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CoronaVirusPro:
Okay……

Your statement has been noted.

We will revisit after PDP primaries.

Since you said their are already moneybags that can match Wike who has Rivers State treasury at his disposal, and Atiku, who is desperate morafvcking money bag.

It’s baseless arguing at the moment. I will wait for PDP primaries and quite you afterwards.

Obi getting a PDP ticket is pure fiction.

The money bags am talking about Wike and Rivers State money is a kid money to them.

How did Baba Buhari clinch APC ticket in 2015

He had no money
He was no match for Atiku

Amechi and fashola matched Atiku dollars for Dollars in the primaries

Nigerian politics is all about money you carry

Atiku got 2019 ticket because he was the guy with the highest money

Mind you these money bags I am talking about cuts across geopolitical zones in Nigeria

Nigerians are tired

They want this Nation to be fixed

Peter Obi has the credibility to do it

Mstick:
We all woke up to the news that Yul Edochie married a second wife and I've seen numerous takes especially from Nigerian men about how it's within his rights to do so. Of course polygamy is not and has never been a crime in Africa but is that really what polygamy is? Does the first wife at least get a heads up in such a situation?

May Edochie said she found out on Monday that her husband got married on Sunday, that is pure and sheer wickedness. A woman spends 17 years of her life with you, gives you four children and I am sure she has contributed financially, morally and in other ways to build the home and Yul Edochie didn't even have the decency to tell this same woman about his plans.

Men always talk about how the women of this days aren't loyal like their mothers LOL! Things like this and more that women see everyday and you still expect loyalty?!

My advice to every married woman, engaged woman and women in general. You see that man you're doing struggle love with, have a backup plan my dear, I repeat don't TRUST THE LOYALTY OF A BROKE MAN. Get a job, save money, don't have children that you cannot comfortably take care of alone, surround yourself with your family, don't fight your family EVER because when shît hits the fan they're the ones that will protect and fight for you.

African women, Black women, Nigerian women please and please stop aiding struggle love, go out there and work for your own money, it's better you struggle alone, than carrying a baby on your back while wondering what you would cook when you get home.

Work for your own money, stop shrinking yourselves, if a man says he wouldn't marry you because you've a car or a house it's not a lose but a gain.

So why do they go for men if they think they have it all


Nobody can be each other's God

Both men and women need each other

But when women feel they can go it all alone

The road is extremely rough

Yul to me just made a mistake and later got caught up in his mistake




In addition

Men are still more successful when you compare the percentage

The gap is still much

Verysmart101:
I am currently in a fix my people.

I have a girl who is in the university currently. She's 21 already. I Live in Abuja while she lives in Owerri.

Late last year I disvirgined her but I never knew my nightmare would start from there. Ever since I did that act, she totally changed and I made some observations and discovered she cheated on me with her male friend. I confronted her with facts and she apologized promising it would repeat itself again. Out of love I agreed and we continued again.

To my greatest shock her behaviour never changed. I still inquired and I discovered she is sleeping with a guy in her lodge regularly. She denied several times until I got serious evidence and this time she admitted and was blaming me for deflowering her. She said she can't withstand the temptation of guys in her school. This is the girl I intend to marry.

Now she says she wanna quit and I don't deserve her because of her promcious ways. She has been nice to me all along until she changed recently. I need solid advice my people. I don't wanna act out of anger.

Pls should I kick her out or reconsider? I do help her financially for 2yrs of dating. I Am 28 and ready to settle down.

Help my people.

You deflowered her
You exposed her to the world of sin
So wetin you want do

CoronaVirusPro:
Someone should tell Peter Obi the truth.


It will be easier for Peter Okoye (Psquare) to become the President of Nigeria than Peter Obi.

Hommie should stop chasing shadows!

You cannot even get a PDP presidential ticket and you talking about President of Nigeria.

You guys will be shocked after PDP primaries

From recent information I got

Very big Nigerian moneybags are backing Peter Obi

They are ready to match any presidential aspirant dollars for Dollars

Then the main election
Over 20 million Nigerian youths alone are registering and voting for Peter Obi

Many of you will get the shock of your life

Nigeria must work in our time

No more status quo

And Peter Obi is the man

alsudan:
The Lee Kuan Yew of Nigeria.

