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Adaego5:
Help! I Am In A Serious Dilemma!!

Please what does it mean when a man tells his woman that he is not connected to her?

I was in courtship with this guy late 2017, we were working towards getting married. we broke up sometime in 2018. Since then, it's been difficult for me to love again. I really loved him and could go extreme for him.

He has tried going into other relationships same as me but non worked. So we decided to give us a shot once more, I was happy and felt whole again.....

He is very principled. Now he is saying that he doesn't feel that connection between us. He said I am everything, intelligent, smart, beautiful, hardworking, a graduate, Godfearing with good home upbringing, from a god background, tall infact taller than every girl he has come across but he just doesn't feel that connection between us. When it comes to qualities, I am better than every girl he has met. He went ahead to tell me of a girl who he felt that connection with but she broke his heart. I am shattered and devastated once more.

Its easy to say move on, but easier said than done. It took me months to move on, i was only able to by trying to hate him. One of the reasons why I really loved him was because he never tried taking advantage of me as I am a virgin.

He never for one day talked me into it unlike some other guys I have met.I have been so good to him, he confessed that no girl has loved and treated him like I did. I have been trying to understand this whole connection thing.... Where am I going wrong. I am not a boring person, there is no boring moment with me. Most guys I have met always tell me that I am priceless and some keep coming back but I find it hard to like them.
I only keep remembering the beautiful memories we shared.
I am so devastated..... I really wanted us to work things out ..

let me share a secret with you

The guy has not been faithful to you all the while. That vagina u didn't give him, he has been enjoying it elsewhere (sorry am sounding too raw, but truth is bitter). Yes he came back because there is actually a connection, but he wants to have sex with you, he likes it, but you must av told him u prefer to stay Virgin till marriage. He can't bear it. so he is also pretending to be a nice & understanding guy to you, whereas him dey collect am somewhere else. He wanted sex all the while, but wasn't man enough to insist on it. So also, am not asking u to go back and use sex to win him over, but not all guys can marry a lady they haven't tasted.

He couldn't bear it anymore. So he decided to make the breakup a light one, by telling u sugar coated lies that u are smart, intelligent bla bla bla, he doesn't want u to feel very bad, that's why he decided to tell u all that. Truth is, he doesn't love you, he is just only compassionate (pity) towards you.

gideon1971:
Please whats the cure for this rashes

my brother, this is BUMP, I mean head bump, if you allow it to grow bigger, only Surgery can fix it

You better deal with it ASAP

Pm me on WhatsApp, will direct you to where u can treat it before it grows

lovemoi2:
Lol naija naija
*Mission with private jet
*Suffering and calling non relatives daddy or mummy

* hungry man fighting for politicians or pastors on the street
* claiming a multi million naira building built in the name of their pastors registered with ( CAC http://new.cac.gov.ng/home/registration-steps/) is their church eg " our church"

Like say them put their name too

Lol

shaybebaby:
1.WHY DO MEN BECOME SMARTER DURING SEX? ( hello because they are plugged into a genius)

2. WHY DON'T WOMEN BLINK DURING SEX? ( they don't have enough time)

3. WHY DOES IT TAKE 1MILLION SPERM TO FERTILIZE 1 EGG? (they don't stop to ask directions)

4. WHY DO MEN SNORE WHEN THEY LIE ON THEIR BACKS? ( because their balls fall over their butt-hole and they vapor lock)

5. WHY WERE MEN GIVEN LARGER BRAINS THAN DOGS? (so they won't hump women's legs)

6. WHY DID GOD MAKE MEN BEFORE WOMEN? (you need a rough draft before you make a final copy)

7. HOW MANY MEN DOES IT TAKE TO PUT A TOILET SEAT DOWN? ( don't know.... it never happened)

8. WHY DID GOD PUT MEN ON EARTH? ( because a vibrator can't mow the lawn.)

I sent u a pm, please

go to kano, tfare for a distance that keke in Lagos will charge #150 is #50 in kano

food is also not expensive there.

Rent a house in Nai'bawa area, very cheap
A single room public house is #15-20k

A room self contain is around #35k-40k

different tribes live in Nai'bawa, security is cool too

NB: I reside in Lagos, but goes to kano often

citadels:
sure. I from anambra my kindred takes 2k only. What's 10k for

really

#2k for bride price?
which part of Anambra pls

Topshow4real:
Can I pm you? I'd like to know more about this teak wood business

yeah WhatsApp 09095500809

Op spent about #2m for wedding oo

una dey try

#2m that u wil use to export teak wood abroad and make profit

Anyways, my budget for wedding and traditional, everything na #500k, I get plans

I cannot come and die

MiaB:
By the way your headline states he's jobless but your post states otherwise

because the energy he used in making this post was fuelled by Deep Hatred for his brother

jullidee2006:
this is a hospital... how is it related to Auto report niche?..

