Stupid question!

U already av the answer, yet creating a thread to ask us

Banditry and ransom, the new allocation

Onyi22:
Men r cheaters in nature

and women are prostitutes in nature

McSquishi:


You described doing house chores as “being reduced to house help”... reduced is not usually the word choice when you have no issues with the position.

I agree that belittling and degrading words are never ok. It even rises to the level of verbal abuse if it is consistently occurring... you can have a talk with her and let her know that you understand she’s disappointed in the fact that you haven’t lived up to her expectations yet but she should be patient with you and communicate with you in a way that doesn’t rise to the level of disrespect.

u have an intelligent brain

Good woman
Wife material
5,000 yards

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Very impressive. I salute Dangote and every patriot that made this project see the light of the day.For latest freestuffs,www.freestuffsng.com

Oga, there is nothing patriotic about this project abeg, its all business, all the people working there are working for their money, and the fuel that dangote will produce there won't be distributed for free, dangote might even charge u higher than normal

So pls, don't use the word "patriot"

OmoManU:
Well my own take is what's so special about the hijab?

The christian Roman Catholic Reverend Sisters as all know and always seen at all times are always adorning their head with a veil (that's equivalent of Hijab) all the time,so what's the fuse about the Muslims following their religious teachings by always covering their head. I believe that every open minded individual knows there are several bible verses that talk about covering of hair for the women.

no scripture in the Bible says that women should cover their hair

The scripture u will quote, was misinterpreted

I will create a thread today about this

anurd1991:
Your brain is on reverse gear

thanks Sir

heendrix:


Are you leaving Lagos for a village in Ibadan

are those places villages?

Pls help me with Info's or what u know. It will aid my decision

Please which of these locations is more safer and cool to reside in Ibadan. Am planning to move to Ibadan from Lagos. Lagos is become a mess

Locations are:
Iyana, off Lagelu local government

Sagbe area

& Idiose area

Please, Ibadan folks, kindly help a brother. Am getting married soon, and want to move to Ibadan, and settle there

Thanks

Please how many blocks is enough to build this apartment:

(Ground floor/Bungalow floor)
Large Size Parlor, 3 rooms 250cm by 300cm, toilet/bathroom, kitchen (same size as the room)

(TOP floor/Upstairs)
Large bedroom & another 250cm by 300cm room, toilet/bathroom, balcony

Location: Ibadan

I don't know if I supplied enough info

Buhari wants to bribe Yoruba youths, thinking they will reject Oduduwa republic because of Abuja stipend

Lol

Fahdiga:
Instead of you to work on your shortcomings and be better than those he compares you with you are here nagging.

abi OO

Some women don't even understand how to keep their marriage

Her husband is telling her what she needs to fix in her body, and she is nagging

WalexyWWE:
Hello guys, how are you doing. so I posted some days back how my girlfriend persuaded me to invest in an online ponzi scheme and I didn't give in.

Well she called me back to apologise and said she is sorry. I forgave her and things came back to normal. she came to spend the weekend at my place areived on Friday we talked, gisted and all that.

She left on Sunday morning said she has church program to attend. I was taking a nap on Sunday afternoon when the sound of alert message from my bank came in I thought I was still dreaming I saw 20k debit alert 6 times (120k).

To be Frank I almost developed and hear attack. I quickly blocked my line via my bank app. I thought my atm has been misplaced.

I was still searching my room for my ATM card when my girlfriend call came in. she told me she withdrew the money(she knows my pin) and she wants to use it for the same ponzi scheme she talked about. she said why will i leave money Idle in my account when sha can make use of it.

I was so dumbfounded to be sincere, I got so angry took my keys and drove to her place her neigbour said they haven't seen her. called her line again she said I shouldn't bother going to her house that she wont be sleeping home for a while now.

She said I should replace the money with all the good times she has had with me. I'm very angry right now and I dont care what happens. I'm going to the police station tomorrow morning to report this case but how do I convince them she did it since she took the money from my ATM I want a strong evidence against her. I have informed her sister and her sister said any move I take she is in support. apparently she has done the same to her sis in the last.

