₦airaland Forum

Aaaaarghmed:
Assuming a man married you when he had money,along the line he got broke.does that mean the respect should end because he is broke?if a woman has such mentality,dump her sorry ass.Date someone who likes and respects you genuinely as the head of the home wether money dey or not.we have lost our values,alot of women out there with entitlement mentality,money is important ,yes,doesnt mean all condition is permanent.

MrBrownJay1:
whether a man has money or not is IRRELEVANT to who has control in a r/ship... African society/culture and religion is very adamant about it. if you are a man, then you are the head of the family, whether you earn more than your wife and/or you are unemployed.



nobody, and i repeat, NOBODY should ever date/marry a woman who is A) disrespectful and or B) abusive physicaly/verbally to her man.... whether you are rich or broke. if that woman has a problem with you being the head of the family, tell her to go argue her case with Nigerian culture/society/religion.



you look for women who are respectful, caring, understanding etc and stop dating/marrying these liability women who value men upon how much money they have. if your woman's respect for you and your family is down to how much money you can bring, then that woman is a liability and should be discarded asap!

Zigzagman:
fixed. check your browser

Zigzagman:
In Nigeria and across Africa today, women today are struggling to find men who earn as much as they do.

According to the young women in the trending video below, a good man is hard to find, especially in this economy. There is a shortage of economically attractive men and this has contributed to battles for control in relationships in which the women outearn their men.

Although we like to think marriage is based on love, they say, it “also is fundamentally an economic transaction,” and women want partners whom they can call their equals.

Two of the women on the panel confessed they'd fought with their partners, exchanging blows over money and control.

So, here are the questions for discussion within this thread:

1. Does a “lack of good jobs” for men contribute to loss of male control in a relationship?

2. Have you been in a romantic relationship in which a partner who had economic power over you, was tempted to control you or abuse you physically or verbally?

3. How do you go about handling it?

Please watch the video and share your opinion.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdgb4cIcgec

Jman06:
Don't mind those career ladies. They'll continue getting used and dumped by men because they are fvcked up mentally regarding marriage.

Women should understand that the price they have to pay for seeking and gaining equal opportunities with men in education and employment is that they've got to give up hypergamy, otherwise, they'll continue to remain unmarried even in their 40s.

Nazgul:
Lol, I'm surprised that this is coming from you.

Those guys you see in clubs are your regular average salary earners, average business men, bet9ja lucky winners, drug pushers, and Yahoo boys.

If that's your definition of rich, I'm truly disappointed.

emmancipated:
It's really hard to fathom, honestly.
Maybe, we lack things to discuss, that's why some of these threads keep springing up.

Cromagnon:
what are their ages? Women only look for men when their eggs have dried up

Zigzagman:
A man isn't loved unless he provides something to his family

NoToPile:
It's like people don't know how expensive food is nowadays.

Except she want to be tearing bread all day that one sef you will by 1000-1200 loaf daily.

Quality20:
Are they not supposed to be happy that their wives are not asking them for every penny they need?

Zigzagman:
just leave students alone

Quality20:
How can u be saying this even u refused advising men in the past to marry those ladies when they were 25 n younger? Abeg no pour sand for the garri of those ladies who are 30 and older

dealslip:
Some of you are just really bitter people who think women are piece of wood with no direction for their life. If I told you to see women as fellow human being don't you think that is my mindset already. I believe you are not even married, yet you know people's type immediately. That's what we are telling you to stop seeing everyone through the prism of their body - see you talking about short, ugly, broke, rich. Stop seeing people by their looks and pocket.

bukatyne:
Thanks, God bless you also.