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Tonero5200:
No matter how useless a man is, once he dies the household of the family strength changes. It might not be financially rather emotionally and physically.

Here are my reasons

My dad is a man who drinks alot to the extend we the children are embarrassed for him because we can't go to functions he goes to... because as he goes, he comes back in a different way.

So we do everything possible to avoid where he is at, but on some occasions we cant..depends on how close the celebrant is. Then we bore it in mind that that day we might get to hear something that offends us.. the shame and embarrassment and might retaliate or ignore.


Being one of the senior men alive, they always come to pay homage everytime despite being the way he is..to settle dispute and to also pray for them.. and also tell them about history how we related and mention names of our forefathers, tracing back their Roots step by step..he knows all..because his father also told him. so they respect him for that as an elderly man even though dry gin is his best friend. all they can do was to talk and laugh behind his back. When he's sober they dare not make jest of him.
I repeat they dare not.


But now he's been dead about 4years ago and I tell you we that normally get the first invitation of marriage ceremony or any functions happening in the extended family no longer gets invited.

Nobody has come in to ask hwfar from us the children since he was buried. They see us as not important since the elderly man is no more.

Our family house that used to trooped in by different new faces almost every week don't see it no more


I am not talking about money here, I am good... But even if I don't have...my elder brother who is a graduate the back bone is there...but I am just stating the obvious fact...

THAT everybody has use no matter how useless you perceive them to be and one day you might get to realise that.


The thing is that during those period we don't even take it as anything. Instead we the children gets angry whenever they comes to inform him for a function because we know that week we will not sleep at night...but as it has its advantages so those it has it disadvantages.

Before nko
The man was the backbone of the family
Despite his weaknesses

You guys never realized that

And you guys should have learnt so much from him


My Dad is still alive
And very well respected In my community

I know the day he is gone
Many people will show there true color
Even uncles

But I and my siblings no send them
We are already developing ourselves In the secret to becoming reputable Men
Even more than our father
And he is advicing and teaching us how to go about things
And we are learning his footsteps


Fathers are great
Not to be taken lightly

PortHarcourtcit:
why are you not proud of south east? See how you are praising Lagos, don't worry they will soon send you home...

At least they maximized there opportunity

You guys with all the oil money how developed are you guys
How much opportunities have you guys maximized?


We get better investments around Nigeria

The day Nigeria don't want us they can talk
But now we are still one Nigeria

And actually igbos are beginning to rise up and invest homeward

Especially with sound sensible governor's like Alex oti of Abia state

Chetas81:
eleriburuku citizen you love the way things are in Nigeria, people like you make Donald trump called Nigeria shithole BECAUSE YOU'RE PHYSICALLY STUPID WITH NO IDEA, SHITHOLE CITIZEN LIKE YOU QUOTING ME_____ OLUYA ONIRANU

This one dey quote me dey curse they yarn gibberish


I for dash you one nonsense word but I am not cut from the gutter

First deliver yourself before you begin talk

Chinny024:
Congratulations then...Take ur award in peace..

Aunty no be quarels
Na just my observation I talk

Yugoslavia247:


Naso marriage be

The promise of endless sex is the greatest scam that was preached.

At the end your marriage was transactional.

Now she has a child.

She has leverage.

Again many women married out of desperation to be wedded wives than having a blissful home.

Men marry to have peace of mind and children. That is why it is called settling down.

Na men dey cause am

Women are much smarter than many Men
Many Men loose guard

It's from courtship a man through leadership
Molds his woman to his spec

If he doesn't show that leadership
See finish don enter be that


Men must have sense
Especially when you are marrying modern women who are not like our mothers
Or else sorry will be the state of that Man

Ogalanyaidi:
I have been married for a little under 2 years. During out courtship, my wife and I were very intimate. Later on, she became pregnant and we welcomed a child but since then, our sex live has never recovered till date. My wife is currently pregnant but the denial didn't start today.

