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PeaceJoyLove:
I am leaveling you in peace to have your party here. From experience, I know less than 20% of those desperate will move out. Higher percentage of those who aren't desperate move out more. And then, 15% out of those desperate and who loved out end up not doing good, and frustrated.

Maybe I can pull out data from two nations and show you all, but I think it doesnt worth the effort.

Some felt I was blasting for nothing some of you, well...I know that you are mostly kids. You didnt even experience IBB era. What a pity? You all here have the opportunity to do jobs remotely, and you should at least be grateful, and encourage yourselves. But here you are just saying rubbish. Yet, you arent out of Nigeria yet. Even some who dont have a laptop too will say the same rubbish. You should be thankful to God and OBJ for at least bringing in mobile and GSM. if its this Buhari....hahahaha.... yet, you all are short sighted. When those who knew Buhari of 1983 to 85 were telling you that the man has nothing to offer, the exact behavior of not listening to godly advice was waht you pushed out. And then, you all want to jakpa. Did you not mostly vote for this man called Buhari?

I am here trying to extract the info and put it in good format so you can get focused, yet many of you still come and quote the rubbish that "jakpa" is the only way out instead of you to focus on doing it....at least get the procedure down...all you are doing is just shouting you must.

Well, the generation of IBB destroyed Nigeria. Anyone from 60 and above is guilty. The worst are 70 above. And those in 80s esp are the real guilty ones. Those people bunch of .....dont know what to call them. Those of them abroad are wasting. How they sleep peacefully at night is beyond me. Selfish people. Cowards. They ran away and left it all in the hands of the likes of IBB, Abacha and Buhari. Some of them as great doctors engineers, scientists, govt advisers etc but they are dying inside with regrets.

So many of their kids are now in 20s to 40s parading Nairaland and just shouting they are Nigerians by blood. I always feel for them. I know the numbers I have encouraged to at least visit. Guess what? What you guys here even scare them more. But it is not as bad as you people portray it. Yes it is bad cos of the level Nigeria should be. Nigeria, Brasil and Malaysia were three nations rated high in the 70s, and the whole world was looking forward to seeing Nigeria to be one of the most powerful nation like the US. Once upon a time our naira is stronger than the dollars. But here we are. Brasil and Malaysia arent doing bad. But Nigeria who should take up the opportunity of becoming a leader of a whole continent is messing up to the extend SOUTH africa who got independence just a few years back is doing way better than us. I know the problems of Nigeria.

You will be miserable like those old f.o.ols now abroad who cannot even attempt to come home but says with their mouth only they are Nigerians. I dont understand how they even have the mouth to tell their kids they are Nigerians. Shame on them. They messed up and even betray their kids. Those kids I just pity them. Still the love of Nigeria is in their hearts. They want to help. They want to know how to assist Nigeria, but reading the craps and how you all put them here is nauseating.

Since you all want to jakpa without planning well or giving back to your society, good for you. You are mostly under 30 and shouting. Life is so ahead of you. OP only mentioned building a tech training center after I bombarded him. Mo matter what you think having a platform of a nation you belong to is something. Go amd research few people who are without any nationality and see their pains. There are people like that. They have o nation to call theirs. But you still have one. And the only thing you c lin say are ad words. Get emotional, but do not curse your nation. The joke is on you. Exactly how those old f.ools behave in those days you are all acting. History repeating itself again amd again.

Goodluck to you all. I am out of here. Do whatever pleases you all.

I don't actually see any regret someone that has American, Canadian, Australian, European passport will have.

They can travel around the world anyway they want.

Many Nigerians i Know with such passports even have properties and home in Ghana
They spend some part of the year in Ghana and the rest around the world

Many of them no send Nigeria again
They rearly come into the country
And this Buhari administration finished everything

The harm this administration did to Nigeria will take a century to turn around

Anybody that has opportunity should better leave
Especially those in there twenties

peacefull:
Some Nigerian men believe money can buy love?
Money can get everything what they want including women and their love?
Some peoples believe like that?
Why some peoples seems like attacking her? Because she said no to men before?

Or am I misunderstanding?

I like purples25!
I like what you write! I should say what you wrote?

