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bigpicture001:
Well, u might be saying the truth with this number 4, but I made her understand that marriage without traveling vacations will mk it very boring.. ND wen I say travel I mean within Nigeria resorts or very good African countries like Egypt, south Africa, Kenya Namibia etc.. if income increases we start trying over seas...


I huzle, she works with the FG ..

yes i understand marriage without vacay will be boring but you also need to understand her salary cannot afford that 20k deduction monthly. I suggest you tune it down a bit , say 5k .. You know women's daily needs are expensive..

Hair is expensive to make

Sanitary pads and make up

Women clothings such as lots of bra, pants, high heels.

Perfumes etc.

So her salary will not accomodate that 20k deduction..you sef try understand.

bigpicture001:
Thanks man.. heard from her friend that sh said am too stingy,.

Honestly I didn't make her spend up to 50k from her wage.. 300k is not big and can be exhausted soon..

The weight will be too much if I form the normal Nigerian guy who likes to carry load on their head

you are definitely right. 300k looks like big money but when bills start piling up, it will finish even before a month.

And where problem will start is when you collect personal loan against salary.


Bros you need to look for a woman earning higher, that is your best bet. You dont need to be chasing the wrong things this year else you will enter into debt even with your 300k.


Your cap should be a lady with salary of 150k least upwards.

Mariangeles:
Let's just agree that you're not yet ready to marry.

no actually he is. People have choices. He can find another woman earning higher than the girl and they decide to get married. He needs to look for a woman earning higher. The equation will balance.

Hallabee1:
Aje....

Good to marry early but how about having the kids , like, i believe she got married early but she had delayed in child bearing....so getting married early does not mean you are going to have kids in time or faster than me

as in you just rush type without reasoning why i commented in that way. Well, it is your personal problem to reason left.

I have an issue with number 4.


Her salary cannot support her minusing 20kmonthly from 80k for vacation .. The vacation is not that important.


She has a valid reason for opting out. Find another woman who earns higher so you dont kill yourself.

Mayeldah:
Don't doubt it bro. A lot of persons in cities like Lagos and Abuja work from home. It depends on the job though. Most companies that can run their operations virtually prefers that now since COVID -19 came because it saves them some costs and expenses.

All you need to work from home is your laptop and data. Provided you are delivering on your KPIs, you are fine, your company is fine and salary gets paid.

you dont get it. I understand what is the meaning of WFH. What i dont get is how suddenly everyone on NL is working from home...

Online begging

BuyAndSellStuff:
Everybody on Nairaland now works from home...

as in eh. Bunch of liars.

She could have done C section na.

Na why e good to marry early

wiseone28:
How will i end up dead when i don't play to her gallery?

I just ignore her stupid messages.

better

wiseone28:
One here is so obsessed with me something of just 3 months..


She has been stalking me everyday.

you better call out her name let us be mindful of her incase you end up like the dead man, we can treat her fvck up.

Queenflourish:
Let him burn very well, rubbish

why so bitter

That ikorodu sef be like aluu community for rivers state.

As in.such disrespect. It will shock you to know that many adult guys even ask of this till date.

dalass:
He's right now

who tf is this one sef.. Are you his daughter

Kidney wahala.. Please eat right.

This gender

Very ungrateful being.

UyaiIncomparabl:
If you're not boring and she enjoys your space, she won't press her phone too much.

well, in another angle, you have a point. Meaningful discussions, indoor games as well as tv or video games. Good stuff

luminouz:
Lmaoooooo

Pepper wan kill you.

as in my brother. I wan die eh. E come be like say she dey purposely do am.

The pastor should do IT from oyedepo. Come to nigeria and learn how church is being run.

I have experienced a similar issue, i had this girl live with me for over three months. Omo, this babe and pepper be like twins. She cannot just live without pepper, as in, it is as if they cursed her to daydream about pepper. There has never been a day i didnt caution her about too much pepper in my food ...yet she would not change.

Until the d day..

She brought food for me to the office, the pepper was 100times more than the rice. When i ate the food, i cried. I was sweating, my hair pores on my head opened. It was as if my brain was evaporating out from my skull.

After close from work


I called her a witch, i shouted to her like never before, i made sure the neighbors heard my voice, i was mad, furious, in rage like the sun.

She saw the energy in me, and she changed for good. She never ever dared to pack pepper in the meals she cooked for me again.


Dear op, shout for your wife, let her experience the fierce nature of an angry lion. She will never misbehave again.

Try not to do like you have money this year. Always maintain a low profile.

This is hilarious. Marriage by deceit .he can file for divorce

Africans and their dumb way of thinking.

The time she stops pressing phone too much and appreciate quality physical time

Any babe who wants you to have raw sex with her has already wanted 120 other guys in her past to have raw sex with her. So you'll be getting std free of charge.

Empty threats