megacity: To all the hypocrites out there screaming on the obviously poorly doctored so called Conversation between Obi and the Great Bishop
An All Muslim Ticket which excludes over 100 million Nigerian Christians is a far greater evil that merely calling a Pastor for endorsement or to assist with campaign
Don't mind them. When I see so called Christians supporting Tinubu, I see prodigal Christians. Idiots.
Femmyfamous4u: Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting.
My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough.
I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get.
She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food.
Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about.
It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours.
My income is more than hers though.
Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?
The very fact that you are here begging for advice has shown that you are not comfortable with her keeping her whole money and depending on your own. Yet situations like this are caused by any of these five things.
1. Her parental upbringing. .2. Her Pastors teachings 3. Your being a Simp. 4. Her selfishness/ Lesbian tendencies 5. Her Mum's Advice.
1. Her parental upbringing. Most young women will go with what they grew up with. They think it is world standard for every thing. Especially if she is a Mummy's girl and her Mumu wore the trousers in the marriage.
2. Some Pastors needs to be arrested and driven out of anything Christiandom. They wreck havoc in homes teaching heresies instead of Sound Christian doctrine. Infact, if you stay under some Pastors , you may begin to have the impression that you are in an all feminist impartation class. Kai. Is it not the Bible that called a woman a help meet? Only a balanced and a very sound Pastor can teach women sound teachings. Imagine keeping her money and feeding on yours only. O boy, you are not married. You are in a glorified Sugar Daddy and Sugar Daughter relationship. 3. You are a Simp. A simp is simply a mild mannered dullard who gives women whatever they demand in a futile bid to make them happy! The sad part of it is that women secretly hate simps. They hate simps because most women wants a man to be in charge not to be subservient to them. So, probably you caused because you have been giving in to almost all her shenanigans without complain before now. So she feels why not push him a little more, he will give more. Put your foot down gently but firmly and explain to her why her own money is also important in building the family.
4. She is selfish/Lesbian tendencies. Let's tackle selfish first. When. A woman is selfish and self centered, all her decisions is about herself not the family. If she is that type then you are in deep soup! Again, most girls of nowadays are actually coded lesbians. They have no financial or even emotional attachment to their husbands. They only married because of societal/parental pressure and if they had a choice they would have preferred to marry a fellow lesbians. If that's your case, then don't expect any changes because she is not into you! That why I keep warning you men if nowadays to do proper background checks before you marry. If you marry a coded lesbian, you will suffer all kinds of neglect.
5. Her mum's advice.
If she is the type that listens to her Mum's advice whether good or bad, then you are in soup! This is because some women, especially bad ones will like to maintain an overbearing attitude with regards to their daughters marriages. It is sad but true.
MY ADVICE.
Dig in and refuse to shift ground. Call her sit her down and use scriptures and everything to explain things to her. You should have had some of these conversations even before marriage but the problem with most of you usually is that you are distracted by curvy body and sex.
So have a definitive discussion with her and this and don't shift ground.
hitng: Controversial singer and social media personality, Temmie Ovwasa popularly known as YBNL Princess stirred reactions online after sharing a new video online.
The songstress posted a video of herself singing a worship song. The video caught the attention of many courtesy of her caption that read:
Furthermore, she wished for someone to start a queer church that suits her lifestyle.
I blame Churches. The moment you can sing, those carnal pastors will start disturbing you to become worship leader. Now imagine a former worship leader. Kai!
Donsgv: I'm a young guy of 29 years old,i started masturbating since may 2012,that's 11 yrs ago i does it constantly every day,i need help i try every means to stop it but prove abortive,house i need your advice
Nothing is wrong with you. Masturbation in itself is not a Sin.
Just reduce the frequency. It actually helps you, I mean masturbation.
Omicronvaccine: Obidient Tsunami In The Land, I Am Going Back To My Original Hustle - Chimaroke Nnamani (Photo)
Senator representing Enugu East and former governor of Enugu State, Chimaroke Nnamani, said he will be going back to his former hustle after he was defeated by Labour Party's candidate in the 2023 Senatorial election, IGBERETV reports.
