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cococandy:
Wow. How did things get so bad

Aunty now una dey realize

Things cast tey tey

showafrica:
Isreal know this long time ago... Na why if you throw one rocket, they throw 10. MNK set up ESN to do the same.

I am now beginning to understand Ohamadike

He saw all these things tey tey

godofuck231:
its not all about state police its all about security operations structure and command , our police structure and architecture are obsolete, you are calling the cp of police and dpo before chasing a criminal , no patrol vehicle , no fuel , no surveillance control centre , and the terrorists knew when to strike , on a Sunday, imagine they understood the system better

All this one na grammar

Turenchi

Are you aware that many times Southern kaduna was attacked, the security apparatus will know and do nothing. Wait until the terrorists have killed hundreds through out the night

By morning dead bodies will full every where

Like I said
Keep on blowing better grammar

The madness is almost touching everywhere now

SATANICALLY666:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-without-me-buhari-would-have-lost-in-2015-says-tinubu

When a man elevates himself to a god, he is opening himself to God's Divine retribution

This shows total desperation

All the men that have ruled Nigeria in this present democratic era were never desperate for it.

Obasanjo came out from prison,he never even had the means

Yaradua never coveted the Nigerian presidency. It was his late elder brother shehu musa that seriously coveted it but still couldn't get it

Jonathan never coveted it, he was a non-entity

Buhari had already given up, when he was called up and given it


Tinubu is so desperate

He won't get it

Mark it here

Desperate people don't get Nigeria's president

Ishilove:
I am a fan of old music, because the cacophony of sounds that passes as music today has never, and will never appeal to me. One of my all time favourite bands is ABBA and till date I have their playlist in all my devices.

Swedish pop group ABBA is considered to be one of the most popular and successful musical groups of all time. They were one of the best-selling music acts in the history of popular music, topping the charts worldwide from 1974 to 1983, and in 2021. (Wikipedia). The group consists of Agnetha Fältskog, Björn Ulvaeus, Benny Andersson, and Anni-Frid Lyngstad. Anderson and Lyngstad were married, same as Agnetha and Bjorn, but both marriages suffered under the strain of their careers and massive popularity, and in the course of time crashed within a short time span of each other.

Eventually, the group unofficially split in 1982, and despite efforts from producers and other music heavyweights, the band refused to reform. Björn Ulvaeus said in 2008, "We will never appear on stage again. There is simply no motivation to re-group." (Wikipedia).

However, in 2017 it was made known that there were plans for a "virtual" concert using digital 'life like' avatars of the group members. This concert, nicknamed the 'Voyage Concert' held on May 27, 2022 in London and was attended by members of the Swedish royal family. The 90 minute performance received a standing ovation from the crowd after it ended.

And, for the first time in 40 years, the four members of ABBA showed up on stage and gave a curtain call.

This is what they look like now.

Ah humans and getting old

Anyway thank God they are still alive

They live in nation's where they have sound healthcare

So they are still alive til today

Bassmetrics:
@Op, d solution to ur problem begins with u. First, if u are truely sure dat d cause of d whole issue is d false accusation, then for d sake of peace, bring down ur ego as d elder, visit and apologize to ur kid bro wife. Make peace with their family first, whether ur wife is in support of ur action or not. With that u can win d heart of ur brother, once it's done u can then relate to him man to man, and u two can fathom way to authorize ur wives to make peace or at least not escalate the matter.

Note this may not go down well with ur wife cos she is the one at fault here (based on wot u said). But once u make peace with ur bros family, and u and urs bros man up, she will be left no option than give up. And with time things will fall in place.

I once had that experience. My wife accused me of having an affair with my niece living with us. D truth was that I was extremely close to the lady, I really love her cos she is intelligent, hardworking, respectful and wise but not to d extent of committing such sacrilegious act. My mum and elder sis advised me to bring her (my niece) home for peace to reign but I stood my ground cos she did no wrong, she has been very helpful in my business. I maintained a good relationship with my niece and her family, when my wife found out she was left alone in d trouble she was brewing, she calmed down by force.

Na Man you be

Twale I salute!!!

Upsohigh:
This story remind me of a situation similar to my dad and his four brothers. They are living peacefully until all of them married. Their wives start quarrelling among themselves, to the extent that the love among brothers was threatened. I was wey younger then around 2002, when a meeting was summoned to resolved the differences. All converged in our house. The meeting lasted 6 to 7 hours but the sad thing was that it keep getting worse as the meeting progressed and they have to resolve that no children of any of the family will be allowed to visit another and the issue of holiday visit is suspended. That was how they lived till today. It not easy resolving issues among women, it started with two wives against two then three against one then the polarisation and extended to the father and us as children. It get complicated when one my uncle feels his wife was disrespected no one is ready to apologize. It is what it is till today

But to be honest women always scatters homes.

