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RomanceRe: I Want To Marry 7 Tall Flat Tummy Virgins From Different Countries Of The World by Dimaya:
RomanceRe: Single Ladies Pray For Marriage,while Single Guys Pray To Be Successful. by Dimaya:
1. Women are carrying the "wanting to marry thing" on their head because female fertility is timebound as this video explains


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3a3jkN-6dOw


2. Men have to be focused on financial stability because no woman wants an unsuccessful man just as this poll shows:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6oC3rgEhMI


3. If women are as successful as men, it doesn't improve their dating options but reduces their number of suitors. This is well documented below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-xRVjaadKU


hope that explains it well?

Thank me later
FamilyRe: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 10:51am On Jul 23, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Think about it yourself naw! Come on! She abandoned chuks because she felt chuks was too controlling then and then 5 years later, she decided that maybe she should maybe manage chuks or hope that Chuks has changed for the better during that period. Did she commit any sin? Why does anyone need to care about this? undecided
chuks got married a year after she broke things off.

And here she is now bragging that she's far better than his wife



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2hppHc_wFU


i first watched the short clip when it hit nairaland front page about two months ago. Then i went to find the full video.
PoliticsRe: Ex-lagos Deputy Gov Blames Nigeria’s Problems On God’s Anger, Corruption by Dimaya: 9:57am On Jul 23, 2023
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RomanceRe: You Built Your Entire Social Media Content On 'turning Yansh To The Camera.' by Dimaya: 9:51am On Jul 23, 2023
Blaxie:
If them never turn yansh to the camera, the video and picture never complete. Even the ones wey no get anything for back sef go dey turn.😂
Young women today are feeling the pressure to succeed. In this video, a lady narrated how a friend of hers spent 4 million on BBL surgery because she wanted to trend on social media.


you're not the only one under pressure. We become better by subjecting ourselves to hard tasks and stressful situations. There's a pressure that drives everyone to want success. Take that pressure and apply int your life.

In this video: the pressure to succeed, young people discuss how to become stronger by using peer pressure to drive yourself towards accomplishing great things


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQXlcflI1D4

thank me later
RomanceRe: Why Are People So Insecure About Your Success Or Archievments? by Dimaya: 9:43am On Jul 23, 2023
undecided
RomanceRe: Girls Can You Date A Boy With This Kind Of Dentition? (pics Attached) by Dimaya:
At least it better than this female banker who broke up with a "toaster" because of the pictures he posted:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=852z33pvMVY
RomanceRe: Biblical Reasons Why You Should Rich By All Means by Dimaya: 9:29am On Jul 23, 2023
Impersonator2:
Psalm chapter 3 vs 18 says Jesus died poor so that you would be rich.
So my brother if you are broke no reason to be poor, hustle, buy laptop, sim card iPhone, opay, gun. And start hustling by any means weda yahoo or legit e no mean just make money first because Jesus said it he was poor for you to have miney just Hussle no sleep again.

Maga go pay
hmmn. Nigerian children are under the most pressure to succeed.

Just like the Nigerians in this video: the pressure to succeed, you are putting yourself under undue pressure by comparing yourself with fraudsters and thieves. I'd advise you watch and learn what you can do to legitimately improve your finance instead of stealing from vulnerable people.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQXlcflI1D4
thank me later
RomanceRe: 45 Years Old Still Living With His Parents by Dimaya: 9:13am On Jul 23, 2023
Hackman1994:
No job, no skill, no wife, nothing to write home about.
Keep dreaming of seeing myself back then in my primary and secondary days.
you can't give up. Everybody is under pressure to succeed.

You're not the only person. In the video below, listen to everyday Nigerians discuss the pressures they're facing to succeed.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQXlcflI1D4

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RomanceRe: I Need A Wife But Seeing Only HookUp Girls & Single Moms I What Would YOU Do? by Dimaya: 8:21am On Jul 23, 2023
Gerrard59:
Name ONE POSITIVE thing that has come out from the average Nigerian man.

Just ONE.



