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DoctorOlasDesk:
I can't reply ho mentions me starting with an insult

If you don't wanna see my comments, turn the other way

Good day

You are littering the place with very low quality and half baked reply lacking even basic wisdom.


Your reply is an eye sore

There is this saying that empty vessels make the most sound

I just felt like calling you out cause you have been polluting the entire space with noise

DoctorOlasDesk:
Four years. You make am sound like forever. She stayed ten years. That one no be loyalty abi?

Una dey always reason like pikin

Why are you just littering the whole place with all these your post.

That you can't stay with a spouse going through the bad challenges of health, doesn't mean others will do like you.

Face your own beliefs and let others face there own.

The real true test of love is staying by ones partner irrespective of what they are going through.

The problems with many human beings is that they don't truly understand what life is truly about.

The greatest gift you can leave someone on this Earth is wonderful memories.
Memories that while through your partners challenges you stood by them, be it financial or health wise.

That's the greatest gift God Almighty the giver of life values. And it sure gets rewarded both in this life or afterlife


It's only fickle and very vain human beings that will walk away during times of difficulty.
They are the lowest form of humans, very base because they just think that life is just about enjoyment.
True essence and meaning of life is very very far from enjoyment. Life is hard and enduring hard times of life is one of the greatest qualities of true humans.

Many of the greatest celebrated humans went through some of hardest life.

Nelson Mandela was incarcerated for many years of his life but he came through never hating his incarcerators

BloomingDale:
Probably because money mitigates the bullshit of the husband. When there is no money, the bullshit from the man becomes unbearable.

Story story story

Redpillers get Sense very very well.

Na them understand woman well

Hanks0000:
I saw a post about how I can earn ₦50,000 VIP grant weekely on fairmoney app and I decided to apply because I'm going through financial difficulties.

I clicked on the link on the post and I was redirected to

https://molinahealthcare.life

It looks identical to Linda ikeji's blog which made me believe it could be real, after following all the steps that was listed on the article, I was also redirected to this website.

https://fairmoney.ng-pay.vip/Grant.html

I was directed to log in my fairmoney account and to enter the OTP code that was sent to me through SMS by fairmoney, I entered the code on the site.

The next message I received was that ₦150,000 was transferred to Esther Blessing Odion (access bank) from my fairmoney account, a transaction I did not initiate.
I called Fairmoney to make a complaint about this transaction which I didn't perform and the transaction indeed happened.

That was when I realised I'd been scammed and I don't know what to do . I might commit suicide because I don't have any mean of repaying. I am a student and I was considering taking a top-up so that I can pay my lodge rent which is already due.

I'm to pay
64,240 this month alone.
I don't know what to do.

PastorMisback
WoundedLamb

People are just funny

How will you put your personal password on an online platform

You fell for scammers

Financial institution always warns not to give your password to any online Link

Nawao

My account where my big money is, isn't linked to any online stuff. I don't have ant ATM for that account. Strictly for transfer only

And it's been intact for years no story

The accounts I used for normal transactions have ATM, but my big money account. Not at all

Ikem11:
Well if you didn't quote me we won't be having this conversation. Enjoy your marriage Oga

Why won't I quote a very utopian, pipe dream scenario.

Very many marriages I have encountered have gone through hell and high waters and still came out stronger

That's those that have encouraging stories to tell others

Of course I am so much enjoying mine

Ikem11:
Okay that's the thing... Try read my comment over and over maybe you will understand my point. I said my concern is not about you or those who isn't happy in their marriage... My comment is about those who are.

You being married and not happy is your personal doing I can't take advice counselling in my marriage.

You just don't get it do you.

You don't have anything to offer
Simple

Ikem11:
My brother my concern is not about those that are unhappy. Am talking about those who are happy with their marriage.

Marriage is a personal experience so don't generalise. Am a happy married man with kids and I been to poor and rich stage in my marriage and not at any point did it change the love we have as a family.

