₦airaland Forum

Gotze1:
That is the tribalism they talk about.

Your people are barbaric in nature.

That is why those raised outside the east are well refined and think differently from you people.

Shame on you.

christistruth01:
That is not True

If the Son in Law was Dangote or Otedolas Son they don't mind at all

babtoundey:
It is now a crime for a non-Igbo to marry an Igbo or do business with an Igbo. The likes of you with your mindset on civil issues affirm the truth in Reno statement.

Abi, what kind of drug can induce an adult to think everything is alright when his people think only of keeping to themselves alone in a society of over 250 ethnic groups?

UncommonLogic:
I have even met Igbos who will admit that they do have problems when it comes to hating other tribes and religion simply because of how their were brought up.
They are by far the most tribalistic set of people I have ever met. Not even close.
When they meet you, the first thing that comes to their mind is where are toy from.

emonis88:
Guy u toast Igbo babe weh no gree for u? Ve u given an Igbo man political office n he did just what u r talking here abi u just wan come talk. U can't say what u don't know!

Uguruzik:
TOO MUCH HATRED FOR IGBO, IF ONLY GOD SEES THE IGBO THE YORUBA AND SOME OTHER NIGERIAN TRIBES SEE THEM, IGBO WOULD HAVE GONE INSTINCT, BUT GOD'S LOVE KEEPS NDIGBO AFLOAT, EVEN OVER THEIR HATERS.
WE HAD THREE MEN WHO REPRESENTED THE 3 MAJOR TRIBES OF NIGERIA; ZIK, AWOLOWO AND BELO, AMONGST THESE 3 THE ONLY MAN THAT WASN'T TRIBALISTIC WAS ZIK OF AFRICA; THE IGBO MAN. BUT YOUR STORY TODAY IS DIFFERENT, BECAUSE OF JEALOUSY AND ENVY. SOME PEOPLE DIDN'T BELIEVE THAT IGBO CAN SURVIVE AFTER THE WAR, SO THEY'RE SO DISAPPOINTED. EVEN THE PEOPLE THAT OWNS NIGERIAN POLITICAL AND MILITARY POWERS ARE FAR BEHIND THE IGBO. GOD MAY YOUR NAME BE PRAISED.

CaptainAyub:
Correct man.
I've been waiting to hear anyone accuse you of touching govt money but none has.
And they keep comparing you that was already doing well b4 u became governor to Thiefnuubu who was living in a rented house in his own Lagos state b4 he became governor

abobote:
This man is sound, he took his time to explain everything in details

BLOODYSPERM:
Redpilled brethren, read these very carefully and learn, just one stupid bluepilled feeling you thought was irrelevant after your redpill awareness can destroy your entire life, these a very sad story of these man, source from Twitter, never forsake the amoral truth, any woman you want to let into your life, especially for long term relationship, let her pass through fire before she gets your commitment, even after she has it, she must never in her heart thinks she has you completely, infact if anyone can't scale through don't marry, better to dwell alone with nothing than to be decieved that your relationship is working only to find out she's a complete fraud who fooled you, a so-called NAWALT that slipped through redpilled armour, most men think that a miserable marriage or long term relationship comes from a nagging, combative, quarrelsome, mannerless women which is true in some cases but in some cases a dutifully, feminine, loving wife can stab you in the heart and cause you pain and sorrow that you can never recover from, be very careful with whom you allow into your heart, be sober, be watchful, you can slip anytime and make mistakes in these redpilled journey but don't go to far by allowing any woman to possess your soul and alter the course of your destiny for good, while her and strangers enjoy the wealth from your sweat as you languish in sorrow


A man deeply in love and betrayed is wounded in his innermost soul, the pain is too extreme that at the moment taking ones life might be a reasonable option at that moment, look at Samson in the old testament, look at the FCMB bank incident of that family man that killed himself when he discovered his wife made him raise bastards while she presented the facade of a good wife, look at the incident of the innocent ojukwu girl that slew that billionaire when he taught everything was ok just having fun with a side chic and she gained fame and even sympathy at cost of his precious life

Emmypure:
My dad is Yoruba and my mum is hausa.
But truth be told obi is the best plug for presidency right now, that's why they are finding a way to pull him down.

Toks007:
So with joint ownership he owns nothing in those asset?

BlueRayDick:
Most young people wonder why Nigeria is in this terrible state it is, well this is one of the reasons right here.

I mean we all complain why we don't have good leaders, why our leaders keep taking us for granted with impunity ; but then we forget we are the ones who empower and encourage them to do so.