NwekeUG: Osita Chidoka Meets With Peter Obi As Atiku Seeks Deeper Engagement With LP (Photos)
Former Minister of Aviation, Osita Chidoka met with Labour Party's presidential candidate, Peter Obi at his campaign office on Wednesday, IGBERETV reports.
Taking to his Twitter handle, he shared photos from the meeting with the caption;
GeneralPula: You con dey act like say you no sabi interpretations..
Igala’s mandate in Anambra is non-negotiable
Igala backward, smelly and cursed have no mandate in Anambra, the land of the rich because Igalas abhor progress. They are a cursed tribe that bring only backwardness. Look at their cursed enclave in Kogi, every thing is in a state of rot.
Don't worry when Igbos in Kogis state recover their stolen mandate from Igalas, you will begin to know the true meaning of progress.
For now you are operating under the curse of Igalas.
So, giving you notice, all Political parties in Igala land must hand over their Gubernatorial tickets to Igbos as the Igbos are the original owners of the ancestral land of Kogi State.
Igala has no mandate! They are cursed, smelly and backward. Nobody wants to have anything to do with them! They should go back to their curse Igala enclave.
Kogi State is fully owned by Igbos. It is their ancestral lands. The Igbo mandate in Kogi State must never be stolen again.
Kewtt: It is Igala time. All major parties in Anambra State must field Igala men and women as gubernatorial candidates for peace to reign in Anambra State
All major parties must field Igbo Men and Women as Gubernatorial candidates for peace to reign in Kogi State. It is Igbo time.
Stupid smelly Igalas in Kogi State must have over the State to the ancestral Owners the Igbos for peace to reign.
yarimo: Anambra state is IGALA ancestral land. Next governor must be IGALA
You sound pained? Igalas who find themselves in Anambra should thank God for the opportunity to be in a state led by Igbos. The difference is in development. Can you compare the great men and women of Anambra to Kogi State? Name one prominent Igala Man in the whole Nigeria! None! Igala people are very very backward! Infact, they are the most backward tribe in Nigeria.
And yes Lagos is Bini people ancestral land!
Kogi is Ebira and Okun people ancestral land
Ondo is Ijaw people ancestral land.
While Anambra is Israeli people ancestral land and since Igbos are from Isreal, it is also Igbo ancestral land.
Kodak9: guy Dem tire me If you want to go to Abuja through lokoja the smell that will welcome is so pungent and bad, like fermented cassava
Even in that Kogi State, Igala people are so backward that you begin to wonder. Very proud, very poor and empty people. Smelly everywhere. Infact, I know that the Egbiras and Okun are tired of them.
Imagine an Igala Man coming and accusing Anambra people. Just imagine. Oh. If we hand over Anambra State to you can you do anything there? You want to return Anambra to your backward state of Kogi.
Kewtt: That doesn't mean you should be committing genocide against igala man and woman in Anambra State
You cannot justify that in anyway. It's their ancestral land and home
Stop sounding uneducated. Where is the genocide against Igalas anywhere? A highly intolerant people. If not for God, Only Igala rule Kogi State. They ignore Kogi Central dominated by the Egbiras and Kogi West dominated by the Okun. But today, there is serious agitation for power to shift to Kogi West.
Very barbaric and backward people. I mean Igala people. Go to their region, juju and very outdated people everywhere!
Mention any notable Igala Man in the whole Nigeria. Ayingba is a very local place, LOKOJA is a little more than one street city. One flyover in the whole state. A very very backward people full of themselves.
Kewtt: Igala people occupy Nzam, Inoma, Owelle, Ukwala, Ala, Odomagwu, Udi, Igbokenyi, Igbedor, Onugwa and Odegbe in Anambra state but they have never been governor, deputy governor, commissioner or anything in Anambra’s political space.
It's time to correct the wrongs of the governmental composition of the Anambra State... The igala man and woman are bonafide indigenous people of Anambra State and deserve the chance to partake in governance in Anambra State.
The unhealthy and unethical marginalisation must stop 🛑
IGALA:THE PLIGHT OF IGALA PEOPLE IN ANAMBRA STATE BY VICTOR O EKELE.
lgala is an ethnic group In Nigeria with over ten million population as of now. The home of the Igala people is situated east of the river Niger and Benue confluence and astride the Niger.
