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I think people mistake nice guys to be boring guys. I don't think ladies run from from nice guys, ladies run from boring guys, no challenge,nothing always a yes man and agrees to everything you do even when you are wrong. It makes the relationship so unreal.

@Ujujoan

You are not wrong in wanting such, who doesn't want but the problem becomes when you make that your top priority

ayde:
Does anyone in the house know how to cook White Soup? I really need to get the recipe and the steps,'cos i'm hosting my in-laws-to-be in a fortnight or so, and i want to give them a good home cooking. Thanks.

Was wondering which one was white soup. Uziza is good but if you can't find it, it doesn't really change the taste of the nsala.

As for the best meat for nsala soup, I think fresh fish either tilapia or catfish or if there are others is the best. Chicken and goat meat can be used as well.

Ikengawo:
im gonna be honest, im igbo lol, our heads are huge and have those unique set of shapes you just can't describe.

LOL, but I don't have a big head now

Why not? Of course.

Yeah most times it's easy to tell.

@ Ikengawo

, igbos, big heads? lol

C2H5OH:
BOTH!!!

roasted corn done right tastes very good. so does boiled corn with coconut.

i remember those days during the corn season.

Oh yeah, boiled corn with coconut , miss those days. Here I have to roast the corn in the oven but doesn't come a 100% like the ones back home.

Can I choose both? I'd prefer roasted corn with pears (ube) but still love boiled/cooked corn.

Yipeeeeeeee!!!! Thank God!

C2H5OH:
Fine American baby, please come back o. And when you do you can reside in my home, where you rightfully belong.

Thieves being burned alive is not a recent happening in Nigeria. I'm surprised you just read about it.

Come back where? so they kidnap me like Pete Edochie or assassinate/rob me even kill me? But still no place like home, so I would still have to come back home
I know thieves are being burned alive but it's really been a long time I've seen such and haven't seen it upclose like this. This is torture!

wtf?? This is very cruel
what is happening to Nigeria? Do I really want to come back?

RichyBlacK:
And many will justify these despicable acts with choice quotations from their "holy" books.

Whoever that justifies this from the Bible is crazy.

Chrisbenogor:
LOL my guy my guy
You know you cannot get off that easily with me na 
The question is do you have to kill someone in self defence, I mean defend yourself with the intention to kill?

Most times someone that kills in self defence isn't premeditated. It just happens while trying to defend his/her self. The one I hate is when there is an opportunity to escape and have actually escaped, but come back to kill, calling it self defence, that I do not like.

asha 80:
is he the first person to be kidnapped

What a statement!

Tell me this is a lie


These kidnappers better bring him back alive

Tell me this is a lie Please

C2H5OH:
diva why are you so fine. will you dump that hooligan you were dating n come marry me?

Where is your picture? Include that in the application anyways thanks hun

adaku123:
@ Just wise & Diva 1

True talk!! I have to agree he made the right decision!! Anyway i hope everything works out good for him!!!

He should keep us posted abeg

Yeah he made the right choice. Wish him good luck till we hear the feedback.

C2H5OH:
i hope he has his divorce papers ready by monday morning.

I don't think divorce is the answer now, even without hearing from her He should confront her first to know why, then everything else follows from there.

platinumnk:
Sorry to but in, but it is those types of shows that generate the most revenue.

The Western world had been invaded Nigeria.

Some parts of Lagos i cant tell a difference between here and there

i doubt a cribs would work, too much wahalla from armed robbers

That's right girl, can imagine while we are watching cribs, robbers are busy planning how to attack lol


I think fear factor Nigeria would be nice to see

adaku123:
@ Justwise & Diva 1

I can see wat you guys are saying!!! Yes 20 million is a massive opportunity not one to misss! i can understand dat
But dont you think its weird dat a man who loves his wife/family could rationalise that well
Ppl dont usually make good decisions like that when they are in that mode(rage) Its darn impressive!! Dats why i was wondering if he was runnning away or if he was more concerned about his money??

I perfectly understand where you are coming from but at that point it was a quick decision he had to make and he made the right choice. In all, I think everything starts when he gets back home.

@Post

If you are still in Kenya, there is nothing you can do now but wait till you get home and confront her at least to know why. Then you know if it's something that can be resolved and worked out.

adaku123:


U chose to get your money before your family!! Pls explain Cos me  i Dont understand

He did the right thing in this case. The money might have been a one time opportunity, not because of his wife's silliness/stupidity. She is going no where, when he gets back home, then he could confront her and it starts from there.

Chrisbenogor:
Hello Diva,
Do you think the killing them punishes the individual or the people who loves the person?

Hey Chris
I wouldn't necessarily say punishing the individual because he/she is already gone and dead but at least, it helps reduce people that commit such atrocious crime. I heard like here in the US, some people commit crimes just to be in jail because, they eat well even better than outside, safety and all. A man might want to commit a crime and knows if he gets caught, he could be dead so that might help change his mind. In all, I feel it is justified.

No way Haven't tried it @ all, just the thought of it.