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Fashion › Re: Illegitimate Bleaching Business In Nigeria by diva90: 8:45pm On Mar 19, 2016

That Egyptian milk was the biggest scam ever. Babes were dropping as much as N50k and more on cream that they weren't sure would do anything. Bleaching their lives away at any cost... Low self esteem na bad thing sha...

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Family › Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by diva90: 8:31pm On Mar 19, 2016

Honestly you don't have an issue. This is a Problem that can be rectified. You want to leave ur marriage and raise your child in a broken home because ur husband is not giving you sex as often as you want it and only does it twice a month? Listen to yourself!! undecided

do you know that there are some women their husbands haven't touched for 2 years and more. Pple who are in worse situations than you are? Communicate properly with your husband, see a marriage counsellor if possible, buy him books to read, educate him etc your husband is very conservative , that's what the issue is, such people can be made to be more exposed to matters that are facing them. Lastly, learn to initiate sex, maybe he's the only one always initiating. It's not enough to just dress sexy and stay in bed, seduce him, show him that you want it so bad. Most men won't resist that. If he initiated previously, don't be hesitant to initiate next you feel like it, a counsellor will tell you same.
Good luck

Family › Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by diva90: 8:25pm On Mar 19, 2016

OP wats the current situation of your marriage? Did you end up leaving him? I think your husband is highly irresponsible. I would have separated from him if I were in your shoes. But then again, I'm wondering if you didn't see these signs while you people dated? The lack of ambition and signs of laziness would have been obvious. Even at the point you noticed all wasn't going well and that there were financial issues, you shouldn't have gotten pregnant(family planning). The worst part is having to raise a child alone or in a broken home. Hopefully you were able to resolve the issue to a reasonable extent.

Family › Re: My Marriage Is Crashing Already by diva90: 8:03pm On Mar 19, 2016

ramuona:
Same thing happened to me a week to my wedding. My hubby would see me and hiss. He got angry @ every thing I did or said. It wasn't easy for me. .... I felt like calling off my wedding. My dear take it easy He's just under pressure. Wedding preparation and all that. Just be calm and prayerful... God will perfect your wedding and marriage.

You are right, sometimes it's the stress of the wedding preparations and all the pressure being faced. Prior to my wedding it wasn't easy too, I and my husband were both cranky and stressed but then it's just a stage that will be overcomed. This could be part of the problem that her guy is having but then what about the other red flags of cheating etc. the only issue with leaving this man now is, finding someone else. What's the guarantee that the next man will be better? Most men these days cheat, so we can't say the next man won't cheat. He's not beating her or physically abusing her... So idk... it's something she really needs to think out before calling off the wedding, she knows the guy well enough to know if this is just a phase of stress that he is going through. If he wasn't like this month's before marriage preparations then it's most likely stress.
Don't be in a rush to call it off before seeking proper advice from a counsellor or experienced married person as I had suggested in my other post and NB: most of the people here telling you to call it off wouldn't have done so if they were in your shoes. Don't let people mislead you, you should be the primary decider since you know this man better than we do.

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Family › Re: My Marriage Is Crashing Already by diva90: 7:55pm On Mar 19, 2016

I don't understand your heading, you haven't entered the marriage yet and you are already crying that it is crashing. It's not too late to call it off but as a woman I understand your plight considering that the timeline is so close and all plans and arrangements have been made, invitations sent out, your friends don buy your aso ebi and money spent etc... Tough one! But ask yourself if you can manage what is ahead... Talk to someone who is experienced(married for long and elderly) so that they can give you a truthful insight/opinion and then based on that, weigh your options. My dear what you are Seeing now will be worse after marriage, so if you are miserable now, you will be even more miserable in the few months to come. Hopefully you get the strength you need to walk away and not settle for less. Good luck!

Family › Re: When Your Wife Takes Your Place As The Husband (Photo) by diva90: 3:39am On Mar 19, 2016

Lol

Fashion › Re: Photos From Mr And Miss Imo State Pageant Audition As Grand Finale Holds 16th by diva90: 9:03pm On Mar 17, 2016

Another avenue for them to promote runs and prostitution... Since they exposed that other abuja pageant that was pimping their queens to high society men and politicians, I have totally lost any respect that I have for the pageantry industry in nigeria

Family › Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by diva90: 8:12pm On Mar 17, 2016

I don't advice any woman to marry before 25. By 25, yes! After 30, the chances of her finding a partner are pretty slim. Btw these days I don't know if marriage is something that should be rushed into, it's no joke!