Like I pointed to another guy above, your inability to find a wife is your personal problems

Oh so you think I am not married.

You are really funny

If your concern is not about those that are not happy.
Then you have no advice to give at all

I have counseled many unhappy in marriage, and have given them succor

If you can't offer helpful advice to those going through stuffs then you have absolutely nothing to give

Ikem11:
Did you read what I wrote at all?

How many people are married to there rightful person

Just very few

There are more people married that are miserable than otherwise

Even the scenario you painted, I have seen men that had those your scenario but when things turned South, money no dey, they saw the other side of there so called sweet wife

I even know of one that later died miserably

This life no balance at all. Smile today can turn to bitterness tomorrow. Life no dey straight forward

Na to just ask God for strength to bear when things turn South, because challenges definitely do come

Even my parents that have been together for over 4 decades and are example to others had there own terrible challenges. That lasted for a while

Challenges do come to everyone. Whoever

Karnice600:
Most young folks here can never know the benefits that marriage has over premarital relationships until they hit late fifties. Companionship can’t be faked. It grows. Baby mamas and papas will never get this straight. God wasn’t a fool when he created that institution for a pair. Growing old together is priceless. God bless Olu Jacobs and Joke Sylva.

We talk like it always ends cool.
Many married people are in misery
Let's not come online and not talk reality

Very many married people are miserable, worse than singles

People should concentrate on being fulfilled on there own.
The mistake many people make is thinking that there happiness is tied to someone else

That's how when they now get married and don't see that happiness, there world turns upside down

Everyone should find there own happiness. Find things that fulfill you. Waiting on another is a recipe for disaster

Ikem11:
You will never understand it till you in it. Marriage is the most beautiful thing when you married the right person.

The joy of rushing home from work to your beautiful wife and kids is something else.

I cant say same to a single man can rush home from work just to enjoy his girlfriend

But there are married people that are very very miserable in it

Ogunleti01:
And let me shock you humanbeing we are very dynamic. The only constant thing in life in change. Marriage is a two edged sword. it is either you marry the so called Miss right and end up biting your fingers or the so called worst and end up having a peaceful home. In Marriage there are things you dont determine 100%

There is no way someone worse can give you a peaceful home. Never

You people should not come and be typing things from your head

Many people that had issues in marriage, said they saw the signs while dating, but they overlooked it and ended up getting burnt for life.

If someone is dating a person and sees worse behavior
Abeg the person should run immediately

bobobri:
Never pity any girl, because u see that gender neh'..they can do any crazy at anytime don't marry any woman because of condition or beauty. a word is enough for the wise!!!

It's never advisable to marry any woman out of pity.
Those who did ended up regretting it.

Tycyborg:
Even your comment alone is full of negativities... I said 95% because i have been with majority of them stayed in Owerri, Onisha and even mingle with the Igbos in Port Harcourt for 5 years this year making it 6 years and i stay at Ada George road... Why is it that it is only the igbos that are always having problem with other tribes but not the way round? If your family is the only family the whole community hates the most and you keep saying the community have a problem then you must check your family cos your family is the problem...
Back to what you said... You are even contradicting yourself because of your reasoning... Let me use thi to break it down to you... When you hate how chicken skin tastes that it makes you puke, will you still eat it? how can i hate a tribe and yet want to marry to one of them... not an insult but you are not sounding intelligent at all... Now tell me who is hating who? this even explain more why you guys love conspiracy theory a lot Anyways i am not saying i wont find love else where but i am making a point from a real event which brought up my story and i still dont know why you are advising me on what to do when i have already made my move... Now it seems a fact is more like a gall to you... Thanks for your useless idea cos i didn't ask for an advice and this is not a tribal war but a fact and you can prove me wrong with facts not lies where igbos have been friendly with other tribes right from day one and lets see who are the haters... thanks for the time you take to reply me goodnight.

Like I told you previously, many non Igbo men are married to Igbo women and they are enjoying themselves.


