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ShaqFu:
I like it when Lagos state government always come to and start spitting fire when cases like these spring up.

I've seen just how dire the fire they spit is, especially when you reminisce on the cases of Oromoni et al.

At the end, what happened will happen and nothing will be done to the parties involve, especially the school when they start pulling their muscle against the Lagos state government.

Sexual depiction of a minor talkless more of a child is a very big crime around the world.

They have softwares abroad to track down anyone indulging in such. Extremely smart softwares

Those sharing or holding the videos should continue

Until they land in very big wahala

OVB123:
What is going on with this generation of lads? Everybody after sex.

This is just the beginning.

Una never see anything
The upcoming generation only the Grace of God will save the ones to be saved

All those with young ones growing up, prayers and better upbringing, will save the ones that will be saved

What saved some of us while growing up na parental prayers over us and very strict upbringing


Today how many parents flog there children or how many hold early morning devotion with there children?

Everybody is busy pursuing money

ukaface:
A quick question though
And I hope I get answered.
Why is it that most males are the ones that keep complaining and regretting marriage?

Because it's the man that bears the brunt. The finances

So in bearing the brunt and come still get partner that doesn't give peace of mind, with horrible sex or no sex at All

LordIsaac:
It will shock you that I went through all this and more with a live-in girlfriend, till I wept to God one day, and He personally delivered me. I'm married now. Trust me, I set the rules before the marriage. I was challenged severally by the term, " you are not romantic," but, I reiterate my rules always. I think it is just how you begin and some measure of luck. Some of them are not entirely bad. The men are the problem because they "fell" in love. It is a contract, don't spoil it with "love."

I love this reply

Those not yet married should learn from this reply

Acidosis:
95% of small businesses globally fail in the first 5 years but we haven't seen any "business is a scam" thread.

By the way, there's no such thing as a "modern" marriage. You're either married traditionally as ordained or you're married by your own logical ideas. Marriages don't evolve. Love, trust, respect, and other ingredients that make marriages to work do not evolve. The only thing that evolved is your wedding dress and maybe the HD photoshoots. If you took that as having a modern marriage, then you simply played yourself and shot yourself on the foot.

That being said, I sympathize with you and I particularly love your courage to share your experiences. Now own up to your mistakes and leave the institution out of it. Like small businesses, marriage is not a scam. You were simply scammed because of your negligence or lack of foresight.

I totally disagree

The quality of character and attitudes we today in people has gone down totally

Example the way young people get involved in fraud, ritual for money and many vices wasn't like that say in the mid nineties

The quality in stock of attitudes have gone down so it has affected marriages horribly

Hathor5:
Edited

Now that I have read the entire story, I have this to say. You blame that other people tricked you into marriage by saying that marriage life was sweet. Your experience was bitter though.

Did you ask those people how they made their marriages sweet? Or did you believe it takes a wedding ceremony for a marriage to be sweet?

You say that your single life was awesome. Did the things you were enjoying before you got married fall from heaven? Or had you worked for them?

Why do you people put so much effort into their careers but believe that a good relationship/marriage must fall from heaven? Why are people willing and ready to go the extra mile for their career goals but not for their marriages/relationships/families?

The truth is: if you want your marriage/relationship to be sweet, be ready to work for it.

I wish those other people would have told you that too.

If you are not with the right person there is no amount of work that will cut it

It takes two to tango

NewSoul:
There are no more marriageable women! I repeat there are no more marriageable women. Men getting married these days are putting their lives and well being on the line

You corroborate my point
There are very few good people

toprealman:
Iff you are with the right person

Exactly

He may be fortunate to have married a good person

LocalStandard1:
Wow, good write up. Personally I think some men are tricked into that 'union' and they should have their ignorance to blame.

If you must marry, baba marry a virgin, you will grow to trust her. Not a repented harlot, trust me.

But if you want children pls and pls just adopt. Do not bring a child in a shitty arrangement you call 'baby mama, daddy', for the fear of God. Am talking from personal experience now.
Thank you

1 if one doesn't have a good means of living. I don't think it's advisable to marry

2 if you marry a good person, be it man or woman, marriage will be enjoyable for you. But when you marry a bad person, sorry is your name.

