At OP, you need to plan your transition gradually into a new role. You have the choice to stay or leave. You're just afraid of the consequences of life without the 300K that the family pays you.
I'll strongly suggest you to watch this video: craziest job stories you've never heard and listen carefully to the experience of people who are battling similar issues with employment.
When Yemi, 27, a recent biochemistry graduate was laid off in February of the covid 19 crisis, he was still reading motivational books. What he didn't realize was that he was going to spend the next 6 to 12 months applying for a new job.
Everyday threafter, Yemi woke up at 6am, brushed his teeth, took his bath and ate a light breakfast of eggs and sliced bread. At 8am, he would dutifully log into job portals (indeed, my jobmag etc) and proceed to read at least 200 calls for applications. From 9am till 9pm, he would format his CV to each application's call and draft a quick cover letter. At the day's end, he would have sent out 40 job applications.
By August, Yemi had applied for over five thousand jobs and only got two invitations to interview. The first was a marketing job. The second was a supervisor position with a restaurant chain in Lagos. Over 4000 people showed up for the interview meant to hire just three supervisors. The role paid 60,000 naira per month with work hours being 6:30 mornings till 9:30 at night, Monday's till Saturday.
In this video: the craziest job stories you've never heard, Yemi and 14 other recent Nigerian graduates share their hilarious, thought-provoking experiences applying for jobs, dodging job scams, escaping kidnappers, receiving low-ball offers and managing the insults/frustrations from family members when you're jobless.
When Yemi, 27, a recent biochemistry graduate was laid off in February of the covid 19 crisis, he was still reading motivational books. What he didn't realize was that he was going to spend the next 6 to 12 months applying for a new job.
Everyday threafter, Yemi woke up at 6am, brushed his teeth, took his bath and ate a light breakfast of eggs and sliced bread. At 8am, he would dutifully log into job portals (indeed, my jobmag etc) and proceed to read at least 200 calls for applications. From 9am till 9pm, he would format his CV to each application's call and draft a quick cover letter. At the day's end, he would have sent out 40 job applications.
By August, Yemi had applied for over five thousand jobs and only got two invitations to interview. The first was a marketing job. The second was a supervisor position with a restaurant chain in Lagos. Over 4000 people showed up for the interview meant to hire just three supervisors. The role paid 60,000 naira per month with work hours being 6:30 mornings till 9:30 at night, Monday's till Saturday.
In this video: the craziest job stories you've never heard, Yemi and 14 other recent Nigerian graduates share their hilarious, thought-provoking experiences applying for jobs, dodging job scams, escaping kidnappers, receiving low-ball offers and managing the insults/frustrations from family members when you're jobless.
When that boss keeps saying you want to destroy the business,then i wonder how the customers got to such level of overwhelming him.
I aint saying that boss cant have any complaint but to predict this or that will happen anytime an error occurs does not make sense.
Must you add to it?
If i, 4 example, forget to place an item on the shelve,must u predict that ur business will collapse at my will?
If u speak of ethics, how does that mean u must assume that far?
Well, let me nail it!
I will never employ anyone only to see every human error as a reason to make baseless accusations.
Corrections are not even enough! If there will be change, then even adjustments will be made on job descriptions.....you cant give what u dont have and that includes extra time 4 certain things.
But when that boss expects u to spend hours upon hours upon hours per day or thinks u must finish in a few minutes despite the ratio of work load to pay,then what else?
U report to anyone,then he does times ten.
4get!
Being employed is not an achievement!
If u scam millions, u may end up frustrating ur juniors then getting paid 4 that becuz that thing they call rule of law is drama afterall.
Then u accuse me of scamming ur dead mother!
Ur fada!
I aint ur junior as well cuz i neva dedicated my life trying to get shit by faking anything!
How did the lawyers and judges even get their power?
The king of crooks says it was everybody that gave them or that they represent the society,made of wetin? And in what year?
They speak 4 themselves or/and their business partners or/and their bosses but what they may call ethics says tell the world anoda thing..
They know those they are working with or for.
Does this mean i hate all of them?
No!
If a 40 years old man is unemployed, i wont hate bcuz of that either.
Ur achievement is anything that helps ur health, so u feed well,rest well ,have medical checks,clothe well and any other thing that shows not poverty.
I aint advising u to scam but u may get it tru that and those lawyers and judges can even be worse than the convict....evidence is part of performance.
Hell Victorinho(i dont think i should always make sense, unless making sense should always mean what i think)
You know what your problem is You've never had to hire people to work under you. When you've experienced the craziest jobs available, you will come back here to delete all the epistle you wrote up here.
There's a video you should watch where everyday Nigerian graduates narrate what their eyes have seen in the workplace.
How we survived unemployment, fake job scams and poverty.
When you finish watching it, you will come back and thank God for your boss.
Sonnobax15: Any word wey dey come out of banny mouth, believe half and throway the other half inside toilet.... Because they can become waitress anytime and serve you an unexpected breakfast
Agozskey: Hi guys, I know u guys will banter me... I accept any form of insult tnx... My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and the relationship has been great, so we usually have unprotected sex buh I make sure I don't release inside her buh as God may have it, we found out she was pregnant and I wanted to keep the bby buh she didn't want to keep the pregnancy, so we decided to abort it, which we did with the help of one of our friends (girl). The first week wasn't okay, because she was experiencing pains everyday, due to the abortion, the second week seemed perfect no issues, she wasn't feeling anything at all. This week now all of a sudden she's exhibiting symptoms again... And she has not seen her period, meanwhile we've not had sex since... I don't understand again, I'm not really ready financially yet, buh I'm a bit okay buh the problem is her family, She's just 19 and I'm 22, pls any advice... Thank you
I understand the confusion you both must be going through right now. There's a video I'll recommend you watch that should provide helpful advice: I'm pregnant. Should we keep it.
Bradford111: Is been long me and my girlfriend saw in our 8 months relationship we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up
Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength
Minutes later she called and told me her bestie is around that I can send to her besties OPay account so she withdraw it and come her bestie even took the phone and talk to me for some minutes and later sent her bank details for me to send to
After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she was responding I thought they were playing with Me
After some time my girl called back I exploded in anger and said a lot of things insulting her and stuffs
After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp
Please I’m stuck what should I do?
I'll advise you to watch this video to know what to do because that's what will end up happening to you soon:
You have not realised that there is no romance without finance. None. Dont let Nollywood films deceive you, no woman wants to love an unemployed or low-earning man.
There's a video that made frontpage last week. I suggest you watch it: when women earn more. It describes exactly the situation you're passing through.
What do you think they're feeling? Because that's what dating a Nigerian girl mostly feels like. And this isn't even the typical Nigerian girl. The girl in this video is fat and still entitled.
So I'll advise you, save your money and start dating when you're ready to support a family cos that's what all these girls want.
You need to communicate with her. Devote a weekend towards sitting down to ask her what the issues are. Don't allow her push you over. Be concerned about her feelings but firm.
Also, does your wife outearn you? be ause you mentioned using her credit card. If she does, then the issues might go deeper than your present argument. I'll recommend you watch two videos that made frontpage last week. It addresses these your concerns exactly.
Watch how the women talk in the videos about money for insights into your wife. The key phrase here is "watch how they talk about money and their relationships"
RepoMan007: in a place that's equal distance from city and village. It is hard to even beat that N1k mark. If factored properly with gas and bulk condiment cost, it will slightly exceed that N1k.
Lance008: Bro if u no help for this present generation u are free from problem than to help You can continue helping a friend that need help and he will accuse u of using his destiny No joke
This is some hard stuff. You need to watch that video
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