I just don't know why

You see brothers living peacefully
Once dey marry women
Problem don start

And they can be very strong head and stubborn.

If you as a husband no agree with them, be ready to be starved of sex and food

It's very pathetic

baralatie:
What is wrong with a single mother?

Everything is wrong with it

See as the actor dey cry

Guys are warned to stay clear of single mothers and it's true

hardon1:
Every church has areas of strong hold and it's sterns back to colonial times. Eastern Nigeria accepted the early catholic missionaries. The Early catholic missionaries too saw the the resistance put up by the southern kings ( the Nanas, obas,) and other riverine kings against the CMS who first came in.

They found a way to drift into the hinterland, and you know igbos in past times don't have very powerful kings - hence the saying "Igbo ama-eze). they were somewhat govern by elders. The catholic missionaries were welcomed with out much restraint, given lands (so called evil forest) to build churches and it grew from there

Hence majority of igbos are catholic... A faith passed to their ancestors and then to them. If you see an Igbo person who is pentecostal, his/her parent or grandparents are probably Catholic or perhaps CMS

Very true

I am Pentecostal

But my family foundation is CMS
My elder cousin is an Arch Deacon in CMS

But because of my family foundation, I did my wedding in CMS. The thing sweet my people then

Because an elder cousin of mine who is very rich is a Pastor in Pentecostal
So our people felt he was confusing his younger ones because of his money

nebeolisa:
He deserve a statue at the Stamford Bridge


ROMAN REIGNS

Ah we will miss Roman

But with Todd, we are in a safe hand

Thanks Mr Roman Abrahamovic for all you did for us

Blues4joseph:
Tonye Cole can never rule Rivers State, we don't need a Man that doesn't know Rivers State.....we need SIM FUBARA a seasoned Civil servant that live and know the plight of Rivers peple

A man that diverted 485 billion Naira

Na una money they have been using to fund politics in Nigeria while millions of Rivers State citizens are barely getting by

Blues4joseph:
owner of Sahara Energy that Amaechi transfered Rivers State $50 Million in ...

And how much is Wike being chased by EFCC which he looted; 485 billion Naira

This is the one we know of

Many more will come

Arysexy:
Tinubu urchins still shyting in their pants

E go do them voom like film

They won't understand what hit them

AlphikkaTech:
I start this piece by saying "for the first time the south east has someone they can rally their banners around howbeit a phony leader who's antecedents has shown time and time again he should not be trusted nor voted for.

With the decamping of Peter Obi from the PDP, many has blamed the enmiable and respectable Governor of Rivers State for Peter Obi failure.

Peter Obi has weighed his options and in his crafty discomfort betrayed a party that fed him fried rice and chicken when he went political broke and hungry.

A failed politician who for almost a decade has been unable to deliver his village or ward for the PDP.

What was Peter Obi doing at Darwin Street?
The news came he went on a business trip to the UK government house I suspect for financial support to sway delegates through bribery and when his plot failed, he chose another option of joining the Labour Party, a party which has continued to labor without result.

Una go cry tire

This is just the beginning

Peter Obi joined labour party this afternoon

There Twitter handle went from 400 to 23000
By the end of the week
It will go up more


Labour party website has crashed, as people were clamouring to register membership

We are about to leave the money embezzling politics of Nigeria

Peter Obi said in his arise tv interview this night by 9 pm

He met with British prime minister at London
They invited him on how to enhance trade between UK and 56 African nation's

His reply; other countries are focusing to build and develop there economies while Nigeria is spending her own resources on politics


Many of you without bearing, feeding of Nigerian people giving them crumbs

Your end is at hand


Una weeping just dey start

Thank God my PVC is intact

Ninisun:
They don't love the men because of s.ex rather they think being abused means the man loves them.
The man also make her believe or think she is the problem, make her lose her self worth and so the abuse continues.

