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Good advice above.

@Nikky23, you said you used to read it before but the drive went down. Did anything terrible happen to you of recent like heartbreak, job loss or things as such?

@Obnoxious

Don't you also have a mother and sister(s)? Don't you think of them, how it feels, if men are doing the same to them?

I accept gifts from everyone and anyone, that's why they are gifts but one gift in particular I would not from any man other than my own man Lingerie or intimates, a no no, i would know he has something in mind.

Lexiwhite:
There's a difference with saying u love someone the way u say to mummy or daddy - i love u. . . when u talk of the kind of love that turns u into a fool, then u must trust the person involved - or at least think u trust them

That's right, I agree here.

luxoire:
it is not easy for 2 reasons

1. with the right person it can be the most memorable, warm loving experience you will ever have in your life

2. with the wrong person - it will be the most regretted thing you ever did

whether for the right reasons or the wrong reaons a woman never forgets her first LOVEr

That's right

Nikky23:
I dont think it's easy, I have not been able to forget mine even till this minute

@poster, beautiful pic

Thanks dear

Lexiwhite:
I think i remember her name, cant remember what she looked like though. . . I know she was pretty. Anyways, she is past tense now.

but the main thing you still remember her

If you dont have, it isn't by force, tell her so you don't start anything.

I think it's possible in my opinion to love someone you can't trust but does not mean you would be or it's good to be in such relationship because it would be difficult to scale through and may not work out.

@Poster, I understand where you are coming from. If a relationship is too perfect,it would seem too good to be true and not real. Imagine me being wrong and my man would tell me I'm right, c'mon. Another thing, I even tell my brother is to be very careful, some women especially just to get hooked appear too good to be true, always at your beck and call but once hooked, it's possible to see a monster and could give you hell.

Nevertheless, it might be her true character who doesn't want someone with a good character and those qualities even if they appear too good to be true.

How is she ugly? Do you mean facially or bodywise? You said she has a good character, wouldn't that cover for what you define as her being ugly? You should really think this over and talk to God to help you decide well before you make a costly mistake.

Substitute for vegetable oil,

cheatmaker:
Thanks @diva1 i will surely make the money.

U welcome but I wasn't just relating to money. To everything, your life in general.

hollandis:
and what is your idea of success

Romeo4real:
@Diva1 - Its a shame ur statement really encapsulates what the poster is saying. Being successful should not be a prerequisite to have a relationship with a woman, or be a determinant in her staying with you.

You both amaze me. What do you people understand by the word "successful"? No one is linking that to having a relationship with a woman. Define to me what being "successful" means.

It depends on the definition of a bad guy but in most cases, guys that are too nice may seem like a bore because they do everything to please you @ some point it's nice but at some point, it doesn't seem real again, no challenge, nothing, always pleasing you, even when wrong, they'll tell you, you are right. To them, everything goes your way.

In all/most cases, is every disappointment really a blessing in disguise? Would like some opinions.

Simply test yourself to see if you are pregnant either at home or the hospital because I have heard instances were some women are pregnant without symptoms.

Puvguy:
Dava1 by the way u don't seem sensitive to such mojo?

How?

davidylan:
From a man's perspective i dont think you really forget, you simply remember them for being your first. no special attachments.

Most women have special attachments to such unlike the men.

tpiah:
I'm more concerned about how easy it is to forget the one/s you disvirgined.

It's a man's world.

That would be interesting to hear esp from the guys.

spikedcylinder:
@ topic

Quite easy actually.

Really? Would like to know

Just like some men aren't worth trusting. I don't like generalising. There are situations where a man has nothing, has no money, has no cash and his woman still stands by him even help him stand up and he would still mess up so money or no money has nothing to do with not trusting women.

There's nothing else you can do but move on and try to be successful.

I watched it on the news too. It was so sad and disgusting, knowing the murderer also had two other kids. Yeah it was shocking.

Would anyone else agree that it is much easier for people to forgive others that hurt them than forgive themselves when they hurt other people? Why?

C'mon guys some of u were a bit harsh up here @ the poster. There's nothing wrong for him looking for female friends up here if that's what he wants. This is a social network, he said friends not hook ups.

The color is pretty scary lol

Strawberries

What kind of sauce? There are different types.

Most people do it but I wouldn't advise that. It doesn't sound healthy.

Honesty
Sense of humor
Fear God
Good physical attributes
Good Hygiene

C2H5OH:
The wound is fresh. It will subside. Been there b4. Bleep it, go hit the gym hard. Occupy your mind with activities that will take your mind off the prob, ya dig?

Is it guaranteed?

Thanks Tope5000, cold, kay_pumpin and Davidylan for the love though you didn't share your views on this topic.

@Monicaa

Yes it does help in a way it will lessen the feelings. It doesn't mean you would ever forget because it's possible you may never forget him but you would have less thoughts and feelings as time passes by and when you also meet somone you would also find something(s) unique like you did with your ex. I understand where you are coming from.

tpiah:
yes, she's quite pretty.

posakosa:
Diva has got a beauriful picture

Thanks dears

Dear, if it was just cheating and u forgave him, it would be more understandable than even has the nerves to get her(BEST FRIEND) pregnant?? No, That's a no no as long as you guys are not married yet. So what would happen when the baby is delivered and you eventually have yours or may not, what do you think would happen. As difficult as it may seem for you since you love him, Let him go.

In my opinion, I would say worse. I just recently opened a thread on God having mercy on us. Just within only one week, the bad news heard was enough to depress me. Aside the plane crash and fire incident that killed a lot of kids, the murder incidents too, all for nothing. On the news today, we hear mostly bad news than good. News I guess back in the days were rarely heard, now it's normal, mother killing child so she can be free, mother microwaving baby for boyfriend and so much more.

But all in all, we leave everything to God.