The Igala people shares boundaries with the Igbo's(ibo) people at the south, Idoma at the east, Benis people at the west and Ebira people at the north.
The Igala people are found in Kogi state with 55 percent of kogi state population and also found in Anambra state, Enugu state, Edo state and Delta state.
The Igala people which are found in the Anambra west are mostly Mmiata Anam, Umuoba-Abegbu Anam, Umuenwelum Anam, Oroma-Etiti,Umueze Anam, Umudora Anam, Umuikwu Anam, Inoma-Akator, Nzam, Igbedor and Iyiora Anam all from the family of Ogbe the descendants of General Ajida, a notable warrior of Idah origin(Idah is traditional headquarters of Igala kingdom) Ajida is the father of field marshal Ogbe who was married to Iyida.
The family of ogbe and other Anambra west villages. Anam, Anako, and Akpanam people have recently neglected their real tribe Igala which was the language they were speaking originally as their mother tongue before the Nigeria civil war.
As a Igala tribe in an Igbo state, it is very difficult because Anambra state government has made it compulsory for all the school to speak igbo(ibo) language through out which sometime makes it difficult for Igala young ones to speak Igala.
Igala people in Anambra west are making a lot of mistakes now because some of them are giving Igbo's names to their children rather than Igala names. They know that they are Igala people but the Anambra west generations of youths does not really knows who there are rather they thinks they are igbo because most of them bears Igbo names.
The history of Nzam are traces back to descendants of General Ajida, a notable warrior of Idah origin who came to the town. Ajida is the father of field marshal Ogbe who was married to Iyida. He was the first settler of the present place Ogbe area of Anambra west.
In my interview with a man called chinedu Idoko an indigene of the land. I asked him about himself and his tribes and also his names. This was his replies, "my names is chinedu Idoko, I am an Igala man, but I bears igbo names while my father names Idoko Atama an Igala names. I was given the names after the Nigeria civil war in in 1971."
Speaking further to chinedu: Why are you people in this Generation doesn't want to give Igala names to your children again? "I don't know maybe it is because we are living in Anambra an Igbo state. But we still speak our Igala language as our mother tongue".
Most youths in Anambra who are bearing Igbo names and some times are not living in Anambra west will thinks that there are igbos not knowing there are Igala people. Their land has lack development and government neglection. The only roads that links their town is not something we might talks about because it is not good.
They are the least undeveloped area in Anambra state lacking many facilities after my research.
Nzam people must know their origin and try to preserve their origins before it dies off.
An advice to Ogbe family of Anambra west. Stop given your children Igbo names and teach your children how to speak Igala.
Do you know that the king of Nzam originally was called Ide of Nzam. Which means the Guardian of Nzam people. Ide means Guardian in igala not igwe now they are calling them. This article was written by Victor O Ekele in 2016 for united Igala Nation
That will happen right after an Igbo man becomes the governor of Kogi State. Indigenous Igbos abound in many communities in Odolu, Igala Mela and other Local Governments in Kogi State. So their marginalization must come to an end.
This report is full of nothing but optimism. Knowing how Nigeria works, I would like to see a comprehensive report. 11 so called successful transplants. How many of the patients lived up to five years after the transplant?
You conducted 11 successful surgeries Ok. How many surgeries were unsuccessful? How many?
For instance, if you conducted 100 surgeries and only 11 are successful, can you really be said to be successful?
So how many of those surgeries were unsuccessful? Give us a full report. Stop trying to pull a wool over our eyes.
I know the cursed individuals that did this. They are well known political jobbers who collected a paltry sum of 800k to sell their region. Cursed fools.
StagethemTVee: Popular UK based Nigerian pastor, Tobi Adegboyega, has gifted Nollywood actress, Eniola Badmus, a brand new luxury Hermès bag.
Eniola is seen in the video receiving the gift from Pastor Tobi who handed the bag in an orange package to the actress saying, “for all your good fight”.
"Eniola went on to own a message thanking him for believing in her and what she stands for. If you know me too well, you will agree that I am not the one that bows to societal pressure or restriction on who I am or what I believe in.