The op married a bad person.

Some people are lucky, they end up with good people as spouse

But today we have so much bad people, so we have so many bad marriages

From a married man

CaveAdullam:
1. Women and babies have two things in common: calmness and beauty. The difference is that women are more matured and subtler in action and physique. And herein many men has fell. They already see women as little baby angels that are not capable of causing serious harm..."at least, they are fragile and even if they cause harm, it won't be so devastating," so said the man blinded by romance.

2. Men fight with physical weapons, hence, men fight men and are oblivious to the psychological warfare of women. Men fight men (for status, women, territories and resources). Women fight men(for resources). And women fight women(for resources and quality men). Men don't fight women, for reasons as stated earlier in paragraph 1.

3. Because of this gentility towards women, during heartbreak, men suffer same pain as in a physical battle but this time an emotional one. Their world comes crumbling because they never expected their girlfriends, wives, fiancee to be able to pull such catastrophic emotional string. They are perplexed, in fear, anxious and fall into depression. Just like a PONZI SCHEME, all their investments vanish into oblivion - the trust they were meant to bank on was fake! The hope of a promising future and a good return was a subtle leverage to siphon them.

4. Heartbreak for men differs with women because in every relationship, men invest more. Women still feels the pain of heartbreak, however, even before that, they have plan B + other men are ready to accommodate them.

See the trick here: once a woman has enunciated to a man that she doesn't want any relationship because of a former heartbreak, the new man in question will double down on his arsenal and try every possible means to prove to her that he is not like other men + it is stupid for her former man to treat such an angel like her in a bad light. Here again, man is gentler towards woman.

5. I always love to categorize the average human + women together because they are the same 99% of the time.

Humans are bound to break their promises. We always like to skip the process + seek for different many escape routes. Only few are true allies, and that's why I'm a big fan of family - genetic relationship + friends who has proven themselves overtime.

6. Strong character + integrity + competence + discipline is what we all glamour for but are very guilty of their opposites. In short, humans are the wildest hypocrites you can ever imagine. The difference between the 99% and the 1% is that the later are aware of their limitations and try their best possible to improve. While the former just follow the trend and meander their way where necessary.

7. If a man can have this awareness that humans, including their allies sometimes are bound to break their promises, he must quickly start to develop a tough skin + an armoury that will defend him when the trumpet of war sound. He must lay down plans as if previous plan will fail - this is a strategy women use in romantic relationship. They have one man, but still look out for other men.

8. The man must build options as options is the master key to confidence + won't remain depressed for long even after a serious disappointment or heartbreak.

But the problem of the modern man is that he is more "oxytocinized" as the average woman. Pathetic.

Thanks.

Men this is too much walahi

Had to quote it to archive it

CaveAdullam:
DAY 103, REDPILL 2022

It is a cold world out there, power play and currency game prevails. Don't be deceive, you must sheath yourself as people will love to exploit your weakness or ignorance. They want you to be open and free like a baby so that you can easily be manipulated.

Don't fall for their moral gaslighting, play their cards as well, however, with wisdom and understanding.

Authority: Be sharp.

Very extremely mean world out there

You can say it again!!!!!!

MALIGNANTGuest:
Has the CHURCH ever stopped anyone from divorcing? The CHURCH is not holding anyone.
You own your Life, so take ur decisions boldly.

You were human before becoming a member of a church. Nigerian Christians are increasingly becoming stupid through a Religion Teleported & brought down to you by your fellow humans.
CHURCH doesn't own any single Life.

In Fact, All the Lands inhabited by Churches in the villages were given to them by the community.
The communities were there before the churches arrived, but the churches have now become too powerful, ordering activities of several communities, telling them who deserves a befitting burial or not.
We should be ashamed of ourselves.
Churches now tell communities when they will use same open fields given to dem by same villages. Are we normal at all?
Dia's something wrong with the BLACK RACE!

Honestly I am beginning to question churches now.

How the African man threw away his culture for the ones of the white man, still baffles me.

I think the Church just fronts God but when you look deep, those that run these churches have no resemblance of God or anything godly.

