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RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op):
Just remember that na who get money dey date smiley

The debate on who pays on the first date has even made matters worse:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IhvLmz8F7NM
RomanceRe: Please Advise: His Girlfriend Studying in UniAbuja Ghosted Him For 4 Weeks by Dimaya: 6:28pm On Jul 15, 2023
Nonywendy:
Simp no fit do shit. I go front u with woman u go melt
grin grin grin
HealthRe: Young, Unmarried People Today Share Their Daily Mental Health Struggles by Dimaya: 6:27pm On Jul 15, 2023
you can't change anything. the whole world is going to shit embarassed
RomanceDating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op):
Shout out to Draslo for this:

1. In Lagos, a date to go see a movie will cost you more than 15k.
That's if she's modest and willing to move around by public transportation. Note that 15k is 30 (very valuable) litres of petrol.

2. Unfortunately, a vast majority of our girls are not modest. Why? Because a date is seen as an escape from their real life.

For example, listen to the expectations of the fat girl in this video and ask yourself why would any young man want to date someone with such entitlement. For those wondering why men don't take Nigerian women seriously, this is why.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3-QfauWpew

This is why even after you've spent 30k on a date with a Nigerian girl who has gone around a lot, she can still end up tagging you a stingy man. And most girls share her beliefs.

3. A lot of women now measure a man by his material success.
It's become worse in Nigeria because today, people who brandish monies from illegal means are being celebrated online and offline. They are positioning themselves as influencers and role models. They are also standards set by unsuspecting women as their ideal partner.

4. Dating in the actual sense in Nigeria in 2023 should be ignored for those that haven't found their feet first.Imagine not owning a property or a vehicle and spending 20-30k per date at least 10 times a year.


what are your thoughts on the article and the video?
HealthRe: Young, Unmarried People Today Share Their Daily Mental Health Struggles by Dimaya: 2:32pm On Jul 15, 2023
STEWpid:
The only phrase I enjoyed in all your statements which is true is bolded above.

Yes! Nothing new under the sun and all atrocities have been there since the emergence of mankind.

I clearly understood the time of Abacha and sawdust in Lag.

I'll give you just only one e.g. so that you'll know where I'm pointing at:

CKAY in his recent song "By Now" said: "we supposed don dey fukk by now".

No one could dare say such in those days, especially for someone at his age!






















Meanwhile, it's extremely embarrassing that you referred to me as OGA!


Chai..
So how do we put the genie back in the bottle?
RomanceRe: I Need A Wife But Seeing Only HookUp Girls & Single Moms I What Would YOU Do? by Dimaya: 2:31pm On Jul 15, 2023
on this same section today, someone is busy asking where he can find hookup girls in owerri. the internet has enabled sex for money
FamilyRe: They All Mocked Her, Until FG Removed Fuel Subsidy. by Dimaya: 2:19pm On Jul 15, 2023
descarado:
I am a complete wazobia cheesy cheesy

But left Nigeria some yrs back.
Igbo, grew up in pH, schooled in East, served in Abuja, wedded in maiduguri, while schooling did biz in kano, lived in abj, got transfered to lagos, moved back to abj and out of the country. There are other states in between. Have met great people, some of these thieves( sorry to say that) were present at my wedding, while some were regular visitors at my house. Have entered some places and circles that well...., at my age...... let me just leave there so when I share stuff, it's from experience or what I learnt from seniors.

I was roommate during my first Yr with a daughter of one time deputy governor of your state and whenever he visits, it's bountiful. He usually pay surprised visit and I was around two times. The money I got was enough to last me for a whole semester not to talk of foodstuff. Man just dey share roommates money anyhow cos we are his daughters roomies cheesy

Wuse is like ikoyi of old.

I multi cook and freeze so I don't cook always especially soup. I also buy all ingredients in bulk. Hate shopping. Even pepper. I buy that in carton grin

