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Lovely!

Fayose always talking nonsense since 1900 BC. Some men don't respect themselves, always scattering mouth for unfortunate vulnerable people to buy in on their rants.

This is gruesome, gosh!

Rimimafia:
Murder!!!
She is apparently left handed - She has a cigarette in her left hand and the pen is on the left hand side. so she can't shoot with her right. the splatter on the wall also gives credence to this murder assumption. if it was suicide, there ought to be some blood on the mirror.

Exactly!

Murder - considering the blood splatter and the way the gun was held

I knew it was a temporary change. It's going to go back to N380/390/400 by next week.

Let's be sincere, the 'after' is definitely more appealing to the eyes than the 'before'

How much was he paying you previously? Ask yourself if it's worth the risk or sacrifice of losing your dignity. Also there is no guarantee that you will still have the job even after sleeping with him. I would say that you should let it go and seek other options. God will provide, trust me when I say there are people in way worse situations than you are. All the best!

Yea I remember

What kind of money will this small boy steal that will warrant such an inhuman treatment. The woman should be arrested and charged to court. Haba!

Half baked gists everywhere waiting for the full undiluted version to drop

Understandable! I believe every woman struggles with this same issue but people handle it differently. I also don't want to believe that your wife was not emotionally prepared for the marriage prior to making such commitment. I struggled with same feelings as your wife and months after marriage I was still missing home. It's not easy but she will get used to it with time. Try to be understanding and tolerant with her mood swings

Sad end for this handsome young man. May his soul RIP

This is gruesome wow!

Terrible! Suicide should never be an option ... Some people have it way worse and are still thriving

AyakaDunukofia:
He wouldn't have gone after her if she wasn't "irresistible" to him.

Says who? What if it was an arranged marriage or he married her for political reasons? Eg. To strengthen ties with her father who may be a bigger political figure than he is. Or are you just supposedly naive? The context in which the word was used is clear. Trust me when I say this man probably has side chics/girlfriends that are finer than this his new wife.... However this was his choice

lekkie073:
forget Stellas blog....I know bukola very very well...
their problem was as a result of the fact that buki had not been able to bear him a child since they got married.

Who's the mother of his 21 year old daughter in the UK? And why would that be an issue since he already has a child or children?

She's okay. The word 'Irresistible' is quite an exaggeration

Beremx:
Yes,it is enough reason to leave the marriage. So many marriages have crashed due to the men marrying more wives. This is no exception. Before he became the Ooni,he's been seen together with his wife. What then happened suddenly?

Go and read Stella's blog and get the real gist. They have been having marital issues way before he became Ooni. She had already left the marriage since. If you notice the new Ooni has been attending most of his functions alone and without a spouse. For his coronation last year she reportedly came from outside the palace , attended it and left after the event. They haven't been living together. Trust and believe that if she was still there playing her role, he wouldn't be in a haste to replace her. If she was still in the marriage and he was bringing in another wife... It's a different thing

Beremx:
Probably she cannot stand having co-wives after being the only wife for years.

e no easy o!

Not enough reason to leave a marriage. There's more to their divorce than we know. The marriage has probably been in shambles way before he became ooni.

Odiegwu! Marriages crashing right left and center.... Everywhere you turn these days you go hear say one marriage somewhere don crash. It's truly unfortunate that people give up so fast on their marital vows these days. Hopefully this new marriage brings him happiness and peace of mind.

Cool

ibedun:
Typical nigga, wanting to be rich just to oppress and violate people. There are very very few rich people in Nigeria and most of black Africa. The so called rich are criminals, treasury looters with no discernible source of their wealth. Oniranu, you want to flex with $60k handbag While our people are going to bed hungry. You will never know that wealth.

Stupidity at its peak! So who says a rich person can't dress well, carry a 60kusd bag and still change the lives of the people around them? Don't people drive cars worth over $200k or wear Rolex watches that are over $50k? People should be entitled to use their money the way they please. Did I ever dispute the fact that if I was as rich as bill gates I won't give back to the society? You only reason the way you do because you have never seen money and will never see it.

Waiting for the day I can walk into a Hermes store and pay for a $60,000 handbag without looking at the price tag ... Till then the hustle to be shamelessly rich is on!

She looks great for her age. The end results of a woman with no husband and childbearing wahala plus excess money

His first wife is finer.

Lovely! This is me a few months from now ...

Lol! Olajumoke stood out because she's a tall lady with model like physical characteristics. This one definitely doesn't have that charisma and attributes

Unfortunate situation. What ever decision you make, please do not consider an abortion. That baby is almost ready to come into the world and is already a full fledged human being. Follow the instructions of Nairalanders who know organizations that would support you in this trying time. I wish you all the best!

Hmmm babymama at age 21, what an achievement

Serious matter

Well said! These are actually so true... Another big problem is financial differences... Many people don't think it out at the initial stage but money is always a big problem in many marriages. We have seen women cheat because their husband cannot take care of them/afford them the lifestyle that they want and we have seen marriages break apart because of irreconcilable differences due to finance. So it's good to weigh in finance into top consideration before deciding if you both are ready for that long tough journey