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Chomzy19: I am begining to feel Nigerian relationships are becoming more n more lyk prostitution each day, men pay for sex by taking care of the girls, n[b] if the guy does not give d girl things; no sex, n if the girl does nt give him sex; no money[/b]. Who feels d same, lets talk

It's more like business to some girls. They feel they're selling something and if you must have it you must pay for it!
But come o, what is the work of my koboko if it can't flog her into giving me what I want free of charge or rather servicing it herself for optimum performance? *Just thinking aloud*.

ochukoccna: And Ebele Jonathan is what?
The new Einstein on the block
Buhari is not an orator nor very coherent when speaking but creek Joe trumps him by far when talking about who's daft and who s not

Your post made me laugh but the reverse is the case!

ayeboy1988: Plz can som1 hlp me out,i reali luv dis gal nd she alway recivin diffrnx cals frm guyz nd diffrnx messajx nd dis alwayz maks me angry nd fightn wit her,cos i'm a jelous guy nd she told me i'm too jelous.she said dat if i truli luv her i dnt nid 2b jelous.plz is it true i nid som1 2 hlp me out.because i dnt c somtin wrong been jelouxi abt somtin dat is so precious 2u.

I'm sorry but shouldn't you rather be in school learning to improve your writing skills than chasing little girls around?
What do you call the crap you put up above?

mataz: Did u buy her air time (recharge card) so she ca call and text u

Must everything be recharge card? What happened to having true feelings for somebody and wanting to connect?
*Wondering in C-sharp and thinking in oracle*.

Are you trying to say that you felt she loved you at some point but present realities seem to suggest otherwise? Well, if it's what I'm thinking, she probably may have not developed feelings strong enough, within this period, to be termed love! Your thinking that she loved you might just be a romantic illusion. Try to make an impression first!
---- perhaps you're on ''probation'', who knows?

Yes, even more!

[quote author=Ms_Steph]Why can't a guy stick to a single girl??[/quote]How can he stick when you're not sticky?
I smile in C-sharp and laugh in Oracle!

[quote author=Ms_Steph]What song gives you strength wen you are going thru a heart break?[/quote]I've never really been heart-broken before, but if I should be at some point, I'd like ''Love can kill'', by Digital_T.

nice4life: My fellow NL, there is these Akata babe that I manage to get her number from her however she kind of proving hard to get.I fix a date the first day I got the number but she later complained that she couldn't get off from work.She takes a while to reply my sms. I dont know if these are signs thats she's not interested. What do you think guys?

You don show am your ATM card? People say it works like magic!

[quote author=Table Leg ]Hahaha... People are vexing!
Jona, your days are numbered, Otueke fisherman!!![/quote]You're just like your user name! Very silly, with a brain stuffed with garbage!

Damelliot: Please is beating your girlfriend is the most weird
offense you can commit to her, to me I think there are
lots of bad behavior that is even more ridiculous than
beating a girl why I'm saying this is that some girls
think beating is the most highest offense a guy can
commit in relationship but to me I believe there lots of
behaviors which is gravity is higher than beating,
although it is a bad habit to raise your hands on your
girl

U na no go keel me for nairaland with big big eenglish and express constructions!
Anyway, as you rightly said ''some girls''. There're a few ladies that see beating as an appetiser for se-x. To them beating is a prelude to intimacy and whenever they want to be intimate, they look for trouble in their partners ---- weird!

joelsky: ur username says it all.. 'greedy'.. Are you ready to fund his calls?

Spot on!

[quote author='mide eniafe]How often are you meant to call someone you're in a serious relationship with or someone you claim to care about?

I was chatting with a few friends earlier today and one of them brought up this topic. One was like twice a day, another said once once a week. I was like, Like Seriously? What a flip! My boyfriend should call me everyday.

