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Philosopher1979:
U are right. Aot if men need to know this. In modern times the social mechanisms to control female sexuality has been removed so the modern woman is a LovePeddler.
The yorubas say
Poron obirin ibudo asewo ni
A womans clitoris is the fountain of immorality.
Women need societal intervention in order not to be promiscuous [/b]but the fall of the patriarchy has removed it.
The modern sexuality libetated woman can Bleep anything with a big dick.
We are heading for sodom and gomorah

[b]Women need societal intervention in order not to be promiscuous


At the bolded is the reason Arabs don't lose guard when it comes to there women

They don't dare tolerate any kind nonsense from there women

I used to think they are mean
But as I matured and understood Life
I saw they were very sensible

I have seen Arab families while traveling around the world at airports

You will see an Arab man dressed well with his children but his wife is covered in complete black head to bottom, even face

But I now understand better
They knew women's nature


Women needs strict monitoring
They are very immoral
If you lose guard as a man
Your own don finish

Guys that are married and are less troubled are those Men that right from dating showed there women that they don't tolerate any nonsense

They fear those kind of Men

But if you as a man na akamu
They will so much ride you
And give you another man's child to raise as your own


That's why the West is messed up
Because they removed all restrictions
So our women in the West
Learn bad things fast
Feel liberated and become horror

It's very clear

Angelfrost:
Let's not distract or derail from the topic... He and his party are not leading the nation. What they do within themselves has nothing to do with the country.

Now, can you mention any advanced nation or progressive entity devoid of transparency in government?!!

An average South African can tell you in detail what the nation owns in assets and liabilities, and what most of their elected leaders are currently worth financially...!

Can you do the same for your national leaders and government coffers?!!

Many of you don't even know what your state generates, borrows, and spends yearly... That is not normal.

Actually many of them don't have even the basic capacity to think on this line

Las Las
Na all man for himself

At least let those that didn't support this current government have things that will not make them lament the present Economic situation

Finally every other ones will get sense by force

kokomilala:
Adesua's Heavy Heart

I've often attacked some Naija women for being ungrateful. But here, I'll come to Adesua's defence from a subjective angle.

Question is: has he become ungrateful and irresponsible? People tend to quickly forget where they are coming from easily.

If he's cheated on her, it's best he settles with her and move on.

For her to be calling him out near- unrestrained shows that something deep has pierced her fragile heart. And it's betrayal.

It's easy enough to blast her- saying: was she the one who played the ball, bla, bla, bla.. But if one has ever wanted a helper or destiny helper and didn't get, one would better appreciate this case.

Many of them don't understand Life

That woman is right in her assertion
Money will not be forever
Mega sports stars who touched real money still broke

Come be Jude
How much he get self
When men like Mike Tyson, holyfield etc blew fortunes over 200 million dollars


This woman fit swear for am
And he won't go Scot Free
Life is not the way we see it

robosky02:
Ighalo: 'Tell the world how I changed your life' - Adesuwa slams her estranged husband




https://www.pulsesports.ng/football/story/ighalo-tell-the-world-how-i-changed-your-life-adesuwa-slams-her-estranged-husband-2023111411003519689?utm_medium=social&utm_source=whatsapp&utm_campaign=BettingProf

Jude try and settle with the Wife of your youth

She is the only one that really knew you
When you were nothing

All these ones around you now
It's all because of your money



Me I don't tolerate rubbish
From women
But any woman that stayed with you when you were nothing

Respect and take good care of her when you become something




I have seen many men make these same mistakes
Many of them never got themselves back
Till they ended up in the grave


One of my Dad's associate then
A renowned surgeon
Drove away the Wife of his youth
Followed one strange daughter of Jezebel
Overlooked his children in secondary School

15 years later
Doctor had stroke
The daughter of Jezebel Left him
Na still that Wife chased away carried him and took care of him till he entered grave


Don't neglect, maltreat the Wife of your youth
There is a value she brings

Even if you dey chase skirt
Respect the Wife of your youth


Donald Trump despite his frolicking with plenty women learnt the lesson of the Wife of his youth: Ivana Trump


They had a messy divorce in the 1990s with record divorce settlement close to 200 million dollars then
Was the biggest divorce settlement then


But Trump said Ivana was the closest person to him while in the White House as the US president
Closer than even Melanie the first lady

That they talked almost everyday on the phone

When Ivana died two years ago
He buried her in Trump's private family grave
Showing how close they are


Jude settle with your woman
When old age comes
You will see the wisdom in this advice

SavageResponse:
How did he make the money he used to build those hotels?

