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The uncle that slept with her could have been molested too! It is a vicious cycle. @ OP I think you have had enough advice here. The key is connect to your children very well. They will always confide in you. I SALUTE your courage! I am really impressed that you took the responsibility about defiling your own brother. You seem to be a great lady as most women would have been playing the victim card. Keep it up!

ileobatojo: [s]And here comes a loud a*rse empty barrel…..
All you have managed to demonstrate is that you lack a basic understanding of this subject and you want everyone to know it.
Okay, thank you for sharing this piece of information about yourself with us. We have seen the lies, contradictions, logical fallacies and shameless waffling.
Can we now move on to a topic you actually know something about?

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Absolute Balderdash.
Stop showing your embarrassing naivety in a public forum like this! Produce one mainstream feminist who have a great marriage or continue trolling.

The topic is basically to show the negative effects of mainstream feminism to the institution of marriage so that some unassuming women who have been following sheepishly can retrace their steps.

[quote author=soul_glo]How does the link you posted differ from what bukatyne said. You are laughing so it's even the more puzzling. If you are confident in being a man you will not lose sleep over another human being wanting the same rights for themselves. In fact it is only someone who is not qualified that would hope that someone else does not get a fair shot at the same game. If you feel you are intelligent enough, capable enough, qualified enough then you would be confident in that and not lose sleep over another human being saying I want to compete but let us get there on our own merit.[/quote]The questions are better put to your bunch. WHY DO FEMINISTS FEAR MARRIAGE?

ileobatojo: You're starting to hit the nail on the head here.
The common problem with all these jokers is their lack of self esteem and self confidence. They know they have nothing tangible to offer apart from a Y chromosome so they have to look for other ways to subdue women to make them feel good about themselves.
Any man of substance knows he can command respect. Period.
But when you're an empty barrel, you will have to find a way to get up on a fake pedestal. Of course they will go about trying to pull down their betters, that's the only way to soothe the misery that they have inside.

There is no nail and there is no head here! All the internet nairaland feminists have failed to link mainstream feminism to good marriage! It was an open challenge and you sour bunch failed woefully!

The truth is feminism is a sexist movement. It's interests lies with only women , it doesn't even recognize the rights of children.

It is a hate filled, sexist, selfish , confused movement of sad and bitter women who are against marriage, God, men and children!

If it is good why don't they just call it human rights advocacy, so that it comes with a package for everybody?

Many of the ignoramus women here cannot defend some of the quotes attributed to some of the most notable recent feminists about men.

I have thrown a simple challenge. If feminism is great how come most of their leading lights are either Divorced or Lesbians or Never married?

WHY DOES GOOD MARRIAGE ELUDE THE CORE FEMINISTS! That is the sensible question some of you should be answering not trying to defend bigotry and misandry!

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The woman's reply is an after thought. if she actually held the mans penis in self defense, was the man naked? how come she managed to cut the penis. That woman is a sick fellow who belongs to the mental institution.

bukatyne: Lol! you are funny
Feminism is about men and women being equal. I will not deny there are some extremists just like in every cause.
It will be hypocritical to condemn feminism because it has done so much good.
Everyone has been given commonand it's left for each person to pick what suits him or her.
In biology, I was taught man evolved from apes...
Well, My Bible tells me that I am fearfully and wonderfully made in the Image of GOD
Like the popular song 'whose report will you believe?' 'I think I will believe the report of the Lord!'
If you are against extreme feminism, I will support you. But to condemn feminism all together is like throwing the baby away with the bath water

Wrong! Misandry is at the core focus of mainstream feminists and that is why even you cannot pinpoint any well known feminist that have a great marriage, simply because there is none. What some of you call feminism is basically human rights advocacy poorly packaged!

Apart from the usual bigoted Feminist gra gra I still have not been proved wrong. Nairaland Internet Feminists please do the needful!

benedicta0: There is nothing wrong in that is just that both the husband and wife are lacking manners how can you just pounce on the pot and you can see she is trying to serve you the food.Beside it is not a big deal for the wife to disrespect her husband

Nairaland Feminist Bigotry at its worst!

Dantedasz: I am NOT Dinachi. Please be corrected.

Don't mind that troll. She has more than 4 monikers she uses at will to attack men on nairaland. If you see Ileobatojo or chillis or Chillisauce there are about two others I can't remember now but just know you are talking to the same person. She thinks everybody is like her.

bukatyne: @ thread starter;

Why don't you make up your mind?

