₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
The hookup girls just got the tag ¨student¨ because they are in the university. It helps with their pricing. Such girls are ashawos before, during, and after universities.

Change my mind.

Mindlog:
When you earn comfortably, you buy all those in bulk:. 10kg of garri, 10 litres of palm oil, 10kg semolina, 10kg of beans, condiments, veggies etc and have them delivered to your home at an extra fee. £200 some people earn in a day can comfortably get one ,all those things I listed.

are you a visa agent?

Dshocker:
Most women don't know how to control money, especially when they out earn than their husband.

not again

@op

95% of Nigerians are struggling. 40% of adult Nigerians are unemployed.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Things will get better. Just hang in there

Zigzagman:
Mazi Dimaya, you're just a broke dude

I am.secure enough not to get into a shouting match with a stranger on the internet.

seniorgozman:
I am aware, even me wants to relocate abroad. I don't think I will bring any babe there. I don't know the type of spirit that rules them over there

Also, unless God directs you, stay away from western women. They don't stay long in their husband's house

Zigzagman:
kapitain save-a-hoe. She belongs to the streets

Some men can't be rescued

Zigzagman:
which one be dis again? later una go talk say una wife dey disrespect una

He's captain save-a -hoe

emekalovepets:
All this stupid kid of 18 years will
Just come and be posting rubbish about woman … a uk model that gave birth at the age of 52 years old last week what is wrong .. continue bringing a child in ur poverty age na me and other people go use ur child do rituals i swear

So you'd advise women to postpone childbearing into their 50s. I'm.not sure you've thought it through.

There's never a good time to have children. I know folks who postponed having kids until they turned 35 and now 10 years later, they're still having difficulties conceiving their first child. So, not advisable

Zigzagman:
dem suppose ban small small girls wey dey do marketing job. Na undercover olosho work most of dem dey do

The things folks do to pay their bills

Jman06:
Op, I have stated the same view times without number on this forum but people always respond emotionally to the matter. Women's fertility declines with age and that is the fact!

The worst is that some unscrupulous wives would connive with equally unscrupulous doctors and find a way to put the blame on the man. They'll accuse the man of having low sperm count while hiding the real problem from him.

They do that in a bid to prevent the man from dumping his wife or marrying another. I have seen many of such cases especially when the man is not literate.

Our ancestors knew what they were doing when they insisted women get married in their late teens. Now we have immature twenty years olds who wait until they're eggs are spent before they get married

finallybusy:
What was his preek looking for between her thighs then? Women carry babies only for men they fantasize marriage over.

That's true. Or it could be they're quite religious and don't want to abort a child

WorldRichest:
She is MAD for saying they can’t find men to match them intellectually. Which intellect do these Oloshos have? Many of them are dumb prostitutes. I spent 8 years in 5 banks, and I can authoritatively tell you that over 95% of them are dumb. That is why the male bankers will not marry them. Who will marry a dumb Olosho?

E no go better for your Mama for saying that you cannot find men who will match you intellectually.

Baba don vex. E be like say someone don do you strong thing

AndroidAI:
If you can't read someone's intention, they will waste your time and dump you.

When you meet a serious man who is ready to settle down, you don't need a soothsayer to tell you.

After 6 months and nothing is happening, you can take over and ask him when.

It's better the relationship break up than continue wasting your time.

I think it's best if people clarify expectations right from the outset.

Zigzagman:
I had to go back to watch the video again to find out that the guy was an Igede man.

Igede men are the laziest men you can ever meet in Benue state. Lazy men. all dem sabi na to f*ck and nothing else.

Wait here let the Benue people catch you

Toktee:
Who wnt liability?




Nigeria's who.res with their entitle mentality.

I hate any lady that thinks she can make money with narrow hole and not hardwork.


Just because of single hole..
Taaaaah.

This table you're shakinh

JeffreyJunior:
As Nigeria is now, every male including he-goats should go for vasectomy and every female should tie their wombs until we know the direction Tinubu is going.

Padipadi:
One day, the govt of this nation ll wake up to cater better for the masses. Level 8 presently suppose they collect like N1.5m if they want to enjoy normal life.
Your wife no fit wan give birth via CS make u no cough at least N300K to N500K. As a civil servant, you can't access basic life support stuffs. It's pathetic in Nigeria. That's why I support cutting the earnings of politicians. Let everyone feel the pain together.
And we should be killing those guilty of corruption.

My brother, the thing tire me oh.

bukatyne:
I did not watch the video however would lend my two cents to the topic.

Dating and finding a suitable mate becomes a real problem for working women as they grow older. And one of the major issues is the time to find a potential husband and cultivate a meaningful relationship. Another thing is that most of their mates are married and those unmarried want younger girls not working or just coming up at their jobs so they can rely on them to cover up the slack at home.

Using myself as an example, if I did not have my husband before getting a job (we got married shortly after the job), I honestly doubt I would be married today. I neither have the time nor patience to cultivate a relationship now. If I managed to find a man today, cancelled dates and infrequent calls would have chased him away. Because I do not have the time, I cannot even properly vet him (physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally and financially) to know if he is the one. If I even managed to vet him, I do have the time and patience for the tweaking needed to have a smooth relationship.

Also, if we have lived in a certain way till our mid-thirties or older, it would be an herculean task to mould & fit ourselves into one another.

One might wonder how marriages are sustained with such a schedule; well you have a rhythm. After church, we can stop at Cold Stone and gist for 10mins before going home; I am not trying to vet him, I am relaxed. After work on Friday, we can branch to an eatery and grab dinner in 45mins; he is not trying to find out if I am a feminist or not so he is relaxed. WhatsApp chats or a 2mins call to check up on each other during the day. The days we have to work freaking late, we understand that it is the wicked 'capitalists' and a backrub and a peck makes the other person feel loved.

Ideally, I would often advise a lady looking at building a career or working for a long time or a demanding job to find a mate young and build a relationship on a solid foundation. When the job becomes demanding (and it would be), both of you can do the dance of adjustment without much drama (considering you are both sensible people).

The advise of 'build your career to a stage before getting married' is really pulling the cart before the horse. You have decades to build your career; like a person I admire said, it is much easier to juggle your job and childcare when you are at the bottom. When you get to the middle and top, there is a fear of missing our that you want to be present in important 'occasions'; you want to be present in the rooms where decisions are taken; which has an opportunity cost.

Great advice. May God bless you

Not all igede men

AndroidAI:
If you can't read someone's intention, they will waste your time and dump you.

When you meet a serious man who is ready to settle down, you don't need a soothsayer to tell you.

After 6 months and nothing is happening, you can take over and ask him when.

It's better the relationship break up than continue wasting your time.

You have a point

Zigzagman:
God know say my hustle pure. I no fit marry woman wey go come dey make more money pass me . Tufiakwa! God Forbid!

arrogant igbo man!