If you have steady electricity, get 2 freezers and buy things in bulk during their seasons.
Very economical. And will reduce high BP kiss
Can you please give a breakdown of how you go about stocking your freezers, how much do you spend? which markets you buy from? and how long does it last for? I'm very interested.
RomanceRe: Please Advise: His Girlfriend Studying in UniAbuja Ghosted Him For 4 Weeks by Dimaya: 2:15pm On Jul 15, 2023
Zigzagman:
dey there. If to say no be internet, I go crush you lipsrsealed
I want to sit down and watch this fight unfold cool
FamilyRe: Marriage: Women Decry Lack Of Financially Eligible Suitors by Dimaya: 9:51pm On Jul 14, 2023
ideamonster:
there's opportunity for everyone if you search for it. you can't live in your village and hope that opportunity will find you
Now you're sounding like a motigbetional speaker wink
FamilyRe: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Dimaya: 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2023
Attention wanes
FamilyRe: They All Mocked Her, Until FG Removed Fuel Subsidy. by Dimaya: 4:47pm On Jul 14, 2023
Acidosis:
That's quite a longgg journey you've had. The environment one lives in really plays a huge role sha. That's one thing I have come to realise. It's almost impossible to meet certain people if you live or attend some "kain schools" grin

It's great that you've found ways to be resourceful and save money. The convenience that comes with bulk purchases is something I have come to embrace too. Going through your store, fridge, etc. and seeing things leaves a very lasting satisfaction. In fact, I don't like to be known as "customer daada" (like a regular customer) grin
I see your point. But this is a luxury afforded to folks who probably earn 200K upwards.
RomanceRe: Please Advise: His Girlfriend Studying in UniAbuja Ghosted Him For 4 Weeks by Dimaya: 4:16pm On Jul 14, 2023
Nonywendy:
Simp is that you?
how wan you take know say na him? If na you sef, you go admit say na you? grin
FamilyRe: Marriage: Women Decry Lack Of Financially Eligible Suitors by Dimaya: 2:17pm On Jul 14, 2023
Jman06:
The so called women empowerment is one reason fraud and corruption have persisted in Nigeria because men now resort to cutting corners in order to meet up with the demands of their supposedly empowered women.
d matter get as e be o
RomanceRe: I Need A Wife But Seeing Only HookUp Girls & Single Moms I What Would YOU Do? by Dimaya: 2:10pm On Jul 14, 2023
Zigzagman:
chairman or shay na madame, men sef don dey collect money. country hard grin grin grin
ha ha ha grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Men Stressed By Their High Earning Wives by Dimaya: 1:59pm On Jul 14, 2023
benqo01:
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If she manages to buy something for herself u will see on her Whatsapp status I LIKE THE WOMAN AM BECOMING

Or she send recharge card to her boyfriend....her Whatsapp status be like WOMEN SUPPORT YA MAN

Well I tyre for Dem o
ha ha ha grin grin grin
RomanceRe: MARRIAGE DILEMMA: The Woman Earns 7 Times More by Dimaya: 1:34pm On Jul 14, 2023
good video
FamilyRe: Marriage: Women Decry Lack Of Financially Eligible Suitors by Dimaya: 1:28pm On Jul 14, 2023
Zigzagman:
i keep saying that after you finish all these female empowerment, who is going to marry all these empowered females? who?
I also am wondering the same things
RomanceRe: Please Advise: His Girlfriend Studying in UniAbuja Ghosted Him For 4 Weeks by Dimaya: 9:44am On Jul 14, 2023
Khd95:
“Your pretty girlfriend”is presently guzzling another gbola somewhere, give her few times she will be back to you

Since una no wan hear say she doesn’t belong to you, but the streets
grin
FamilyRe: Marriage: Women Decry Lack Of Financially Eligible Suitors by Dimaya: 9:24pm On Jul 13, 2023
orjibra1:
Feminists and preacher of female empowernments have done more harm than good
Female empowerment is much needed but we also shouldn't leave the boy child alone
FamilyRe: They All Mocked Her, Until FG Removed Fuel Subsidy. by Dimaya: 9:18pm On Jul 13, 2023
orjibra1:
and shoe-facing boobs
Which one be shoe-facing boobs again o
RomanceRe: Please Advise: His Girlfriend Studying in UniAbuja Ghosted Him For 4 Weeks by Dimaya: 9:05pm On Jul 13, 2023
oneman2k7:
A SIMple man
He's in love grin No worries, his eye go soon clear
FamilyRe: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Dimaya(op): 9:03pm On Jul 13, 2023
orjibra1:
Werey don't be 'some'
tongue
FamilyRe: Married Civil Servants In Today's Economy, How are you coping? by Dimaya(op): 9:00pm On Jul 13, 2023
orjibra1:
Maybe to remind us that there's a cost to our erection
Now that's the funniest thing I've heard all day cheesy grin

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