Are you referring to all feminists or the extreme ones? Can I reasonable say that all muslims are terrorists? Or can I use Osama's ideologies to judge all muslims?

Good point. Is there any brand of terrorism known as liberal terrorism? Just as terrorism is all about creating terror, feminism is all about female dominance. Why you now hear of liberal feminism is that some women came to their senses and wanted a middle course. But at the core of feminism is the inordinate desire to do away with men and the family structure. Mainstream feminists prefer hosting rallies and seminars against men to having families. And I need to add that quite a number of them have mental problems!

Chillisauce: Whatever mate, go get some fresh air, you need it or Touch yourself too since your other half is no where to be found, relieve some pressure

I don't do debate, seems you haven't noticed. Gat no time for it, i just pop in to laugh and fight.

As for you Tintinz, your cup go soon full. They banned me and left you rigamarolling every where in nairaland

Oh you don't do debates? Then truly you don't belong here then go to some gossip thread and jerk off there.
This thread is for your betters.

Chillisauce: So you haven't been banned . Causing problem everywhere.

Dinachi, happy Sunday! Go out and get some fresh air, who knows you might meet your better half. She*male or not.

Very happy you have finally resurrected! Are you taking up the challenge or do you want to resort to your normal mud slinging with your numerous monikers?

Welcome to the debate!

tintingz: Page 5 and no answer to the topic...where are the confused fanatic feminist

My brother you can imagine my enthusiasm when i opened this thread hoping for a vibrant debate from nairaland's feminist warriors. All I get are lame half hearted answers like students facing a sudden exam! None of them could come up with any reasonable explanation more than 24 hours after the thread was opened and five pages later in spite of the fact that I called it an open challenge. All of them have suddenly scampered away to safety faced with the glaring truth of their misguided ideologies. Some have fallen back to their senses and are now taking a middle ground! Feminists are just an organized hate group against men and the family structure as we know it. That it why they can't hold it down in a marriage!

After reading those hate quotes against men why would anybody in their right senses still identify as feminist?

Dantedasz: Forget those internet fake feminists, I beg you.
They just come on these boards to let off their frustrations, when deep in their hearts they know they are no feminists.

Yes oh I believe that many of them here just vent their frustrations online and maybe we should encourage it to keep them sane

Some even experience orgasm while mouthing feminist ideologies!

The correct question is PDP a national party? Right now, APC is the only party that has governors in all the regions! All these religious politics makes you no better than Boko Haram!

Tbaby4real: I will advice op to check dictionary for the word feminism... I may not be able to give you as many prove as you want but you have no proven fact to say feminist don't have a successful marriage. My mum is a feminist and she is still in her marriage of over 40 years.

It is very simple. Your mum is NOT a notable feminist! Please read the thread title again. Your mum is probably a woman who loves her husband to bits and i bet she is just a Womanist. Womanism has various definitions and interpretations . At its broadest definition, it is a universalist ideology for all women, regardless of color. A womanist is committed to "the survival and wholeness of an entire people, male and female" While feminists fights to sieze control from men, womanists fight for equal rights for all people. That is the difference. Though Womanism have many interpretations, what many African women practice is just a half hearted version.

So my dear the truth remains that all these women who carry feminism at the head rarely keep a good home.

Sophyrocks: Seriously, you are the one who needs a life mehn!! Since u want to drink panadol over head ache that doesnt exist. These are MEN HATING FEMINISTS. I dnt know what u hope to achieve here. Like i said earlier, All that u have mentioned here, is it a true representation of all feminists around the world?? Until u come up with well grounded facts backed up with thorough investigation and show A TRUE REPRESENTATION OF ALL FEMINISTS around the globe, u have no case here. Your defination of a Feminist is a man hater but others dnt agree with you. Hence your wrong conclusion. Even a woman who just only advocates for the rights of women is often viewed as feminist still. Moral and family values differ from continent to continent. Which is why your conclusion is totally flawed. Just very few examples you mentioned here.

Next time, before coming up here to post, make sure you have carried a thorough research. You know how studies are carried? Overtime sometimes within years. Gather all feminists around the world and do your research before jumping into silly conclusions to massage your Ego.

No proof No nothing! Absolutely Baseless!! Go for your kind and leave feminists the heck alone!!! They don't reduce the oxygen you breathe in.