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Politics › Re: Gov Okorocha Commissions Shoprite In Owerri (pix) by diva90: 6:54pm On Mar 17, 2016

Where in owerri is this shoprite?

Fashion › Re: Okuneye Idris-Olanrewaju: Male Barbie Doll (Photos) by diva90: 6:23am On Mar 17, 2016

Nigeria's male Barbie doll ke? Abi michael Jackson. Absolute rubbish undecided

Business › Re: CBN Introduces New Charges On ATM Cards, Cheques by diva90: 3:20pm On Mar 16, 2016

Sultanchidi:
dere is a friend of mine dey pay her 1k every month, bt i don't know if dey still pay her sha

How much they pay you depends on how much is in the account.

Business › Re: CBN Introduces New Charges On ATM Cards, Cheques by diva90: 11:49am On Mar 16, 2016

Sultanchidi:
first Bank has never given me any interest oh, it's only gtbank

I used to get interest until December 2015. They used to pay as much as N3000+ interest to my Acct monthly. Then it reduced to N2k+, now nothing again. I wonder why... I will soon fully port back to diamond, that's another bank that pays very good interest to saving accounts.

Car Talk › Re: The Best Of IVM Motors (Innoson Motors) by diva90: 2:04am On Mar 16, 2016

How much are these cars ?

Family › Re: Is It Right For Spouse To Check His/her Partner's Phone? by diva90: 11:13pm On Mar 15, 2016

Depends. Once in a while, yes! Everytime no! Give your partner some space, no one likes to be choked. I used to check my husbands phone but not anymore, he doesn't check mine either. We trust each other

Business › Re: CBN Introduces New Charges On ATM Cards, Cheques by diva90: 11:00pm On Mar 15, 2016

Sultanchidi:
So dis is d reason y first Bank deducted 105 from my account and told me dat 5naira is 4 vat and d other 100naira is cbn charges

Do you still get your monthly interest credited to your account?

Business › Re: CBN Introduces New Charges On ATM Cards, Cheques by diva90: 10:57pm On Mar 15, 2016

Yea I was charged this N100 fee last month. Was wondering what it was for. I also wonder why first bank is no longer paying me my monthly interests any more. Is it just me or are there other people affected?

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Culture › Re: Ife Queen Wuraola With Her Lebanese Husband by diva90: 9:52pm On Mar 15, 2016

*grabs popcorn* more episodes of scandal loading....

Family › Re: My Unpaid Salary Is Suffering My Family by diva90: 1:18am On Mar 15, 2016

If you genuinely need help, then you should leave a form of contact, email address, bank Acct details or phone number to reach you.

Politics › Re: NNPC Under Jonathan Failed To Remit N3.2trn, Says Auditor-general by diva90: 12:09am On Mar 15, 2016

Ndi Oshi, there is no way God would have let these crooks Come back for a second term undecided

Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji To Give BlessingNick Nicholas N500k If Anyone Can Find Her by diva90: 2:59am On Mar 14, 2016

kay29000:
If you don't know about something, it is normal to doubt the possibility, so I don't blame you for your comment. But, just for the record... If you were a blogger or an advertiser on her blog, you would know this things.

Linda has a bunch of rectangular banners on her site, which cost N500,000 a month to place ads in. There are 20 of them, which brings her income up to 10 million Naira montly for the rectangular Ads. A long leader-board banner at the top cost a million Naira a month, and the total takeover of the blog's background cost 4 million a week (that's potentially 16 million a month). Then she also does one-off guest post every day which cost 50k. She does an average of 10 of those a day, which brings her income in this area to 500k a day, and 15 million a month. Now, let's do the addition- 10 plus 16 plus 15 equals 41 million Naira monthly...PLUS OR MINUS. So, now you see why she can afford the kind of luxury lifestyle she lives.

You don't have to believe me, but this is known fact to those in the know. My friend runs a car hire service, and we got all these information when we wanted to advertise on the blog. Plus I am a blogger myself, and know the ins and outs of this things. You can do your own research, but I have laid everything down for you. Just do the addition. You can go ahead to her blog and check all the things I listed, and you will see they are present there. And you can go ahead and contact her (her number is on the left side of the blog) if you have time, and ask for the price to place all those ads, then conclude on your own.

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Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji To Give BlessingNick Nicholas N500k If Anyone Can Find Her by diva90: 2:51am On Mar 14, 2016

kay29000:
The lady makes between 30-40 million Naira a month. She can decide to give away 1 million monthly, and it won't shake her. I have noticed that the more she gives out money, the richer she becomes. Also, the more problems she gets into (like when Google shot down her blog), the bigger she gets.