Sir, stop using the wrong "word", she didn't "scam" you, she "stole" from you, she is a thief. That is what you should write down at the police station

Semantics though

Uprightness100:
If the Foundation be Destroyed , what can the righteous do?
Marriage is honorable with the bed undefiled..

When the Foundation has be broken and the bed defiled, whatever you see, you take it like that with Joy and No Complain..

which foundation is destroyed?

Must u read religion into everything

Oga park go one corner of your pulpit abeg

Juliearth:
150k is perfect.
Attendees: 20 or less from both family
Venue: wife's sitting room area
Attire: Anything nice and comfortable
Refreshment: small chops packaged with malt or canned juice
Souvenirs: not necessary...

I was the one asking of ur location, sorry pls, will send u DM

Juliearth:




You want me to tell you where I am based on a public forum? How does this question relate with the issue on ground??

Lol, sorry Ma

RealGboy:
immediately I turned right to see who was greeting me . Lo and behold I saw the most beautiful creature ever , the babe must be in her early twenties , not fair not dark but glowing , she's got curves , dimples and was blessed both front and back ,

How I was able to see all these in just 2 seconds is another topic entirely , I greeted her back and introduced myself as the new tenant ( seeing the babe automatically made me certain Its a good house after all).

I told her my name and she replied with her name adding that she's the landlord daughter ,

I replied ooh nice to meet you , that's when I noticed her carrying some bats about 3 bats in a parker .

I was shocked again and I asked her if bats do come to the compound ,she looked surprise and asked me where I saw bat .I pointed to her hand and she laughed and said "No these are just mosquitoes"..

"Jesussssss " I screamed ,she smiled and told me it's nothing to worry about she also assured me that she will put me through on how to stop them from coming into my room..

When I heard that my senses flew away , " Are you sure you would put me through" I asked again .
She replied yeah ,she then ask if I am married and I quickly replied that I'm not married and very single ..
She just smiled and said " Me too" ..

Before I could say anything else the caretaker showed up ,and the girl excuse us assuring me that she will check on me later ..

When the caretaker asked "How far u like the house ?". I replied yes yes .it's a beautiful place with beautiful animals .(up till now I still couldn't believe I said that )..

We proceeded to the ATM,I withdrew the money ,signed agreement,paid and collected key.
There was not much to do in the room , except for the door net ,

I was introduced to someone that could help me fix the net ,I paid and left for my friend house ,the thought of the babe has clouded my mind and I totally forgot about the

Dog that looked like Lion
Rat that looked like Cat
Mosquito that looked like bat ..


I got home that night unknown to me that my troubles had just began





Typing..

na your dead body dem go carry comot from this compound las las , Lol

enjoli5:
African men are very cheap! Uncouth and unpleasant creatures, that is what our men are.

your father included

Adonis86:
As I was going through my phone this afternoon, a lady chatted me and I responded. She said she wants to ask me a question, that I shouldn't be angry with her. I assured her that I won't be hard on her. She asked me if I'm a gay. I responded No. She sent me a screenshot of a conversation I had months ago who I later learnt to be her husband. I asked her why she asked of my sexuality, she said she's suspecting her husband of three years to be a gay. It sounds so crazy to me but I suspect it's real due to the screenshot of the message, where the guy was demanding for sex from me. Now, I inquired more about their relationship as couple and found out he beats his wife often, even during her first pregnancy.

Now, the man confirmed to me that he beat the wife last night for going through his phone conversation and labelling him a gay, due to the kinda conversations he's been having with guys. But in a bid to deny it, he deleted the conversation and beat her up on false accusation. The lady has reported to their Reverend in church, but the Reverend discouraged her from going to Human rights commission or leaving the marriage.

Now, she's looking for more evidence to nail the husband. She wants me to send her the whole conversation I had with the husband, showing where the husband was begging me for sex and sending me his nude pictures. But I don't want to be that instrument she'll use to break up her young family. Though the annoying part is that the husband is very resentful and not even remorseful about his infidelity and domestic violence. The lady is not educated though wanted to learn a skill or go for further studies, but the husband refuses to send her to learn all those skills. According to her, he once accused her in his shop for stealing 45k, which was not true. He stopped her from coming out to his shop, whenever she comes out to stay with him in the shop, he'll be talking her down in the presence of his friends and customers. I was moved by her lamentations, that's why I had to take the pain to write this. I have contacted the husband on Facebook and inquired about the dispute and learnt the lady was saying the truth. Though I threatened the husband with military arrest if he ever touches the wife. But I'm still scared he might get home and pounce on the wife again for talking to me.