Are you one of the men hating feminists

Take a chill pill it is not a battle ! The challenge is to internet feminists to do your research and make your conclusions.

IF YOU DON'T KNOW KNOW IT NOW THAT THIS THREAD CAN ALSO AID YOUR LOST CAUSE IF ONLY YOU CAN PROVE THAT MAINSTREAM FEMINISTS MAKE GREAT WIVES!


I have already done my research long ago. Now do yours! And come back and bow humbly at my feet.

Sophyrocks: So all of these mentioned represent the global population of feminists?? Please GO AND SLEEP. U didnt even mention the ones that have got bad marriages!! No proof No nothing. Go and rest! Null and void Post!

Apart from null and void, what other English do you speak?

Since you can't respond to the challenge while don't you get a life quietly.

let me do a peep on the Feminists on that quote.

1, Robin Morgan is a DIVORCED mother of one and a British Journalist.

2, Valerie Solanas [/b]NEVER married, was Schizophrenic and even attempted to kill some one. She is the author of the scum manifesto which encouraged women to overthrow the government, eliminate the money system, institute complete automation and eliminate the male sex.



3, [b]Andrea Dworkin was DIVORCED once and continued to publicly identify herself as a Lesbian while the man she allegedly married continued to publicly identify himself as gay.

4,Susan Brownmiller NEVER MARRIED and says she stays celibate because she doesn't want to COMPROMISE

5, Sharon Stone is twice DIVORCED and considered in many circles as bisexual.

6, Catharine Mckinnon was NEVER MARRIED , she is a professor of law.

7,Sally Miller Gearhart was an openly LESBIAN woman who was never MARRIED.

8, Catherine Comins was NEVER MARRIED.

9, Marilyn French was MARRIED ONCE AND DIVORCED.

10, [b]Germaine Greer'[/b]s marriage only lasted for THREE WEEKS and of course ended in divorce. She also admitted that she was unfaithful to the husband while the marriage lasted. She is a DIVORCEE.



And for your reading pleasure let me post another quote from another notable front line feminist Naomi Goldenberg

“God is going to change. We women… will change the world so much that He won’t fit anymore.” Naomi Goldenberg, Changing of the Gods: Feminism and the End of Traditional Religions.


AND HERE WOMEN I PRESENT TO YOU YOUR FEMINIST CHAMPIONS!

I know that feminists are a hate group against men. That's why their marriages fail woefully .

See what feminism did to American women.

1,85% of divorce cases in the US are initiated by women.

2, 70% of criminals in the US were raised by single mothers (Mostly women who divorced their husbands).

That is the fruits of feminism. Who wants to eat?

For your reading pleasure here are some quotes from notable feminists:


¤ “I feel that ‘man-hating’ is an honourable and viable political act, that the oppressed have a right to class-hatred against the class that is oppressing them.” – Robin Morgan, Ms. Magazine Editor


¤ “To call a man an animal is to flatter him; he’s a machine, a walking Love Machine.” -– Valerie Solanas


¤ “I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth, like an apple in the mouth of a pig.” — Andrea Dworkin


¤ “molest is nothing more or less than a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear” — Susan Brownmiller


¤ “The more famous and powerful I get the more power I have to hurt men.” — Sharon Stone


¤ “In a patriarchal society, all heterosexual intercourse is molest because women, as a group, are not strong enough to give meaningful consent.” — Catherine MacKinnon


¤ “The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race.” — Sally Miller Gearhart


¤ “Men who are unjustly accused of molest can sometimes gain from the experience.” – Catherine Comins


¤ “All men are rapists and that’s all they are” — Marilyn French


¤ “Probably the only place where a man can feel really secure is in a maximum security prison, except for the imminent threat of release.” — Germaine Greer.
www.womenagainstmen.com/media/feminism-is-a-hate-group.html

For your reading pleasure here are some quotes from notable feminists:


¤ “I feel that ‘man-hating’ is an honourable and viable political act, that the oppressed have a right to class-hatred against the class that is oppressing them.” – Robin Morgan, Ms. Magazine Editor


¤ “To call a man an animal is to flatter him; he’s a machine, a walking Love Machine.” -– Valerie Solanas


¤ “I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth, like an apple in the mouth of a pig.” — Andrea Dworkin


¤ “molest is nothing more or less than a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear” — Susan Brownmiller


¤ “The more famous and powerful I get the more power I have to hurt men.” — Sharon Stone


¤ “In a patriarchal society, all heterosexual intercourse is molest because women, as a group, are not strong enough to give meaningful consent.” — Catherine MacKinnon


¤ “The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race.” — Sally Miller Gearhart


¤ “Men who are unjustly accused of molest can sometimes gain from the experience.” – Catherine Comins


¤ “All men are rapists and that’s all they are” — Marilyn French


¤ “Probably the only place where a man can feel really secure is in a maximum security prison, except for the imminent threat of release.” — Germaine Greer.
www.womenagainstmen.com/media/feminism-is-a-hate-group.html

Wislet: MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOU.