To me, of course money is very important for life.
But not everything money, money, money.
Money can't buy everything especially someone's heart

Money can't buy love

Because once that money is not there
The true nature is revealed
Even wealthy guys know this

That's why the rich always likes marrying themselves
Because they know that
A poor person coming for there kids in marriage
Never really loved them
Love is very rare

So in real sense
Money can't buy love
Even greedy girls
That go for money
Most times
Get played by the rich men they go for

Except in rare occasions
But the rich dude
Always watches his back

Money can never buy love
Nevy

ityP:
So, your Lord and Saviour that was single till death is a fool abi? Or the apostle Paul that actively encouraged singleness no get sense abi? Stop quoting Bible anyhow

Jesus and Apostle Paul were exceptional because they had very unique ministry

Everyother person in the Bible married

If you don't want to marry it's ok for you

But don't come and be spreading deception

God created marriage
It was not man that created it

Nauttyprof:
So, when a wise woman builds her home it means she is the custodian of favour. Read your Bible to understand the way God operates and stop coming up with examples that Bible never gave.

I have asked you a simple question - Men don't have grace or favour, right? I will be waiting for your response to this question.

Bible says ........ and obtains favour from God. Now, it is no more God but the woman. Na wa o.....

When you find your own wife, you get the favour from God and not the woman bringing favour and then making the man look like one without favour.

The woman coming into your life unlocks that favour

God that made it did it for a reason

Like I said
I have seen this scenario many times without number

There was this dude unmarried and he was well advancing in age mid Forties
He was from the East living in Lagos
Things where very tough for him for over 12 years
Never went home

His people were begging that he should come and find a wife
After like some years he traveled back and took a wife

Few months he came back to Lagos after marriage he got a major contact that opened mega door of business for him


I have seen this play out times and times again
So enough of this argument

ityP:
No one brings anyone luck. Stop deceiving yourself. When Prov. 14:1 says a wise woman builds her home, it didn't even connote financial building. No woman is tied to my financial success. There are so many single men who are financially successful. You people should stop misquoting the scriptures

It is not good that a man should be alone, I will make him an helpmeet
Thats What God Said in Genesis

Woman was created with a purpose by God

Woman was made for man as. Put by Apostle Paul

There is a value a true woman brings To a Man's life

Nauttyprof:
So, men don't carry favour right?

We twist the word of God to mean something else when in the real sense favour comes from God alone and is not from anybody. Bible says .... and obtains favour from God. Did you see the God part and not the woman?

The essence of that verse is getting a (good) wife and seeing the hands of God move in such Union with favour and not the nonsense we teach today in the name of preaching messages to elevate the women alone.

That is why many Christian home have problems today. Teach the balanced truth that comes from the word of God, No, they bring in all sort to elevate the female gender without also talking about the male gender. Whereas the Bible addressed both the male and female gender.

We just need to correct these wrongs. It has been on for too long.

Back to your example, she didn't bring him luck. God favoured him because he found his wife.

She brought him luck

You can speak all the grammar wey you want

The lady carry Grace simple

You may Talk wetin you want talk or chose what you want to believe

There are women that carry Grace simple

Like I have said
I have seen it Times without number

In addition no one is hyping the female gender
But building a stable prosperous home you must have a willing female
If a man is favoured and marries a bad Luck woman he is still doomed

Proverbs 14 vs 1 says a Wise woman builds her home while a foolish one tears it Down with her hand

A conformed woman is key to building a successful homes

Nauttyprof:
We just twist the word of God just to suit ourselves. The Bible verse does not suggest the wife brings favour. Rather, it means in taking that step of not being single, there is a favour that backs this step and not the wife bringing in favour.

Some women had ruin their husbands, so where was the favour?

There are women that carry favour

I have seen it many times around me

Even all these Yahoo boy's and fetish men understand this

Although many are chaff
Especially those ones that sleeps around

But for you to come across such women you must pay the price, seek face of God

My boss said that before he met his wife he did 40 days fasting
Small time he come see his wife

Educated, virtuous, very beautiful and she bring am better luck .
A man that couldn't afford a house in Lagos but after over ten years of marriage has his own house in Banana island with several properties littered around Lekki and island axis

E get woman wey carry better luck

One way to know them
Dash her small money and see whether your money income increases

Women that carry such Grace dey
But you must have eyes to see them

Militant30:
Whenever the Democrats took over power in the US the terrorists are always emboldened.
Why?

