DiamondPant: If my decision to roll with a man who is financially responsible is the definition of arrogance, then thanks for the compliment.
A financially responsible man will not be dashing people 200K up and down. The type of man you described in your earlier post is not a financially responsible man
Zigzagman: nairaland members don't give advice they look for your mistakes and judge you according. If you don't have one, like typographical error they will always manufacture one psychologically to taunts you.
Depends though. I've gotten some of the best advice from nairaland though
Billgatessecond: Let me burst your head brother.. I think it's the rich men that caused all this .. Honestly I work in one of the biggest fine dine restaurant in Lagos .. I wouldn't like to mention the name most of our guest are usually expatriates and men of high calibre... I can tell you I have seen sanwo Olu 5times , Tiwa savage and so on
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There was this day while I was working in the restaurant. A group of people had a little get together. One of the guest called me and told me to take a bottle of don periong that cost 564k on the restaurant menu to the girls table . I did so then they gave me their numbers to give the man ..
In my head I was like wtf ..
Honestly when girls like that tell they colleagues about there experience.. those ones to will be in search of a man with 90 billion dollars.. then the pressure from her fellow friends begin to rise so as hatred .. you know women are easily attracted to what they see and hear ..
So when you see a lady that is billing u on a first date don't be mad at her most of them just want to belong
That's why a young girl will say confidently to an old man that she is not his mate.
Zigzagman: nairaland members don't give advice they look for your mistakes and judge you according. If you don't have one, like typographical error they will always manufacture one psychologically to taunts you.
What happened? You asked for advice and they embarrassed you?
Jazmine10: someone who is begging for a second hand phone to buy online is antagonising someone who can employ him! wonderful! I no go school but i go sponsor you and your generation go school. Ode oloriburuku no be my fault you cannot read and comprehend with your first class pako. As you dey one hole for trenches no know say voice to text dey @ Dimaya you too follow collect, ewu Gambia. Una think say na every woman who na fit bully for this nairaland? I go piss ontop una head. Foolish mofos, mention me for nonsense without manner una mama no instill on una una go collect wotowoto.
Go and sit down, abeg. I resemble your mate? You need to take a chill pill, perhaps largactil?
OP, you need to watch this video- When women earn more
It made frontpage a few days ago and it addresses exactly all the issues you've described above that you're passing through. It explains why you can not ignore her actions now
Pay particular attention to what the young men say, (Not the opinions of the ladies in the video)
The women in cities are juggling multiple sexual partners thanks to tinder, Uber and Airbnb. You ask a lady living in Lekki for her address and she send you the location of a short let apartment.
Women are like flowers, they bloom for a relatively short period and fade very fast. It's best to attract bees in the bloom period, because during the fading period, attracting bees for pollination will be very difficult.
Imagine a girl rejecting 10K and saying it's beggar money. For this same Naija wey all man dey "favour me IJN"
The video dey burst my head.
Khd95: Who takes a girl on a date in this Nigeria??
Him dey craze
These girls are moving wild and dangerous, that was how one was advising them to reject 10k from guys and instead give it to beggars, you can imagine that kind of mentality
Say I don ask Nigerian girl out, I would rather be inside smoking loud and listening to motivation mixtapes and hustling, worst still I go tag along man dem
That’s more fulfilling than spending hard earned money on lazy unproductive girls that will still tag you broke because she believe there is a guy elsewhere that can spend more, money wey her papa no get oo
One question, a broke girl and an a struggling girl are in a relationship, but na the girl be the understanding one, how??
Oluwaseunbandur: Nigeria itself needs money, let everyone look for money Marriage is not meant for everyone Am 37, am enjoying my life, I attempted suicide February due to family and friends pressure of getting married by fire by force
Baba, tell them o. "Go and marry, go and marry", everyone will turn to encouragement officer. When the bills land, they'll start practicing social distancing