See question??

tamdun:
The bolded isn't true,divorce rate in North is low compare to South

Lol make enquiries

North has the highest divorce rate in Nigeria

Islam accepts divorce
While Christianity divorce is frowned at

So in South
Couples try as much to work on there marriage
Or still stay together
Even though the marriage is no more

Bliss62:




They don't will properties to their female child in Ibo land, they keep looking for male child like it's gold, that's why they have baby factory

Funny enough Female children love and care for their parents during old age than a Male child busy hustling about



.

Actually that's Igbo culture


Like in my family

All my sister's are married
There husband's are ok
And they all have boys

There sons are the ones that inherits there Dad's Properties

While all my father's Properties is btw me and my brother

That's the culture
Women marry out and there children Inherits there husband's Properties

TheRealestGuy:
So you can't go groceries or food shopping because you're a man?

Wonders shall never cease walahi

Make sure you don't cross Seme border with that woman cos she will show you unbridled shege!

Hahaha make him no try am at all

Some Men can't even do basic house chores

My sister's husband is like that
He can't even boil hot water

If he wants to travel
The nannies pack his luggage

His only savior is he is rich big Man

My sister was telling me her experience with the husband when she went to deliver in the US
There second baby

Oga brought them to US
Dropped them and returned to Nigeria
When she was due to deliver he came a day

Oga couldn't do anything when she delivered
Even to bath the first child thar was 2 years was problem
All he knew was his laptop, phone, TV

She said they quarreled till they returned to Nigeria 😂

Some Men doesn't know anything about domestic work

Truths9ja:
Hmm 🤔. Na true talk ooo

“Why I Won’t Allow My Brother To Bring A Wife From Nigeria”- Woman Voices [Video]

Nigerian woman has caused a clash of opinions online after she explained why she won’t support her brother if he wants to get married to a lady based in Nigeria and take her overseas.

According to her, she doesn’t want her brother to end up in a mental institution as a result of heartbreak, as many of those women based in Nigeria and lucky to land ‘abroad husbands’ —according to the poster— are heartless.


The angry narrator
The angry lady went on to advise men to strive to sign a prenuptial agreement before they tie the knot with their prospective wives.

“Marriage is now a business”, she said.

Many Nigerians didn’t agree with the Nigerian woman, who claimed to have put herself in the shoes of a typical Nigerian man.

“Then marry your brother, matchew”, a Nigerian, Ido Ekong slammed the lady.

“Everybody have different experiences sha”, another netizen, De Bishop explained, waving away the poster’s explanation as a personal opinion —which it is.


https://sabiradio.com/why-i-wont-allow-my-brother-to-bring-a-wife-from-nigeria-woman-voices-video/

There's wisdom here

Because women are unpredictable now

One guy i knew back then came home and married a young babe we were all in university together

The guy na American citizen
He kept the Babe here she born 4 children for Him

When the kids were in there teens he relocated them with there Mum to the US

He wanted to be sure
Although the girl na very responsible person
Was in school fellowship then in the university



Another guy married university babe kept her here
She born 4 for Him
The guy holds German passport

Later opened a very big school for her in lekki
She still runs the school
Well taken care of
Latest automobiles
There own mansion

But till today she never visit am for Germany
He shuttles btw Nigeria and Germany like 4 times in the year

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

Then marry who you want

While those that want Nigerian Men are doing that every weekend

That's your perogative and choice

Plenty ladies not married to Nigerian men

Racoon:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhO0836U3Dw?si=FavG8u84JrKiPQvF

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rapYCWr770?si=2yKMUvMXEkc4lStU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zhr5S2vHh58?si=9DBa-8quRqHcIVfA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L0oqRutNLbo?si=yTEjv3xgKIYDBrgP

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Ah my childhood memories

We 80s children remember this show

When the world was sane

newoffer:
Build plazas in all communities and let go these multidude markets area. Just build a plaza then have members in them to do business. Plaza away from market area.