“I have also stood against anything that stands against me as a woman. In fact, when you say it is not possible, I will hit it harder because I know can. Oya time to unleash my Hermes bag… Our PASTOR no Dey collect #tobiadegboyega_ Dey give us”, she wrote.
Pastor Tobi Adegboyega Gifts Hermes Bag Worth Millions To Actress Eniola Badmus
He is playing the script of Asiwaju who paid him a million dollars to demonize Ndigbo and make it impossible for other well meaning Nigerians to support Igbos in Nigeria.
Just imagine that these guys have been doing the same things over and over again. Doing this, they have kept Abians in perpetual slavery for more than 20 years including that pint nosed Orji Uzor Kalu. Yeye man.
OEPHIUS: Obidient Family leader, ardent supporter of Peter Obi, Comrade Iyere fingers Nnia Nwodo, Okwesilieze Nwodo, Barth Nnaji, Obasanjo in delay over announcement of Enugu guber election results
...Charges INEC to immediately announce collated results and declare Peter Mbah of PDP winner to avert bloodshed in Enugu
Nigeria’s popular humanitarian activist, high-profile social entrepreneur and key leader of the Obidient movement, Comrade Kennedy Iyere, has warned the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) of the imminent danger in Enugu State following its delay in announcing the already collated results of the March 18 governorship election and declaring Dr. Peter Ndubuisi Mbah of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) as the winner.
Comrade Iyere accused Chief Nnia Nwodo, his elder brother, Dr. Okwesilieze Nwodo, and Prof. Barth Nnaji, who are supporting Chijioke Edeoga of Labour Party, of conspiring with former President Olusegun Obasanjo to stop INEC from announcing the collated results won by Dr. Mbah of the PDP.
"Let me tell you what is happening in Enugu State. Three men are the reason for what is happening in Enugu State: Nnia Nwodo, Okwesilieze Nwodo and Barth Nnaji. They are the reason why we have all of these things happening, and Nnia Nwodo is also using the influence of Obasanjo to do what is happening today in this Enugu.
"Peter Mbah has won this election, he has to be declared winner. The collation centre is not a tribunal. If you have any case, any allegation of rigging go to the tribunal. They should take a clue from what happened at the Presidential election. Mahmood completed the collation process and declared the winner. Today Peter Obi and the Labour Party are in court challenging the election. Why should it be a different case in Enugu?" Comrade Iyere asked.
He affirmed that going by the overall results collated, the INEC State Returning Officer, Prof. Maduebibisi Iwe has no excuse for not declaring Barr Peter Mbah the winner of the election after the final collation of results from the 17 local government areas of Enugu State because Mbah met the requirements.
“Prof Iwe for reasons he is yet to tell the world, decided not to announce the actual winner of the 2023 guber poll. Barr Peter Mbah of the PDP won the election. He deserved to have been declared immediately after the collation of the overall results. His counterparts who were the Returning Officers in Lagos, Rivers and Ebonyi, discretionally declared their winners despite the alleged flaws that characterised the polls. But in the case of Enugu, which was relatively peaceful, Prof. Iwe allegedly acted under instructions not to declare the winner. This unhealthy political development is currently gathering clouds of violence. Both INEC and Prof Iwe must at this point take urgent steps to forestall a looming anarchy by ensuring that the winner of the collated 2023 Enugu guber poll, is declared with no further delays”, says Iyere.
"Pressure and tensions are mounting high in Enugu State. The steps INEC has taken thus far, allegedly created suspicion among the indigenes of Enugu State, who largely believed that INEC has been compromised by certain political cabals whose interest is to compel INEC to manipulate the results in favour of their candidate who actually lost the election to Barr Peter Mbah.
“The Collation Centre is not an Electoral Tribunal where issues relating to alleged vote-rigging is addressed. I am sure Prof. Iwe should have known this reality. This is why he needs to act now, else the ongoing post-election protests will lead to violent conflict and this could lead to bloodshed. This need to be proactively averted,” says Iyere
He asked the INEC Chairman, Prof. Mahmood Yakubu and Prof Iwe, not to delay further in declaring the winner of the 2023 Enugu Poll. Iyere urged both Prof. Yakubu and Prof. Iwe to save a life.