Your using 95% shows your bias to the igbos so the family was right in not accepting you, because you already have bias against her people, but you still want to marry from them.

The family did the right thing.

I don't have anything to say, at least you will go and find love from those you accept.

That's ok

globemoney:
Come and take the money then and stop making noise

Thank God you have admitted to it.

globemoney:
EFCC ended up making him more popular and showcased his achievements to the world.

No wonder you have been going around defending Willie

For you to have this his exclusive photos, you are his real otimkpu
Which means you follow Willie chop our money

You will vomit that money, one way or the other

No wonder you have been going around disturbing and insulting everyone

globemoney:
If its by those walking free, Tinubu is walking free, Atiku is walking free, Theodore Orji etc..And peter Obi will first go to jail before Obiano for stashing Anambra money in foreign banks in his daughters names, builing next mall in Abuja with out money, his aide was caught trying to ship 250 million raw cash abroad as governor. If he's still walking free then EFCC has no case against Obiano

You are a lone Wolf on this one. Peter Obi is as free as a bird, no corruption case against him.

But Willie was arrested the same day he left office.

Very very shameful

He will go to jail definitely

Jonathan39:
It sounds impossible to you cos your Obaino cant achieve that. Why is EFCC following him up while Peter Obi is walking freely

You are guys are talking with a man who calls lie truth.

Common sense couldn't tell him that Obi he has been insulting has been walking free, never harassed by efcc one day.

But obiano he is calling saint, was arrested same day he handed over.


My happiness is that Willie obiano will go to jail
His sons are too much
What he did to Anambra State is pure evil

He will be the first governor from South East to go to jail

Tycyborg:
Wanting or not waning me is not my point to tell you how dark you are inside or maybe you cant read and comprehend My point in which i stated was if you truly love some one you have to respect the persons choice simple... This is why Africans will never grow but they are fast to tag themselves with nation growing like they have such mentality to grow... I just pity your children and if you have non i pity your future children... People like you search for things in the dark and besides it is not even a culture but core tribalism and backwardness and i can really see that in what you type...
I wont reply you anymore cos i stay away from bad influence

From your previous comment I quoted, you claim 95% of Igbos are tribalistic bigots, that they are problem anywhere they are.
You don't really like igbos, but you still want to marry an Igbo woman.

Enyia go find love elsewhere.
Her parents rejecting you is as a result of your sub conscious finding you out.

Go and find love elsewhere.

There are many non igbos married to Igbo women.

pansophist:
Can you paraphrase the question? I don't get it clearly. What do you mean by ''debacle''? break it down.

Debacle I meant was those ones exposed to valueless people most especially in long term relationships

But franchng gave a close reply to it though

I later saw his reply

franchasng:
And this relationship and dating problem will only get worst lol



Everyone should just find a way to live happily, be smart.


Before you approach a girl, know your target or mission and stick to it, and strive to achieve your mission.



As a girl, before you accept a guy, know your goal or target and find ways to maneuver to achieve your targer lol.




As a guy, have it in mind that your girlfriend or fiance or wife could cheat or she is cheating or planning to so when it happens you wont be too shocked lol.


As a lady, know that that your financially loaded boyfriend or fiancee or husband is also being admired by other ladies far better than you and anything can happen...but so long as he still treats you like the number one lady in his life, try and ignore some flaws and be happy with life.



Above all, always protect yourself sexually, use a condom or if you are a loaded guy, always take your girls to a reliable lab for test before you chop and even at that, use a condom, always

This is the conclusion of the whole matter

pansophist:
In the 21st century, lots of women sees marriage as a permanent vacation to Miami, a place where they go and enjoy themselves till thy kingdom comes. To brag to their single friends, and a place where the merriment of life rains abundantly. Infact the wedding is more important than the marriage, its all glamorous and nice. But marriage is actually not like that.

