₦airaland Forum

Damsel21:
Oscotech is not a sec sch,it is a tertiary institution if anything of this happen u shld know both agreed to it.am a product if this sch u know how thing are done there forget this story most of the lecturers there can go for a rat on skirt na dia work.only few are cautioned and matured
I respect only one man in that sch
He's cool
Matured
Learned
Won't mention name but am so proud of him.

delishpot:
All that is because men are not held accountable and are encouraged to explore. Do you think women dont have such feelings too? They try to walk a straight line because they know they are accountable to society and religion. should they miss step, no one would listen to their "he seduced me story". Peoole would say ah ah but you should know better now. You should have said NO.

littlewonders:
I came to understand why they venture into this act recently, most of this married women don't really marry who they love, it is as a pressure of getting married they dive to any proposal for the sake of marriage. But many of them who can't control their emotions still fall back to their ex for emotional and sexual fulfillment.

Check many weddings today, not their boyfriends are they getting married to. I can tell you a girl I bleep sometime is swearing to still have me even when she's married. Don't trust women in full gauge especially the new ones taken in as wife at first.

diablos:


See this almajiri beggar frm the Nut. Your ilk are the lowest humans on the planet based on the poverty index, i don't want to mention diseases like polio and leprosy which is ravaging u almajiris. I blame the internet fr bringing lowlifes like u around my space. Cowboy ko, cowbell ni

importexpert:
For many people, their work life and personal life are two worlds that they cannot seem to coordinate successfully. This is why many people have succeeded in one and failed at the other. There’s more to life than a successful career. But then also, what is life without an opportunity to pursue your goals and dreams? For this reason, it is important that you know how to balance your personal life and work life. Below are five smart tips to help you balance your personal life and work life.

1. Practice time management: Time is a very scarce commodity. Knowing how to manage it can help you strike a healthy balance between your work and life. Rather than start a day without a clear plan, it is better to schedule your time to fit these two parts of your life. To do this, you need to schedule particular days that you will meet with your family, friends and loved ones out of your busy schedule. Also, you can map out a certain time of the day or days of the week when you will focus on your work without distractions. When you make these plans, do your best to stick to them. Resolve not to break them in as much as it is within your power.

2. Identify and discard what drains you: There are certain activities that drain you of your efforts (mental and physical) and also waste your time. It may be the unnecessary banter with colleagues or time spent on the social media. Whatever they may be, you need to identify these time and energy wasters and do away with them. When you do this, you will free up more time to concentrate on your job which can help you finish the day’s task on time. This is will in turn free up more time for you to enjoy your personal life.

3. Create boundaries: Compartmentalize your life. In this context, you can broadly categorize your life into work life and personal life. To be able to succeed at one without failing at the other, you need to create boundaries and stick to it. For instance, you may have to always remind yourself to finish up your work in the office rather than take it home. Doing this will help you give all your attention to your personal life, friends and family. It will help you to truly unwind from stress. Likewise, you need to give your job the full concentration it deserves at work rather than let your attention wander unnecessarily. Recognize the time you have allotted for your work life and your personal life and adhere to it. Avoid any situation that may warrant any overlapping.

4. Learn to say no: It can be tempting to accept any extra work so as to be seen as a nice colleague or a hardworking subordinate. But if you really want to enjoy your work and personal life, you need to learn to say “no”. No law makes it compulsory to say yes whenever a request for more hours is made. In as much you fulfill your responsibilities, you can always say “no” when extra work is pushed to your desk. Sometimes, it’s not about working hard; it’s about knowing when you are being stretched and when you need to refuel. So, once you are asked if you are willing to do more tasks than your job description, learn to say “no” without feeling bad about it. Your health and personal life counts too!

5. Stay connected: Going through whole day without contact with someone outside of your workplace can make your day feel dull. If you have a partner, spouse or loved ones, you can stay in touch with them at intervals when you are less busy at work. For instance, your break time can be a good time to make a voice or video call to them. You can send text message in between work time to know how they are doing and remind them that they mean a lot to you. It will warm their heart and yours when you take actions like this. Also, it can help you relax better and return back to work with a more focused attention.

Summary

You can enjoy the best of both your work life and personal life. There is no reason to succeed at one at the expense of the other. Once you define your priorities and know how to manage your time effectively, you will achieve mastery in balancing your personal life and your work life.

xynerise:
Is it the Speaking in Tongue that some Pentecostal churches force their congregation to say or the true one directed by the Holy spirit?

Speaking in Tongues has been abused by many churches.

If you speak in tongues and no interpreter, brethren, you are on your own.

Kowor:
A generation in need of fathers indeed.

Riduane:

He should be impeached

chiwetaluAGU:
I think for once this APC led FG got it right. Wise decision.

PaperLace:
I didn't get you wrong, I agree with your suggestions. I only countered you saying people shouldn't walk away from an abusive spouse.

PaperLace:
Diplomacy: tact : ability to skillfully deal with people _ common sense should let anyone know it doesn't involve violence. What is difficult (or impracticable) in understanding how couples can tactfully handle marital issues?

PaperLace:
Nobody should stay in an abusive home, male or female!!!!!! When they die while trying to salvage the marriage, you people will change mouth and type RIP.

With your so called experience, you should know violence is never the solution. Diplomacy is very important in marriage.


The kind of analogy you people come up with though...sickening.

delishpot:
When she too want do and he says he is tired..... make she go organize beatings for him and take it by force. In the mean time.... make she sidon there dey do for better for worse till he kills her.

veekid:

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so that babe in white top with black skirt too Na albino?

joe4real12:
Video of the act or adonbilivit

CIOSYLVA:
Since I have been following this Evans story, I have not read that he has killed any of his victims... Or killed any one intentionally or carelessly and yet he is a very successful kidnapper...


Give him 20 yrs jail with hard labour and let him join the strategic military unit after serving his terms

EgunMogaji:
Kitchen: An excellent cook

Living Room: A superb hostess

Da Oza Room: A demonstration of sexual prowess and uninhibited performance.

The rest is just fluff.

olisafincy:
I don't believe at pastor

hollyray2016:
haha! why always Igbo?

cold:
Hmmm..another day, another pastor. Same shìt, different day. Sordid story after sordid story. So glad i finally saw the light. The light of reason. Otherwise i'd be jumping to the pastor's defense now. Screaming 'don't judge that ye may not be judged'. 'Touch not my annointed'. And all that other cŕap that we have come to know as their standard defense mechanism.

lofty900:
It's not by tweeting. As a senator what have you contributed to your constituency? All these senators will just go and live in Abuja forgetting the people that sent them there.

sllylie:
he looks like a rapist seff