True

It was Obama that emboldened ISIS and there carnage

Trump and Putin put an end to them

The Dems are just too weak

And it's high time nations begin to set up there own intact security
Enough of dependency on another nation for your security

I wonder how our world will be in the coming future

Everyone should just arm themselves

KiNg0G:
No need to go emotional on me sir, Everyman is held accountable for his words online.

That #500 olosho was just an illustration..

Buh your post made simp 101 thread on this day.... because I find it so absurd worshiping a lady because she got a sealed hymen.

https://www.nairaland.com/6628776/simp-101-check..pics..am-ashamed/4#104786243

And did I tell you I was worshipping her in any way

You are even confirming the novice I called you

Mind your business

KiNg0G:
The post you made is no difference from the pics michealdecó droped above.

Go back compare and contrast.

Thanks.

Like I told you
It's beyond your comprehension

You are a start novice on this matter
You are total illiterate on this matter

Go back to your 500# oloshos

KiNg0G:
Exactly my point.


What better way to worship the female species more than this.

it' takes Grace to locate a sealed hymen.




If heaven favor me.. halleluyah

You won't understand

Because you are already beyond perversion

It's beyond your comprehension

Nezzjnr:
Well Said Bro

More shocking to see Girls that have been drilled by different men talking about how they want their marriage to be... How they project their Future husbands to be.

I'm really worried for the innocent guys that will take all these girls to the Altar...

Getting untouched woman na only by the grace of God

If heaven favour you

I am talking from personal experience

I thank God I no dey worry for such
Because heaven really smiled on me in that aspect

But it was just Grace

I sorry for many men nowadays walahi

CatANDratTHEORY:
Wife to the General Overseer and President of Living Faith Church Worldwide, Faith Oyedepo has flayed feminist groups in a fresh social media post.

The woman of God in her post said any woman or women’s organization which attempts to question the position of the man in the family should be regarded as being under the influence of demons.

Oyedepo’s wife said this in a post on her verified Facebook page.

The renowned pastor’s wife said women should be in subjection to their husbands in everything.

Her post read:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4179202585460507&id=448014781912658

I like the way Bishop Oyedepo and his wife are addressing this particular issue.

This has become a very big problem in today's relationships

Women are beginning to forget there roles in the home

It's good they are raising this issue now

Because Head or tail, it's the woman that will loose and bear the brunt when men begins to react against these strange philosophies and many children will be raised in homes that are divided and where the father don't give a danm

Many young men are being exposed to redpill ideology at an alarming rate on which the women will bear the brunt

This feminism has crept into the church, many Pastors homes are not speard

So they are right in adressing this serious issue

EndRape2:
You do not need to insult them, feminist are not against women submitting in marriage , the Bible said husband's love your wife, then he said women submit, but what we have today, men wants to cheat,they do not want to contribute to upkeep, and they want their wife to submit, when a man genuinely love his wife, submission becomes normal









they tell you it is normal, llquote author=Adaorababy post=104735194]Mumu women. There can't be two captains in a ship. If you're not willing to submit then don't marry. It's very simple. From time immemorial, men are always men and women women. No matter how we continue to talk about this equality, we can't do the lots men do. Although, some of us are very brave and illustrious, this doesn't still equate us to be same level with men.There's no need talking about unproductivity of some of his employees. I believe also this unproductivity led to them being counselled out of the job.

Nwamaikpe and Slawomirr, what do you think about this?

You said

When a man genuinely love his woman she will submit is extreme fallacy

Many men that so called loved there wives how did it end?

I have berated redpillers
But they have the best idiologies in dealing with women

A man will love his so called woman and she will give him all the hell out there

Very many women are damaged goods

festacman:
Precious Chikwendu deserves an access to her children as mother. There is no evidence that she is a psychiatric case or that she has documented incapacity to be a loving mother to her children.

FFK should do the right thing before the court gives an order he will regret. That's what happened to Atikus's son.

Prescious can get full custody of those children

I don't know about monthly upkeep of 3.5 million
But if it's to get custody of her children
She can get them


IBBs and Atikus sons lost there custody battle with there wives over there children in the court
With all there father's connections

How much ffk

BabaAduras:
SE is exactly the opposite of your submission. SE continue to show political naivety in their political decisions and alliances.

Apart from short-sightedly voting against Ojukwu in favor of PDP because of the baited VP poisition. A vote for Ojukwu will have resulted in making APGA a political power block in the politics on nowadays.