She does everything possible to prevent us from having sex, from laying our child on our bed instead of the court to cleaning or watching movies in the lounge room whenever I am in the room, she will then reenter the bedroom when i am asleep. The last time, she said that I don't do enough to get her arose and that if I want sex I have to earn it. She suggested that I have to start in the morning by being nice to her so when it's night, I would have been able to get her arose.

I work an average of two shifts everyday, and sleep at home maybe 3 nights a week so I can pay our mortgage and other bills as she barely works due to having to look after our child.

That's many women for you

Imagine that if you want sex you start from morning so you will arouse her

Na see finish she don do you

Women are smart Sha
They know the kind of men they treat like that
All these nice boys


Like one of my guys talk say them no born him wife well to deny him sex even for a week

She knows another woman outside will just do that

Most women married to players don't try this nonsense

Na all these nice boy's dey get this kind wahala


See e get hand wey Dem dey use treat wife so that respect will remain or see finish don enter


Guys must be smart
From the beginning of courtship
Don't loose guard one day
Or woman go see you finish
Come turn you to house boy

There is a way they marry woman
Talkless of present modern women

I don't mean being mean and wicked
But you as a Man must show yourself a leader
Right from courtship
Let her no you no dey tolerate fu ck up
She will definitely respect herself
And if she wants to stay she Will if not you show her exeat door for the courtship

Many men no dey get sense when dating a woman even before marriage
Then when una marry because she don see you finish
She go begin dish out nonsense
And they are very very smart

They read and study you very well
But you go dey do lover boy dey loose guard


I am talking from experience
Na so my madam do
I draw line for sand for her make she know if she dey mad
Me I be complete werey

No be she had to sit up

quickly:
If dem tell naija ppl the disadvantages of Japa.

One of them is depression.

You will see well paid guy committing suicide.

Abroad system is designed for you to be a slave. Slave to a job or a system until you die.

By the time you plan to Japa back to naija you don born children that have a new country and no allegiance to naija.

So what do you do then? Abandon your children

Abroad life is not everyone

It's meant for those with strong mind

And some people when they have gotten there papers shuttle btw there and here

My Aunt in the US comes home sometimes up to 4 times in a year

Been there over 30 years and well established

So she just shuttles the two

PortHarcourtcit:
Johncables402 we dealt with ojukwu... All the houses him and his father built in Ikwerre land were all seized by our fathers... Why can't the IGBOs come and claim there properties in Ikwerre land... Cowards... We are waiting for you guys... You can't even dare... Fools

Lol and you are still better than the Igbos abi? After the seizes?

Abeg make una face una front
For Niger Delta you guys are minority
Talkless of bringing mouth to Igbos

Who even invests in your Port now self?

If you want to talk of Investments by igbos outside igbo Land you mention Lagos State, Northern Nigeria, Abuja

Ever since your father's siezed the properties igbos learnt there lessons

With all there oil Port can never be like Lagos, Abuja even North

CaptainFM1:
2 Factories. With 15 work force total.

Good focus on upgrading it
Although your productivity level is very poor
2 factories with just 15 workforce

My brothers one factory has close to 100 employee
So 2 having 15 needs a lot of upgrade

Focus on upgrading it

Goodvibes007:
The experts in Israel have already decided.

Who listens to Reno?

Igbos have a relationship with Jews
We were thought this in primary school

Igbos were originally tribe that does circumcision on the eight day to male children wey before the white man came to Africa

To use nonsense talk by Reno to justify your claim is a waste of time

Reno is attention seeker
I don't even know the level of his education
To be relying on such a Man for reference

Chinny024:
I don't eat it..Tried but couldn't. called ụna in our dialect. .They said it tastes nice though with Akpọkọ( garnished pepper specially made for it)

Person wey get sweet tooth no go like am
Babes no dey like am because it's not sweet

I liked it very well
Even more when I heard it's very healthy food

Tasted it first last year

KillIgbohoN0W:
Tinubu's hunger has reduced Nigerians to rodents digging up strange roots to survive.