I tire oo

I guess he now works for APC lagos, once money is involved, anything becomes a niche, as far as money dey enter

olaBC007:
U're a virgin, tell us nobody will beat u

some things are better left unsaid
Lol

I greet u Sir

Rochasstatue:
You are a scumbag.
A reticulated slowpoke.
You will not live to be his age.
Neither will your children up to the 12th generation.
Since you are stupid to mock old age, you will never experience it.

u are already a dead, six feet under

Ur username says it all

okponu

NnadyAutos:
old age of this kind is a blessing that can only come from God.Dont criticize the blessing of God upon someone,otherwise you may not see it.(The prophet has spoken).

foolish people voted buhari in 2019

u are one of them

LANRE teriba is a proud fool

he is going on tour for some months, and he telling us. Idiot

he is just looking for attention, his career has always been a dead one

ordinary 5 years without sex, and he broadcasting it on social media
He should go and erect a big bill board along Lekki express way for it na, rubbish

If I tell the world my own story, he wil just shut up, no need self

Awol1:
Could Dogara be the president we have all ignored?

But he's a northern Christian

no, I am the president u all have ignored

Rubbish!

someone made a post, and the next thing is to have him as president

Bros, where ur sense dey?

czarina:
Yes, of course.

Nigerians are really hard working

Let me come and be going

czarina:
Yes ooo. You have to blow my dear. But you can start by having one of our premium massage sessions, so you're better relaxed to "blow".


check my profile if you live in Jos

will u travel from Jos to Lagos to massage her?

Ambassador of Nigeria to the U.S. is 84 years old.

Have you seen this man? He can't walk without help. He can't stay awake upto 8 hours in a day. He needs people to help him do almost everything. He is weak. He most likely won't be able to remember past events. He most likely won't be able to make sound decisions. He most likely won't be able to hold a pen for 3 minutes or longer. I am not sure he can use the computer.

I am not saying anything but GOD will judge all those who voted Buhari and also help Rig the Presidential elections

a popular blogger called Seun does that a lot

the pastor, the pastors wife, and this girl,
I see party partners

Am sure the pastors eldest son will still have a taste of her, and invite her for #1m also

she made that silly post just to trend, foolish girl
I pray those bad guys use her for ritual, Amen

QueenVaji:
This niggar aint completely blind... Kept selling d story of hw blind he is and at d same time good at production..just to score attention and pity.. Naija celebs can lie wid dia life eh...blind man dat drives.. Uses fruity loops and nw killing snakes.. If i hear one more dat guy is blind from any fool again eh.. And nigerians are so daft dats why MMM came and fukkd us up... Mtcheew

since u admire the partial blindness of Cobhams, and u desire to blow like him too

Receive the blindness In JESUS name

Nairalanders, click like to say AMEN

I hope reno omokri has left there ooo
We need u alive to keep making life unbearable for terrorist buhari and APC

Official Name is Call-Up
real meaning is - bribery fee for container crossing
I crossed a 40feet container with #85k January this year
the military, navy and police bastards at that Apapa are multimillionaire
No hope for this country

Prodigytal:
I create video ads for Facebook and instagram. If you sell shoes, bags, or any business at all, I'm your guy. Just mention me.

drop ur WhatsApp number pls, or send me a dm

izzou:


Something is seriously wrong in this country. We can laugh and make a joke out of this, but it's outta control already

Are female children safe with news like this everyday?

Hian

are the male children also safe with those sex starved fat ass ladies everywhere, whose pussies can't even be satisfied with 10 rounds of sex in a day

the govt is sponsoring kidnapping on that road, to increase revenue from rail transport

if u know u know

if u investigate this actor with dead career now, u will realise that, he just hit one small money, bought new cloths and android phone.

Him too wan trend like others

BTW, where has he been self, since android phone was invented

Goodnews422100:
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how about cash and carry, see and buy?

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freemanbubble:
Nigerians!!! Later they will say buhari is a dullard and Jonathan was clueless
Whereas they are the ones that are young,broke and dumb. How can a young man be so dumb to be asking how to clear pimples


There are millions of things that have no remedy in our body
Pimples are among
Cold and catarrh are included

Nigerians are so dumb

bro, stop smoking weed, its killing ur brain. stop it

I hate nose ring