Only you can take our Great Country to the same heights if not bigger as Lee did for Singapore.

Nigeria will get it right, Nigerians are tired of playing ethnic religious politics with nothing to show.

Nigerians will vote for Peter Obi in 2023 as President of the FRN.

Very True

Peter Obi is the Lee Kuan yeew of Nigeria!!!!!

Bobloco:
https://guardian.ng/politics/im-desperate-to-make-nigeria-work-obi-tells-diri/

Hurricane Peter Obi is just gathering steam

People will be shocked when Peter Obi clinches PDP ticket

Then the real politicking will begin

From information I got. Very big money bags are putting there money on Peter Obi.

From the fellers,I gathered that they are ready to match any presidential aspirant dollar for dollar in PDP primaries

They are tired of things not working and see Peter Obi as different from the status quo

These money bags cuts across different geopolitical zone

This election season go sweet

Mooh247:




He is a very callous dishonest man

Marrying a second wife is a decision that can potentially affect your wife and children

The honourable thing to do is to discuss it with your wife and kids first, assuring them you still care about them.

To those comparing this to Ned Nwoko, Ned was not a coward, he followed the principles of Islam by introducing Regina Daniels to his wives and children before marriage

Now his grown daughters would be psychologically damage thinking all men are like their father, they would become bitter feminist blaming other men for their fathers stupidity

His Male children would always see cheating and infidelity as a cool thing and dishonesty as a manly smartness

As for his wife, till she dies she would never truly trust anyone, and inferiority complex would always make her feel she isn't good enough since she couldn't satisfy or make her husband happy, and he has to choose a fat divorced mother of two over her


Some people now boldly support betrayer, opportunist behaviour, back stabbing as long as it suite their gender bias, religious sentiment, political affiliation or tribalistic agenda



.

You can see from this picture yul married very early

His children are all grown

He is in his early forties and married for 17yrs

The tendency of being bored is there

Getting another woman as wife is likely

This is the disadvantage of early marriage for a man

JovialJune:
Lol the witch mother? A man decided to ruin his peaceful home with the kids seeing everything, yet you blame the mother? You think May's kids are not seeing everything going on? You think they are not hurt or affected too? You men are so selfish and stupid that you don't realise your actions or inactions can ruin and affect other people's lives abi?

Actually there are people in polygamous homes that idolise there father's

It's those that don't understand what fatherhood means that will look down on a father

Father's are the source of life

Without them, there will be no human
Because it's the man that carries the seed


It's only a fool that will turn his back on his father

I didnt have a very good and smooth relationship with my father while growing up

But today as a man

I idolise my father

Thank God he is alive and strong at 77 he looks 60.

Today I don't play with my father at all

It's only fools that will play with the relationship they have with there father's

And most times
Bitter Women are the cause of it

Idiko1:
Africans are wired with inherent inferiority complex. I had hoped this jackass did the walking marathon in Ife, Osun State while pouring praises on Sango.

Pouring praises on Sango really got me laughing out loud

Frankiss44:
Na me fuuk up.. Who never fuuk up hands in the air, no hands.

Ok

nathyx:
Which is better to Igbos ? For a south south person to become president or another northern or youruba choose wisely

If wike get PDP ticket, igbos won't vote him, North won't vote him, South West won't vote him even many South South won't vote him

It will be a walkover for anyone APC picks

The only South South person igbos will vote is Jonathan
But he is not coming out

Frankiss44:
You never talk one sensible thing since the beginning of this thread, just insults.. If you are a graduate, I wonder the university that produced you... And I sincerely hope you ain't a doctor in real life

una get too much time and energy to be quoting that guy

CaveAdullam:
DAY 115, REDPILL 2022

Guys, don't wait to hit it big; use the little you have to beautify yourself a little. And gradually, you'll become as beautiful as desired.

You are not there yet, but at least you are moving.

Authority: Take good care of yourself.

Word!!