Actually he is right

Having a replica in other parts will even enhance the value chain and distribution network

That's one of Dangote's secret;
Sound distribution and value chain network
That's why he can afford to keep a higher price of his cement because his distribution network is many times superior to other cement manufacturers especially BUA


Commerce is actually changing

Having a replica will even empower the traders more.
If you understand trading and commerce by taking example from what the Chinese are doing around the world through trade and commerce and introduce it here in Nigeria
The traders will even be more served and not be under any witch hunting


One of the Igbo man's competitive advantage in Nigeria is Trading

Then they should maximize it because trade and commerce is the life blood of any Economy

JohnAOne:
Na we cause am!

But I believe things are changing gradually.

One thing I like about the Hausa/Fulani is how they FIERCELY maintain their territorial integrity.

Dem no born Ibo well make dem tell Hausa what to do in their land (and the Igbo knows this)

I despise the docility of our people, but we don dey wakeup small small.

Lol are the Igbos having any problem with the Northerners?

There are more igbos residing in the North than even Lagos

The last time there were even scuffle in the North was the bonke crusade of the 1990s in Kano
Which was a religious uprising

There has never been any other major scuffle
The other minor scuffle has been more between middle belt indegens and the fulanis which was prevalent in Plateau, Benue and Kaduna
Plus the bokoharam issue that's still religious crisis


The Igbo man have never had any problem with the Northerners except the 1966 issue before the war and the bonke crusade in the 1990s

Igbos have lived peacefully with the Northerners
The two parties under themselves

Karemarealty288:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/11/09/alaba-market-traders-kick-against-plan-lagos-state-government-demolish-secretariat

Is it not time my people understand that they are not wanted again

Is it not better to change strategy

Look Eastward
Take your operations to the East, or any other part of Nigeria or go into African countries

The world is changing
Change strategies also


The earlier you guys understand this, the better for you

There is so much xenophobia going on that side and if you really like yourself better change strategy

There are boundless opportunities elsewhere be it at home in the East or any other location

But vacate where you are not wanted

I did this since 2019 and it was the best decision I made for myself

The kind of opportunities I discovered since I made that move is mind blowing

Take that challenge
Make that move

Leave your comfort zone
It's not a good place to be
You will be surprised what you will achieve
What you have been missing

Edusouls:
Due to influx of thousands of children born in Lagos but due to overpopulation and bad economy in Lagos state has returned to Igbo land with foreign culture

Xenophobs

You guys cried over the way GRV was treated in Lagos Election and the resultant effect

But here you guys are doing worse xenophobia

Onye mere unu ihea?

Who do una this kind thing?

oluwaseyi0:
What about the option of considering intimacy gadget

Just go online jiji, jumia and what have you and other one or two toys and you will be good to go

Intimacy gadgets can't be compared to what a real human being does

Intimacy gadgets is like drinking mineral when whAt you need is a very chilled water

Good lashing from a human being can reset the brain

luminouz:
Why are you spoiling show for me naaaa?

Make she explain well abeg ..I don know today say she be bipolar woman. I still dey expect more. Please don't fuq up my parole jor

Before nko

She be grade one for that

That's why I avoid commenting with her even when she mentions me

I run

azpekuliar:
I have an HIV+ friend who has also been diagnosed as being Schizophrenic due to late commencement of HIV treatment. Men she is a handful! Highly annoyingly unpredictable. She could be calm this minute and the next minute she has flown into a rage. Omo I no fit deal abeg, I run but for your husband while I emphasize with him, there is no running away Is he afraid that this mental condition is sexually transmittable? He needs counselling to be able to provide you the support you need at home.