Aunty Lai Lai

Many men that are high domestic abusers
Are good in bed

And they use it to lure the women

Even Mary j Blige in one of her music had this lyric:

Good guys are not fun to be with

I remember when I was overseas for education

One of my Nigerian acquaintance was dating an oyibo babe

I dey one-day this dude was flogging this girl belt
Beating her the girl was wailing
Later that same day they still went out

Later I asked this girl
Come-on you are a very beautiful descent girl
Why are you hanging around this guy

She personally told me his dic.k does wonders to her
She can't leave him

This babe hang around this guy even wanted sotey she was begging him to marry her

And this girl was from a very good middle class home

Later I heard the guy drove her away and started dating another woman

Today she is married to a white dude
We still communicate regularly
Because we were good friends

And she still misses that guy till today

Buhariiswicked:
Reno omokri has continued to give his opinion on the political travails of former PDP presidential aspirant, Peter Obi.



https://mobile.twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1530229387290976256

This Reno na very big fool

He is truly showing his level of ignorance

I am sorry for people that listen to Reno

Peter Obi doesn't even need to win this election in 2023

It's likely impossible

What Peter needs to do is simply build a formidable party of his convictions

That's what Buhari did

He had a selling point of integrity

He contested

2003 against Obj he lost
2007 against Yaradua he lost
2011 against Jonathan he lost

Then 2015 against Jonathan and he won

One thing I give to Buhari was his resilience
He kept on pushing
Till he got it


Go through history
Men that changed our world were resilent

Abraham Lincoln failed many times till he became the president of the United States of America

He abolished slave trade and degrading blacks
The South that had plantation filled with slaves disagreed

And went to war, the American civil war. They lost and till today Lincoln is the best president in the US history

Obama was sworn in with Lincoln personal Bible


Or is it Adolf Hitler the enfant terrible of Europe

He started spreading his ideology of Nazism immediately after the first world war

He was imprisoned
Lost major election with his Nazi party
He didn't give up
Kept on pushing till Nazi party won the election of 1933. He then unleashed his evil genius on the entire world

It took American, England and Russia with there allies to defeat Adolf Hitler


What Peter Obi needs to do is build a party of genuine integrity
Open it to men of likes mind East West North and South

It may not be immediate
But if that party grows
It will forever change Nigeria


That's why I am sorry to people that listen to Reno Omokri

There is nothing useful you will learn from his type

Avoid them like a plague

A man that stole so much during Jonathan presidency

What does Reno do
Just galavanting around the world enjoying his stolen loot

Because he was privileged
His parents moved him to the US when he was small
And now has US citizenship and passport

Mikee19:
Ok so I've seen a lot of hypocritical comments passing judgement on him, calling him all sort of names like they're saints and can never fall. That's too bad, and i called some out. I like that you aren't passing judgement on him...

Having said that, op IS at fault. He CANNOT be 100% exonerated! He did cheat on his wife, for two solid years! See if we don't cast appropriate blame where it's required, we end up tolerating ourselves doing all sorts; and we won't grow!

Yes there's nobody above making mistakes. But things could yet have been done better. He should NEVER have let her move in with him. Shebi he later paid rent for her somewhere? Why not at first? And this lasted way too long, two solid years, that it now became an issue!

Also true that we all must be humble. Even all these very righteous ppl here too. We all can fall in more disastrous ways than he did, it's like these ppl dunno they're human. They may not fall in this way, but in some other way, that may be more shameful than what we read here, so long as they're human. This is why it's very foolish for a mere man to pass judgement on a fellow man like himself.

But nobody must be content with falling down. Admit to it: it's your fault. Find out why and where, and fix it! And become a much better version of yourself.

Bros even for church self, there are many pastors that are extremely Randy

I personally don catch a man I respected sometime ago on top person wife.
On Sunday he climb pulpit

I was weeping seating in the congregation

But deep inside me, I was cautioned not to expose him.

I rather prayed that God will have mercy on him

That's why anybody come tell me God said this I will just be looking at them.

That time I come understand that God doesn't judge like we humans
God gives a lengthy time of mercy

But human beings that are filled with sin will just judge immediately.
While they are still living in deep sin

Even Jesus never judged a woman that was caught in the very act of adultery.
He even told her accusers, he without sin carry the first stone and throw. But non did

Showing the hipocrsy of men

If you like be Pope, every human is filled with sinful nature

Na only the Grace and Mercy of God will deliver such one

Human beings are extremely hypocritical, Nigerians own worse

That's why Nigeria is in a very big mess despite churches, mosques and traditional worshipers full every where