WORD!

Sophyrocks: Go and Sleep. U do not have supernatural powers to know whether feminists have successful marriages or not. U do not have the full knowledge of every single feminist around the globe. Stop making assumptions u are not even sure about. U are not even sure of your conclusion that is why u had to create the post. U just dnt want to accept facts presented to u. So why dnt u go and rest and stop drinking panadol over headache that is not there. Your assumptions are just wishes. Pele. Go and rest. Null and void post with no Purpose.

Of course even you know that there is no mainstream feminist with a good marriage. I know it hurts but that's the way it is!

Sincere 9gerian: Amaechi is a wicked and shameless liar. The oil wells he is talking about was ceded to Bayelsa by the OBJ govt in 2006 under a new map that saw Rivers gain some oil wells from Akwa-Ibom State. More over, the Rivers State govt took this case to court and lost both at the high court and supreme court. The same supreme court that made Amaechi governor ruled on this case in 2012.
https://www.nairaland.com/1571487/did-president-jonathan-really-give#20511843

So when will Amaechi grow up and stop exhibiting toxic idiocy?

My friend stop embarrassing yourself! Those in the know knows that GEJ is not in any way a match for Amaechi any time any day. Jonathan is the joke compared to Amaechi. Every smart politician knows those they cannot fight. Jonathan chose the wrong fight. Amaechi is the wrongest men to make an enemy now. Amaechi will be Jonathan's Achilles heel, mark my words!

bisiopinion: Nigerian women are very good at standing by their men, feminist or non-feminist. Every woman can decided what is best for her in such a situation. Stop with the sweeping generalisations.

Maybe you are among the few good ones. How ever, it doesn't stop the fact that most Nigerian wannabe feminists will advice her to leave him ASAP if the situation was different. I keep making my points that men are far more loving and considerate than women. Kudos to the man! He has a heart of Gold. As for the woman thumbs down for infecting herself and reducing the husband's pleasure while making love. Imagine loving your wife with a condom.

Dantedasz: ^^
It appears even the most hardened feminist has a price tag.
So Lenos wife agreed to walk in his shadow for 100 million bucks.
Feminism indeed. LOL.

hahahahahahah . Most of them are just grandstanding. Shebi you saw the post about Jayz's pre-nup agreement with Beyonce? If you Google Mavis Leno you will see where it was stated quite clearly that she keeps a low profile. She even took his last name!. The worst among the pretenders are the faceless ones in this forum, they will make all the noises but go to their homes and you will discover that lambs have more rights than them. The internet provides a very convenient outlet to vent their frustrations.

Now you see how understanding men can be. If na the man get am will she have had the same understanding? Feminists here would have told her to abandon her marriage. You will start hearing comment like." Men are beasts" Men are not worth it" Now they are silent!

Bunch of Hypocrites!

[quote author=soul_glo]In addition to the above mentioned. Jay Leno's wife of more than 30 years Mavis Leno. He publicly supports his wife. He even considers himself a feminist. Jay Leno is worth over 100 million dollars.[/quote]Mavis Leno simply apes her husband. And let me take a quote from him here for your reading pleasure.
Jay: "We'd been together for about four years, during which time she expressed no interest in marriage. She expressed more interest in not getting married ..."
Source: Jay Leno: Leading With My Chin. pg. 228

Did you read for more than four years after they dated, she expressed no interest in marriage? That is the main problem of core feminists! It was only after Jay talked sense into her miserable head that she married him especially when she realized a life time of misery that awaited her as a core feminist. She lives in the shadow of her husband. She desperately needed guidance which the husband provided! The married is successful because she submitted herself to his leadership! In fact for all intents and purposes, the husband taught her his own brand of feminism which she is accepted and moreover he is worth a whopping 100 million dollars!