Again, they aligned with Atiku because of the same baited VP position offered to Obi in 2019. In that process they destroyed the appeal of the only Igbo politician with national appeal that would have gotten him the Presidency in 2023.

For the life of me, I cannot understand the short-sightedness of Igbos supporting an Fulani/Hausa candidate seeking an 8 year term against another Fulani/Hausa candidate seeking a 4 year term in 2019. That singular act destroyed the chance of an Igbo Presidency in 2023. An Atiku win would resulted in extending the Fulani/Hausa presidency for another 4 years to 2027.

I do not see anything egalitarian nor universal in the way the Igbos vote. In fact, the Igbos vote for the highest bidder without thinking about the long term impact of the immediate gain. If they continue the pattern, they will continue to come out losers in the Nigerian political game.

You are not seeing the big picture.
You are just myopic in your vision

Nigerias political game is nothing to write home about
Look at the economy
Still in the back Waters

A political game that can't position Nigeria for sound economic development is a misplaced one

The Igbo man is not even concerned about the politics because it has not presented Nigeria any meaningful changes
We still go round the same circle as a nation

If the right leadership is not put in place, a leadership that will carry the interest and progress of every citizen of this nation at heart
And channel meaningful development

Decades to come
It will still be the same story
With the level of fracture and bickering now
I wonder how then will be

All the Igbo man is asking for is a better Nigeria, simple.

neyoohhh:
Correct and they're usually lonely because guy's are intimidated.

Best mate's if they have some value system and didn't LovePeddler their way into financial independence.

They are the most lonely women out there

Men always fear them
But if you catch one
They are hundred times better than many of these lowly untrained girls out there

And they are very loyal and obedient

Especially when they know you no dey tolerate nonsense

aomine:
YES BUT THEY AINT HONEST ABOUT IT HENCE THE DILIDO'S AND CUCUMBERS AND VIBRATORS

All these are serious wrong assumptions

There is no woman that doesn't need a man except those ones that go for there fellow ladies

Women can't exist without men. They need and crave men but may not show it out
Any man that knows how to play his cards well will unlock that craving for a man inside a woman

They will claim otherwise but intrinsically they crave man die

olembic:
It means women cling to men for money, status, and security.

Once they get these things through their own efforts and hustle, they will tell their self they don't need a man anymore.

This is a very big lie

The only thing is that they will want a higher quality man not any kind man. But they actually want men

It might shock you to know that successful women are more loyal to there man than many of these lowly girls that are all breeding ground for troubles

And I am telling you from experience

Successful women are even more submissive but it must be to a high quality man

It you catch them as a mate
They give you much peace

But the caveat is you must not show you are a womaniser if you like women
They hate being cheated on
They can be very jealous

But you can still control them well just be a smooth player

BiggyB242:
Very important, I know two brothers lets say A and B. A is chesting the whole bills because his wife isn't working even if he receives higher than the other brother B who is married to a professional.

Brother A salary is no match compare to the combined salary of B and his wife. Looking at them B is doing so so so well compare to A. I was advised, if I'm getting married I should make such she is working not because you want her money but it will ease you some financial stress. Me sef na doctor I wan marry their head they house, I dey try build myself to that financial level where I fit marry doctor.

Your head dey there

Never ever marry any woman not doing anything

It could be tolerated before
But not now

If she is toiling and making something
Anything you give her or bring to the table
She will appreciate it

But you see those ones not working
Very very big problem
They don't appreciate a man's sacrifices

MALIGNANTGuest:
I took my time to read through write ups here but yours is exceptional.
From your statement it goes to show that the MEN are battle ready.
The BATTLE LINE is drawn already.
LADIES misused every opportunity they were given. This GENERATION of Ladies have really disrespected men that even our Mothers are afraid of giving out their sons in marriage.

When I was getting married, my MOM wept.
I met her to know y, she said dis could b d last time she may b having unrestricted access 2me.
LADIES of nowadays were raised by fairly Good mothers but they were displaced from the norms governing marriage by social media feminism and many other influencers.
FUNNY THING is dat our aged Mothers respect we the men of d house more dan our imported wives. Most wives do not know dat dey are still visitors in dia husband's family.
Most wives do not know that they share no genetic similarities with their husbands..

TODAY, a man can't get at least PEACE OF MIND in the same he pays rent.
When you call your wife to talk out things with her, she becomes a TIGRESS.