If you have been around schizophrenic or bi Polar people
You won't blame the husband

Because the way they switch there temperaments can be something else

Although giving them good sex can calm the madness for a while

So the husband should do the needful especially at night when she wants the lashing make it cool her brain small

Not doing it for a whole year na very big punishment

jrusky:
Hahahahaha wallahi it's now I know "so many" igbos are dumbs I say this with no apology so you are fighting yourself or fighting entire state simply one idiot was attacked?

I wonder how Biafra nation will look like if eventually gotten. So because Ajaero was beaten for been stupid now entire imoites must pay for it, for real

Woow I love that pls why not shut down the entire SE because of him. Biko Ajaero bu onye

See as some idiots and very shameless ones here on NL jumping up for blacklist flight to their own fellow kinsmen state simply one anuofia misyarned and was misbeaten.

This is why I refused to be identify with my people and I won't till they started reasoning like normal human. Who da f u c k is Ajaero

Now minister of Labour and the Fed govt must do everything possible to remove Ajaero his wings is getting too wide and long, remove him now and let efcc and dss torture him a bit.

Why is it that anytime you give igbo man any sensitive post they always arrogantly abused it

Cry from now till tomorrow I pray hope fails woefully

The horror hope unleashed on a great state like IMO state is horrendous

God will definitely shame hope

IMO state became a shadow of herself

There is no peace for the wicked

sweerychick:
Lol I smell conspiracy against hope. And for the fact Lukman said Hope betrayed Tinubu in the last Selection I am not surprised

Hope will smell the beans

I pray the conspiracy works

He has rendered IMO state totally useless

He deserves whatever is coming his way

DMerciful:
Home is about the wellbeing of the people making up the home and not necessarily about the ideal that the people are staying together irrespective of whether its healthy.

People make mistakes in life and choosing a spouse is no exemption. No matter how far you've traveled on a wrong road, you best bet is to change direction to the right road rather than proceeding in error.

If you divorce, your experience will help you in choosing the next spouse because you wont take warnings for granted. We're not asking for divorce upon the first challenge but when differences becomes irreconcilable, why will you advice a man to die there?

Besides, its not compulsory to remarry.

And people divorce now because of irreconcilable differences

Honestly a man shouldn't kill himself
If it isn't working
Every party should go there way

Before I used to be no divorce
But from what I am personally seeing in marriage now

If the differences can't be resolved
Let everyone go there way
And maybe get wiser in the next relationship they venture into

That's my perspective now

mariahAngel:
You'd rather he jeopardize his home?

Why do some men give up easily, and advise other men to do so whenever challenges arise?
For how long are you going to keep starting over, especially without trying to work things out?

But is she not jeopardizing the home already?

This is the problem many homes are facing right now and if the man can't bear
He moved on

To be honest plenty women are not raised properly now

And that's why a Man must vet the woman he is marrying properly before putting a ring on the finger

Very important

sonofthunder:
Tone down the love, affection, jokes, 'care', even provision. If you can focus more on yourself (work certifications, building projects, higher degree's/diploma's, go for them); so that you can have a good lullaby why provisioning may temporarily decrease. But whenever you choose to reignite the love, affection, jokes, 'care' et all, do to her as is expected.


If she draws to you while you are pulling away, don't distance yourself. Give her all she deserves.


Don't ever tolerate disrespect. Also don't apologies too much, even when you are wrong and especially if you're not wrong.


When you don't understand human psychology in this 'woke' generation, women that don't deserve you will frustrate your destiny.



Edited: women love a form of adventure. Even if you are already 10X better than someone she thinks is developing themselves while you aren't doing same, she'll start comparing you to them and may find it difficult to see your positives while never seeing the negatives of others.

Smart!!

Fiscus105:
During boyfriend and girlfriend relationship,when u re supposed to have studied her nagging behaviour, u ignored but focused on different styles she was given you thinking that's most important aspect of marriage, now her nagging has metamorphosed to nasty attitude.

You run to a forum to announce for the whole world.


