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Number 4 will be my happiest day. I can't wait to experience it...

Wow that's so unfortunate. 3rd degree burns right there.... Hopefully they survive the complications from the burns

Nice one

This is so true. The most common question from most of these guys is "what do you do".... The moment you download your qualifications, they immediately become 'turned on'. It's so unfortunate that most men have become so lazy these days... They would rather go for a well to do woman or a big man's daughter than be submerged in a world of responsibilities. You go to many homes, women are now breadwinners, paying bills etc. Everybody wants the easy way out. The part I don't get is women who lend their boyfriends huge sums of money.... How can you take such a huge risk? guess some people only learn the hard way. As for me the words - borrow, loan, lend are non existent in my dictionary.

Oh my God! But why are there so many road accidents these days?

So filthy

Fidelity bank! Every time I go there early in the morning , their 'server' is always down...

The grief on the daughters face is just so hard to watch. May God console them. It's just so so painful to lose 1 loved member of the family talkless of 3 and within such a short period. Makes you realize that There's truly nothing in this life.... We can be here today and gone tomorrow. Live well!

The Ooni is playing with fire. Of all the women out there, why this particular one?

I thought it was said that the collapse occurred at chisco bustop, now I'm hearing lekki gardens
Really unfortunate event

Nice one! We don't see ladies like this any more. Most girls are now into the 'system' of acquiring fast money through spreading their legs. Nothing is as honorable as making genuine money

You started it so make constant efforts to rectify the problem. After all if tables were turned and you caught her cheating, we won't be here discussing this, you would have chased her out of the house since. Now tell me why she should let you off the hook so easily ?

I'm going to be honest, my husband is a combination of 8 & 10. 8 is his weakness and 10 is his strength. He is however learning to outgrow number 8 as it was becoming an issue when we got married newly. But in summary, my husband is a good man, that one I can take to the bank!

I can't imagine what you are going through at this tough time. You made a very big mistake by being 100% financially responsible for the Upkeep of your home... A responsibility that should have been that of your husband's. most married women who do this always end up regretting, it is wrong! A man should be the bread winner unless he has a physical disability that is hindering him from working and providing . Now don't get me wrong, no one is saying that a wife should not contribute sometimes but I find it absolutely absurd to see a woman putting a roof over a man's head and practically feeding and clothing him. A grown man for that matter! Some people ( like your husband) only learn the hard way, he relaxed because he knew he could easily take advantage of your niceness. Sorry to say but your husband is a very lazy man....At the point where you had noticed he was getting too comfy, you should have withdrawn especially after several attempts to encourage him to get a 9-5 job that would pay bills, no matter how small the pay is. People like this don't learn until hunger starts hammering them and they see the serious need to make ends meet. What sort of silly project has he been waiting for ? Project that may not even be guaranteed that it will come through or pay off. How can a sensible man put all his eggs in one basket? Now you have used up all your savings, there is no money and you are expecting a child plus rent go soon expire etc. Not good! It's a tough situation, I advice you look for who to take a loan from. Then face your husbands case, talk to him seriously and let him know that you can no longer bring anything to the table and that he needs to get a job ASAP!!! Manage whatever money you get wisely and just take care until you put to bed and can get back to work.

Chillisauce:
You haven't seen anything yet. Is this not nairaland again.
5yrs old next of kin?

Buhahahah.
No wonder our banks keep all to themselves in case of emergency .

I tire

Do people really know what the term 'next of kin' means? Looking at most of the responses on this thread makes me wonder if most people are truly enlightened. If you are married, your next of kin should be your spouse. If you are single, your next of kin should be a responsible and elderly member of your family such as one of your parents or a grown up sibling. The reason why most people ask for next of kins are mostly for emergency reasons. A next of kin should be someone somebody can call on your behalf to notify them of an event in case something happens to you or needs to be rectified concerning you. Can a child handle this responsibility? Probably not. So why put your child as your next of kin if he/she is not yet an adult

Based on all the red flags mentioned above ... One thing I'm going to say to you is that....You are about to enter a very serious one chance. Ask your self if you can live with this type of aggression and violent personality for the rest of your life? If yes, go ahead. If no, stay clear and look for another woman. I'm a lady and I'm going to tell you this... Your fiancée has serious anger issues and it's going to get worse. How can she whip her to-be sister inlaw with a belt and bruise you because of something so minor. To add to that she's a verbally abusive individual...What's going to happen on the long run when you have even more serious issues ( as this is inevitable in marriage).. ? Do you even realize the seriousness of marriage? It also seems like you are more into the relationship than she is. what ever choice you make (as it it entirely up to u to decide, we can't do that for you) make sure that you aren't just thinking of only now but the future and how her behaviour may ruin your marriage. Good luck!

Really sad, the other kids will be inconsolable my heartfelt condolences goes out to the entire family

Indecent

Such a pretty lady!

adorablepepple:
, I just pity this oba and ife kingdom as a whole . An oba getting married to a remnant of three men. that's wonderful! She has been married 3 times,always changing her name to suit her new suitors tribe,from benin name to zainab abi aisha she is now bearing the name wuraola.
Someone who was married till December last year.
Na here we go dey. Happy married life

Oh yea?

Does anyone know what the brand/make of that SUV is? I once saw it in orange and it was just too stunning but couldn't make out the brand as it appears to be new in the market

It's obvious she's two timing and seeing another man. What other advice do you want us to give you? There a saying that goes as thus "Be wise enough to walk away from anything that doesn't give you peace of mind" and in this case this lady clearly doesn't ... Else you won't be here on NL seeking advice. Don't let your desperation lead you to a bad choice. I'll advice you let go and look for someone else. Good luck!

Where is the mother of this child? They need to take him away from his father, this is totally unacceptable. the abuse is too much

She's evidently very miserable in the marriage. why is she still there? She should Get a divorce and move on... Or is she waiting for the ultimate STD ... HIV ? She knows all his girlfriends, this same man has no respect for her and brings these hoes into their home & in front of their kids ...he also probably sleeps with them on their matrimonial bed .. Why put up with all that? Hian! Some women dey try sha... Murder is not the way out but divorce is... The sooner she lets go, she will feel better.

More like a peck than a kiss. I can only imagine how their sex life is.

Courtesy demands that he informs his wife. Shebi it's her home as well? And the guest will still come and relax + eat her food? If tables were turned, the husband would feel disrespected if such happened without his knowledge. So in order to maintain peace and order, yes! The wife should be duly informed.

Those lashes look hideous

mukhcech:
No matter how evil he is. He is married to one or many of your kind(Women).

And how does that justify his actions?

This man is pure evil. What the hell now tell me why people are opposing his sentence? Doesn't he deserve to reap what he has sowed

Yea... Sure! Forgive him and brace yourself for a second round of beating next time you both disagree. You evidently have no self worth and regards for yourself. If you did, you would leave that relationship right away and never look back...

Too many issues with GTB, stopped banking with them cos their wahala plenty