😂🤣 This is why I love this forum
I don laugh 😂🤣 well well

No kind of comment you won't see here

Bro this is a local kind of yam
A bit bitter but very nutritious and healthy

First tasted it last year but I liked it
Called ona in Igbo dialct

comrChris:
Like ehh
If church is a lucrative business, what is stopping these wereys that like attacking pastors from opening one? Abi,they don't like making money

Most of them are not smart self

They think running a church is beans 😂

They should look around and see many churches not doing well like other ones

As e dey with humans na so e dey for Church

Running a successful church no be beans
It's human beings you are dealing with


If a human being can convince you to give him your hard earned money and you do so
Abeg respect that human being
E no easy

CaptainFM1:
We dey build churches and mosques, 2e no build factories and industries.

We?

How many factories have you built?

Chetas81:
WE DON'T HAVE TECHNOLOGY HOUSE AND OFFICE IN NIGERIA, BUT RELIGION HOUSE AND THE OFFICE,AWON ONIRANU OLUYA ERANKO CITIZEN, MIRACLE CAN'T DO THE JOB OF INTELLIGENT, FORGET ABOUT WHAT THE EUROPEAN PEOPLE TOLD YOU ABOUT THEIR BROTHER CALLED JESUS

And you what have you done in your own capacity?

Or you no get Brain to do the job of intelligent as you stated?

GeneralZodd:
A lion begets a lion. He doesn't want to be under is father's shadow anymore. He won't do much exploits. He wants to leaves his father's ministry for God to use him mightly. There limitations to what you can do when you are still under the tutelage of your parents.

Exactly

Isaac is very sound
I like his preaching

I think he's done the right thing

politicoNG:
https://www.pulse.ng/news/local/pastor-isaac-son-of-bishop-oyedepo-resigns-from-living-faith-church/1wpfymm?utm_source=facebook+&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=pulsenigeria247-profile&fbclid=IwAR3usn1TD1AJzPsQnMecHl-v5DhNAoYCeu9lAtpfQ2SgJ5XhR37Xd8tG_zU

I knew Isaac will do that

Isaac has more a mind of his own than David Jr if you listened to his message

The guy is very sound

David jnr is more of following in his father's footsteps

Isaac to me got his direction Right

He will not be disturbed by His fathers legacy which is too big a shoe to fit

He will now have to carve out his own niche
Because Bishop Oyedepos legacy is Soo much to big to fill

David jnr should continue like Solomon did after his father King David

Although when Bishop goes to the other side of life, Bishop Abioye may likely take over Living Faith (although I don't know)?

Because the battle ahead only God knows

Maybe that's why Isaac decided to move on now things are still Cool


Although Redeemed Church model is still the best for Pentecostal church.
It's like Catholic, Anglican Methodist Church model

Adeboye is not the owner of Redeemed
The day he goes
A General Overseer will emerge like Pa Akindayomi the founder of Redeemed Church picked Adeboye as GO before he died

Wujio:
Julius Malema, the star who fell before he arose. Julius Malema is not Mandela and doesnt align with the qualities shone through Mandela. You will never ever rise beyond your current level. You are a danger to sane societies. What does Black South Africa produce to be calling for boycott of products from Israel ?

Honestly I laugh at South Africans

MasterJayJay:
Another project that will fail.

The mumu APC are blaming spectators but under GEJ, they said 216 naira to a dollar is not okay.

You can't digitize the entire forex market. It is impossible.

Exactly at the bolded

Let me just keep my mouth shut

Princedapace:
U guys are funny!
With all the US has done to Arab militants abi terrorits, has any terrorist group ever been destroyed till date? None!
U cant kill terrorism no matter how much power u have got! The US has spent trillions of dollars fighting wars in middle eat, yet these guys keep fighting!
The solution is peace negotiation else, u will fight an endless war. The US had to quit fighting in Afganistan. None of the wars fought over there have come out fruitful. No be today!