On more serious note, you haven't been in charge since the relationship began and now she doesn't see u as a her superior and someone she should accord respect.

To correct, it's harder now, but can still, next time she doesn't that, either you sent her parking or you leave house for her, make sure people intervene before you reconcile.


WOMEN ARE LIKE KIDS, THE WAY YOU HANDLE THEM FROM VERY VERY BEGINNING SAYS ALOT ABOUT YOUR GOING FORWARD WITH HER.

You said the truth

Exactly

Hand Man give woman from the start is very important

But many of us Men made this mistake and it's affecting our Marriages

We allowed Love cover our eyes without being firm from the get go

Although you can be firm
But stubbornness especially when them don born for you and feel they have arrived

maclatunji:
How many wives will you kick out? I understand where you are coming from but the current generation of young women have a large percentage of marriage unfriendly traits. It takes a different approach to keep them married than just plain authority.

I am not saying women in the past were saints but they tended to value marriage more.

That's exactly what I am saying

Presently I have given her ultimatum if I don't see better changes
Next year I will move on and find someone to start dating

Honestly
Although I also caution myself that what if the next one will not be worse

Infact I don't blame guys that just had babymama or had children when they were younger by mistake or impregnate a woman. They don't have any attachment with the so called women

Because honestly marrying some woman is just not it and many of them are like that
Talkless when children are involved

But I will keep on watching if she will change, because I don change am for her and she is now surprised by my attitude cos I no send again


Like you said many women don't have marriageable qualities now

emmanuelbrown26:
Sometimes I feel so ashamed of sharing dis generation with some idiots parading themselves as men.
For ur wife to raise her voice at u at any slightest discussion shows how weak u are, then it also shows that she's d one doing u favour by marrying u
Men suppose to create boundary in marriage bcs d generation of women we hv dis day is totally different from what we had back then.
We hv women that wants to eat their cake and still have it.
OP ur forefathers must be so disappointed in having somebody like u in their lineage bcs u don't deserve to be a man at all

Honestly weak men are being raised nowadays

While women are now Lion

So there is a very big problem at hand
A very big pity

Personally me no dey tolerate nonsense o at all

ahnie:
Have you divorced yours?the way you people after smoking throws the word divorce on this forum eeh ..I pity anyone that takes advise from you

But she can nag the hell out of Him and make everything miserable abi?

If he can't cope
Separation is adviced to keep his sanity intact

A lot of women behave like this
Always nagging

Sillymoderators:
The money you made has nothing to do with the tithe that you paid it was mere coincidence! I hope you will be honest to back tomorrow to tell us that you didn't make money some other months after now despite paying the tithes.

Actually there's what we call faithfulness

Things may not be rosy all the time but because I am faithful be it in good times and bad times God rewards faithfulness


Example look at Abraham

He had Isaac at hundred years
Yet God now asked him to sacrifice that his son Isaac

Abraham actually was going to sacrifice the boy

When he lifted his knife God told him not to harm the boy
He wanted to test Abraham's faithfulness

God now told Abraham that in Blessing he will bless him and multiply him
God found Abraham faithful


Likewise today
Some people turn back on God when things are not rosy

But they don't know that it's there faithfulness that's being tried

If they continue being faithful despite there circumstances

God then certifies them faithful and that's where the individual in question begin to grow exponentially in leaps and bounds

Same scenario happens in marriage
Some couples may be hit with tough times Economically
Some women will turn there back on the Man, some will even divorce
And things definitely turns around, even if it takes time
The marriage has been tried

Likewise it's with obeying God
It's not always Rosy

But if you stand strong
The reward is definitely sweet

justmondris:
I have experienced both sides of not paying my tithes and faithfully paying my tithes. I am not a pastor, so I am sharing this truth not in hopes of receiving your tithe. My dear brothers and sisters, paying your tithe faithfully brings divine blessings, increase, and what is written in Malachi 3:10 is truly profound. If you understand, you understand.