I have started freeing myself from church

I personally talk to God, but men fronting for God, many use it to scam men. Although there are still genuine honest ones that truly connect to God, but they are very few.

Tonycart:
Who says he cannot remarry hmmmmm

I wanted to ask the same question

Nigerian Christians are too much Catholic more than the Pope

That's how this blessed singer left herself in the hands of a beast

We claim to carry Christianity for head, but look around Nigeria to see anything about Christianity on this Nation, if not hypocrisy

The guy should just remarry
Nothing stops him from remarrying

Absolutely non

playboy19:
No, the problem is some of us are not simpletons like people like you. We are wise enough not to take anything just by their face value. We are wise enough to know that a true journalist must report both sides of a story and let the readers be the judge (fair hearing), we are wise enough to know that anything aside from that is partisan and a PR. We are wise and educated enough to know that a company is a different entity from it's sponsors, hence you don't throw the baby away with the water. We are wise enough to know that even if the GB guy lacks discipline and he's culpable of all he was alleged of, you don't go with the intent of destroying the whole company.

Anyone with half a brain can easily see through the whole so-called article for what it really is, a campaign of vengeance against a formal lover. The whole account is from "a" bitter Ex ( all those other pseudos are fabricated) and the David guy is just using the whole gist to advance his own career.

Am I making a case for the GB guy, No! But the company is a pride of Nigeria and Africa and this kid is trying to destroy the dreams and aspirations of so many investors and workers of the company just because of one guy. Like I said, the David guy should be thankful he's not dealing with a combative individual like myself because if I was the chairman of the company, I will first sacrifice the GB guy publicly, then go after the David boy with all my might for trying to destroy that company and its people.

And just in case you still don't understand his sin, it's like trying to destroy a whole Nigeria (with you and I as citizens) just because of Buhari. I hope it's clear now.

I have stopped blaming the older generation, because the younger generation claims Clean. But has a lot of deep shady stuffs.

One of the things this expose has taught me is the importance and place of integrity in life and business.

And my personal resolve will be to always come with clean hands in my dealings.


When people say other people and nation's have been doing it, therefore there is nothing bad in doing same, is a very dangerous mindset.

It's a terrible precedence

That's why people like David Hundeyin should be highly appreciated

For speaking truth and calling out wrong

Again that others are doing it, so we will do likewise is very very dangerous


Why not stand out and make a difference

Does it mean we can't build business without shady stuffs

Again it's a horrible mindset

playboy19:
Life is about perception. To you, you see him as a hero who is exposing the rot in a corporate entity, while I see him as an axshole who is trying to use another man's sweat to further his own carrier. Either way, there are consequences.

He should be thankful though that he's dealing with a non-combative dolt like GB, if not.... this whole thing wouldn't be here.

You see the problem we have been speaking about

Most of you will come and be blaming Buhari, but you all are worse off

David is a hero for unraveling the rot in the system

And there is nothing you guys can do to him
Absolutely nothing

The greatest legacy in this life is to stand by the side of truth

David Hundeyin is a hero, an asset to younger generation of upcoming Nigerians

I have never seen such an inspirational young man

Like I said

Nothing will be done to David

He is safely residing presently in the West

You guys should expect much expose from him

Mooh247:



Show me one fortune 100 company that isn't guilty of white collar fraud

If the mumu David Hundeyen kills all startup to rise in journalism... I hope his fellow jobless twitter miscreants won't blame Buhari for not creating jobs

Now the news would create shock and loss due to stock price fall as investors may want to divest



.

David did the right thing

It's time Nigerian companies come clean. Most especially involving young entrepreneurs

We have been blaming old politicians of the mess they put Nigeria into.

Seems like the younger generation of budding young men and women are worse off.


Kudos to David Hundeyin for this expose

Many more things will be exposed by him

David is seriously rattling the Nigerian establishment

What a young man
What a great inspiration

iamphenomenal:
Please help me speak to these people in a language they understand. Nobody is advocating poverty. Nobody says poverty is good. Nobody says he chooses poverty over riches. Nobody says he wants to live poor

Not everyone, however, is okay with extravagant billionaire life. Some are well-off as long as they can afford the basic needs and cater well for their family. Some are SATISFIED with a nice car (maybe Toyota) and a well-furnished house in a cool area, NOT necessarily a Benz or living in Banana Island

As humans, our wants and priorities vary. We have our personal satisfaction meters

Why do some people here have a hard time understanding the information conveyed?