MOST ladies are no longer interested in marriage too. So, marriage should be left for Ladies who are duly interested in it.

As a Lady, if you are not ready to take SHIT from Men, please I beg you in the name of Amadioha and Almighty God to desist from making Marital plans. Take your Time, Enjoy your singlehood, and more so, club well.
After all you are not under anyone.

But whenever you resolve to marry a MAN, please cross examine yourself again b4 entering.
For No single Lady ever suffers DIVORCE.

My brother honestly you have spoken very well

Like I said in the opinion you quoted
Quality of human beings is depreciating with each passing generation

The kind of women we have now i something

There are still some very few good ones but they are minute
Any man that has got one should be thankful to God

In coming decades
People may not be getting married like that

If my father's generation passes away, marriage interest and sustaining marriage may not be that viable in our clime and culture again
We will be seeing more what is obtainable in African American culture where many children will be born to baby mamas and single father's

Many men have been pushed to the wall

women are not being raised up properly again
True they are more educated now
But the real education of training a woman to be cultured, respectful, and virtuous is dieing away rapidly at an alarming rate


And in the end
Women will bear the brunt

Many males are becoming unwilling
Not ready to sacrifice again
Because there sacrifices are not appreciated



And while it will be bad for them is that in Western laws
A man must be compelled to take care of his children
We don't have such laws here
So with unwilling men
Women will be faced in taking care of the children alone

Honestly we are really getting to the end times or apocalypse
Society bit by bit is falling apart before our very eyes

Rozcol:
I pity women who gives men like you a chance in their life and making them miserable all in the name of women bringing something to the table. Women are not providers,you men of this generation should go learn from your forefathers.

And women of this generation should go and learn from there fore mothers

Can you compare our mothers, grandmother's and great grandmother's to the women we have now

Times have changed
Any woman coming into a Marriage must bring something to the table

Guys are getting wiser
You bear everything
But ordinary respect
She won't give the man
Only troubles and heartaches

The quality of humans are depreciating with every generation

That's why everyone must get sense

CharisEleos:
My response was not to this post here. after reading this, I knew it was an update of a previous post somewhere. So, I went to his profile and found the previous post. That was what I responded to.

Maybe you'll want to read that first so you can understand my submission better.


author=djon78 post=104184179]



Drop this mentality


Exactly my point.

Why should I drop the mentality

I am the captain in my relationship

My woman understands that fact and accedes to it wholly

Maybe you can tell that to the men that believe otherwise

CharisEleos:
Twp Captains cannot be in one boat.
The problem lies with both of you.
She cannot take shit. You cannot take shit. So, who will now take the shit? Pride.

Pride goes before a fall. That is what has befallen your marriage.
When you learn to get off your high horses, you both will be cohabitable.

The problem with many couples is that they place themselves higher than the other. Now you talked about her trying to measure up to you ( equality). What made you see her as trying to do that if you yourself has not placed yourself so high.? Even before God, we all are equal. So why think you are higher than someone else? Your better half for that matter.

It's normal for two people to have a misunderstanding. But you should learn to to let go immediately and also try to avoid anything that will cause any further misunderstanding. If you see it coming, quickly turn it to a joke. Is she sees it coming, let her do same. but no. Rather you'll feel, "Why should I be the one to backdown" let him /her go to hell!!!!!!. Ego.

If you can't manage your first marriage then you'll not be able to manage the next. mind you the other woman will be coming with a baggage of her own character flaws.

No one is perfect.

But in marriage
The man is the captain

The main issue is that many ladies no dey gree nowadays
And men too are becoming much hardened

So the marriage don already get k leg

elay44:
Bro I only read stuff as a guest. this your post made me register on nairaland. I am in this same boat the, threats, jealousy, anger, no support financially,( I earn very well to take care of the family but it can be exhausting sometimes) etc. but we have Kids . I salute your courage bro. you need to be in this shoes to understand what this bro went through. you can comment and call names but you just can't understand. I feel you and I am very happy for you. thanks for speaking up and being an encouragement. a lot of men are going through shit all in the name of love. forget redplliers. we are not built to be violent, we geniuely care for people, that just how we are wired. but we are taken for granted and our nature taken for weakness.