Anyway, what's your take on this?[/quote]Twice in a month!

oluspicy: [b][/b] I always wonder why some ladies moves around dressed to expose their bodies. They do it with much pride,undermining whatever your thoughts or action. Is it because they wanted impress with what they are endowed with or to show how blessed or rich they are? Or what else... I saw a lady at Ikeja along the popular Computer Village. Her dressing was so provocating in such a way people around(esp guys)were gapsing for their breath. I felt so bad about different comment that was uttered that day. This is a complete moral laxity on the womenfolk.

You don keel eenglish with yor writing o!
Abeg dis one pass me to understood; yu feet interpreted am for market eenglish make I follow know Watin yu dey talk? Abeg I don stretch my brains but I nor understood am! Thanks in anticipated yor understood!

I agree with the title of your thread. Women have a way of making life pleasant and beautiful! They make our lives glow with a passion to want to live! They make you want to achieve more; they inspire you; they make you smile at the world; they give you that feeling that makes you say ''Yes, I can do it''. I can't imagine my life outside the enclave of a woman's love. Life would be hell without you ladies! A life devoid of a woman, hmm, I don't know how to describe it but would be turning on the hinges of boredom!

wbankz: [color=#990000]Hmmmm heavy sighs...To the male folks,will you allow another man spend a night with your wife and not just a night,i mean an overnight sex,BUT he is willing to pay you a whooping 10million naira cash the next moring..its diff strokes for diff folks.let me have your comments on this.

Interesting! So women have now become objects that you can do anything to and take any decision on behalf of at your whims and caprices! Wow!

I heard even strangers do it but I don't know why because I've not kissed before! Maybe I'll ask myself why, if I close my eyes when I eventually kiss! Then I may tell you why people do it!

Chai! Everything is news on nairaland as long as it's about President Jonathan and Alamieyeseihe! Even if a dog urinates somewhere and I say it's Alamieyeseihe, it's news and it's time to rain curses!!! Wow!

So to whom or what are you attracted?

topup: Nice replies! Any clarity on the situation.. have you made any moves since?

We're friends now! Thanks for wanting to know!

2rutalk: Is just that I never fall in Love since I was born,but for over 3years now there was a girl that makes me to fall in Love,the problem now is we are planning to get marriage and I never know any of her family member,she keep telling me that her Father is rich, and I don`t know them,so Am confused I need your advice please.

There're no signs.

spicyshot: no hanny, i aint gat no freckles and i aint gat a deflated backside, i think he's seen sum1 else n now throwin comparisons... He's a 'HE' rememba?

Then learn to keep him glued to your backside!

nkemmu: Good Morning.please my colegue has been dating this guy for months now and often times he mentions to her that he loves her but not to the extent that will lead to marriage.am worried about this friend of mine who has refused to move on claiming God told her that guy is her rightful partner.please do you think her staying in the relationship worth the time and prayer?

What is your problem? She said God told her he's her man and you're here asking us what we think about her staying with the man! Is our thinking going to change God's verdict?

raqueal: OK, i guess you are of the opinion that a woman must do bad before her man begins to misbehave right? as much as that might be true to some extent, it is believed that most men are known for hopping and flocking to whoever catches their attention even if their girlfriends does no wrong.

Not really; weird, but just like the law of diminishing returns, sometimes when you give a guy too much of something he gets bored and loses interest and takes you for granted!

No Qualms: I disagree with you. He never loved her in the first place. True love never dies.

As far as romantic love is concerned, it can die at any time and wake up at any time! Romantic love is a conditional love and once those conditions that inspired it are no longer there it begins to dwindle and over time may lead to untold consequences!

cindyrella: C'mon come back here!
Where do u think you're running to?

Help me ask am o! Bros, where thou runet to!

raqueal: You are wrong there. I've always had the freckles on my hands and shoulders, i have an oily skin which i take good care of, i wear minimal makeup and and as for the behind, it isn't flat, it's always been the way it is. I think he's met someone else and running comparisons

If everything he saw is still in place, then your problem could be attitudinal or perhaps a case of intoxication of excess supply of emotional desires, sucking out the very feelings he had for you at the beginning!