Peaceful negotiation with terrorists indeed

You don't have mercy on them
Pummel them until they become useless
Till another one rises

Where is Al queda today?

Where is ISIS tody?

nnewsnjobs:
But where are all those economist both foreign and local ones including our own renounce economist Bismarck Rewane who said that the real naira value is around #700 or between #650 to #750. Can they come and tell us what is really happening and how to solve this problem.

Actually everyone of them is clueless

The last time we had sensible people in our affairs were during Good luck era

Presently nothing
And the scary thing is we are on uncharted waters for the first time

Those in charge don't have a clue on what to do


Bad things were done past 8 years now the fruit has matured and this is the result


May God have mercy on us as a people 🙏 Amen

VeeVeeMyLuv:
These people that are up there now, their level of patriotism is like 10%

The are hesitating to intervene in rectifying the situation

Actually they are bereft of ideas
They are confused

We are charting a way we have never been before

Not even during the military era of SAP was Nigerian Economy this bad

And it's a dangerous game those in charge are playing
Very dangerous

Naira may go totally moribund

And we are not even an exporting Nation

Look at Japan
When Japanese yen fell freely
Japan's Saving grace was that it was a high exporting Nation

So they managed properly
But the scary thing is that Nigeria doesn't export anything

This is a huge Economic crisis we are facing right now
And those in charge are clueless

ElSudani:
Most of you don't even have any idea what you are ranting about. If I ask you now what Tinubu should have done since he came into office you will start saying a bunch of nonsensical stuff.

Tinubu mistepped big time

He shouldn't have removed subsidy immediately
It should have been bit by bit
That's what Peter Obi said he will do

Secondly the forex double window should have been left till he was totally in control of the government
It should have been done bit by bit


Presently Nigerian Economy is on precipe
Dollar today is 1200 naira
It's an abomination

Infact the present government is not in control of anything

We are facing an uncharted waters

Nigerians are patient
But if this suffering continue

People may get tired


Buhari as much as we castigated him
Understand the Economy so much better than Tinubu
That's what this past couple of months have shown


We never had it like this as a Nation
Even during the military era of SAP

It's very scary indeed

seunmsg:
We don’t have the forex to defend the Naira quite alright but Nigerians are not helping matters. We have a dollar shortage crisis and Nigerians are busy stockpiling dollars at any amount simply for speculative reasons. What is going on is really scary.

We may hit 2k for a dollar before the end of the year with the way things are going. CBN needs to go back to the crude method adopted by Emefiele. Whatever it is they are doing with the PH and Dangote refineries, they should please hurry it up and start production. There will be a huge rally for the Naira once we stop importation of petroleum products. These are the short term measures to stop the free fall. Manufacturing what we need in Nigeria and for export is a long term solution.

Emifele irrespective that he was a bad man had a better grasp of running the monetary policy.

That man should have been allowed to continue

If the present regime doesn't do something quick
The Economy may go into comatose like it did in Argentina

It's a horrible situation right now

Kobojunkie:
So you are actually advising a man who openly lacks self control to have a child for the sake of appeasing his mother? So, it no matter to you that the child, equally a soul such as yourself, will likely be born into a world where he is unloved by a father whose sole concern seems to be his joystick?

Wow... you people no dey disappoint at all.

Actually having a child can reset his brain and make him responsible

But I don't support doing it non legal or right way
He should get a legal wife and start having children


Children have a way of making irresponsible men responsible

poweredcom:
Bro almost all nigerian girls of today are prostitutes , so sad it will be hard to get dem to keep as house wife oo cos this generation is gone to the dogs , notin wrong is pating as u go directly with ashewo , i k ow u dont want these trikish gals to eat u and run away without giving you the nookie

Why not travel to uganda or botswana and find a wife there ..as for dis nigeria forget it

You may even end up with a damage girl who have been banged around or a retired okpo

Power no be every babe bad for naija

E still get plenty babes wey never Sabi anything

But player like you no go fit understand
Because you are used to okpo women

aameyah:
Sha don't go and deceive one innocent girl into everlasting tears and sorrow.