Before I used to berate redpillers but I come to realize they are talking facts

The worst that can happen to a man is married to a woman that you cater for everything but she doesn't appreciate it but rather makes everything miserable for you

Rozcol:
Please let us hear word and for your information she's right about that number 2,in marriage a man should provide everything and its solely depend on your wife's decision to assist you or not,its not a mandatory task.Women are care givers and not providers, you can't expect a woman to provide and still respect you it usually don't happen that way.She's not hear to say her own side so nobody has the right to condemn her yet. No be Nigerian men again mtchewww

Abegi make we hear word

A woman must bring something to the table when coming into marriage

A topic was trending on Twitter some days ago where one guy put his condition for marrying any woman includes her financial assets/ capability and her academic potentials

And many guys affirmed to that

Many guys are now considering a woman's financial capability before marriage unlike before where they shoulder everything

Ishilove:
Op, nobody is perfect. Let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone.

So make man pikin die because no one is perfect

This thing called marriage
If it ain't working
Na to find the exit door
Cause one can't die of unhappiness

Many human being carry plenty baggages

Toks2008:
My advise to every man out there.

If you are not ready to get hooked please stay away from older women cos they will give you so much love and attention that will make you look at yourself in the mirror and ask if "no be juju be dat"?

They will treat you so special that you will start seeing the younger ladies as below standard.

And if you ever date and leave them, they will linger in your memory as long as you live.

I'm writing from experience

Even for marriage

They are so much better

I know a man that married his wife as a small girl
Up till today he in his mid sixties is still regretting
The kind of financial burden he gives this man
Like he is slaving all his life for her comfort


But with a matured woman it's different
She will even support your dreams

pacespot:
It is because White people are not hypocritical, Africans are. The people that often condemn sex outside are the worst inside. No nobody holy past on this sex thing.

Africans are grade one hypocrites

That's one major reason this continent is extremely backward

The things our politicians do is a huge abomination to the white man

They claim being very religious
But they don't exhibit one attribute of someone that knows God

Something is terribly wrong
But Africans don't want to own up to that
And will remain in penury
While other parts of the world are advancing in leaps and bounds

jahsharon:
Yorubas, Igbos, Ijaws, Urhobos, Ibiobios, Itshekiris, Kalabaris, Ikwerres and other tribes in the current Southern Nigeria have no other choice than to work together. Southern Unity is the beginning of the end of the evil Fulani Oligarchy. It is either we Southerners work together and set ourselves free from the evil blood suckers from the Sahara or we will all perish together.

When we free ourselves from the evil Northerners, we then come back home and continue our senseless intra-ethnic beefings, because I still don't know what Southerners are fighting themselves for.

Be as it seems

I still believe that the Fulani presence in Nigeria acts like a check and balance

Obj a Yoruba man ruled this nation for 8 years and heaven didn't fall

Gej an ijaw man ruled this nation for 6 years still heaven didn't fall

The Fulani people rather understand the game of politics more than any other tribe in Nigeria

So they will always have an edge over other tribes


As for South coming together is a very long thing

The Southern Nigeria tribea totally distrusts each other

So I believe the Fulani acts as checks and balances

And they will Always be relevant in Nigeria

Success in life and marriage to me is all centred on Grace of God simple

All this one people are talking prospect here and there

If God no help you locate that right partner
You are on a very long thing

I am talking from experience
And in addition

To attract and retain that right partner

You must possess good virtues like honesty, humility, empathy, etc
If you look at Obi Cubana

He is very rich
But you can see that he is a humble person and I am very sure his wife has such personality too

So ask yourself
Do you possess the qualities to attract and maintain a good partner.

Good partners are very scarce
Majority of people out there are very selfish, mean and heartless

But ending up with a good partner is heaven on Earth

I am talking from experience once again

Truvelisback:
Who knows weda it's still this same woman that put her husband in this horrible state. Some women are very dangerous.

Put her in which horrible state

The man put himself

He is even lucky the woman agreed to stay around and cater for him and even lure his side chics to come too

If na some women
She will just abandon the man
Deal ruthlessly with him
Till he dies

I know of one extremely wealthy Nigerian man
That maltreated his wives and children

He later had subsequent stroke
And became a vegetable
Bed ridden man
Sheeting and urinating in one place

All his wives and children
Turned there back on him

Hired servants
Are the one taking care of him now

Men must get Sense
They cheat and maltreat there women
Not knowing that tomorrow
That same woman
Will be your saviour between life and death