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Name of the libido boaster?

Gate050:
She is not cheating trust me. But she really not crave for you. Get her libido booster from phymacy. That's all

Try behave like the Op's wife and see what becomes of your marriage.

KarinaLove:
Really...

Man shall not live by bread (SEX) alone but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of the Lord.

Read your scriptures darling.

You'll learn the hard way if you don't know sex is one of the most productive thing. In fact,
that's how you came to be!

Nikeruka:
After you don talk finish, then you remembered your status

Is he married to a child? She can't communicate what she wants?

If she doesn't enjoy it the way the husband is doing it why can't she tell him they way she enjoys it? I hate unnecessary complications

IDERAWOLE:
Hmmm, I feel you.

Just relax and calm down.

The truth is that sexual matters are not always what you read or watch in porns.

There's a side of your wife yet to be discovered! Take your time to discover it.

Don't back down on the love languages you've been speaking. However, you may need to withdraw from those sexual gimmicks you've been trying to use. She may not even like them.

Why not try jisting and see if she'll like that. Sexual preferences are as diverse as people. Find out hers.

Let me tell you, sex for newly married is huge with a lot of fantasies, so I can feel you.

Believe it, women too loves it, but theirs are a bit complex.

For a guy, except the wife has emotionally wounded him, all he needs to be ready for sex is her body.

For a lady, it may be more, How do you know that? Ask her.

Talk about other things of interest to her. She may love outings. Find out!

All the best.

So he is indirectly paying for sex?

You can never really enjoy a one-sided sex, it's frustrating.

No sex before marriage sucks!

AutoC:
Let her know sex is important to you... Anytime she gives u sex be sweet to her... Buy her gift, help her in the kitchen etc... Anytime she doesn't just keep to yourself n ignore her.. It's works for women trust me

How can a woman not know how to express herself to her husband? If she's not comfortable with him, why marry him?

From the posts by the Op, he communicates but she on the other hand doesn't. You married a wife not a child!

The challenge the op has it that the woman is not into sex so it's like a difficult chore to her and with that mindset, she'll not be lubricated and receptive making sex unpleasant. It's psychological and it's for long. Na one chance the Op enter cos it's gonna get worse. Women tends to have continuous fall in sexual drive as kids come blaming it on tiredness

nairaman66:
The question you missed is can’t the husband communicate? While making love, you’d sense how your partner is responding.

Generally, women don’t know how to express themselves. They only do this with other ladies of their kind.

Are you serious right now? If she cannot fulfill her conjugal duties then she should give space for a woman who can
Sex is one of the most important thing in marriage for men!

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

Sex once a month is too much? That's outrageous! Should be at least twice per week.

He needs to understand her sexual needs? Can't she communicate?

Clearly they're not sexually compatible and that's why no sex before marriage is a recipe for disaster!

nairaman66:
Even the Bible says, too much of everything is bad. Sometime, just do little and leave the rest, it is not every time you’d spend hours on top of her, you have to learn to understand her sexual needs.

Forget all these people who says big dickk is this and that, I spend minimum of 1hrs on my wife etc. You can’t believe all these! You are having sex and at the same time being the time keeper?

There is honor in moderation.

She does not like sex or some weird psychological stuff.

If you've not had a child then this is the best you can get. After childbirth, you'll have sex prob once in 6 months.

You're having it less frequently, as a married man you should be having it atleast 2-3 times per week! Ordinary boyfriend have it 3times per week how much more you who have a wife at home. If she cannot fulfill her conjugal duties, get a side chick to help her or you become miserable and sex staved

DavidNative:
hmm. Thank you Sir 4 this, this is what i had been doing, i had tried not to even react negatively since, but could get tiring, sometimes i had to masturbate of if i cannot bear it again , last week wen i brought it up with her even in a very gentle and romantic atmosphere , we could not sleep as she was crying all through that i was not understanding , i had to plead with her never to bring it up before we could sleep at midnight

You had it coming. You like sex but decided to marry a lady who does not like sex(to keep yourself without it till marriage means you're probably not driven by it). Truth is she'll not get better, na one chance you enter.

You don't even know if she was a Virgin when you married her but relying on what she said

DavidNative:
She has been exposed to porn in the past from what she said. All saying am comparing her to other ladies. i had bought books sex to help, she enjoys its when i perform romance and oral o her, but when i request for sex or she should give me some, she says she cant cos of my size and i should give her time, but its been a year, hence why i had to voice out
Thanks alot once again for your comment ma

Ladies are just jumping from pillar to post.

Men will always win and this DNA war won't be an exception!

That's if you make the woman involved a dummy without will. So everything will now fall to the men if you accept that the woman is completely dull. Is this the case?

Kobojunkie:
The crime is likely commited against the victim by another married man.