Bro maybe you help explain the bolded section of your post in a very simple grammar

NOBODY SAYS HE WANTS TO BE POOR FOR CHRIST'S SAKE!!!

You know I have been laughing my head off over some of the comments I read

Where did anyone say he likes poverty

I believe it's maybe ability to critically evaluate and analyze things
From some of those folks

Seriously

sajmark:
Not doubting the fact that a Man needs to maintain frame 24/7 in that kind of marriage.
But I don't think the marriage will be as tough for Mr Eazi as people think, Because being high value works differently for men and women in the sexual market.
Mr Eazi has a lot of options because of his status while she has way less options because of her status (Reason why DJ Cuppy is still single)... So she might actually be the one investing more in that relationship at the end of the day.

Ok

Someoneschild2:
Mr. Dollywood,
A man feels powerful when he has what other men wish they have. You must have seen kids when they get to the field to play football, the one who owns the football doesn't beg to be selected because he is sure to play. In fact, other kids try not to offend him so that he doesn't leave with his football. You see it when a young boy becomes the first to become rich among his peers or when he buys a gadget before the rest, he is treated with respect. Man feels powerful and fulfilled when that ego grows fatter.

Commiting to a virgin is getting that pussy that no other guy has had. It makes it valuable. To his ego, it is the same as gold. If everyone has access to it, it is common and that can't make man's ego get any fatter. It is his nature. It is the effect of the testosterone... Conquests, being the first to have it, power!

Biologically, it means she can easily bond to him (which means she can easily submit to his authority). It means there are less chances of being a victim of paternity fraud. It means a clean and by extension, a healthy vessel to carry his seeds.

A woman's virginity is the same as a man's commitment, it is leverage. "I'll carry your descendants in my untouched womb if I'm assured of your protection and provision"

This is why we emphasize on virginity.
Thank you.

Virgins are bore
If you have been in the game and see all there is

There is a place for experience


Most guys that married virgins

Still keep side chicks that are highly experienced

shantti:
Bro, I think we diplomatic Igbo youths should establish a movement or force that will see to the overthrowing of the ipob rascals who r nothing but illetrates that don't even understand the Dynamics behind running a country should Biafra be given to us. We should overthrow them bro, enough is enough

There is one underway coming up in a Anambra State. Boys oyee. The plan is already underway

They will be so mercilessly and ruthlessly dealt with

No where to hide for them

They will be traced even to there father's compound

okorogodwin4:
My candid advice to solido is to concentrate on democracy dividend instead of fighting to end sit at home or else he will waste his 4yrs fighting a battle he will never won

I heard that Anambra State is planning boys oyee for all these esn hoodlums.

This people think they can play with determined Anambra people.


Ask about boys oyee that happened in the late 70s and the bakasi boys saga

I heard from reliable source that serious plans are on the way.
The kind heat that will be given to these esn hoodlums they will not stand it.

They have been neglected for a long time.
The average Igbo man no dey fear anyone. No be same igbos that fought civil war.

These hoodlums will be thought in a language they will understand

tuoyoojo:
Thank God for his mercies

Thank God ,God nor be man

Because if man was God!!!

The people for earth nor for pass 3

As in eh

I won't lie, some of the greatest blessings I have gotten was when I wasn't that committed to God

But when I dey committed that's when things look rough
Praying, fasting etc



This made me realize God's grace. His grace comes to us when we are unworthy

But when we feel we are worthy, that our efforts as humans makes us worthy,that's when we struggle in life.

Ever since I simply rely on God's grace. I can never be worthy of any blessings He gives me. Only by His Mercy and Grace. Not by anything I do

TheTraveler:
djon78 talking as if poverty makes one immortal.

For every rich man that dies, millions of poor people have died from inability to afford proper healthcare. Comparing an elite like Funtua to poor Nigerians is laughable, for all I know, he could have picked up the next available jet out of the country for proper treatment.