Actually many married Men patronize olosho

Na the ones wey no dey secretive they catch

You no come add side chics
Those ones are uncountable

poweredcom:
Help me tell dem , pretenders na full this country , infact almost many nigerian girls are olosho working from home , they think its when a women is in a hotel mean she is a prostitute

You say cynergy , jolly friend , premier oluti , sunderland and , city center , surulere , owonla newlife oshodi , top star ajegunle , all d red bulb hotel around hoods omo allen avenue , pekas opebi , romeo juliet ejigbo , adeniran ogundanya , rita lori surulere ..omo if i start here ....we don rock dose zone now na from house gals de operate from

I know I will see you here brolosho

You never hang boot?

PissInside:
80 percent of nigerian men are addicted to prostitutes.....I'm not lying.

Go to Cynergy hotel at Festac or Jolly friends hotel at Ikeja on a Friday night and see rich, matured married men looking for hoes to fvck.

The situation of things in this country is not helping at all.... For me,I fvck prostitutes at least four times a week and I know how much I do spend.

Going into a relationship too is crazy because the woman you dating might have up to 20 boyfriends not to talk of toasters.

It's a crazy world out here.

Abeg count me out of that your eighty percent

If okpo na remaining women on Earth
Make I dey as I dey

Tueh
Na life wey I leave small when I was in my twenties
God forbid now I am much matured

True women nowadays are something else
But screwing ashawo is more addiction to sex
That's how I see it
And it's easier for those guys wey no get game on catching babes

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

You need deliverance and rehabilitation

Patronizing ashawo at your age na very big problem

First admit that you have a very big problem
Then seek solution to it


If you don't resolve this issue
You may never recover from it
It's a very big problem and terrible addiction that will completely damage you if not resolved

Armaggedon:
That's pure and absolute nonsense

What makes it nonsense?

This is very good for our culture

If this was trending when I did my own
I for wear am do wedding


Those couples are Odogwu!!

Period

Gajagojo:
Doctors ultimately go on Japa

Wike is making all this noise because his family do not use hospitals in Nigeria
doctors have a choice they can leave and they are leaving
not only doctors but nurses
The problem is what that means is only the low quality ones stay and those that they train are of even lower quality doing surgery the way it was done in the 1960s
In any given class of 100 medical graduates in Nigeria , within 10 years less than 70% are left in the country. most are leaving
So those left cannot be of good quality
What we have are those who return after training in places like Ukraine and Azerbaijan
That is why someone as rich as Mohbad cannot access a quality doctor what then for ordinary Nigerians

Doctors matter is not gragra

This started under Buhari as military Head of state in 1984 he sent soldiers to evict doctors by force from official quarters

Since that time Nigerian doctors know they will not practice in Nigeria. They are just getting cheap training

Who is the winner

Stop saying what you don't know

True doctors are leaving
But there are good doctors around

My sister is a medical doctor consultant level in a teaching hospital in Nigeria

Her top Prof are still around

Actually not every doctor wants to leave

Those at consultant level are around
To go and start over in the West some of them don't want it

What they are asking for is government to improve the conditions of doctors and many will stay back

Not everyone is enticed by money abroad

Most doctors that go abroad are new medical doctors or the ones not smart enough to pass there professional consultant exam which is ten times more difficult and harder than medical school


The smart ones that have passed there consultancy exam stay around


Nigerian medical schools is one of the most difficult medical schools in the world
Nigerian educational quality in medical school didn't go down like other sectors
The standard is very high and tough
That's why anyone that goes through a medical school and passes is a hot cake

Then come pass professional exam na top hot cake in the world