I understand the author of this article claimed he's trying to fact check the Peter Obi's alleged corruption against the law, but what he doesn't know is that he has given an easy way out for the man to wriggle himself out of this mess he presently found himself and has even encouraged more politicians like Peter Obi to do this same thing and get away with it.

Nobody accused Peter Obi of being a thief years after his tenure expired as a governor probably because he had all his flanks covered and even kept on boasting about his clean and impeccable records up till this moment that the Pandora papers actually revealed he's not as clean as he claimed to be. Now a lawyer boldly coming out to start explaining tax law just to prove that the man might have done one or two things to help himself to make some money against the "Mr integrity" picture he was selling to us all ; it just looks somehow.

Later we will all be complaining why People like Tinubu and Odili got perpetual injunction prohibing the authorities from trying them for allegations bothering on financial misappropriation if their hands are actually clean; we will complain why EFCC didn't go after Tinubu after the bullion van episode; we will complain why Orji Uzor Kalu is a free man today walking up and down Nigeria on political visits despite what he did with Abia state's funds through Slok...... What we fail to understand is that people like this author that are smart and young will always be there to offer their "professional views" and claim to be fact checking when in fact they are emboldening future politicians to even do worse Than the present.

walkingshadow911:
the best thing for him to do is to run for is life but it wont be that easy.

walkingshadow911:
Sometimes i wonder if this stories we read here are true. How do ladies do this things that can make a man fall like this in this 21st century still beats me. With what we see, read, and hear everyday, this kinda things still happens. Has he been living in a hole or what??

Love is a very dangerous disease i must say

walkingshadow911:
He can't afford to lose all what he had invested in that relationship. you wont understand

Fantachapman:
My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.

Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.

Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.

My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.

Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).

When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.

Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God". There was a chat where she was angry that the guy came to her house and didn't eat her food. This guy asks her if she is alone at home before he can come visit. She stopped working (cos they were paying her peanuts so i put her on monthly allowance) so she was always home.

I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy.
I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.

Note: She told me she never slept with him that it's just chat jokes.

omoalaro:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/breaking-navy-neutralises-unspecified-number-of-gunmen-in-anambra/

SLAP44:
OP didn't know that late CBN governor malafia have told us fulanis will start killing of high rank citizens in southern Nigeria. And they will start war by 2022 before he was killed on 11 September 2021.. yet nobody was asking him question...
fulanis are now on operation devide and rule tactics... they know BIAFRA is coming as soon as possible, they will kill innocent igbos and find a way to tag IPOB in it.... that's the tactics they have been using to rule the yorubas and igbos.. they are even now using igbos names to comment rubbish against IPOB..

Notasyouthink:
Do you really think we don't know that you and the people you are working with are the ones doing these killings just for the sake of blackmailing IPOB.

Continue!

sweerychick:
a more reason you should believe that there's a govt undertone in the senseless killings.. See I'm no supporter of IPOB I can't even stand them, some of them have tried to even rope me in joining their madness on social media, even here on nairaland.
Here's my hypothesis, I strongly believe a splinter group is responsible for the killings, their aim is to destroy IPOB and tag them a terrorist group. Rumours has it that Uwazulike faction MASSOB might be behind this wanton killings because he's jealous of Kanu's popularity, and he is known for collecting bribe from the federal government.. So there's a high possibility that his group might have collected bribe from the FG to cause mayham and then blame it on IPOB....

Brimstone77:
hehehehehe online warlord!!...


See they way you're speaking with so much muscle in your jaw..


Test your claim organize your kindred and start the search for ipob in your village...

Or still try coming out in your area were you stay start a campaign to fight ipob don't only come to nairaland to talk trash...


What you don't no is that you can't make igbos hate ipob no matter your propaganda,we igbos no our real enemies...


Ipob is Igbo and Igbo is ipob...


Anyi Mara ndi bu ndi...


Ga noro ala one side Biko..

Brimstone77:
hehehe the anger starts and ends in you imagination,I stay in the east also so you don't tell me what happens here...


People are even complaining that ipob aren't doing enough,some believe that ipob should declare Biafra and damn the consequences...


All this rubbish you are talking is to deceive gullible folks now we igbos...


The Nigerian government have done more harm to the igbos that nobody will think twice to fight them if they attempt any rubbish.

Brimstone77:
my dear making people hate ipob is effort in futility,we have many impersonators on nairaland masquerading as Igbo just to make it look as if we igbos are against ipob or fighting them,they are deploying all sorts of propaganda..