Some people want to pay their tithes but find it challenging to do so. This is because they often spend the money on personal expenses first, and before they know it, very little is left, leading them to change their minds. Below are some strategies that helped me overcome this, which you can try:

1: [/b]Obtain your church's account number.
[b]2: [/b]Refrain from spending any of the money until you have transferred the tithe to the account.
[b]3:[/b]Plan and manage the remaining money wisely.

[b]Malachi 3:10
'Bring all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be food in My house, and prove Me now in this,' says the LORD of hosts, 'if I will not open for you the windows of heaven and pour out for you a blessing that there will not be room enough to receive it.'"

Actually that's the strategy I started using

I got my church account details so once I get my inflow
I remit my tithe immediately

Anyone that castigates tithe is doing so out of ignorance and many people do that.

But tithing brings God into your finances and it's been a lifetime commitment for me now

Righthussle:
This is just funny. You're not only happily enriching another man but also deceiving yourself into thinking it is beneficial to do so.

I suspect you're a pastor trying to get more people to give tithe

You are not smart honestly

You didn't see from his analogy he wasn't organized in his keeping records of the money he makes
Which is major problem with over 90 percent of Africans
Which our leasers, rulers and politicians also do

To grow Financially, in order to achieve something worthwhile in Life
One must be abreast of his Financial spending

Infact thats the basic number one rule of succeses
The foundation of being wealthy

TemplarLandry:
You're wise!
Tithing works.
[/i]quote author=Donkogbe post=126735806]i have never pay tithe before in my life but i do listen to messages on how this is a way of attracting supernatural blessings from God. this year has been very hard on me and i decided to give tithing a chance which as at now i will never stop paying tithe.

i have a problem of having a track record of how much i make weekly and monthly because i am a freelancer so money can come in anytime, anyday.

tithing has helped me reaslise how much of money has been coming my way and how much i make weekly and monthly because once any money comes in now, i will have to jot down the 10% and by sunday i will transfer them to the church account.

Brothers and sisters my october tithe was 24k meaning i made 240k last month.. i am still amazed because i at the end of every month i usually dnt have any money saved in my account but now putting aside 10% of every income has opened my eyes and i just want to thank God for this great revelation.

Yeah tithing works

This year I resolved to be paying my tithe regularly and I can say I am better off Financially than when I didn't


One tenth of our money Belongs to God and your local church where you are admonished

Doesn't stop one from giving to the poor

I can comfortably pay tithe in millions now because I believe it's way to honor God and it shows I don't call material things anything because naked we came to this world and the day one goes

No pin goes with you

Tithing doesn't stop one from enjoying his money/wealth

It makes the enjoyment much rewarding: good automobiles, good cribs/house, good investments, quality vacation with family, good apparel, designer clothes, shoes, good food/menu

Life indeed can be enjoyed cause that God wants us to have 🙏

Hezzyluv:
I can't just wrap my fingers on the reason why some women cheat a lot.

Op, I was in same shoe like you. But in my own case, she didn't request divorce from her husband. I couldn't stand it at some point, l had no option then to resigned from the work I was doing and travel from Abuja to Lagos just to stop that nonsense because conscience no allow me rest.

I really thank God for his mercy on me and for giving me the grace for taking such bold step. It wasn't easy at first but it was worth it. Because, I was heading towards destruction.

Actually plenty women especially nowadays can't be satisfied in bed
So most times they quit the marriage or start sleeping around

That's what we are facing presently now especially in Nigeria

And Men must brace themselves up because the game don change

I am sorry for any Man wey no prepare himself for wetin dey happen now else heart attack and several sickness go attack am


I was talking with a guy recently, his wife wey him marry, pay full bride price, after borning 3 children for him carry him children run away

He traced her and later got hold of his two boys who are with him now
The remaining daughter is still with her. She was recently begging the guy she wants to come back

The guy told her she can come back, but he wants to take the remaining daughter from her and end the marriage

If you see how he is taking good care of those boys 6yrs and 4yrs old.
They are happy with there Dad

The guy say him no dey marry again. He will just focus on raising the ones he has.
I told him his own better, at least he is with his children finally.