Marriage is a place where all the self-development you've been building as a single person is put to test. It will test your virtues such as patience, contentment, tolerance, sacrificial abilities, courage, maturity, inner strength, teamwork, hardwork, self-leadership, and compassion, to name a few.

If any of the partners lacks the above, then the one that doesn't lack it will suffer, because when one is dead, they don't know they are a burden to the living. When one lack this immaterial virtues, then they will be a burden to those who have it. For example lots of people become poor because they married a materialistic partner who knows how to spend not make money.

Ah panso panso my wise sage guy. What you just wrote is a summary of this whole topic

The one that doesn't lack these virtues is the one that will suffer, truly

But the question is how will those that have been exposed to this debacle, redeem themselves?

Very many are on these Lane

Angelfrost:
Even a lot of the married ones are seriously tired... Many are thinking of how to get the hell out.

The truth remains that you can't give what you don't have... How can you give another true love when you don't truly love and value yourself.

As in eh. The married ones are even tired

It's just one finding peace with themselves, and try to get the most out of life. Because everything and everyone don cast

ebukajay184:
https://igberetvnews.com/1416665/ben-bruce-announced-bianca-ojukwu-winner-miss-intercontinental-1989-throwback-video/

Wow Bianca was a complete head turning stunner in her young days. Embodiment of beauty, and she has still maintained it till today.

Ojukwu started relationship with her in those her younger years. Ikemba really get eyes.


Good to see Ben Bruce has been in this peagant business since the beginning

DoctorOlasDesk:
That is why blaks like yourself continue to wallow in consumerism. Perpetually unproductive. Tueh

How do I wallow in consumerism when my quote you mentioned is against it.

Do you even understand what you quoted

My Supporting local brand against expensive foreign brands is consumerism to you. Ah our educational system is really faulty. Chei

DoctorOlasDesk:
Youths easily get swayed by sentiments and semantics. How does using a home made product make a person exemplary.

If you do your findings on this same Soludo, you'd find out he has stashed enough for ten generations in his dealings with politicians as a technocrat, so doing this is just playing to the gallery which is as usual to fool the naïve and simple.

It is fantastic to promote home made product, but it stops at that and doesn't qualify anyone as exemplary.

Yes using a home product is very examplary. Do you know the cost of those bullet proof vehicles these high government officials use.

It runs into hundreds of millions for one. So the guy using this cheap Nigerian models is way too much examplary.

The high and expensive lifestyles that public officers live in Nigeria is a very big setback to the development of this third world nation

I have seen the Entourage of British prime minister, not more than 3 cars.

But a Nigerian public officer who lives in a third world, under developed, backward nation will use a convoy of over 15 exotic cars

The black man needs such examplary leaders like Soludo,let's know whether a new mindset can be developed here

MadamVanessa:



It's not hard to identify a great leader that mean well for the people and Soludo is one of such great leader. He has kept to one of his promises. This alone has endeared him to me and many others.

The difference is clear between an educated and a stark illiterate, between a ph.d holder and a nepa certificate holder.

A new dawn in Anambra state. I envy and jealous the good people of Anambra. The best is about happening.

People never see anything

Charles Soludo will so much change the fortunes Anambra State that people will be shocked

Combining the achievements of Ngige, Peter Obi and obiano will not match his achievement

There is nothing like a leadership that can so much inspire and be a good role model for citizens.

That's what Nigeria needs
A leadership that inspires her citizens.

I thank God I am an indigenous son of Anambra State

Odigolu Anambra mma!!!!!

AntiTerrorists:
99%=of igbo women want to control their husbands..they want to be in charge even when they are not contributing financially to the home

I be Igbo
But I concur
Honestly our women strong gan
If you no strong
You no go fit handle an Igbo woman
But if you manage to tame and control them
You will get the best From them
They will be all in all to you

wisdomIspeace:
There should be balance!!!
because they dominate internet and everything u find it hard to hear Russia side of the story..
It is now I understand why china wat they did by providing alternative to western media and banning dem in dia country.