What they fail to understand is that we the igbos knows who our real enemies are and mare media propaganda won't convince us to believe otherwise..

christistruth01:
Biafra will be worse far far far Worse than Idi Amin's Uganda !!!!!!!


So they couldn't spare this man's life for the Sake of Aunty Dora !!!!!!

It was Aunty Dora that Spoke up at the Cabinet meeting before Goodluck Jonathan was reluctantly handed Power after president Yaradua fell ill. !!!!!!!!

If Turatai Yaradua and the Cabal had their way GEJ would never have smelt Power !

And you know how Good you had it under GEJ

Aunty Dora played a very key role in GEJs Emergence as President

For her. Sake this man should have been spared !!!!!!!!!!


Aunty Dora loved her People to bits!!!!!!

After Sometime they will say Nigerians don't like them

Do you even love your own People ?

As Bad as Fulani Bandits are they would gladly have spared this man's life for a Ransome

Waylex21:
Many of us are not just realistic. You hardly find an under 23 year old lady in Nigeria who is gainfully employed and independent. So, if you are marrying a woman who is not going to be a liability to you, you are talking of those 27 years and above.

This write up is just trash and highly insensitive to women in Nigeria and many parts of the world.

I will not be surprised that a juvenile wrote it, or the op lives under a rock.

bikefab:
Didn't know Tom Ford was a fa.ggot.

meolaniyi:
Media is just making themselves look stupid. Vanguard is amongst them. It is not possible to turn the people against ESN and IPOB.

Dead on arrival,

Waylex21:
That is not true. Baptism comes in various forms: immersion, effusion and other methods too. The important thing in baptism is the use of water which symbolizes washing and the use of the words "Baptised in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit".

There's no where the bible only indicated immersion as the only valid celebration of the rite. It will do you good to research further on the various rites of celebration of baptism from the Jewish tradition where John the Baptist adopted it from, the evidence of the New Testament and church tradition.

Rogerss:
Yes, we had 2 beautiful children together (Boys) and I am always happy when I see them at my ex family house.
They asked why i was leaving and I explained my reason to them. I could not correct my ex on anything without her shouting at me.
Small disagreement which she caused o, she would be moody all day that I have to apologies before she would start talking with me.
On 2 occasions she was showing me something on her phone, messages from different guys came in appreciating her visits.
My phone is a open book, she had my passwords, even transfers money from my accounts before telling me she did, no issue was raised.
What broke the camels back was her bad mouthing me to my parents that I was unfaithful which she claimed she had no proof but sensed it.
And other stories to our close friend then that I hit her on several occasion which even her Dad said he doubts as there is no single scratch on her.
My delay in walking away had to do with what people told me about how kids suffer when parents are not together. That you end up getting married again and another woman treats your kids badly. However someone told me that my kids would learn how a marriage should be when they see how I leave with my wife.
I want to raise kids who would understand that despite mistakes make in relationships they could pick themselves up and move on.
That with the fact that my parents are married for 50years no issues and I looking like I had failed in marriage.
It was hell as some friends laughed at my back that I could not hold a home while they complain everyday.

I knew she lied a lot and would saying that I do not give them money for feeding even though she usually shared the outings I take her on on Facebook. She repeated same with my parents as one of the reasons she was always quarreling with me. So I told them that I would instead be paying my children school fees and giving her mom 60k monthly for the 2 boys. I would also get cloths for them whenever they needed new cloths. She should get her own money for her upkeep. Giving her the money would only finance her lifestyle.

I did not sell the house, I only told them I sold it so she would move out of the place. A colleague from work posed as the buyer. He is from another town so she does not know him. I am currently back leaving in my house now.

Marriage is something I would encourage everyone to go into. Would however advise that you open your eyes and take every little sign serious because there are lots of warning we feel that people would outgrow after sometime.
As for me, I currently am focused on raising my kids and would want to get my kids back from her parents when they are in secondary school (Boarding school) as it gets lonely sometimes.
Not considering going into marriage for now or anything serious as I want to focus on building myself to a level I feel I should be. Though her parents are still pleading on her behalf for 3 years now, she also keeps calling requesting that we talk, but the hell I passed through brings me back to earth every time.

BRATISLAVA:
Inform us of your other flaws, so that you don't come in here painting your wife black while you pretend to be a saint, and receive advice from small boys.

If you're looking to do things for people so that they will be indebted or grateful to you, you've missed the point of doing good. With your own wife you're still looking for how to count what you did in the back of your head, so that you can demand gratefulness?

Do what is right and responsible by your family and leave the rest to God. Your issue is debt, not her gratefulness. What made you open a business without proper research?