Please i need matured advice from people here on how matured to settle this young family dispute withoutuffering further in the hand of this young man.

the man truly demanded sex from you, and when his wife asked you about it, you said her question sounded crazy

You are a suspect, or u ain't telling us the whole truth, I suspect u are also a gay, or former gay

Do you want her to die in that marriage due to physical abuse??

Please, send that screenshot to her to save her life. Please

Ajoki is also an island, via Koko Town (should actually be called "Koko peninsula"), in delta state

Juliearth:




Did you mail or call? If its the former, then you should call.

07061533400

where are u based ?

Juliearth:




Thank you!
I don't believe in the extravagance that comes with weddings. I don't even like being in a crowded space. Sometimes, we stress ourselves with useful nonsenses (UNs) that are totally avoidable. This is one of such UNs.

I see people spend millions to finance a dream wedding that might not even stand the test of time (not meaning to sound pessimistic). Spend less and invest the millions into a trust funds for the children that would start dropping in about a year. The most expensive item that should be incurred for a wedding should be the bands due to obvious reasons.


PS
Please don't tell my mum I said these. We share a totally different view on this issue.

cool

Juliearth:
150k is perfect.
Attendees: 20 or less from both family
Venue: wife's sitting room area
Attire: Anything nice and comfortable
Refreshment: small chops packaged with malt or canned juice
Souvenirs: not necessary...

chai,
Very nice idea

Elliot2:
Get some testosterone, you pussy nigga

thank you Sir

Daytonbale:


thanks how about my sim card I gave her

if the SIM card is registered in your name or NIN, pls try to retrieve it, don't scare her. Just do it with wisdom

Ardar:


This has to be one of the most brainless and stupid comment I've ever read on NL.

This forum needs a thorough cleaning urgently.

its either u just exposed how unintelligent u are, or u didn't observe that phrase well, to decode the meaning

Let me help you
That statement is a figurative expression, did you do literature in school?

What the phrase is simply saying is that, "since pigs don't fly, women will not lead men"

Simple ABC

Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North

I can't tell u to end the relationship, because you alone should decide that

But if u end the relationship, don't collect the phone from her, if u do that, u are just a pussy. Real Matured guys don't do that.

I dislike it when a relationship ends, and the guy begins to demand the girl to return all the "petty things" he bought her.

If its a house or car, those are not petty things. You can request for such, if you chose to, its fine. But not mobile phone, cloths or shoe

HappyCreative:


So you've met all Nigerian girls to be making such generalised statements?

how about you?
U also made a generalized statement about Nigerian men

DaddyRochie1642:
This is how some of you men make horrible mistakes of your Lives and start Weeping and gnashing your teeth later in life claiming that you made a "Horrible Mistake by Marrying her" meanwhile the "Red Flags" were right there from the beginning when una yeye Love and the Kpekus you were receiving that time was blinding your eyes and your Logic and your ability to think.

How can someone that's still a student, that's contributing little or nothing tell you what to go for and what you should not go for,

Oga are you blind?,... Don't you know that Marriage involves "Compatibility" from both parties involved, Marriage will never work if one person is thinking forward and the other person is thinking backwards... It's very obvious you guys are not compatible.

From your story up there, you are trying to "Cut your Coat according to your Size" inorder to avoid Weeping and gnashing of Teeth in the future and the girl is there prompting you to go and do pass yourself.

Oga if you like don't cut your Coat according to your size, dey there let her continue using yeye Love and Kpekus to blind you,.... It's very obvious the girl is IMMATURE and I say this without Remorse.

honestly, I appreciate your advise

Valkan:

what kind of apartment does she herself live in
is she planning to move with you⚫

she is a student, she lives in her school hostel room with two other students (shared hostel room), we are in same city

She never said she will move in with me, she would just be visiting, or staying with me during her holiday period, if she doesn't travel home