Tonnyray:
Truth bro.
Pristine truth.
Men, like GOD that we are patterned after are creators. Women conform to whatever it is we create. Whether or not women assume traditional female roles as birthers, nurturers home-makers and keepers will always be a function of the quality and caliber of males in that clime.
The cliché "stay Taliban" that rules the airwaves here simply highlights the ideals of a society where unadulterated patriarchy has unrestrained expression. The question is, do you think Afghan women are really any different from say American women? I laugh in Swahili. They are so NOT different. They have merely conformed to raw power of masculine might that is ruthless in its expression. The exact opposite of which we see manifesting in Western "so-called civilized" societies. In the former we have strong men, in the latter we have pussified men. The difference becomes as clear as crystal. No one is excusing adult bad behavior. We men are the creators, history alone gives credence to that. Women only use what we create. The social ambience to be traditional women with impeccable values expected of wives, mothers and daughters will be created by a preponderance of strong virile men of strength and character, much the same way as the pandemic of pussified, emasculated, irresponsible, purposeless males ruled only by social media-fuelled lusts and avarice has given rise to the scourge of cancerous females we are saddled with in modern day society.

So na men cause the type of women we have today?

I don't think so

Women are just what they are becoming today

When even the richest men on Earth today, failed in women palava, who then will escape?


World richest man Elon musk divorced
2nd richest man bezos divorced
Bill Gates divorced

Africa's richest man Dangote divorced

Are you seeing the pattern

Mumusaphire:
Real money without ritual. All ritualist will perish.

Na wetin Africans dey use deceive themselves

Teerach:
I remembered on one interview .... It was the law of attraction motivation talks , and the interviewer asked him "you tried so and so over and over again, why didn't you quit". Elon Musk reply was "I never give up".
Congrats to a fighter. Truly na who give up Bleep up.

Truly na who give up bleep up indeed

The man is a case study

A man that grew up in South Africa

Now the richest man in the world

We no even get a Nigerian immigrant in the US worth even a billion dollars

rickpat:
no..i am not...just from studying and experience...thanks

Wow that's awesome

You are really knowledgeable

Keep it up �

rickpat:
I'm sure you don't understand my point....the law gives sole custody to either a man or a woman that it sees fit...if not the law grants them co-parenting.. these laws are there...you may feel it doesn't exist in Nigeria..till the day you are caught in that web....so it's only MARRIAGE that brings kids right?.. you're funny though...child custody is either co-parenting or sole custody...sole custody comes into play if one of the parent is not capable financially or mentally or not interested in taking care if the kids...so sole custody can be given to a man or a woman... sometimes a visiting plan is set up...so mr. "this is Nigeria"...know the law and stop this mentality of Nigeria is lawless...we may have problem of implementation but the laws are there ..have a great day

I like your reply

You are well knowledgeable concerning laws of the Land

Are you a lawyer?

CrownOfClay724:
You'll be shocked how wrong your assumption is.


Wrong? No.
Selfish? Maybe.

He'll only encounter hiccups if a Southerner gets the ticket of the PDP.

If it boils down to him against Atiku or Saraki I'd go with him, and I believe millions of southerners share this sentiment.

Power going to the north should not be an issue now when South-Westerners willingly gave it away to them in 2015.

Let North Rule forever if that is what it means.

Exactly let North rule forever

Visasolution048:
As I said, were you also there to know all these ?? The reason why the OP wants her back is because he isn't a real Man...Na pussy he be... Most likely a woman wrapper...If not woman nor go dey your house dey knack elsewhere. You know..and you kept mute.....No reasonable man acts that way...

No reasonable man acts like that

It's not possible

alizma:
Have you ever hear about the chosen ones, I don't mean chosen Church?
Read Deuteronomy 7:6, Psalm 4:3, 1Corinthians 1:26 and finally go and read 1corithians 6l18

God blesses everyone

Infact every human on Earth belongs to God

Let's stop misinformation to people

No human is good or holy

The righteousness of man is filthy rag before God

God only gave us benevolence through His Mercy and Grace

No human deserves God's mercy and Grace

BBBricks:
Your wealth is affected by your spouse

If you have not married and you are poor they will usually advice young guys to get married because what God usually does is that He will transfer the wife and children's wealth to the husband s head if he is the one providing for the house

However if the man usually sleeps around, that means he is sharing his wealth for women all around. That is why men who are very prolific in adultery and fornication are usually poor or end up poor at the end of the day.