In my thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria I explained and even acknowledged that prostitution is normal and will always exist. That is where the numerous complainers have not reached. They believe it should not exist, which is not true. However, the rate at which it exists in poorer nations outnumbers richer nations. That is the crux of the matter. If the United States complains of it, it is permissible because she is prosperous. She has put the horse before the cart. On the other hand, it is strikingly odd for people who cannot ensure constant power supply to complain of the same issue. These people are putting the cart before the horse. Complain about the poverty issue in Nigeria before doing CCTV in a woman's vagina.

I don't have a skin problem. The problem I have is a priority one. The priority of Nigeria is not policing women's vagina, but poverty.
The only person who can implement your ideas are government legislative. Your ideas can not be implemented by individuals.

You're asking men to go look for wives inside the villages. Really?
RomanceRe: Why Aren't I Not Strong by Dimaya:
Because you don't attempt difficult things

We become stronger by subjecting ourselves to hard tasks and stressful situations. There's a pressure that drives everyone to want success. Take that pressure and apply int your life.

In this video: the pressure to succeed, young people discuss how to become stronger by using peer pressure to drive yourself towards accomplishing great things


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQXlcflI1D4

thank me later
RomanceRe: Do People Really Value Marriage Nowadays? by Dimaya:
True words, People still value marriage but most are

1. Driven by the fear of being left behind, the fear of being alone in old age.

For example, in this video: the fear of being alone, a young lady named olivia narrates why she couldn't leave a cheating boyfriend who all because she was afraid she might never find a man.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2dbwKvqVzM4


2. Trapped in situationships where they're yet to clarify what things are.
If you're in such a situation, here's a video counselling session around handling unclear commitment, the money obstacles and escaping dead-end love interests


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2ulJMb_pk

watch, learn and thank me later.
RomanceRe: MARRIAGE DILEMMA: The Woman Earns 7 Times More by Dimaya: 7:07pm On Jul 22, 2023
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FamilyRe: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 7:05pm On Jul 22, 2023
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: 60K Job Offer after 5,000 Applications and 2 Interviews | What Would YOU do? by Dimaya(op): 6:58pm On Jul 22, 2023
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sheanzy:
after converting your salary to dollar, go and buy foodstuffs with that dollar

Ewu, imebecile
RomanceRe: I Need A Wife But Seeing Only HookUp Girls & Single Moms I What Would YOU Do? by Dimaya: 6:47pm On Jul 22, 2023
Gerrard59:
Why should I budge? How come Northern men don't complain about the same issue? Why is it only men in the South that do? Why are you people not targeting the men who fund these girls? Are these girls paying themselves 100K per night for sex? We have men here on Nairaland, TwitterNG and Instagram who defend yahoo yahoo activities but forget the same cybercriminals are taking away their so-called girlfriends. Why don't you people tackle the problem from there?

You lots should focus on social engineering the way it is in the north and/or poverty alleviation. Women on their own are demisexual aka they don't like having sex with different men. They need an emotional connection to do so. But as condition don make crayfish bend, it is money for hand, back for ground. You don't like such a system? Make your society rich and stop doing CCTV inside woman toto!

It is irritating at this point that the major point of concern for black men in West Africa is policing their women's vaginas rather than building a functioning society.

Shame no dey catch una?
so you support the north in pushing child marriages or in suspending civil liberties for women.

Please tell us kind sir, how you can implement the ideas you suggested? How? Give us a pathway. There are young men who want decent women. How do they make their society rich? How can I eliminate poverty in Nigeria? How?

You have no solutions, None. Check the post title again and return when you can offer a pathway to starting and supporting a family that doesn't include hookers and baby mamas.

Cheers
RomanceRe: It is Cheaper To Take Care Of A Baby Then A Full Grown Nija Woman True Or False by Dimaya: 1:47pm On Jul 22, 2023
Fales
FamilyRe: Things They Will Not Tell You About Marriage.. by Dimaya: 1:40pm On Jul 22, 2023
One:

That female fertility is affected by age


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3a3jkN-6dOw




Two

That men are judged largely by their utility

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6oC3rgEhMI
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Fresh Graduates Discover Unseen Job Openings And Opportunities by Dimaya: 12:00pm On Jul 22, 2023
ZenithCareHos:
Vacancy for Senior medical officer with ultrasound scanning and surgical skills for immediate employment at a reputable hospital in Ibadan. Accommodation is available and salary is between 350k and 400k depending on skills.