Seniorman, I beg you, even if you're allergic to money, please still make it for the sake of your children. Please!!!

Let me bust your bubble

You see Aliko dangote, the day he leaves this Earth and goes to the great beyond


Pin, shishi, he is not going to the other side of life with

That's how vain this life is


For me the reason for wealth is strictly to fight poverty.
Give to the less privilege
Put smile on the face of the poor
That poor boy that can't pay his school fees, give him scholarship to better his life
This to me is strictly the reason for wealth

Why do you think global billionaire like Warren buffet has willed away every of his wealth to charity. Why?

He is living in the same house he has been living for the past 40 years but he is worth close to $100 billion

Like I said
People that break there head over money are those that have not handled money before


Google men like John D Rockefeller
He was the richest man of his generation
But Rockefeller foundation till today is still touching lives of humans
Almost 100 years the man was dead and gone

Look up men like Aristotle onasis, there foundation are still dooling out millions of dollars yearly for scholarship, for medical help etc decades after he has gone

This to me is the true meaning of wealth and riches

I

ubunja:
what does a poor man have that a rich man doesn't have? Cause a rich man is definitely not worrying about rent or where his next meal will come from. I can tell you a rich man is not even worried about inflation and the rise of petrol right now. These are all things that a poor man is losing sleep over day after day. Where is the advantage? Cause a rich man can afford costly medical treatments that a poor man can't. And eat healthier and live in a safer and cleaner environment. Where is poverty's advantage?

You tell me, what do you think a poor man has, that a rich man doesn't have?

We all have our problems in this world, rich or poor. Our problems may not be the same. But we all have our stresses. A poor man's problems are not better than a rich man's problems. Cause all problems are suited to its owner. Stop glamorizing the curse that is poverty. Africa is a land of suffering and misery and we don't need this mentality here. We're trying to build a better future for our children and make the remainder of our parents' lives better. Don't speak so well and so eloquently for poverty. It's a disease and a curse. It's an abomination. A tragedy.

Spread hope not darkness.

Africa is a Land of suffering because the Blackman has not maximized the opportunities God and nature bestowed to her

In the 1960s, Nigerian citizens and citizens of many African nation's where extremely richer than countries like South Korea, Singapore, China, even Dubai etc
Today can you compare these nation's with any African nation?
So leave the issue of Blackman
When one fails to develop himself, he becomes a pariah


Whether we like it or not, there will be rich and there will be poor people

Infact the poor are so much in abundance on the Earth.

2 percent of the world population are controlling 95% of the resources of the Earth.
While the remaining 5% of resources are being hustled by the remaining 98% of humans on the Earth.

And I am not holding anybody from becoming rich.

But the rich and the poor will always be on the Earth. Simple

ubunja:
so because of all that, it's better to be poor?

Dude are you sure you go school at all?

Where did I tell you it's better to be poor

I am just try to let you know that even with all the riches, there is somewhere a poor man will have it over the rich man

That's how God balances life

Someone can be very rich but there are classes of food his doctor will advise him never to touch, but you see a poor man whom his body doesn't reject any food

Please I just don't want us to drag this issue

Abeg

ubunja:
this doesn't even make sense....

"There are things that money can't give you" so based on that fact, it's better to be poor?? C'mon!!

I don't mind that in life there are things that money can't buy,, but I want to be able to buy those things that money can buy - the latest gadgets, cars, fashions etc.

Because it doesn't make sense to you

The breadth in your nostril is worth billions of dollars

Yes

Life, breadth is the greatest gift

You must have life to enjoy those things you mentioned

But if you don't have life

If you like have $100billion in your account, that labourer with just 5cent is better than you.

You mindset is just about the mundane things


See I am not bragging about life

But the good life I have experienced in this life, both in Nigeria and outside I ain't sure you have seen half of it.

But I can categorically tell you that money isn't everything

Simple

People that will be making life all about money most times are people wey never see money

When you see money

You go know say it's all about bullsh.it

Winnerly:
It’s crazy. You see that child she doesn’t have, it can make all the wealth loose taste in her mouth.