He just wished you what you said is ok and you're afraid. Clearly you were pretending with your solution

LilMissFavvy:
Emotional cry babies, back to sender, it will happen to you.

When you're in a hole, stop digging.

This your post is trash and you know it. How can you compare paternity fraud with cheating? Keeping the evidence of your cheating to do damage both for present and future generations is devilish.

AmazonTopaz:
I don't need to to discuss with me they can all be likened to each other because they share the same ingredients, infidelity, betrayal,lack of trust, deception and what have you none is better than the other even the one man with a child outside another man can be raising the child.
The point of my topic was to call out infidelity on men too because it was what started this in the first place if you on the other hand think one case is better than the other you are the one not worth discussing

I don't blame you. Now run along.

Sufferingboy:
Oga shutup,I dey monitore for long.You be pure Igbo man from east deceiving yourself.Impersonating Ika people online will do you no good.Igbos should be ashame and stop attache by force....

The fact I'm Ika does not make me not a Biafran or Igbo. Some Ika indigenous do not identify themselves as Igbos but I do thats why if you go through my post you'll know I've always supported Igbo nationalityand Biafra.

Sufferingboy:
U done become Igbo again after pretending to be an Ika person from Ote-Okpu in past?


U done become Igbo again after pretending to be an Ika person from Ote-Okpu in past?

Seriously?

siofra:
Yet they will say Nigerian women are the most unfaithful in the world. Why won't they cheat, when the men will not allow them be?

We mustn't be together you know, we were not together 120yrs ago and we've lived thousands of years.

You don't like us but insist on being in same country with us. Your response would be who's stopping us but clear you're against Igbos wanting to leave. As long as Nigeria exist, there can be no development [quote author=Rolings post=106279718][/quote]

Where did I mention NK?

So as Nigeria is, you're happy with the way she's going? You have zero ambition towards development

Rolings:
You are the one claiming Nnamdi kanu opened your eyes...i only remind you there are other pretenders before him

In you foolishness you believe Biafra started in 2015.

What about Yoruba Nation agitation? Yeye dey smell

Rolings:
We are following you ibos footsteps.....after greedily enjoying power for 16 years under pdp....(you cant blame us for pdp not considering any of you worthy of being president)....you still wanted to enjoy power under APC and since you were not given the chance you felt the only way out was to agitate for the breakdown of Nigeria because of your greed. Play your politics right just like you were telling us during 16 years of pdp.....

You don't know what we would do with VP position, do you?

Ovamboland:
Will Nigerians now love ibos after serving as VP? No need to change your attitude to other Nigerians?

Bandits, bokoharam and killer herdsmen has not stopped the North from producing the president but you naively believe IPOB is the reason we're not considered politically. If you know your history you'll know that the fear of the dominating attitude of the Igbos started way before independence.

If you expect the Igbo man to beg for political power then you don't know us at all. If NigerIA insist on undermining us, Nigeria herself will not progress.

Given the political atmosphere just now, VP is ok for us, since SW wanna be greedy, they've got it coming!

Eastlink:
Cowardly talks! And how far have you made friends politically? What friends have this modern Igbo youth and elites made since 1999? The ones you destroyed by allowing fraudster speak for you or which one? To dash north the Presidency and settle for Vice all because you want a strong position for the PDP? And who says you can't demand for the Presidency and get it? Who says that if you don't get it in 2023 that you won't get in the next time? If Zik had this defeatist mindest then Ndigbo won't have risen up politically in just 10 years after the civil war. For example If Zik had not formed his NPP and slaved for Shagari's NPN, the scenario of today would have played out. Where majority Igbo leaders are redy to become PDP slaves rather focus on fronting a formidable Igbo led platform.

One thing I've learnt in this country is that in politics, there's no permanane friend but permant interest. Ndigbo have overtime failed to draw between what she wants and dancing in limbo. If I ask you what exactly is Igbo interest, you won't give me a clear answer? Ndigbo has shown overtime that it has no interest to protect. We keep dancing in a pool of distractions with the most useless agitation the world has ever known. Until Ndigbo begin to fight for her interest in Nigeria and not conpromise a lot will change.

You guys are extremely greedy. Is Obj not a Yoruba man? So after doing president 8yrs, vp 8yrs, you still want to do president 8yrs, right?

Greed in its ethnic form!

Rolings:
Okay if you say so......but why should APC in particular zone the president to south east in 2023?... it will be grossly unfair to yorubas if APC does that....like you , we yorubas too settled for VP under buhari in the hope that the VP will take over from him.
Fair enough

They hate us for no reason.

Even the Fulanis that brought bokoharam, herdsmen and bandits are not hated as much as Igbos when it comes to political power.

Ovamboland:
Will Nigerians now love ibos after serving as VP? No need to change your attitude to other Nigerians?

You're not wise. Better know your friends or else you'll get burnt!

