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RomanceRe: Please Advise: His Girlfriend Studying in UniAbuja Ghosted Him For 4 Weeks by Dimaya: 4:54pm On Jul 17, 2023
Nonywendy:
Akpa amu di ka gi. Mkpi
cheesy
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 4:35pm On Jul 17, 2023
Billgatessecond:
Let me burst your head brother..
I think it's the rich men that caused all this ..
Honestly I work in one of the biggest fine dine restaurant in Lagos .. I wouldn't like to mention the name most of our guest are usually expatriates and men of high calibre...
I can tell you I have seen sanwo Olu 5times , Tiwa savage and so on


Main story

There was this day while I was working in the restaurant. A group of people had a little get together. One of the guest called me and told me to take a bottle of don periong that cost 564k on the restaurant menu to the girls table . I did so then they gave me their numbers to give the man ..

In my head I was like wtf ..

Honestly when girls like that tell they colleagues about there experience.. those ones to will be in search of a man with 90 billion dollars.. then the pressure from her fellow friends begin to rise so as hatred .. you know women are easily attracted to what they see and hear ..


So when you see a lady that is billing u on a first date don't be mad at her most of them just want to belong
That's why a young girl will say confidently to an old man that she is not his mate.
FamilyRe: They All Mocked Her, Until FG Removed Fuel Subsidy. by Dimaya: 11:06pm On Jul 16, 2023
Zigzagman:
nairaland members don't give advice they look for your mistakes and judge you according. If you don't have one, like typographical error they will always manufacture one psychologically to taunts you.
What happened? You asked for advice and they embarrassed you?
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 5:06pm On Jul 16, 2023
pansophist:
I wan start to repent.

Make I no talk wetin de my mind. grin
Talk am cheesy grin
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 4:18pm On Jul 16, 2023
Jazmine10:
someone who is begging for a second hand phone to buy online is antagonising someone who can employ him! wonderful! I no go school but i go sponsor you and your generation go school. Ode oloriburuku no be my fault you cannot read and comprehend with your first class pako. As you dey one hole for trenches no know say voice to text dey @ Dimaya you too follow collect, ewu Gambia. Una think say na every woman who na fit bully for this nairaland? I go piss ontop una head. Foolish mofos, mention me for nonsense without manner una mama no instill on una una go collect wotowoto.
Go and sit down, abeg. I resemble your mate? You need to take a chill pill, perhaps largactil?
FamilyRe: They All Mocked Her, Until FG Removed Fuel Subsidy. by Dimaya: 3:36pm On Jul 16, 2023
No biggie
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 3:34pm On Jul 16, 2023
Godoverevery:
Someone who is actually educated typed thishuh No paragraphs, just total jargon.

Nawa oooo.....this one go born and help her child with homeworks?? I just pity the child in advance.
I tire o
RomanceRe: She Breaks Up After Buying A Phone by Dimaya:
OP, you need to watch this video- When women earn more

It made frontpage a few days ago and it addresses exactly all the issues you've described above that you're passing through. It explains why you can not ignore her actions now

Pay particular attention to what the young men say, (Not the opinions of the ladies in the video)

Thank me later.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 3:08pm On Jul 16, 2023
marlow1962:
Na poverty they cause am, chia e no go better for Nigerian politicians, especially apc ppl.
Don't blame bad manners on poverty
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 1:27pm On Jul 16, 2023
I forgot to add this:

The women in cities are juggling multiple sexual partners thanks to tinder, Uber and Airbnb. You ask a lady living in Lekki for her address and she send you the location of a short let apartment.
RomanceRe: Please Advise: His Girlfriend Studying in UniAbuja Ghosted Him For 4 Weeks by Dimaya: 12:58pm On Jul 16, 2023
Women are like flowers, they bloom for a relatively short period and fade very fast. It's best to attract bees in the bloom period, because during the fading period, attracting bees for pollination will be very difficult.
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 12:55pm On Jul 16, 2023
Imagine a girl rejecting 10K and saying it's beggar money. For this same Naija wey all man dey "favour me IJN"

huh

The video dey burst my head.



Khd95:
Who takes a girl on a date in this Nigeria??

Him dey craze

These girls are moving wild and dangerous, that was how one was advising them to reject 10k from guys and instead give it to beggars, you can imagine that kind of mentality


Say I don ask Nigerian girl out, I would rather be inside smoking loud and listening to motivation mixtapes and hustling, worst still I go tag along man dem

That’s more fulfilling than spending hard earned money on lazy unproductive girls that will still tag you broke because she believe there is a guy elsewhere that can spend more, money wey her papa no get oo

One question, a broke girl and an a struggling girl are in a relationship, but na the girl be the understanding one, how??

Dem no Dey male am for her own family too
FamilyRe: Marriage: Women Decry Lack Of Financially Eligible Suitors by Dimaya: 12:51pm On Jul 16, 2023
Oluwaseunbandur:
Nigeria itself needs money, let everyone look for money
Marriage is not meant for everyone
Am 37, am enjoying my life, I attempted suicide February due to family and friends pressure of getting married by fire by force
Baba, tell them o. "Go and marry, go and marry", everyone will turn to encouragement officer. When the bills land, they'll start practicing social distancing grin
HealthRe: Young, Unmarried People Today Share Their Daily Mental Health Struggles by Dimaya: 12:46pm On Jul 16, 2023
Zigzagman:
If as a man for any reason u earn less than ur partner, u have somewhat lost respect.

If at the beginning u were earning more and somehow by twist of faith she begins to earn more, same rule applies, u will still loose ur respect.
True
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 10:35am On Jul 16, 2023
correctguy101:
Savage grin grin
True talk
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 9:52am On Jul 16, 2023
wirinet:
You are still living in the 18th century, where women roles were in the kitchen, Bedroom and laundry room . Even in Conservative Muslim societies, that mentality only applies to the poor helpless masses, the elites empower their daughters with good education and good jobs.

In the 21st century, women have the same opportunities that men have. Women have been presidents/prime ministers of other nations, C.E.Os of multinational cooperations and captains of industries. Its only Nigerian women that have such entitlement mentality, you would think they are physically and mentally disabled.

I dated a US based girl in my youth, I took her to double 4 on Awolowo Road, Ikoyi. When the bill came she offered to pay her own bill, she said that's how it's done in the US. I refused and paid both our bills. She was extremely grateful to me for paying her own part of the bill. A typical ungrateful Nigerian girl would even insult you on top.
That girl is the exception not the rule. Where do you think our girls are picking up this entitlement mentality. From US videos. Also, did you hear what the fat idiot was saying in that video. How can someone as fat as that with stinky stretch marks be talking about her standards and specs? This world haff spoil finish
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op):
A friend gave his exgirlfriend 350k+ because she wanted to buy a new phone, the said phone apparently costs over 800k.

She called him stingy. The original narrator of this story (draslo) was infuriated, like, wtaf?! He's a catch so he rarely has to impress women. It's usually the other way around even though they won't spend shishi.

It's even worse because a lot of girls are into hookups like is being discussed in this video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 7:08am On Jul 16, 2023
There are friends that will spend 200k on lunch with a woman they will sleep with probably just once without realising that they're ruining the girl for the next guy and also for herself because she will spend/waste the rest of her life looking for that same standard.

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