Some rich are unable to have genuine relationships with real connection. They have become a cash cow to the people in their lives. On the surface it sounds like a little problem untill you have it lol. Everyone wants to feel genuine love and connection and to be robbed of this can leave a hollow feeling regardless of accomplishments.

Again, the rich are good at putting a show like all the material stuff mean something but deep down they know. They may only discuss among themselves. Same way married people only complain to each other lol

Like you said, God cannot be mocked. At the end, the things that really mean something are freely given.

No man made concept or construct can ever make anyone happy.

There are two points a man can be depressed, when you have nothing and when you have it all. The latter is worse

Like you said, the things that mean something are freely given.

I am never against making money, but I have seen things in this my existence in life.

There are things money can't give you. That's where the Almighty pass all of us.

You see life
Money can't give it.

I remember one of president Buhari's associates, the guy was doing forex deals with Central Bank governor, just one deal covers $300 million.
He and his sons we're swimming in money. The CBN governor was his boy.

Two years ago the guy was feeling one kind and just drove himself to hospital, under few hours, he was dead.
Like a Muslim he was buried in one obscure graveyard in fct.
This was under 24 hours, people couldn't believe it.

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1417758/governor-soludo-visits-chief-willie-obiano-ebele-obiano-photos/

Akpokuedike global!!!

I really like Willie's swag

luminouz:
Never allow that BS. Let them know upfront. The game is always simple. Here is how it is played.

Most girls doing that are super insecure freaks. So they will shower you with lots of love and affection and of course sex, till you lose your frame. They will constantly monitor your movements and activities and to you, that will be like love but in reality, she is mapping your lifestyle to know your weaknesses. She will then subtly try to make you feel guilty for not spending more time with her. To please her, your mumu self will start cutting yourself off from life and friends and family. Once that has been achieved and you are completely isolated, then her bitch screws and claws would become bared to scrap the life outta your ass. She would devour you and you would have no one to even help you, because you had chased them all away.

Many men have fallen to this trap. The ones from religious backgrounds are the worst. They isolate their husbands using biblical quotes till he is completely alone, then such men die slowly from loneliness and neglect. The second most affected are the simps who married women who don't love them. The third, are men who married but lost their frame, thinking once they are married, shit-testing will stop. That shiit never stops mudafucker. So be on ya prime game.

Most girls I have seen that have attention seeking disorder(ASD) or some sick ass possessiveness, I run away from them. They have a blackhole in their souls for attention that can never be filled by any man. No matter how hard you try, they won't be satisfied till you are completely isolated from friends and family and still get devoured.

Aptly put

Very many men are on this table

It's always a very big battle

Which every man must be up and doing. Shine his eyes very well

Winnerly:
You’re very right. The poor will never understand this untill they become rich and discover that deep down, you still remain same dude.

The cars etc don’t really mean much to the owners, it is others who see them that are thrilled

That's what many poor people don't understand

They think money makes the difference

No way

The Almighty Creator made it that way
You can be very rich and still lack a lot

I have seen an extremely wealthy woman married for over 12 years
Couldn't have a child
Tried all manner of IVF
Spent millions year after year
In the end had to go for surrogate pregnancy

But you see very poor people
Litter children everywhere
Some get pregnant every year

Life is indeed mysterious
Walahi

ubunja:
I would rather be a billionaire with problems than broke without problems (if that's even possible)

To each his own.

The ruler of Dubai sheikh al maktoum in his book said that God cancels out rich vs poor in a mysterious ways on the Earth.

The problems you are talking about can be very overwhelming

Last year Africa's richest man from my country's brother died. He was flown back on life support to die before his family.

With all the money they had, they couldn't give him life.
The problems can be overwhelming

And I am not supporting poverty. Money is very good.
But still money isn't everything

DieRich5:
Why na rich people Dy always talk Money won't bring happiness but brokenness can kill ur spirit

Or abi Simi Dy give am hard time

But that's the truth

Money doesn't give happiness
Because humans easily gets bored easily

That's why the rich gets involved in many sh.itty things to know whether they will be happy, but not so.

Billionaires with billions in account have committed suicide, some even blew there brains out.