Alvino1:
sir I think what you are trying to say is that if any man is found in this type of situation, the first thing to do is to understand the reasons for his actions, then subsequently give consent because it is not an easy one for him to deal with a marriage where one gets little or no sexual activeness or satisfaction, I'm talking about the issue of sexless marriage. assuming but not conceding that your position is apt, my question then is, will it be okay, if your wife of over 6 years with two kids gets involved with another man for a whole two years (I'm talking about 730 day) exactly the way the OP did, on grounds that you do not last in bed (one minute man) is this excuse also applicable to wives as well?? or it's is only applicable to husbands?
my position is simple, what ever that is applicable to the husband should also be applicable to the wife... I'm just simply saying do not do to others that which if done to you, you will not appreciate...
I mean you dated her for some time before u married her, you were fully aware of her sexual activeness before proceeding with her to the next level (marriage)...
sometimes we need to own up to our mistakes and stop looking for some anchor point or what have you... most people possesses attitudes they themselves are not even aware they posses... do you know why?? because an opportunity for exhibition of such attitude haven't surfaced yet... so before such opportunity comes up, they are saints, and even after the opportunity comes up and they act in such manners, it will come as a shock to them, they themselves won't believe that they actually exhibited such attitude.... give them sometime, it will repeat itself, again and again, until they come to terms with the fact that it is who they are.... at that point they can either opt for a change, or blame the devil if caught....
so respectfully sir, I respect your position, but I'm sorry I do not agree with it... thank you

I don't need you to agree to it. But that's the reality.

You said concerning women whose husband doesn't satisfy sexually.

Yes a lot of them still go out to find satisfaction. Sometimes there husband's may know but won't do anything because they know they are not capable.

Some will be doing it codedly without the man knowing.

I have seen such cases

Infact women own even worse especially woman that tasted several men before marriage.
They will never accept sexual dissatisfaction. Rather they may be doing it codedly

Some men in this situation may even endure the urge.
But women, it's rare for them to endure.

One guy quoted that sex is 85 percent in marriage issues. Others are 25 percent.

Women have been with highly domestic abusive men because they get orgasm from there husband. So they will be enduring the abuse, because of what they get.

Most times men that are domestic abusers are very good in bed.
So you see there women still in the relationship.

Even many women stay with very poor men but are good in bed
Just like a man will see a chick that he knows is bad but because of what the Lady does to him in bed, he still close eye marry same woman

I know one particular runs girl in my University days.
She was known around school, very notorious, even dated the governor of the state where my school is located then
Last year some old school mate was saying if person tell them said that babe go marry them no go believe.
She married better man and still living today with the husband peacefully

Or another of my family friend, was well known bad girl then, later married a pastor and they are living happily with kids


So anybody that denies the extremeimportance of sex in marriage is deluding himself or herself

Sex is very very important
Anyone denying his or her partner conjugal right is inviting big problem

jrusky:
Demarketing who? Bro don't waste much of your time on these. Gej can't make the mistake of contesting if he do I bet you bro millions of Nigerians will rise against him, humiliate him and if care is not taken assassinate him. In addition, if Buhari make mistake by injecting gej into apc and impose him apc will tear apart mark my word.

I'm one of gej die hard supporter but the very day he mistakenly join apc I will be among the first to rise against him for betraying pdp for audio presidency promised by apc same enemies that disgraced him out of office. I will do everything to campaign against gej infact from that moment I will stop respecting him.

Oga you are just making noise

If Jonathan gets APC ticket

There is absolutely nothing you all can do

He will win landslide

Simple

Una no do anything all these Buhari era things were difficult

Na Jonathan una one make noise

Nothing

We are all in this naija

If people like us survived 2015
In Nigeria
When many of you were rejoicing

Nothing wey go worse past that again
We have seen the worst

Agwotulumbe:
the same bastard initially denying GEJ joining Apc.
dude has been left behind.
he has no value.
he's nothing but a useless twitter ranter who capitalized on Buhari's failure to build followers.

See as someone's father and husband dey disgrace himself.
GEJ no dey even rate am sef because dude na empty barrel.

FFK beta pass this one a swear.

The guy is completely shameless

I pray if Jonathan eventually win
I don't want to see his foot in Nigeria

Because he has got beef with many people

Very shameless

Alvino1:
respectfully sir, there is no way you can make me believe that everyone in suck kinda marriages acts in like manners... to me you are just trying to create an avenue for the justification of his actions or rather the actions of the few persons who acts in such manner... now my questions is, will your position be the same if the reverse where to be the same?? I mean if the OP's wife was to be the one in his shoes in a society like ours, let's say on grounds that the OP is a one minute man
and how do you know I'm not in such kinda marriage myself?? the problem with many humans isn't judging from an "ignorant" position alone, the problem is also making rules and principles that we cannot withstand if they come against us....
I may be in that shoes myself, and trust me, I understand, hence my previous position....