You see the Chinese are so much smarter than we envisage them

When I did some trip to Asia my world view completely changed

Oh that Africa should learn from these folks. We have so much to learn.

Facebook, Twitter and many social media are banned in China
They have there own version and there founders are also big billionaires
Look at how tiktok has entered the global social media. It's from China

Wonder why Trump went after Huawei, they have become massive.

See the black man is the worst hit and he needs to get Sense or else colonialism 2.0 will continue. While our intellectuals and ideologists are licking the butt of the West, no creativity, no outside the box thinking. Only buffoonery

torqque7:
Isn't that Stupidity of the highest order?it just means he is only causing more problems for himself and Russia because this will discourage anyone from ever giving Russia financial aid in the future if they manage to survive this suicide mission Putin put them into.

China should take lessons from this singular act of Putin because if they give him money,he will NEVER pay back because he thinks he has nukes so nobody can checkmate him. What a bastard

It's not stupidity
You froze his money
He is not poor or in lack of money
The money he had, which was his you froze and you expect him to sit and watch you play kalou kalou with his money

No he is smart

You think it's only the West that get Sense

wisdomIspeace:
Why is everyone expecting russia to service their debt, when the same people they are oweing money are holding alot more dan wat is been owed.

If america can hold dia money illegally, ofcus Russia can decide not to pay dem too. it is dia own form of sanction on dia corporation and individuals who are the bond holders.

When america/west does it, it is right.. when Russia does it is wrong

Well u see d build up to the debt default by Russia by the west media agency, it is anoda propaganda agenda to negatively portray Russia...

You will soon see news that says Russia has defaulted (fake defaultment)which is a lie because they do have money to pay.

See d mistake Russia made was holding half of dia reserve in western country, they have learnt and all countries watching too have learnt (except Nigeria �)... It is time to diversify from USA dollar as someone suggested up dia.

Final conslusion, we as a country think we are free, with d power wielded by d western country towards a country as powerful as Russia, I really hope we don't disagree on anything because dats is d end of us as a country ecomically. So are we really sovereign if our money with dem can be seized anytime !!

This Russian debacle has awakened many nation's about the danger of depending solely on the West

Brazil, India, even Turkey including Russia and many countries have started plans to copy China's model of reducing dependence on the West.
From finance to internet, to create there own national identity

I believe it's good for the world
There should be balance
Simple

Frankiss44:
Dangote is probably a billion times more indebted than you.. But it doesn't mean u are one tenth as rich as him.. The debt doesn't matter if it can be serviced.. And only Texas has a bigger economy than the whole of Russia

Oga what is saving US is simply the $ used in doing business and there complete control of the global financial systems since the end of 2nd world war

The day money is decentralized is the day there wahala starts

Before the 2nd world war before the forming of Brentwood institution, currencies were supported with gold determining there values but the US and her Anglo Saxon brothers changed the game.

The dollars circulating around the world today are just ordinary papers. What's there underlining security?

Other nation's are getting wiser and very soon, there will be demand for equality, equity and fair play.

Ordinary rapid increase in the price of crude oil, the US economy is facing untold inflation causing the Fed yesterday to increase interest rate.

Some of you think it's only you that have knowledge and grasp of these things.
And many of you are the problem we have in Nigeria, you may be involved with some of Nigerian banks treasury or CBN but many of you have never helped Nigeria's economy.
Na all these una kalou kalou and vodoo economics that has kept Nigeria the way she is economically.

You can imagine quoting dangote, you think you are talking to a novice

MangekyoAlt:
Russia's debt is actually smaller than I expected. Meanwhile USA's external debt is bigger than their entire GDP. 20.94 trillion USD to 30 trillion USD debt
Imagine say na USA receive these sanctions wey russia receive. There would've been no hope for their stupid asses

The US is the most indebted nation on Earth. What is still saving them is the us$ being used for business all over the world

They run the global financial systems, that's there saving grace.
But one-day it may bust