kindly contact this number for more information Mr Ajibola 08091332412 and you can also reach us on our mail box zenithhospitalibadan@yahoo.com
you can also visit our website on https://www.zenithcarehospitalibadan.com

Thanks
I copied and posted via my network, I have folks asking where in Ibadan?
CareerRe: How To Land Your First Job As A New Graduate by Dimaya: 11:58am On Jul 22, 2023
Zigzagman:
you're welcome
No problems bro. I got you
RomanceRe: Please Advise: His Girlfriend Studying in UniAbuja Ghosted Him For 4 Weeks by Dimaya: 11:56am On Jul 22, 2023
Man gets ghosted by his girlfriend. Goes on a podcast grin
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 11:55am On Jul 22, 2023
No mind the chic
RomanceRe: I Need A Wife But Seeing Only HookUp Girls & Single Moms I What Would YOU Do? by Dimaya: 11:48am On Jul 22, 2023
Kelechi009:
The dude already has his mind made up, you can draw up a thousand facts to show him with reference points & he will still not budge.
That's why I left him alone yesterday. I even quoted your writeup on his thread, the dude no budge. Guess he's one of those old-timers in their sixties who thinks the world of his daughters, oblivious to the harm sex for money is causing to Nigerian relationships
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Broken Up A Relationship To Later Want Him Back? What Do YOU Do? by Dimaya: 11:15am On Jul 22, 2023
MechanicMike:
really.??..so how much do u nomaly charge for fuckin & please can I fuk again please...or can I juss fuk on creedit?? cheesy
Careful make she no carry Hiv dash you
RomanceRe: Offer Letter Saga by Dimaya: 11:13am On Jul 22, 2023
At least it better than getting sacked
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Broken Up A Relationship To Later Want Him Back? What Do YOU Do? by Dimaya: 6:50am On Jul 22, 2023
siofra:
Na men dey like tell this kain boring stories 😂

Mtchewwww. I will enjoy my youth fucking any guy I like. Thank you very much☺️
Okay. Next!
RomanceRe: I Need A Wife But Seeing Only HookUp Girls & Single Moms I What Would YOU Do? by Dimaya: 9:26pm On Jul 21, 2023
Gerrard59:
The OP and his cohorts are focused on woman toto but not the pen!s which enters it. One begins to wonder, do these women fvck themselves?

Honestly, you people are foolish, useless and stoopid. The day una ever get sense, the world would end.

Don't go and prepare for Monday trekking and Bet9ja. Keep doing CCTV for woman vagina.

Useless men!!!
Below is a response on your earlier thread. Read the lady's words below:
Kelechi009:
You were just defending yourself a while ago, now you have come out purely.

People can always whine about hookup; it has never been a problem. Your argument is that Western men are more intellectual in this area and that Nigerian guys are more backward in their mentality, which drives this hookup behaviour. So I believe it to be a slave master mentality, therefore I gave you the demographic and Onlyfans statistics because I'd rather do that than debate needlessly. I agree with some of your arguments that men place demands on prostitutes for it continue, but you seem to have forgotten that prostitution is a quick way to make money as long as it is legal.

My points are (a) You cannot get rid of prostitution, you can only modernise it. (b) Women engage in prostitution because it pays well and makes their lives easier, not just because men want them to. Win-win situation for customers and producers alike.
FamilyRe: Marriage: Women Decry Lack Of Financially Eligible Suitors by Dimaya: 9:18pm On Jul 21, 2023
That's how one idiot was going all crazy on me because I told her/,him or they the truth.
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op):
Godoverevery:
Fools talks, coward stay silent and wise men listen.

Humpty dumpty keep bragging......lol
cheesy
FamilyRe: Man: How Do You Stop Ex-girlfriend From Aborting Your Baby? by Dimaya(op): 9:13pm On Jul 21, 2023
finallybusy:
Something the right person will understand.
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CareerRe: How To Handle Close Betrayal At Work [like A BOSS] by Dimaya(op): 9:12pm On Jul 21, 2023
Acekidc4:
Never ever Trust anybody fully not even your Spouse. Anybody can betray you at anytime.



Patron
True and we also have to live with wisdom not paranoia.

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