Not at all
You are not speaking from that position

What this guy went through is just because of where he found himself in marriage

Many married men you see sleeping around never planned such from beginning

But because of the condition they found themselves in they get entangled

There is this statement that I used to see on this forum in the past that many singles have much plenty sex than married people

I thought it was just deception

But from what I found at
It seems like there is fact to it.

Many men during there single days denied themselves from sleeping around hoping that in marriage they will be fulfilled sexually
Only to find out that in marriage, they get nothing or even if it comes. Just there

So some of such men that can't cope, now result to sleeping around

bjdon:
By Monday morning one fact will be clear as daylight for everyone in this country and that is 'Fear of the North is the start of wisdom'. Nobody plays politics like them, undisputed master tacticians!

The South need to humble and get tutored by the North

They are Masters

The South ain't there match

Alvino1:
we all have our bad sides basically in all we do, relying on the flaws of others as bases for our mistakes is really a bad one for that other person or partner, as would be the case if done to us...
the op never said the marriage is completely sexless, so the half baked self drive of his wife is something that can be dealt with... I'm sure the op was fully aware of this before going on to the next level with her (his wife)...
I do not need to be in someone's shoes to be able to identify a wrong...

Not at all

Have you been in a sexless marriage before

Do you know what these people feel at all

The problem with many humans is that they judge things from an ignorant position

Until you get in his shoes
You won't understand

Shaolin77:
99% of those industry, both in Lagos and ogun are not Yoruba owned, most are Foreign companies so stop yelling, Yoruba's are still unproductive

You dey mind them

Nestle
Guinness
Pz
Cadbury etc

Are foreign owned subsidiary companies owned by multinationals

OkoroBufo:
I am not obliged to reply an ignorant buffoon. He read my comments, so let him respond to it.

-Okoro bufo

From your reply you don't know anything

So how will he exchange with you

OFFICIAL336:


They won't.

You saw as they turned to insulting like touts and agberos

Many of them that comment and post things don't even have a degree nor experience nor serious thing they do

That's why you see them on Nairaland all the time

You can imagine exchanging arguments with a novice/illiterate

OkoroBufo:
What are the federal presence in SW that are not in SE?.. Oya start talking.

- Okoro bufo

You are dumb, illiterate and a complete novice

For asking such question

Even the northerners don't have the advantage that you guys have even with them having Abuja

OkoroBufo:
The idiot was comparing output drop as if he was living under Abakaliki rock when Covid19 blighted manufacturing sector in the period in consideration.

-Okoro bufo

Reply him like a so called Intelligentsia not like a tout or agbero

Give him a robust reply

All these your insulting is stale

It just shows that you are completely ignorant and a novice

OFFICIAL336:
Yeah.

I saw that stat in the morning and I ignored it because I know it's not possible.

Our manufacturing output in 2020 was around 23 Trillion. And they are telling us that by the second half of the 2021, the output 3.7 trillion.

It doesn't make sense because the same year, we recorded the highest economic growth rate since the last 7 years.

So I am asking our Yorubas brothers to explain how we got 9 trillion less than the manufacturing output of the second half of 2020.

No answer yet.

Your reply is water tight

They should answer your findings as literates and Intelligent people, not as touts and agberos

Favorolasupo:
U are fool..a big one...

Reply from average Black man when he's got nothing to say is cursing and insults

Tackle him like an educated folk
Not like a tout or agbero

Favorolasupo:
Be deceiving yourself....if south east is that good then why do yr people come to south west for a better life...?

What are you on about?

Lagos is the economic capital of Nigeria
Former capital for many decades
Even ogun state gained from being close to Lagos

The federal government of Nigeria, put a lot of investments in Lagos

It was just 1991 that FG moved to Abuja

In the East since after the war
The federal government of Nigeria has no presence there.
Absolutely non

That's our penalty for loosing the war

So you don't just make generalized statement

You guys have always had the edge/advantage over the whole Nation

It's when the North realised this they focused on Abuja

But still Lagos have that edge

OFFICIAL336:
You Yorubas are du*b. I expect nothing from people that graduated from a brown roof school.

Mr Olodo, you don't value an economic sector the same way you value a company.

The value of an economic sector is equal to its annual production output.

No wonder Igbos are beating you guys left and right in your schools.

Your brother said our manufacturing output in the second half of 2021 (that is 2021 Q1 and Q2) was 3.7 trillion.

But by the same time frame in 2020, our manufacturing output was 13 Trillion.

How come we lost over 9 Trillion in a year we recorded our highest economic growth since last 7 years?

Yorubas think other tribes are illiterate. Again, Yorubas are always known for falsifying data.

No be only 3.7 trillion, na 3.7 million.

Chei Bros take am easy with them. Abeg