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chika98:
Are you considering taking him back then? What has he done to wow or coerce you into taking him back?

chika98:
Diva1: Whatever happened to that boy you would always write about?

amhurting:
i have stopped begged.
diva1, i really begged. heavy begging. even God in heaven cant be that cold to me

amhurting:
I am starting this thread with so much tears in my eyes. For over a week now i have been unable to sleep, eat well or think straight.

I have been dating a guy for over a year and God in heaven knows i love this guy so much.

We had an argument few weeks back and he has refused to talk to me since then. I have called and called over a trillion times and he is not taking my calls. Sent text messages begging and pleading. Nothing yet. I sent him emails. Left voicemail he still wont talk to me.

I had to get people including his own mother to please help me beg him and all he keeps saying is that he will call me.

Its been hell and i have never gone through this before in my life.

I know he loves me but i just cant phantom why he has blanked me off like this.

Its obviously over between us, but at least he should talk to me rather than doing this to me

I dont deserve this. God knows!  

Rosabelle:
lol. Theres a reason why youre men and we are women. So may the Lord forbid we ever shop like you, cos if we do, our children wont go to school. Se you want to buy the first yam you see for 350, when if you go inside inside,theres a woman selling sweeter one for 110. The pepper and tomato you buy at the door of the market is on the road .Dust would have settled on it. Inside the marktet, because the women are INSIDE, they sell cheaper. I could go onnnnn.
If we behaved like you, we wont beable to give birth to children, feed them, cloth them (with or without your contribution), and send them to school, cos we'd be buying impatiently instead of making sure we're getting the best bargain

sweetpie23:
I guess you are referring to yourself her. a man should marry a woman who can at least relate to his mom. but insecure fools like you are not in for that. you had rather settle for a white sluts with flat ass African men are just stupid.

iykedare:
where dis mosquitoe fly out frm? my dear silly thing,her statement was rude to all the guys here who said that they would prefer virgins.so u are now blaming guys who deflowered u.kai,see your level of reasoning.i think u are wrong for think dat way( at least u were not raped)so u shld not open your legs for every one who wants to browse eh.

iykedare:
u dey vex?no one asked u to sell your virginity for meat pie and pure water or probably for 100 naira recharge card.who would prefer to buy tokunbo instead of buying something new.no one forced u so stop making silly comments.every man wants a woman who has got dignity and thats what a virgin stands for.

since u have related this to sex,is it better bleeping wide gutter of yours or bleeping a sweet tight and fresh cunt like that of virgins

justwise:
Absolutely! i'm suffering from it now, my ex was treated badly by her ex(as she claimed) when we met, she couldn't get over it, nothing makes her happy, always in a bad mood. Any mistake by me is reacted with massive anger, we ended it b4 somebody calls ambulance.

Kunbee:
Abi oo. So how is it the other chics u r going to date their fault dat your gf messed up

justwise:
I have to agree with these 2ladies. Things do happen, don't pass it to another person cos the circle of heartbreaking will keep going on.
We all have suffered from heartbreak and we have broken somebody's heart as well.

posakosa:
Kill the stupid bitch.

joyce j:
I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. The relationship has been boring. He is too nice and i don't want to break his heart. what should i do?

ezinne1212:
If nursing homes were available in Naija i would put them there, it's more care and peace of mind than either of my folks showed any of us.

chikeorji123:
Romantic ke?.how can we be romantic why our ladies are money concious

charles316:
yeah african men are so unromantic cos african ladies are so money conscious.

THE AMAKA:
tonto dike does not bleach.
i dont believe it.
you know how lighting depends on the movies and all of that.
some places genevieve nnaji looks really black and in some places she looks chocolate brown.
[b]it depends on the lighting.[/b]i dont think she bleaches at all.

roymorah:
if u peeps had their kinda money,u wud do do worse things

oyinda.:
the process is not that difficult really.
but you will appear different and people will judge you differently.

sweetpie23:
@poster I so agree with you. I think it looks weird, and completely unnatural. it does not represent black beauty. i think they should keep their hair natural, it looks very nice that way

Missy B:
If Your concept of 'a good standard of living' equals mine,
then I don't understand why it's opposing '' honest living''.

Can't he live a good standard life through an honest means?

myluv4kids:
I slept with my neighbour even when the husband was right in there bedroom while i did it in the sitting room, When I realized that I don't think it was ordinarily I cried the hell out of me asking God to forgive me. I want to know what u think about me and my God in this, She was too close to me I mean even the husband and I am the kind that never wanna do anything with a married women, Though the woman died last year but then I left the country but I felt it so much, She married to a man old enough to be her fr. I think that was one of thing things despit seen lot of girls coming in and going from my apartment she still did it to me, She gave birth later on but she didn't tell me if it's mine or not, though in one way or the other i will find out in future. Is it right to tell the husband about this? or should it go back on as it is because she later then realized her mistake but still love me. she told me that for long her husband never slept her I could remember,

Have God forgiven me?, nice sugestions please, people

chaircover:
Please be careful.

I would say nothing expensive but just a token gift. What you don’t want is them getting used to expensive gifts and they get offended if the next time you don’t send something of an equal or better value.

Wait until you get to know them better & then you can make an informed decision on their attitude towards expensive gifts. It will save a lot of bad feeling in the future.

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So true, when next you don't send anything or meet up, you become the talk (bad) in the family.

Yumi:
I think if you really love someone you never really get over them. Thats why I usually give the relationship a six month period of time to fix back up if someone ends it and I really love the person. As that way you make sure you have no regrets, if you really love someone you are not in a hurry to move on anyway. I would normally give it a few months if it was someone I really cared for and wanted to be with. If you move onto someone else they will never measure up to that person you really loved so there is no point really cause your heart won't be in it.

Its good to have closure too make sure you both really want to break up. If you didn't speak for two years are there still loose ends. Do you still love each other? I wouldnt let the person use you though as if they didnt make an effort to stay in touch or fix things two years ago they may not really love you anyway. Some times you never get over someone and every time you see them or you see reminders it hurts and you feel pain. Its like the day it ended a small part of your heart died. Thats when you really fell in love and there is no cure to that but with time it gets a little bit less painful and a little bit easier,

ono:
Too many great men have died this year:

1. Michael Jackson
2. Sen. Edward Kennedy
and now,
3. Gani Fawehinmi.

What a tragic year! Started with plane mishaps, MEND attacks, Economic downturn across the world, job losses. Terrible!