The two major political parties produce 2 igbos presidential candidates? Are you well at all? You must either be grossly naive or extraordinarily foolish!

Eastlink:
Daft clown. You want the SE to settle for VP because of Peter Obi your coward principal. If you clownish leader can fight for the Oresidency then he should cover his fat head in shame. Are you not ashamed of yourself. Who even told you Igbos are hated? Have any Igbo contested for any major political party since ZIK NPP and not voted for? Are you not aware that ZIK won 2 northern states combined with 3 in the south. What is too hard if both the APC and PDP produce an Igbo presidential candidates with northern vice?

IPOB dafts like you should shut up and stop speaking for Ndigbo.

I repeat, the easiest way for SE to get leadership position of VP and president is through PDP.

You overestimate Tinubu relevance, e go shock you. Just watch n see!

Echoban:
See this one, PDP is already Fielding SS as V.P, and LL get the tauted vote from SE as they have no choice since SE would naturally not support SW.. the fact, so still no choice

In ur assumption do u now mean igbo will never become President ?? And that only V.P will b ur pick since no Party want to field SE as president

What will it cost Ohaneze to meet Tinubu and make a plea demand /bargaining from him?? If PDP does to SE and Tinubu chill for APC for power returning to SE, u think it won't work out or u're carried off with the Ipob calling Tinubu a drug dealer mantra and insulting him.. I laugh u.

Jonathan met the bargaining with Tinubu in 2011, PMB saw the Tinubu factor 2015 and the drastic move of Tinubu surface the political atmosphere of Nigeria giving us 2 formidable party and ending the PDP long time Monopoly. What is stopping Ohaneze from doing the needful.


What if ATiku/Obi fails again? Atiku can only win if PMB choose not to support APC SW, e.g Osinbanjo who is already naturally sellable will be very easy.

Atiku with his corrupt baggage and age..Even a media demonizing him will kill PDP before election.

No try Politics o..

Or u feel the way SW are going about their formidable u think it will be a workover for Atiku like that??

Just wait wen Tinubu comes back to make his Northern Waka and start negotiable movement in Kano, Bornu, Kastina, Niger, middlebelt(Kogi, kwara, Nasarawa) who are already for his likening. Are majority of the Northern Governor's forum not Tinubu allies? Who is there who is anti Tinubu again? None except kebbi

Watch out Osinbanjo/El Rufai as v.p
EL-Rufai is a force than LL handle Atiku(EL-Rufai eyeing 2032 via proxy already)..

Politics is negotiation, nobody will dash u.

You're not wise. PDP giving her presidential nomination to Igbos would be wasted cos the rest of Nigeria hates the Igbo man. Unless both political parties chose Igbo men like was done for Olu Falae and Obj.

We know that the easiest way for us to get power is through VP so don't feel sorry for us, we know what we're doing

Rolings:
So sad that PDP does not think any iboman is qualified for its pesidential ticket....after giving them over 90% votes cconsistently over the years. I feel the pain of ibos...
What i dont get is their feeling its the yorubas they have to vent their anger on

They may pick a fight with their mum but will never tell their dad cos they know the marriage would be over

Iyaebe:
They do and they frown at it so much and even pick a fight with their mom.

Answer the guys question. Ladies do not report their cheating mum to their dad, do they?

Iyaebe:
Everything is not gender war please.

It's just a matter of time before other tribes becomes elected people in Lagos.

Ayorichodua:
Lol that's your fvking opinion we yorubas are organized and am here to deal with fact have any other person from states outside Yoruba land ever become Lagos governor or deputy? Or hold vital position? Let that happen first before you can say all tribe as equal rights in Lagos �� which state you think jakande, Mc olouomo, tinubu, koko zaria come from you thought they are Lagosians?

Doesn't work that way even if you like see yourself as same mother and father doesnt mean you're same mother and father. Someone from Imo State or Kebbi State has same right in Lagos as someone from Ibadan as far as Nigeria is concerned!

Ayorichodua:
. And do you know that Western region contribute the money to exploit Niger delta oil? And it's federal government duty to construct inter state roads and national roads so it's like that in every other state third mainland bridge connect Lagos to then ikorodu which is not part of Lagos then
It's non of your business of states yorubas in Lagos come from because we see ourselves as one we come from the same origin (Ile ife) and ilupeju indegin in Lagos origin is from Kwara state before settling there same as moba people are original migrate from ekiti same as akesan and so on
Yoruba live like one Religion don't separate us and you thought ordinary politics (states) would separate us even Kwara that is not considered as south west is just on paper many kwarans are taking important roles in Lagos and other Yoruba lands because
Lagos remains Yoruba land and Yoruba lands is for all yorubas we don't differentiate like you all who always claim one is more igbo than the other that's why our lands are progressing