Even women too who love sex also end up poor at the end of the day because even if she inherits from a rich husband and kills him, she will be using the wealth to lure poor guys who are good on bed to come and fxck her and at the end she will end up poor


Best thing is to stay faithful to one partner


Oyinbo tell you say make you put fuel inside the fuel tank, you poured urine insideand say your car is not working.

God wey create you say make you no do something you say you go do am. If anything happens, don't shout o!


#itiswell!

Come I will show you a man I know that sleeps around a lot.
He has been rich since his youth as in extremely wealthy

A multi billionaire

Any still like that till today

Many of the rich men you see around a chronic womanizers
Some sleep with different women
But are still wealthy

AdeniyiA:
I know, as well as many others here, that you're highly opinionated. But I'd strongly advice you to be open to advices and others views, you might be at risk of making serious life mistakes if you believe that you are always right.

I am not judging anybody in particular but do you know what those who do God's will are His children and those who do not his will are living at the mercy of the cursed one? You briefly showed me your mind seeing you mention those names up there, politicians, celebrities etc, and that they beat the odds. Are you aware that being famous, rich and powerful do not necessarily mean you enjoy the grace, mercy nd favour of God.? The father of sins too blesses his people, such that the more you commit sin the more the blessing even increase... Don't get it twisted

Stop saying all this

God blesses everyone

Even Christ said that God make the rain upon the just and the unjust

God blesses all

Richpet85:
I don't subscribe or support men beating their wives not talk of the extent of the damage on the woman's face. But truthfully speaking I don't know where humanity got it wrong. If you ain't married you wouldn't understand, your judgement will lack practical experience. Most women these days are practically unavoidable to beat. Behaviour level 0%, Respect to their spouse 0%, Nature of dangerous nagging 150%, Often time men suffer serious silent emotional truma most especially men of God so called Pastor. My narrative is not been supportive of a wife beater. But it is high time men start speaking up. Near 100% silence and anger suppression can lead to dangerous beating of a wife. I rest my case.

I think pastors and church going men suffer the worst kind of emotional abuse from women.

Then sometimes the men can't handle it again resulting in beating

Women can be very despicable sometimes

Very many of them are untrained and mannerless

CalmElder:
Real hell.
Many married people who are in the grave today, died from emotional trauma, not physical abuse.

Exactly

Anyone going through hell should just find there way before it's too late

Osinachi the gospel artist is today dead and gone, but her abuser husband is still alive

Emergingnation3:
I thought unity beggars claimed that Sit at home order in south East is'nt affecting anything..

Political/social instability = economic instability

The Western nation's understand this

What affects any region in Nigeria, affects other constituents parts

thoollz:
Peter Drury " Glory days are old ,best players are old ,trophies are old ,the fans are old and the coach is very old .
Ladies and Gentlemen those are the boys from OLD TRAFFORD

But honestly how this great Man utd went down since Sir Alex exit is heartbreaking

I pray they bounce back

prizeless:
You can't mention failure and Chelsea in the same sentence. It's another level. Come chill with the big boys. You see Benzema win, e still dey hustle for James shirt, no be levels be that?

I love this

My happiness is that Chelsea is improving so much as season ends


Timo Werner is picking form at the right time

Just unleash him against Liverpool

IbrahimSkiba:
If you no put, another person will

Make another put

The person might have helped him to dodge a bullet

CalmElder:
This is having a negative effect on singles, male and female.
Thank God, the number of Nigerians on nairaland aren't many, or there will be fewer marriages.

But honestly with what I have seen in marriage. Having a negative effect na small

Marriage no be beans

But if one is fortunate to have a good natured/kind spouse. They will enjoy marriage

But when you end up with a spouse that is vindictive and very quarrelsome, come add low or no sex at all

Na hell on Earth