Wow! That's a whole lot of money

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Family › Re: What Should I Do If My Wife Destroy My Property (tv) by diva90: 10:26pm On Mar 13, 2016

She's your wife, forgive her. Remember the vows! It would be unecessary for you to end your marriage just because your wife got angry and broke your TV. She's human, we all get angry and yes she has over stepped the anger boundary. Just give her a serious warning and let her know that if it happens again, you will take drastic measures. She should also contribute towards the purchase of a new TV too. All the best as you resolve the issue... All will be well if you handle it with diplomacy

Family › Re: Am In Trouble With The Wife I Married Today Saturday by diva90: 4:51am On Mar 13, 2016

Google the term 'pre-intimacy' ....

Travel › Re: Victims Of The Lagos-Ibadan Express Fire-Accident Die - Graphic Photos by diva90: 9:01pm On Mar 12, 2016

Really unfortunate

Romance › Re: Counter Thread: 10 Reasons Why Nigerian Girls Suck At Relationships by diva90: 2:52am On Mar 12, 2016

Adaure4ever:
RUBBISH.. TOTAL RUBBISH.
moderator pls delete this insultive thread.
Its anti-women. Thanx

But he's saying the truth, most Nigerian ladies exhibit most of these behaviours listed above. Too many fake, badly behaved and extremely materialistic girls out there. Sadly, it's just a very few who have their heads together ...

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Business › Re: URGENT!!! Was I Scammed??? by diva90: 2:34am On Mar 12, 2016

Yes you can get your money back. It's happened to me before, I was once fraudulently debited of N108,000 before. Called my bank immediately I noticed the alert . Infact I was at home when the alert came in saying that the purchase was made at a particular store in the US and my card had been debited, so you can imagine the shock I went through. Upon calling my bank, The bank blocked the card and investigation commenced. I was able to get my money back almost 2 and half months after I reported the incidence. So your own matter na small thing considering the amount involved in your case, just report it on time so that they can commence recovery efforts.

Romance › Re: Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Him? by diva90: 11:59pm On Mar 11, 2016

The red flags are everywhere! The moment he slapped you was the moment you should have left his physically abusive ass! You better run before you enter one chance. If you decide to go on and Marry this man, you are on your own, don't come to nairaland 6 months from now asking us if you should seek divorce cos na u do yourself ... undecided

Politics › Re: ‘my Husband Is Gay, He Masturbates In My Presence’ – Former Minister’s Daughter by diva90: 9:17pm On Mar 11, 2016

This minister is a very controversial woman. Everyone who knows her personally can testify to the fact that she is a renowned trouble maker. They should let the woman reunite with her children( it is very wrong to take away young children forcefully from their biological mother) but they should work towards a joint custody and equal visitation rights while they go ahead with the dissolution of the marriage, evidently the union cannot be salvaged anymore. The girl was just so slow in acting out, the moment she started being abused was the moment when she should have walked away.... She was more concerned in making peace at the expense of her happiness. Not good! She can't tell me that she didn't suspect that something would happen during the proposed trip to nigeria even with all the issues that were already existing. It's just unfortunate that it all ended this way. Lesson to other women, do not go into a family where you are not 100% accepted.

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Politics › Re: ‘my Husband Is Gay, He Masturbates In My Presence’ – Former Minister’s Daughter by diva90: 9:07pm On Mar 11, 2016

Alejhandro:
Pls mention d former minister. Kema or Viola or

That's viola's son. Kema's surname is Chikwe not onwuliri

Celebrities › Re: Adaeze Yobo Covers Beauty Magazine (pics) by diva90: 9:05pm On Mar 11, 2016

pretydiva:
25 years old mom ... is dat her football age or wat

That's her real age, she married yobo when she was just 18/19

Romance › Re: Couple Who Met At NYSC Camp Are To Wed Next Month by diva90: 3:46pm On Mar 11, 2016

Good luck to them!

Family › Re: Their Marriage Was Based On Deceit. by diva90: 12:46am On Mar 11, 2016

It's understandable if she has decided to get an annulment/divorce. I would have done the same, marriage based on decietful grounds is no marriage at all. But then again, I have to say that your sister didn't do her research during courtship well, it's not just enough to believe everything that someone says. also did your family not do a background search before consenting to give out their daughter in traditional marriage or is this not done in your tribe? Usually details like this are discovered during those periods.

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