed in was wrong because you have cheated on your man and known the truth? |

Of course not! That would be mighty silly of me. Actually, this situation has made me more open minded, realizing how careful I should be about taking things for granted. Before now, I didn't have issues relating with men, married or not because I thought certain boundaries can NEVER be crossed! But with this situation, I thread veeeeery carefully knowing temptations happen and the seemingly untouchable can fall carelessly.